003: Finding Self-Fulfillment Doing the Best with What You Got

In this thought-provoking episode of the Buckets of Change Podcast, host Nick Goblirsch delves into the personal reflections and challenges associated with embracing change in life and pursuing fulfilling work. With an engaging and introspective narrative, Nick shares his journey from questioning his career path to empowering himself to make significant changes that align with his values of fulfillment, joy, and presence with loved ones.

Throughout the episode, Nick emphasizes the importance of owning one's path to change and how it uniquely contributes to personal growth and happiness. Reflecting on a a recent experience, he sghares his collaboration with his speaking booker and agent Antoniette Roze and the launch of her SPEAKPact Podcast, reflecting on feelings of insecurity when comparing his progress to others in the coaching and speaking industry. The conversation offers listeners deep insights into recognizing and celebrating their own methods to successes, not comparing themselves to others to measure progress, and accepting their chosen path as their best path forward.

Key Takeaways:

• The path you choose for making changes in life is the best one if it aligns with your values and desires.
• Comparing your journey to others can lead to unnecessary self-doubt and detract from your own unique achievements.
• Success and fulfillment come in various forms and are best measured by personal satisfaction rather than external metrics.
• It's important to support others' visions and dreams, as collective success can be more fulfilling than individual wins.
• Embracing the change process is a continuous and personal journey that makes for a more rewarding life experience.

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In this engaging episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, host Nick Goblirsch invites Anthony Angelozzi, an educator, union leader, and political aspirant, to delve into the themes of personal change, pivotal career decisions, and the quest for public service fulfillment. As someone who contemplates the desire for change and the readiness to pivot career paths, Anthony brings a wealth of experience and insights into the possibility of transformation late in one’s career.

Anthony recounts the turning point when he embraced a leadership role within the education sector and eventually decided to run for state assembly. We're given a candid view into the personal toll and challenges faced while campaigning, contrasting the highs of connecting with the community with the lows of political negativity. The conversation also touches base on the importance of self-care, the essential element of 'why' in pursuing office, and the motivating force behind public service. The episode is ripe with firsthand experiences, shedding light on the personal dimensions of a public life and the power of purposeful work.

Key Takeaways:

• Challenging the Norm: Anthony exemplifies the courage to pursue roles against the conventional grain, from becoming a teachers' union president to running for political office.
• Risks and Rewards of Public Office: Running for office comes with the dual promise of public service and the real risk of personal attack, which requires a firm grounding in one’s purpose.
• Importance of Self-Care: Balancing high-stress roles and commitments highlights the critical need for self-regulation and care to prevent burnout.
• The Power of Authenticity: Successful public service candidates must have a clear, passionate 'why' underlying their decision to run, distinguishing real service aspirations from ego-driven pursuits.
• Resilience in the Face of Defeat: Anthony speaks to the resilience needed to face political defeat and the resolve to keep striving towards one’s goals, emphasizing the importance of service over ego.

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Anthony Angelozzi is an experienced US history teacher with a passion for engaging with his local community and contributing to its development. Besides his commitment to education, Anthony has taken leadership roles as a union president, advocating for the betterment of employee conditions. In 2023, he boldly stepped into the political arena, running for Democratic Assembly in his state, showcasing a strong drive towards public service. His dedication is not only evident in his work but also in his will to challenge himself by running for office to enact positive change.

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In this compelling installment of the Buckets of Change podcast, host Nick Goblirsch takes listeners on a profound exploration of personal growth, career transformation, and the challenges of Impostor Syndrome. Nick, with his insightful and engaging demeanor, shares a recent experience with self-doubt on a new path ventured and the psychological hurdles encountered during all of our significant life changes.

As Nick narrates his journey from the corporate world to becoming an entrepreneur and builidng a career in speaking and coaching, he emphasizes the importance of self-empowerment and mindfulness as we manage the Ego and it's attempts to balance the Id and the Super Ego. Through his personal anecdotes and professional insight, he provides a detailed examination of Impostor Syndrome, demystifying its origins and offering strategies for overcoming its effects. His candid reflection on the Ego's internal dialogues that often accompany career changes makes this episode not only relatable but deeply instructive for professionals at any stage.

Key Takeaways:

• Understanding Impostor Syndrome: Nick shares insight into the ego psychology framework by Sigmund Freud, helping listeners understand the id, ego, and superego's role in personal doubt.
• Dealing with Self-Doubt: He discusses his own experience with Impostor Syndrome and how he manages these feelings to continue progressing in his career.
• Strategies for Overcoming Challenges: Key strategies include engaging confidants for honest feedback and being patient with oneself amid change.
• Ego Management: Nick highlights the importance of recognizing and managing one's ego in order to successfully navigate through uncharted territory.
• The Reward of Commitment: The episode drives home the message that committing to change, despite discomfort and fear, leads to personal fulfillment and joy.

