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    14: Pornstar Danny D Explains How Porn Ruined His Marriage & his WORST stories! FULL PODCAST EP.14

    enJuly 20, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • An adult entertainer's journey to TikTok and unexpected opportunitiesUnexpected circumstances can lead to unique opportunities, even for those in unconventional careers

      Danny D, an adult entertainer, has joined various digital platforms like YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and TikTok to expand his reach and make his persona more approachable to a wider audience. He started on TikTok reluctantly but found it to be a more acceptable way to connect with fans without revealing too much about his past. Danny D's entry into porn was not planned; it happened when he was on a holiday in Germany, and one of his friends saw him in a vulnerable moment. Despite initial shyness, he eventually embraced his unique ability and turned it into a career. His journey shows that even the most unusual circumstances can lead to unexpected opportunities.

    • An Unexpected Exploration of SexualityDespite the awkwardness and embarrassment, this man learned to accept himself and explore his sexuality in unconventional ways, ultimately finding satisfaction and understanding.

      Everyone experiences awkward and embarrassing moments in their lives, especially during their formative years. This man's story involves an unexpected incident at a holiday campground that led him to explore his sexuality in unconventional ways. He was pressured by his friends to show his penis after they made comments about its appearance. Feeling self-conscious, he initially refused but eventually gave in, leading to a series of embarrassing encounters. He tried to seek validation by going to a swingers club, attempting to have sex with strangers, and even considering porn. However, these experiences left him feeling more confused and unsatisfied. Ultimately, he found himself in a situation where he had sex with a man's wife at a swinging party, which was both exciting and strange for him at the time. The story highlights the importance of self-acceptance and the natural curiosity and experimentation that comes with growing up. It also sheds light on the complexities and nuances of sexuality and the various ways people explore it.

    • A chance encounter leads to a secret career in the adult film industryEntering the adult film industry can be an unexpected turn in life, driven by various reasons and leading to a complex relationship with secrecy and public recognition.

      The speaker shared a personal story about entering the adult film industry, starting with a seemingly odd encounter that led to an opportunity. He was initially excited about the experience and continued to work in the industry, trying various types of productions. He kept his involvement a secret from most people, including his family, until it became public knowledge. The speaker also mentioned his background and how his father's influence shaped his perspective on the industry. Throughout the conversation, he used humorous language and shared details about the process, including the financial aspect and the eventual recognition he received.

    • Working in adult film industry is not as assumedDespite misconceptions, the adult film industry offers professionalism and boundaries, debunking stereotypes

      The speaker's experience working in the adult film industry was not what people might assume. Contrary to popular belief, it was a job with boundaries and professionalism. The speaker clarified that there was no orgy-like atmosphere, and sex on set was different from sex at home. The speaker also shared that there were occasions when their partner would become suspicious, leading to a need to "clock back in" for round two. The speaker emphasized that the work involved was not abnormal or excessive, and they were careful to maintain their personal life and professional commitments. Overall, the speaker's perspective challenged stereotypes and shed light on the reality of working in the adult film industry.

    • Exploring the Variety of Adult Film ProductionActors respect the process and deliver quality products despite the stigma, with some productions featuring larger budgets and complex storylines.

      The production of adult films involves a range of scenes and acting styles, from clinical and straightforward to story-driven and more theatrically engaging. The actors may not always enjoy every aspect of their work, but they respect the process and the importance of delivering a quality product for their audience. Some productions may feature larger budgets and more complex storylines, resembling actual films with sex scenes. While there is stigma attached to the industry, those involved take pride in their work and find ways to have fun and make the best of it.

    • Considering Expanding Content to Film Reviews and Personal ConcernsSpeaker ponders expanding content to film reviews, expresses hesitation due to personal disinterest and fear of critiquing others. Discusses hypothetical situation about partner and explores past experiences and body image concerns.

