101. Will What You Do Have a Lasting Impact? with Dale and Brian Karmie

Ever accidentally shatter a full glass bottle of kombucha in Marshall's? 

We have! In today's episode, we take you through life's everyday laughter and trials, swapping tales from bathroom disasters to the quirks of marriage. As we navigate the tender complexities of fostering, parenting, and the relentless passage of time, we invite you to join our conversation and embrace the journey of life with us. This is not just an update—it's a chapter of our lives, shared candidly with hopes to spark inspiration and sprinkle a bit of joy in your day.

Delving into the bittersweet realm of fostering, we balance the laughs with deep reflections on the emotional rollercoaster of transitioning children back to their biological families. Savor the sweet tales of our kids' growth, the challenges of being intentional with our time, and the therapeutic steps we take toward healing.

As we wrap up this heartfelt episode, gratitude takes the spotlight. We share about our community's overwhelming support, especially when nurturing goes even beyond our own family. Whether it's furnishing a home for a mother in need or fighting for the rights of kids in our care, we're reminded of the impact we can have together. 

So come along for the ride; it's more than just our story—it's a testament to the power of community, the resilience found in gratitude, and the joy discovered in the little things. Join us as we explore these chapters of life, seeking solace and joy in the shared human experience.

Episode Highlights: 

• Should Corey apologize for his comments in Parents Google Everything?
• Kombucha taste test.
• What are you eating under there?
• Life update.
• Has our foster care journey ended?
• God’s call on your life is always worth it.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What are your thoughts on bell-bottoms and landline phones?

Get ready to laugh and nod along as we unveil our "Parents Google Everything" segment, where we dive headfirst into the quirkiest corners of the internet. It's a weird world we live in.. with Gen Z dialing up on landlines and sporting mullets and people smuggling snakes across the border in their pants—yep, we're scratching our heads too.

Join our light-hearted debate over the allure of 90s fashion's comeback and why nostalgia seems to have a grip on the new generation, all packed with anecdotes to keep you company whether you're tackling chores or braving the daily commute.

From the lighter side of life to the pressing issues that spark national debates, we don't skirt around the big topics. We have a candid discussion on media bias, the hunt for unfiltered truths, and the critical role of upholding constitutional democracy.

The focus shifts to the financial obstacles that constantly trip up millennials, comparing their economic struggles with those faced by older generations. We discuss everything from the oppressive weight of student loans to the real value of college degrees in today's job market.

We wrap up the episode by sharing some recent embarrassing moments that remind us all to face life's curveballs with a hearty laugh. So plug in your earbuds, and let's get through this together—after all, life is too short not to share a giggle over our collective embarrassments.

Episode Highlights: 

• Parents google everything.
• Gen Z is bringing back the nostalgia.
• Smuggling Burmese pythons.
• Is Tucker Carlson a ‘useful idiot’?
• Why Millennials are poorer than their parents.
• Advice from Corey.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• Gen Z Nostalgia Article
• Smuggling Snakes Article
• Tucker Carlson Article
• Millennials Article

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

What role do sports play in your family?

In this episode, we lace up our cleats for an in-depth exploration of youth sports, family life, and living out Christian values in modern society. We're not just talking about juggling schedules; we're diving deep into how these elements weave together, shaping lives and strengthening families.

From coaching as a mission to prioritizing faith in the whirlwind of athletic pursuits, we're tackling tough questions and sharing personal insights to support and inspire those navigating the same playing field. Everyone has their own view on the place sports should take in their lives. Some make it a high priority, while others find importance in other things.

We invite you to take a listen while you're on your way to the field, doing dishes, or just getting things done around the house and take an in-depth look at the role youth sports play in your family.

Episode Highlights: 

• Our recent speaking engagement.
• Diving into a hot topic on sports.
• Year round sports & church.
• Coaching good attitudes & life skills.
• Putting faith into action.
• Sports are an outlet for kids.
• Evaluating what works for your family.
• Saying ‘no’ to good to say ‘yes’ to great.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How do you handle disagreements in your marriage?

In this episode, we explore the intricate dynamics of managing disagreements within our marriage while maintaining a cohesive partnership. Anchored by prayer as our guiding principle, we examine our strategies and techniques to find common ground amidst differing viewpoints. By prioritizing open communication, empathy, and compromise, we illustrate how we strive to reach a balanced resolution that honors both individual perspectives and our shared commitment to unity.

Get ready for a heart-to-heart on keeping faith at the forefront while embracing the digital age, and how aligning with biblical values can guide your family through the complexities of today's parenting landscape. We're peeling back the curtain on how we tackle those make-or-break family decisions.

From setting boundaries on dating to managing screen time, we're sharing the strategies that keep us patient, prayerful, and united—even when we don't see eye to eye. With a little wisdom, a dash of biblical perspective, and the insights of trusted friends, we're taking you step by step through creating an environment that's not just about making the right choices, but also about growing in faith and love as a family.

Join us for a deep dive into cultivating a household where healthy debate leads to even healthier relationships.