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In this thought-provoking episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, host Nick Goblirsch tackles the complex theme of "fear of missing out" or FOMO, and its deep-seated roots in our upbringing and societal expectations. The conversation navigates through the pressures of achievement culture and its potentially toxic repercussions on both adults and children. By weaving personal anecdotes with insights from the book "Never Enough" by Jennifer Brehenny Wallace, Nick eloquently stirs a dialogue about parenting, personal growth, and the courage to embrace change at any stage of life.

Nick reflects on his own childhood and the lack of pressure to excel in sports or academics, contrasting it with today's high-stakes environment where parents often push their children towards achieving at all costs. The episode delves into the implications such pressure can have on long-term happiness and the ability to make life changes. Additionally, Nick shares his personal experiences with career transitions and social settings, drawing connections between past conditioning and present decisions.

Key Takeaways:

• The fear of missing out (FOMO) is often a product of our childhood experiences and societal pressures to conform to certain paths of success.
• An overemphasis on achievement from a young age may lead to a fixation on external validation and comparisons in adulthood.
• A balanced approach to parenting encourages self-discovery and the realization that talent and interests can evolve over time.
• Personal fulfillment and the ability to adapt to changes are heavily influenced by our early life conditioning and the expectations set by our upbringing.
• It's never too late to reconsider one’s path, aim for a career transition, or seek new experiences, irrespective of past conditioning.

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In this introspective episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, host Nick Goblirsch delves into the transformative power of embracing change and creativity. From questioning one's career path to making bold moves in life, Nick shares his personal journey and the pivotal moments that led him to find joy and fulfillment beyond the corporate world. Discover the essence of taking risks in creativity and how expressing one's true self can lead to unexpected and gratifying outcomes.

Within the conversation, Nick reflects on his return to a professional HR chapter meeting after a five-year absence and the warm reception he received upon showcasing his more authentic self. He explores the challenges and rewards of creating content and putting oneself out there, emphasizing the importance of being original and true to yourself. This episode is packed with inspiring insights for anyone considering a career change or seeking to inject more purpose into their work and life.

Key Takeaways:

• Taking risks by exploring new career paths can lead to personal fulfillment and joy.
• Expressing oneself authentically on platforms like LinkedIn can make a significant impact on professional relationships and opportunities.
• Creativity involves risk, but the act of creating "something from nothing" can leave a vital legacy.
• Success in content creation and brand building requires patience, consistency, and the courage to be original.
• Making changes in your career or life path can open up unpredictable and potentially rewarding futures.

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In this episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, host and self-empowerment change advocate Nick Goblirsch takes listeners through a reflective journey on career transitions and personal growth. His story resonates with anyone who's felt trapped in a singular career path and yearned for change, regardless of life's stage. Diving into pivotal experiences of switching from a seasoned HR professional to a house painter, Goblirsch delves into the universality of reevaluation and the excitement of pursuing a more fulfilling path.

Despite leaving a long-standing career, Nick highlights the importance of not severing ties with your past experiences. Instead, he shares how re-engaging with his HR background has opened unexpected doors in his newly chosen career as an entrepreneur and coach. This episode provides valuable insights into carrying forward the skills and knowledge from past roles to enrich current endeavors. Listeners will find an inspiring narrative that fuses career retrospective with forward-thinking strategy, poised to draw anyone's attention to the prospects of change.

Key Takeaways:

• Never discard the learnings and skills from past experiences; instead, reapply them on your new path to bridge and facilitate change.
• Career transitions can be wrought with fear and uncertainty, but embracing your cumulative knowledge can empower you through discomfort.
• Revisiting former professional circles, such as HR chapters, can lead to new perspectives, opportunities, and a refreshed sense of self.
• Change is not just about leaping into the unknown but efficiently leveraging the lessons from your history to build a stronger foundation.
• Taking the Buckets of Change assessment can offer insightful questions that may ignite the first step towards a meaningful career shift.

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In the tenth captivating episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, host Nick Goblirsch invites listeners into a reflective and transformative journey focusing on personal and career change. Kicking off with gratitude for his audience's loyalty, Nick ventures into a discussion that is as honest as it is enlightening, shedding light on the continuous nature of change and how to gracefully navigate through it.