      The speaker in this conversation is considering expanding her content creation to include film reviews, specifically of story-based porn from Digital Playground. She expresses her hesitation towards this new venture due to her personal disinterest in story-based content and her fear of critiquing others' performances. The conversation then shifts to a hypothetical situation where her partner is offered a large sum of money to have sex with another woman, and she expresses her concerns and reactions to this hypothetical scenario. The conversation also touches upon the speaker's past experiences in the adult film industry and her thoughts on her own body and past performances. Overall, the conversation provides insight into the speaker's thoughts and feelings about her career and the adult entertainment industry.

    • Starting a secret life in the adult film industryPeople have complex pasts and may hide them due to societal stigma, but honesty and acceptance are crucial for healthy relationships

      Everyone has a past, and it's not always what it seems. The speaker in this conversation shared his experience of starting in the adult film industry, and the lengths he went to keep it hidden from his girlfriend at the time. He used a cover story of being a poker player to explain his absences and sudden influx of money. However, as he gained more success in the industry, he realized he couldn't keep living a lie and came clean with those around him. The conversation also touched on the stigma surrounding porn and the judgment people can face when they reveal their past or current work. It's important to remember that everyone has a story, and it's essential to be understanding and accepting of others' experiences.

    • Respecting Elderly Dignity and PrivacyAlways consider the feelings and experiences of others, especially the elderly, in conversations and interactions. Respect their dignity and privacy.

      Even in the context of a joking conversation, it's important to respect the dignity and privacy of all individuals, especially the elderly. The discussion touched upon an inappropriate and disrespectful idea, which was thankfully not acted upon. However, it serves as a reminder of the importance of considering the feelings and experiences of others, especially when humor is involved. It's essential to recognize that everyone deserves respect and kindness, regardless of their age or background. The conversation also highlighted the potential for awkward and uncomfortable fan experiences, emphasizing the need for sensitivity and discretion in such situations.

    • Encounters with the Unexpected: Stories of Stalkers and IntrudersStay calm and deal with the unexpected in a practical and lighthearted manner. Prioritize privacy and setting boundaries to avoid such situations.

      Life can be unpredictable and sometimes unsettling, with experiences ranging from the bizarre to the downright strange. The speaker shares various anecdotes of encounters with stalkers and intruders, revealing the unexpected twists and turns that can occur. Despite the oddities, the speaker maintains a sense of humor and resilience, adapting to the situations as they come. A key lesson from these experiences is the importance of staying calm and dealing with the unexpected in a practical and lighthearted manner. Additionally, the speaker emphasizes the importance of privacy and setting boundaries to avoid such situations. Overall, the discussion underscores the unpredictability of life and the importance of being prepared for the unexpected.

    • The Importance of Attitude and Mental Health in Professional RelationshipsMaintaining a positive attitude and prioritizing mental health are crucial for successful and enjoyable professional relationships, especially in the adult entertainment industry. Utilize resources like BetterHelp for mental support.

      Attitude plays a significant role in professional relationships, especially in the adult entertainment industry. The speaker emphasizes the importance of a good attitude in creating successful and enjoyable working experiences. He also mentions the importance of privacy and confidentiality in such work, which is why BetterHelp, a free online therapy service, is a valuable resource for maintaining mental wellbeing. The speaker also shares his personal experiences and preferences, acknowledging the importance of adaptability and being able to work with various types of people. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of a positive attitude and mental health in professional and personal relationships. The speaker encourages listeners to take advantage of resources like BetterHelp to prioritize their mental wellbeing.

    • A look into the unpredictable world of adult film actingAdult film actor shares diverse experiences, from preferred scenes to uncooperative partners, and finds humor in podcast misrepresentation

      The speaker has had various experiences in his line of work, which involves acting in adult films. He shared some of his experiences, including a preference for certain types of scenes and encounters with uncooperative partners. He also mentioned working on a project called "Fake Taxi," where anonymous drivers are used for filming. Despite feeling a bit misrepresented on the podcast, he found the experience a bit amusing and even entertaining. Overall, the speaker's anecdotes illustrate the unpredictable nature of his profession and the diverse range of encounters he's had.

    • Finding Joy in Personal ActivitiesMaintain a balance between work and personal life, communicate effectively, and be mindful of online presence to ensure joy and fulfillment without compromising well-being or respect for others.

      People engage in various activities, such as sharing photos of their fishing catches or participating in adult content creation, not for external validation but for their own satisfaction. However, it's crucial to maintain a healthy separation between work and personal life to avoid potential complications. The discussion also touched upon the importance of communication and compatibility in relationships. Additionally, individuals were advised to be mindful of their online presence and the potential consequences it may have on their personal brand. Ultimately, people should do what brings them joy and fulfillment, without compromising their well-being or respect for others.

    • Exploring Unique Experiences and PreferencesPeople have diverse experiences and preferences, emphasizing the importance of respecting individual boundaries and consent while trying new experiences.

      People have unique preferences and experiences in their personal and professional lives. During a conversation about various topics, the speakers discussed their experiences with golden showers, continuing sexual encounters with performers, and group scenes. While some might find these topics shocking or taboo, others may view them as normal or even desirable. The speakers also emphasized the importance of trying new experiences and having good chemistry with partners. However, they also acknowledged the importance of professionalism and consent in all situations. Overall, the conversation highlights the diversity of human experiences and the importance of respecting individual preferences and boundaries.

    • Sharing unconventional experiences and lessons learnedEmbrace the unknown, try new things, and turn doubts into achievements. Past experiences, even the embarrassing ones, can provide valuable insights and opportunities for growth.

      The speaker in this conversation is open about her past experiences and her willingness to try new things, even if they seem unconventional or embarrassing. She shares stories about owing favors, exploring her sexuality, and attempting to find success in unusual ways. Despite her self-deprecating humor and apparent lack of confidence, she expresses a belief in the value of pursuing her passions and turning doubts into achievements. The conversation also touches on the theme of celebrity interactions and the speaker's experiences with famous figures. Overall, the conversation showcases the speaker's unique perspective and her ability to find humor and meaning in various aspects of her life.

    • Speaker's concerns about self-deprecation and relationship issuesThe speaker's self-deprecation and misunderstandings in relationships caused confusion and potential career setbacks. They sought validation and guidance but the conversation often strayed off topic.

      Self-deprecation and misunderstandings seemed to be causing issues in the speaker's relationships and career. The speaker expressed concerns about their TikTok presence potentially turning people off, their career choices, and past relationships. A friend's involvement with the speaker's ex-wife added complexity to the situation. The speaker joked about various relationship problems, suggesting they might excel in relationship consulting. The conversation touched on polyamory, past relationships, and even incestuous themes, which added confusion to the conversation. Ultimately, the speaker seemed to be seeking validation and guidance, but the conversation veered off topic multiple times, making it difficult to pinpoint a clear solution.

    • Frustrations and Unsolicited Advice in a Live InterviewDespite potential misunderstandings and inappropriate comments, live interviews can be unpredictable and engaging, offering unique insights and opportunities for connection.

      During the podcast, the guest expressed frustration over perceived lack of preparation and misunderstandings, while also sharing some unsolicited advice on relationships and sex. He also made references to various topics including camming, sex gangs, and Peckham Palace. Despite some confusion and inappropriate comments, the conversation ended with the guest offering a free subscription to a hub as a token of appreciation for the interview. It's important to note that the conversation contained explicit and potentially offensive content, and it's crucial to approach such topics with sensitivity and respect. Overall, the podcast episode showcased the dynamic and unpredictable nature of live interviews.

    • Seeking advice and sharing experiencesAdvice seeking can bring clarity and growth, even if outcomes are uncertain. Sharing experiences and perspectives enriches conversations.

      Giving advice is often sought after, even if the person asking for it may not fully intend to follow it. The conversation also touched upon various topics including birthdays, exercise, and relationships. One speaker shared his experience of being left by his partner, while another joked about the potential use of porn or exercise as distractions. The conversation ended with some light-hearted banter and a call to action for the audience to engage with the content. Overall, the discussion highlighted the importance of seeking advice, even if the outcome is uncertain, and the value of sharing experiences and perspectives with others.

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