Episode Highlights: 

• Sharing about how we resolve conflicts in our marriage.
• How we handle decision-making in parenting.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Are you aware of the calling God has on your life?

Our family's dance with the unpredictable rhythms of foster care has been nothing short of a transformative adventure. As we open the doors of our home and hearts, we've been graced with bonds that weave us into the fabric of our community like never before. In this episode, we take an honest look at how fostering has anchored us not only to each other but, more importantly, to our faith in God.

From the quiet whispers of prayer before bedtime to the laughter that echoes through our home, fostering has filled our lives with compassion and strengthened our faith. We've watched our biological children rise to the occasion, building bunk beds and sharing spaces, embodying the very essence of love as Jesus taught us. It's a conversation about the raw and real impacts of opening your life to others and the surprising ways it can draw a family closer, deepening connections and compassion in ways you couldn't have fathomed.

Join us as we recount heartwarming moments of spiritual growth—like the child in our care whose Christmas wish was a Bible and who has now given his heart to Jesus. It's a reflection on the call God has placed on our lives, one that we're eager to continue sharing through our YouTube channel and right here, in the stories we tell and the lives we touch. 

Come along, and be part of the story that's still being written in the lives of our family and the children we embrace in our home.

Episode Highlights: 

• Sharing a Life/Foster Care Update.
• How we began our Foster Care Journey.
• Questions to ask yourself when you’re getting started.
• What is God calling you to do?
• Teaching our kids how to lean on the Lord.
• Loving like Jesus.
• Encouragement for anyone facing tough decisions.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• Visit Hope Bridge’s Website Here
• Follow Hope Bridge on Instagram
• Follow Foster Our Community on Instagram

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

As we shift into 2024, what is your focus?

We hope you had a great holiday season and are settling nicely into the new year. This year, we're embracing the guiding theme of 'Nourish,' focusing on the wisdom of cultivating what's already in our care. 

We've all had moments of biting off more than we could chew, and in this episode, we recount those personal tales of ambition and the subsequent burnout that taught us the importance of balance. From our home to our health, we're talking about the power of appreciating and enhancing the commitments we've already made, fostering a more enriching life without falling prey to the constant chase for something new.

We’re so glad to be back and grateful you’re here!

Episode Highlights: 

• The importance of being true to your values.
• The importance of being good stewards of what we have.
• A call for families to join us.
• Encouragement for being consistent.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Listen to Episode 160 Here
• Listen to Episode 161 Here
• Find us on Youtube
• This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you remember when you were a kid and Christmas felt all warm and cozy?

Sometimes, as adults, we can get so wrapped up in the hustle & bustle that we forget to slow down and just be present. When you think back to your favorite Christmas memories growing up, are they of big extravagant gifts? Or are they memories of traditions enjoyed with family?

We're peeling back the layers on our unique Christmas traditions, discussing ways to make the holidays memorable without the pressure of perfection, and sharing personal stories about our themed movie nights and Christmas Light Extravaganza. With us, it's not just about the lights and decorations, it's about slowing down and being present. 

But the holiday cheer doesn't stop there. We've got a Christmas giveaway in the works and a Christmas playlist that's sure to get you in the festive spirit. You can find our Christmas playlist and giveaway details below! 

So grab your hot cocoa, settle down by the fire, and let's navigate this journey together. We can't wait to celebrate the end of the year with you, share our holiday traditions, and look forward to the exciting changes coming to our podcast in the new year.

Episode Highlights: 

• Sharing a quick life update.
• Winning ‘one play at a time’.
• Why is everything that’s good for you such a struggle?
• You get a fresh start every day.
• Let’s finish the year off strong.
• We’re doing a giveaway!
• Remember when Christmas felt warm & cozy?
• It was never meant to be a burden.
• Auditing your Christmas traditions.
• Fun & simple traditions we love.
• Slow down & be present.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Join our FREE Patreon!
• Listen to our Apple Playlist here!
• Give to Hope Bridge
• Foster Our Community Giving Options
• Follow @shewhocreatesforhim on Instagram
• Find Emily’s bracelets here @wordsthatshinebyem
  
  

ENTER OUR 2023 CHRISTMAS GIVEAWAY!:

We are giving away a $400 Cash Prize to One Grand Prize Winner & 5 other winners will get their choice of a $20 Amazon OR Starbucks Gift Card!

Here’s how to Enter:

• Leave a comment review on Apple Podcasts.
• Comment ‘reviewed’ on Bethany’s Giveaway post on Instagram here - @bethanyadkins
• BONUS ENTRIES: Every time you share one of our episodes on your stories & tag @bethanyadkins. Also, every time you tag a friend on the Giveaway post.

*Winners will be announced on 12/24!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever witnessed a crime?

As just a young teen, not only had Ronald Olivier witnessed crime, but he had been convicted of murder and sentenced to life in prison. He was a product of a broken home, a crack epidemic, and a society that had turned its back on him. 

This harsh lifestyle ultimately resulted in Ronald killing another young man on Christmas day. 

In the absence of a father figure, he found guidance in unlikely places, proving that a helping hand can come from the most unexpected corners. 

From a haunted past to a transformative future, Ronald Olivier's story is one of remarkable redemption. He was serving a life sentence in Angola Prison, but he found his freedom in forgiveness and faith. Ronald narrates an emotional encounter with the mother of his victim, a moment that broke walls and built bridges.

He stresses the importance of faith, urging listeners to remember God's endless grace. Get a glimpse of Ronald's inspiring journey in his new book, which is available on Amazon. Embrace the power of change, forgiveness, and second chances in this powerful episode.

Episode Highlights: 

• Introduction to Ronald.
• Where is Ronald today?
• Ronald’s upbringing.
• His father, his hero.
• The crack epidemic.
• The day Ronald’s life changed forever.
• Turning to Jesus.
• Sentenced to Louisiana State Penitentiary.
• The conviction of the Holy Spirit.
• Kids need a father figure.
• The people God placed in Ronald’s life. 
• Education and open doors.
• Mission work and pastoring a prison church.
• Breakthrough in the law.
• Speaking to the victim’s mother.
• God’s grace & goodness.

Find More on Ronald:

• Follow Ronald on Facebook
• Find Ronald on Instagram @ronnieslim75
• Order 27 Summers Here!

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Join our FREE Patreon!
  
  

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you have someone in your circle who inspires you by the way they live their life?

When we think of heroes, we often picture individuals in capes saving the world, but my friend and inspiration, Lisa Robertson, is a hero in her own right. For nearly a decade, Lisa and her husband opened their hearts and their home to foster children, impacting countless lives in the process. Facing the difficult decision to close their home, Lisa shares her emotional journey, the difficult conversations, and her courageous step into a season of rest.

As we navigate through this emotional rollercoaster, we uncover Lisa's continued impact on the foster care system through her work with Hope Bridge. This non-profit organization has given Lisa a platform to share transformative stories of hope, demonstrating that closing her home has not meant the end of her contribution. 

What's life like after leaving foster care? We explore this adjustment period, the mental and emotional toll it takes, and the importance of intentional presence.

Lisa shares her adjustment process and how she was able to find value in her new season of life. So, join us for a conversation filled with raw emotion, deep insights, and a testament to the impact of faith. 

This episode isn't just a chat - it's an exploration of the human spirit, the struggles we face, and the hope that sees us through. Come, be inspired. You don't want to miss this!

Episode Highlights: 

• Lisa Robertson is back for another episode!
• Lisa shares a life update.
• There’s value in every area of your calling.
• If I don’t do this, who is going to?
• Learning how to rest in the midst of the chaos.
• About the mission of Hope Bridge.
• Hope Bridge is launching a podcast!
• How to be intentionally present.

Find More on Lisa & Hope Bridge:

• Hope Bridge Podcast: Restoried
• Find Lisa on Instagram Here!
• Trusting God with the Unknown with Lisa Robertson
• Rooted Pt. 1 with Lisa Robertson
• Rooted Pt. 2 with Lisa Robertson
• The Unexpected Road to Infertility and Foster Care with Lisa Robertson
• Hope Bridge Website
• Find Hope Bridge on Instagram Here!

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Join our FREE Patreon!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever felt like God put a desire on your heart that you just couldn't ignore?

Here at Adkins Media Co., each of us have had that undeniable nudge on our hearts.  We've navigated the rough waters of juggling our professional aspirations and raising our families, but all throughout our journeys, there was a fire on the inside that just couldn't be ignored.

Join us as we share how we transformed from our previous careers to create Adkins Media Co, a family-first business that perfectly strikes the balance between work and home life. This business has been built around our families, not the other way around. Be a part of our journey as we talk about the hurdles we tackled, the faith we mustered, and the dreams we pursued.

Without further ado, I invite you to meet the other two minds behind Adkins Media Co. - Whittni and Victoria who took the leap of faith, trusted in God to guide their decisions, and said goodbye to the 9-5 to become a part of the Adkins Media Co. team. Their stories are not just inspiring, but they're real and raw, filled with personal challenges and massive faith. 

Tune in to an episode that makes you rethink that dream God has placed in your heart, whatever it may be... and maybe, just maybe, inspires you to make a leap of faith of your own.

Episode Highlights: 

• My time in nursing and the desire to be primarily home.
• Finding balance between being home and creating.
• Starting a podcast and getting my first client.
• The growth of Adkins Media Co.
• What can happen with one little act of obedience?
• Meet the Adkins Media Co. Team.
• Being good stewards of our blessings and keeping priorities straight.
• Encouragement for those who are facing decisions.
• We are A Force to Be Reckoned With. Discussing our Patreon.
• Silencing the chaos with Truth.

More on Whittni & Victoria:

• Find Whittni on Instagram Here!
• Find Victoria on Instagram Here!
• Visit Victoria’s Journal Page on Amazon

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Join our FREE Patreon!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.