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    #059 | If I Learned This Secret 10 Years Ago, I'd Be 100 Times Who I Am Now... NOT CLICKBAIT LOL

    en-usFebruary 08, 2022
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    NEW UPDATES: MAIM TIME 2nd Anniversary. Hooray! Thanks to all those who've listened to the show up until now. It means so much to me.

    I'm finally a YouTuber now LOL. The MAIM TIME YouTube Channel is up! All episodes from Episode #1 will be published until it catches up with the latest audio podcast schedule. Please support with a cheeky sub and like! ;)

    #059: Last month, I finished this book called Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz, thanks to a recommendation from Hamza Unfiltered's YouTube channel. This is arguably one of the best books I've come across in my personal journey, IF NOT THE BEST.

    This is THE OG book on self-development, psychology, self-actualization. The more and more I think about it, the more I wish I had come across this book 10 years ago. It contains the most important secret for self-actualization and success, living a fulfilled life, and being the best version of yoruself.

    "Well, Maim, spill the means. Secret? What's mean?"
    BIGGEST SPOILER OF LIFE: More than any other book or concept, the idea of the self-image - believing in yourself - is fundamental to all success. I believe this now more than ever.

    Any success I've had in my life up until now, including learning Korean and becoming socially apt and all the growth I've experienced today -- has perfectly adhered to the principles in this book. Let me tell you, I cannot shut up about this book. THANK YOU DR. MAXWELL MALTZ!

    SELF-IMAGE DETERMINES YOUR ATTITUDE, WHICH DETERMINES YOUR ACTIONS, YOUR BEHAVIOR, YOUR DESTINY!

    More than ever I realize, self-talk, self-belief is the most important thing.
    If you believe that you're dumb, then you'll act dumb to prove to the world that you're dumb.
    If you think you're too dumb to know your own mother tongue, then you are.
    If you think you're fat, you'll act in ways to prove to the world you're fat.
    If you believe you're worthless, you'll behave in a self-sabotaging way.
    That's what I've done for most of my whole life.

    NO MORE!

    I'm believing  in myself 100%! I AM THE BEST!
    NO ONE HAS OVERCOME THE CHALLENGES THAT I HAVE.
    Anything that I thought was once impossible for me, I OVERCAME IT.
    I SUCCEEDED BEYOND MY WILDEST DREAMS.
    How? I BELIEVED IN MYSELF!
    That's how it all starts.
    BELIEVING IN YOURSELF!!!

    IF I CAN DO IT
    SO CAN YOU!!!

    What are you waiting for?

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