Turn your home into an Airbnb and share a piece of your world: By hosting on Airbnb, you can earn extra income, share personal touches with guests, and continue having adventures by welcoming travelers from around the world. Walmart Plus members can save on groceries, gas, and Paramount Plus subscriptions to make hosting easier.
Turning your home into an Airbnb not only brings in extra income but also allows you to share a piece of your world with others. Jen and I, the hosts of this podcast, have done this ourselves and have enjoyed making our guests feel welcomed and cherished with personal touches. Airbnb's have become our go-to for cozy stays during our travels, and we wanted to bring that same magic into our own home. By designing a spare bedroom with its own exterior door, we've been able to make check-ins and check-outs seamless for our guests. We've also found joy in adding little personal touches, such as snacks, bottled water, and local recommendations. This not only makes our guests feel special but also allows us to continue having adventures by hosting travelers from around the world. So, instead of letting your home gather dust, consider turning it into an Airbnb and sharing a piece of your world with others. Visit airbnb.com/host to find out how much your home could be worth. Additionally, Walmart Plus members can save on groceries, gas, and Paramount Plus subscriptions, making it easier to host guests and enjoy the ultimate sign of friendship.
Honesty is key to overcoming challenges: Being truthful to ourselves and others fosters progress and growth, while dishonesty hinders it.
Being honest with ourselves is crucial for dealing with life's challenges effectively. Jon Taffer, the star of Bar Rescue, emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and building others up instead of tearing them down. He does this to inspire and protect the good in people and situations. Dishonesty, whether it's towards ourselves or others, hinders progress and keeps us rooted in our current circumstances. Taffer's approach to life and business, which involves fighting for the good rather than against the bad, is an effective way to overcome obstacles and move forward positively. Additionally, recognizing and confronting our own ego and self-delusions is essential for growth and success.
Examining the entire picture for business solutions: Bar Rescue's Jon Taffer emphasizes flexibility and looking at a business as a whole to identify root causes of problems, not just focusing on one aspect.
Jon Taffer, the host of "Bar Rescue," approaches his role as a business consultant and television personality with a unique perspective. Unlike other similar shows where chefs focus solely on the kitchen, Taffer's business background allows him to examine the entire picture and identify the root causes of a bar's problems. He emphasizes the importance of flexibility and looking at the business as a whole, rather than just focusing on one aspect. Taffer also believes that being a good television host involves both talent and skill, including the effective use of silence. He's constantly learning and improving, both as a producer and a host, and emphasizes the importance of continuous self-improvement for content creators.
Emphasizing audience engagement for effective content: Focus on audience feedback and engagement to create impactful content, using unconventional methods if necessary.
Focusing on the content and its impact on the audience is more important than worrying about aesthetics or self-criticism. The speaker emphasizes the importance of evaluating the effectiveness of the content and engaging with the audience to improve it. He shares his experience of using unconventional methods like throwing things to make the content more impactful and authentic. The speaker also mentions his preference for more detailed audience feedback like quarter-hour ratings in the television industry, which helps him improve the content. Overall, the key takeaway is the importance of prioritizing the audience's engagement and feedback to create compelling content.
Assessing a business's quality through small details: Observing small details like empty glasses in event venues or cleanliness of restaurant menus can indicate overall business standards. Experience the venue firsthand and watch for potential red flags to ensure a high-quality customer experience.
Assessing the quality of a business, whether it's a high-end event or a restaurant, can be done by paying attention to small details. For instance, the number of employees who pass by an empty glass in a potential event venue or the cleanliness of menus and salt and pepper shakers in a restaurant are strong indicators of the overall standards of the business. These assessments can help ensure that customers receive the best possible experience. Another important tip is to experience the venue or business firsthand before making a commitment, as what they offer to others is typically what they will provide for you. Additionally, observing potential red flags from the outside, such as a messy parking lot or unkempt appearance, can save time and resources in the long run. Overall, paying close attention to the little things can make a big difference in the quality of the experience.
Focus on generating revenue and prioritizing tasks: Entrepreneurs should prioritize generating revenue and focusing on important tasks to effectively manage time and overcome challenges
Prioritizing is crucial for business owners and entrepreneurs, who often find themselves overwhelmed with tasks. According to Jon Taffer, it's essential to focus on required activities and move those "balls" every day to avoid feeling overwhelmed. Time management is key, and we should remember that we always have the time for what's important to us. Revenue is the ultimate solution to most business problems, so entrepreneurs should prioritize generating revenue above all else. In essence, by focusing on top-line growth and prioritizing tasks, entrepreneurs can effectively manage their time and overcome various challenges.
Focus on personality traits during hiring: Effective hiring involves understanding individual attributes and values over resume or experience. Prioritize personality traits and use unrelated questions to gauge fit.
Hiring for personality and training for skills is a more effective approach than hiring based solely on resume or experience. Joe Rogan emphasizes that greatness is defined by individual attributes and values, and it's essential to prioritize those traits during the hiring process. He believes that interviews are ineffective and focuses on understanding a candidate's personality through their responses to seemingly unrelated questions. A cultural problem or dysfunction within a business can often be identified by observing disengaged or disconnected employees. By sensing and addressing the underlying issues, businesses can build a stronger and more cohesive team.
Identifying and addressing the root cause of conflicts: Effective conflict resolution requires commitment, time, and the ability to identify and address the root cause. Natural leaders emerge from within teams, and those eager to grow should be considered for promotion.
Identifying and addressing the root cause of an issue is crucial for resolving conflicts. This can be a challenging process, and sometimes people may quit when confronted. However, those who are committed or willing to change will stay. Time pressure can create intensity and a sense of urgency, leading to quick decisions, but having more time allows for a more inspiring and inclusive approach. Effective leaders often emerge naturally from within a team, and those who take on responsibilities before they're given should be considered for promotion. It's a mistake to promote someone who has been comfortable in their current role for an extended period, as opposed to someone who is eager to grow and take on new challenges.
Empowerment and leadership at every level: Effective leadership is about empowering others and creating an environment where everyone feels inspired to take charge and contribute to the success of the organization.
Effective leadership is not just about telling people what to do, but about taking on responsibility voluntarily and empowering others to do the same. Great leaders are not just found at the top of an organization, but at every level. This attitude of empowerment and leadership cultivates success in businesses, especially in industries like hospitality where opportunities for growth are abundant. Contrary to popular belief, leadership is not something that can be easily trained or taught, but is a trait that is innate in some individuals. The ability to inspire and lead comes naturally to some people, just as it did for the little general in daycare or the successful yet unconventional entrepreneurs. Ultimately, effective leadership is about creating an environment where everyone feels empowered to take charge and contribute to the success of the organization.
Unexpected opportunities from determination: Despite rejection, staying positive and persistent can lead to success and new opportunities
Determination and perseverance can lead to unexpected opportunities and success. The speaker, John, never imagined being on television but was encouraged by a stranger and went on to pitch his idea to various production companies. Despite being turned down multiple times, he didn't give up and eventually landed a deal with a reputable production company. His show, "On The Rocks," premiered within a year, and he has since become a well-known media personality. John's experience shows that rejection doesn't have to be the end and that staying positive and persistent can lead to great rewards. Additionally, he learned to let his fans handle any negative comments and focus on the positive feedback.
Be deliberate and authentic for success and resilience: Understanding yourself and being true to your personality can lead to greater success and resilience in entrepreneurship, both online and offline.
Being deliberate and authentic in one's actions, particularly in the digital space, can help insulate individuals from negative feedback and the risks associated with looseness and casualness. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself, whether on or off camera, and not trying to be something one is not, such as an entrepreneur. The speaker also suggests that understanding one's personality type and mentalities, as outlined in Michael Gerber's book "E Myth Revisited," can help individuals determine if they are well-suited to entrepreneurship or if they should consider partnering with someone who complements their skills. Ultimately, being deliberate and authentic can lead to greater success and resilience in the face of criticism and adversity.
Surround yourself with great people and build relationships: Building relationships and using systems and tiny habits are crucial for effective team management. Surround yourself with committed individuals and take responsibility for your actions to foster open communication and lead a successful team.
Being an entrepreneur or business owner involves hiring people and leading a team, but celebrity status can make it difficult to foster open communication. John Taffer, a celebrity TV personality, emphasized the importance of surrounding yourself with great people and taking responsibility for your actions. He advised building relationships and using systems and tiny habits to manage relationships effectively. The key to success is team building and surrounding yourself with committed individuals who want to improve every day. This starts from the top and is essential for any business or project. Additionally, Taffer encouraged listeners to check out Jordan Harbinger's Level 1 program for practical advice on building relationships and managing relationships with large networks of people.
Exploring Capella University's Personalized Approach to Learning: Capella University offers a future-focused education with flexible formats, personalized support, industry-relevant curriculum, and resources to help students achieve academic and professional success.
Capella University offers a unique educational experience that empowers students to imagine and create their own future. The university's flexible learning formats, personalized support, and industry-relevant curriculum allow students to advance their careers and make a positive impact in their communities. During our discussion, we explored how Capella's GuidedPath Learning format provides students with a clear roadmap to academic success. This personalized approach ensures that students are making progress towards their goals and receiving the support they need to overcome challenges. Moreover, Capella's emphasis on industry relevance and real-world applications sets it apart from traditional universities. Students can apply what they learn in the classroom to real-world situations, giving them a competitive edge in their careers. Lastly, Capella's commitment to student success extends beyond academics. The university offers a range of resources, including career services, mentoring, and networking opportunities, to help students achieve their professional goals. In summary, Capella University offers a future-focused education that empowers students to reach their full potential. Its flexible learning formats, personalized support, and industry-relevant curriculum make it an excellent choice for individuals seeking to advance their careers and make a positive impact in their communities.
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1052: Wack Prenup Request Puts Engagement to the Test | Feedback Friday
Your engagement's on thin ice after a lackluster presentation and surprise prenup request. Is it time to say "I don't" instead? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
- Do your habits align with your ideal healthspan/lifespan?
- You're engaged to a man who suddenly asked for a prenup during a romantic date night, leading to a fight where you returned the ring. His proposal seemed half-hearted, and there are potential red flags about his commitment. How do you process this unexpected twist in your engagement?
- You organized a charity run with a local business owner to qualify for a marathon, but he withheld the funds raised for months. Now you're grappling with anger and the desire for revenge. How will you handle this betrayal and protect future charitable efforts?
- As a self-employed carpenter, you sometimes get a bad feeling about potential clients but struggle to turn them down politely. How can you trust your instincts and maintain professional boundaries without burning bridges or damaging your reputation?
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1051: Tu Lam | From Refugee to Real American Hero
From refugee to elite soldier to Call of Duty character: Green Beret Tu Lam shares his incredible journey of overcoming adversity and finding purpose.
What We Discuss with Tu Lam:
- Tu Lam escaped Vietnam as a child on a dangerous boat journey, enduring extreme hardship before eventually making it to the United States as a refugee.
- He faced significant racism and challenges growing up in America, but was determined to prove himself and joined the military, eventually becoming a Green Beret.
- Tu Lam served in elite special forces units for over 20 years, participating in dangerous missions around the world including hostage rescues and counterterrorism operations.
- After leaving the military, he struggled with PTSD and drug addiction, but was able to heal through various methods including psychedelic therapy.
- Tu Lam's journey shows how we can overcome extreme adversity and trauma through perseverance, seeking help when needed, and finding positive ways to channel our experiences. His story inspires us to face our own challenges with courage and to use our struggles as motivation to help others.
- And much more...
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1050: Lisa Kaltenegger | In Search of Alien Life and Livable Worlds
Are we alone in the universe? Alien Earths author Lisa Kaltenegger joins us to discuss new discoveries in humanity's hunt for extraterrestrial life.
What We Discuss with Lisa Kaltenegger:
- The universe contains billions of stars and galaxies, with an estimated one out of five stars having a planet that could be similar to Earth in terms of potential habitability.
- Scientists use various methods to detect exoplanets, including observing changes in starlight and analyzing the light spectrum of planets to detect signs of life-sustaining elements like oxygen and methane.
- The search for extraterrestrial life involves looking for planets in the "habitable zone" or "Goldilocks zone" around stars, where conditions might allow for liquid water on the surface.
- The observable universe is limited by the speed of light and the age of the universe (approximately 13.7 billion years), meaning we can only see as far as light has had time to travel since the Big Bang.
- Anyone can contribute to space exploration and scientific discovery by staying curious, learning about new discoveries, and supporting science education. Even simple actions like looking up at the night sky and wondering about our place in the universe can inspire a lifelong passion for science and exploration.
- And much more...
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1049: Friend Was a Creeper But You're Not His Keeper | Feedback Friday
A friend's arrest for a dark crime has you shaken. Can you protect your career and sanity from association with this monster? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday:
- How did "The Thing" that Soviets used to spy on Americans during the Cold War (as described in episode 1027: Jonna Mendez | A Woman’s Life in the CIA) actually work? Some of our science-minded listeners have written in with fascinating answers!
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- Your wife's family is fraught with tension due to her sisters' problematic marriages, including allegations of abuse and sexual assault. Fresh to the family, you're not sure where you fit into its overall structure yet. Can you help mend family bonds or should you keep your distance?
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1048: Shaun Attwood | From Raves to Riches to Ruin Part Two
Raves, riches, and ruin: Former ecstasy kingpin Shaun Attwood exposes the dangerous world of drug trafficking and its violent criminal connections. [Pt 2/2 — find Pt 1 here!]
What We Discuss:
- The extreme brutality and inhumane conditions in the United States prison system, including rampant violence, unsanitary living conditions, and inadequate medical care.
- The complex and dangerous social dynamics within prison, including racial segregation, gang politics, and the constant threat of violence.
- The psychological impact of long-term incarceration, including the difficulty of reintegrating into society and the lasting trauma experienced by both inmates and their families.
- The systemic issues within the American prison system, particularly the profit-driven motives of private prisons that perpetuate a cycle of crime and recidivism rather than focusing on rehabilitation.
- The power of personal transformation and education, as demonstrated by Shaun's journey from drug kingpin to advocate for prison reform. His story shows that even in the darkest circumstances, individuals can find ways to grow, learn, and ultimately use their experiences to make a positive impact on society.
- And much more — be sure to check out part one of this conversation here if you haven't already!
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1047: Shaun Attwood | From Raves to Riches to Ruin Part One
Raves, riches, and ruin: Former ecstasy kingpin Shaun Attwood exposes the dangerous world of drug trafficking and its violent criminal connections. [Pt 1/2]
What We Discuss:
- Shaun Attwood, a former stockbroker turned drug dealer, recounts his journey from the UK to Arizona, where he became involved in the rave scene and eventually established a large ecstasy distribution network.
- Shaun's story involves interactions with dangerous individuals, including members of the Mexican Mafia and associates of former show guest Sammy "The Bull" Gravano, highlighting the violent and unpredictable nature of the drug trade.
- The narrative illustrates the gradual escalation of criminal activities and the blurring of moral boundaries as Shaun became more deeply entrenched in the drug world.
- Shaun describes the intense paranoia and constant threat of violence that accompanied his lifestyle, demonstrating the high personal cost of his choices.
- Despite the dark nature of the story, Shaun's experiences offer valuable insights into the dangers of drug abuse and the importance of making positive life choices. His journey towards redemption, which will be further explored in part two later this week, serves as a powerful reminder that it's never too late to change course and seek a better path in life.
- And much more — be sure to tune in to part two of this conversation here later this week!
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1046: Hydrotherapy | Skeptical Sunday
Ice plunges, hot soaks, and eight glasses a day: Jessica Wynn splashes cold water on hydrotherapy myths and explores potential benefits on Skeptical Sunday!
On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:
- Hydrotherapy, which includes various uses of water for health purposes, lacks substantial scientific evidence for many of its claimed benefits, especially for generally healthy individuals.
- The popular belief that we need to drink eight glasses of water a day is a myth perpetuated by beverage companies. Our bodies are well-equipped to signal thirst when we need hydration.
- Extreme temperature changes in hydrotherapy, such as alternating between hot and cold water, can be dangerous and potentially lead to fainting, heart problems, or drowning.
- Many of the alleged benefits of hydrotherapy, such as improved circulation or muscle recovery, can often be achieved through other, potentially safer methods like exercise or breathing techniques.
- