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    #132 — Freeing the Hostages

    enJuly 09, 2018

    Podcast Summary

    • Effective negotiation skills in extreme situationsEffective communication and negotiation skills are essential in various aspects of life and business, as demonstrated by Chris Voss' experiences as a former FBI hostage negotiator.

      Learning from this conversation with Chris Voss is that effective negotiation skills can be applied to various situations, even those as extreme as hostage negotiations. Chris Voss, an expert in negotiation, shares his experiences as a former FBI hostage negotiator and distills the lessons he learned for more ordinary negotiations. He became a hostage negotiator after a recurring knee injury forced him to seek a less physically demanding role within the FBI, where he could use his communication skills to talk to terrorists and hostage takers. While becoming a hostage negotiator may not be a typical path for most people, it's an example of how developing expertise in a specific area can lead to unique opportunities. The conversation highlights the importance of effective communication and negotiation skills in various aspects of life and business.

    • From SWAT to Negotiations: Finding One's Calling in Law EnforcementSerendipity and personal fit play a role in discovering one's role in law enforcement. An injury led the speaker from SWAT to negotiation, which proved to be a better fit.

      Finding one's calling in law enforcement can be a matter of serendipity and personal fit. The speaker initially thought SWAT was his calling, but an injury led him to negotiation, which turned out to be a better fit. He had experience as a Pittsburgh SWAT member for about two years before transitioning to FBI negotiation. Each FBI field office has its own SWAT and negotiation teams. The speaker was involved in several hostage negotiations during his time in New York, including a rare bank robbery with hostages. He went on to become a full-time hostage negotiator at the FBI Academy at Quantico, where he worked on numerous cases both domestically and internationally. The dynamics of hostage negotiations can vary greatly depending on the context, from countries where hostage-taking is common but killing the hostages is not, to situations where hostages are frequently killed, such as with groups like ISIS.

    • International hostage situations and varying policiesPolicies on ransoms vary greatly between countries, impacting the value of Western hostages and complicating negotiations. Clear communication and long-term considerations are crucial.

      Situations people find themselves in can vary greatly, from domestic disputes that resemble family holiday dinners gone wrong, to international kidnappings that are treated as commodities transactions. In the case of international hostages, policies of different countries come into play. For instance, while the US does not make concessions and has a policy against paying ransoms, European countries often pay ransoms, making Western hostages a more valuable commodity. However, the US policy is not always clearly communicated to families, leading to confusion and potential mishandling of situations. Ultimately, the challenge is to identify the true commodity in any negotiation and consider the long-term consequences, rather than just focusing on short-term expediency. The way Europeans handle ransoms can also have far-reaching implications, potentially leading to chaos.

    • Using marked money to apprehend kidnappersInstead of paying large ransoms, using marked money to trace and capture kidnappers minimizes harm and risk.

      Instead of paying large ransoms to kidnappers, a more effective and ethical solution could be using marked money, or bait money, as practiced in the banking industry. This method allows the kidnapper to get some of their demanded money while minimizing harm and risk. The marked money is easily traceable, enabling authorities to apprehend the entire gang involved in the kidnapping. The U.S. government tried this approach in a kidnapping case in Ecuador around the year 2000 and was successful in capturing the entire gang. This strategy not only saves lives but also helps prevent the creation of a larger industry that puts more people at risk.

    • Following the money trail leads to the apprehension of criminalsTracing financial transactions can help identify sources of weapons, hideouts, and illegal activities, leading to the dismantling of criminal networks.

      Following the money trail is an effective strategy in combating criminal organizations, particularly those involved in kidnappings and terrorist activities. In the case of a kidnapping gang that had been targeting oral prop platforms annually, the US government's decision to trace the payment led to the apprehension of 50 members of the gang, putting an end to the entire organization and saving countless lives. This approach requires intelligence gathering through communication, which provides valuable information about the criminals and their operations. By tracing the money, authorities can identify the sources of weapons, hideouts, and other illegal activities, ultimately bringing both the perpetrators and their supporters to justice. This long-term strategy requires patience but is proven to be effective. The international policy with regard to terrorist organizations should include communication and intelligence gathering, followed by the tracing of financial transactions to dismantle the entire network.

    • Understanding Emotions in NegotiationsUnderstanding human emotions, particularly fear of loss, is crucial for effective negotiations. Adaptability and empathy are key strategies in intense negotiations.

      While money may seem to disappear into the economy after being used, it is actually tracked through various means such as bank transactions. This was discussed in relation to both everyday transactions and criminal activities like bank robberies and hostage situations. The importance of understanding human emotions, particularly the fear of loss, was emphasized as a commonality in various negotiations, including hostage situations. Regardless of the situation or context, human beings are driven by the same basic emotions and survival instincts. This insight can be applied to negotiations of any type, and understanding these emotions and instincts can lead to effective negotiation strategies. The speaker also shared personal experiences of intense and impactful negotiations, highlighting the importance of adaptability and empathy in such situations.

    • Manipulating Language in Bank Robbery NegotiationsEffective communication and language manipulation can impact negotiation outcomes, even in high-pressure situations. Techniques like mirroring can elicit further information and ultimately lead to successful outcomes.

      Effective communication and manipulation of language can significantly impact negotiation outcomes, even in high-pressure situations like a bank robbery. The ringleader of the Chase Manhattan Bank robbery with hostages displayed manipulative behavior by trying to diminish his influence and control the narrative, using plural pronouns to hide his role. The negotiator used a technique called mirroring to buy time and elicit further information, which ultimately led to the capture of the entire gang. The controlling negotiator can get flustered but won't get angry, and can be manipulated into making admissions. Understanding these dynamics and utilizing effective communication strategies can be crucial in achieving successful negotiation outcomes.

    • Exploiting differences in commitment in hostage negotiationsEffectively negotiating hostage situations involves exploiting varying levels of commitment and goals among parties, done with patience and a gentle demeanor, can lead to successful resolutions, but ethical dilemmas may arise when pushing for lower prices in life-threatening situations.

      In hostage negotiations, it's common to find opportunities to exploit different levels of commitment or goals among the parties involved. This approach, when used with a patient and a gentle demeanor, can help unravel complex situations effectively. Even in cases where the initial demands are impossibly high, negotiators can work towards a resolution without raising the risk to the hostage. However, ethical considerations can come into play when driving a hard bargain in negotiations, especially when lives are at stake. The question of when to stop pushing for a lower price becomes a moral dilemma. These negotiations can be intricate and often extend beyond what seems reasonable, but with careful handling, they can be resolved successfully. If you're interested in learning more about these complex negotiations and other thought-provoking topics, consider subscribing to the Making Sense podcast at samharris.org for access to full-length episodes and subscriber-only content.

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