Throughout the episode, Nick emphasizes the importance of being truthful to oneself, leveraging his two-decade experience in HR to connect with audiences going through similar transitional phases. He recounts his own significant life alteration, from a well-established corporate lifestyle to the fulfilling pursuit of passion through entrepreneurship as a house painter, illustrating the pervasive fears and inescapable obstacles that accompany change. Further delving into the intricacies of his newfound journey into public speaking, Nick shares thought-provoking anecdotes and revelations that resonate deeply with the core tenets of evolving and realizing one's authentic self.

Key Takeaways:

• The Continuous Evolvement: Embracing the constant occurrence of change in both professional and personal spheres is crucial for development.
• Being Authentic: The significance of being true to oneself and the dangers associated with deviating from personal authenticity for perceived success.
• The Importance of Questioning: The power of asking oneself critical questions to determine whether current endeavors align with one's purpose and generate happiness.

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In this thought-provoking episode of the 'Buckets of Change' podcast, host Nick Goblirsch delves into the profound topic of the value we assign to our time and the choices we make daily. Kicking off the New Year of 2024, Nick openly shares his reflections on personal growth, career transitions, and the importance of spending our finite time on what truly matters.

In particular, Nick revisits his past choices, evaluating the worth of the time he allocated to his work versus family and recognizing missed opportunities. He encourages listeners to ponder the fulfillment they derive from their careers and to reassess whether their time is gratifying not only in financial terms but also in personal happiness and presence with loved ones. Generating an atmosphere of contemplation, this episode is a compelling nudge to contemplate the worth we place on different aspects of our lives.

Key Takeaways:

• Time is a finite resource and how we choose to spend it should bring fulfillment, joy, and presence with the important people in our lives.
• Reflecting on past career choices can provide insights into the value we may (or may not) have placed on our time and the potential need for change.
• It's important to reevaluate the company we keep, as spending time with negative or unproductive individuals can affect our own outlook and life choices.
• Assigning a dollar amount to time in a professional setting, as Nick does with painting estimates, requires considering the value provided to the client beyond just financial cost.
• The 'Buckets of Change' assessment is mentioned as a resource for listeners in similar situations, aiming to help them make more conscious and fulfilling career choices.

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In this compelling episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, host Nick Goblirsch invites a very special guest for an enriching conversation – his wife, Megan Goblirsch. Listeners are treated to an intimate and honest discussion about life changes, specifically the turbulent shift from a prosperous HR career to a professional house painter and now a coach and speaker.

Nick and Megan delve into the challenges and impact of major career changes, not only on the individual but also on close relationships with partners and family. With candor and vulnerability, Megan shares her perspective on Nick's transformative journey, providing valuable insights for those contemplating a significant life alteration. This episode is an eye-opening exploration of the intricacies of change and the importance of communication within those close to us.

Key Takeaways:

• Major career and life changes can affect not just the individual, but also those closest to them.
• Open communication and trust are crucial during times of significant personal transition.
• Societal expectations can influence our decisions and make it challenging to pursue a different path.
• It’s possible to find new fulfillment and purpose by being brave enough to leave comfort zones.
• Addressing the inner conflict and unhappiness can lead to being more present and available for family and loved ones.

Join me on this evolving journey as we uncover the power of change and create a space for personal growth and fulfillment. Hit that subscribe button to stay updated with future episodes, and let's embark on this transformational adventure together. Welcome to the Buckets of Change. Let's get started!

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In this episode of the Buckets of Change podcast, host Nick Goblirsch embarks on a reflective journey examining the difference between adopting 'winners' and 'losers' labels and embracing the realities of 'winning' and 'losing.' This powerful discourse aims to dismantle the societal norms that categorize individuals based on their perceived success or failure. Nick shares personal anecdotes from his life, especially the impact of his father's disappointment, to illustrate how harmful these labels can be and how they can affect decision-making and risk-taking.

Throughout the episode, Nick delves into the importance of understanding that wins and losses are moments in time, not definitive labels. By sharing his experiences as an entrepreneur and parent, Goblirsch invites listeners to celebrate their achievements, learn from their losses, and remove self-imposed judgments that can stall personal growth and satisfaction. This message resonates deeply with anyone at a crossroads, contemplating significant career changes or life pivots.

Key Takeaways:

• Recognize that 'winning' and 'losing' are temporary states, not permanent labels.
• Avoid labeling people (including oneself) as 'winners' or 'losers,' as it can have long-term damaging effects on self-perception and relationships.
• Celebrate your wins, and rather than self-judging, see your losses as an opportunity for learning and growth.
• Reflect on the past, learn from both your wins and losses, and apply those learnings to make better decisions in the future.
• Look forward to the next episode where Nick's wife, Megan, will join him to discuss the impacts of career changes on relationships.

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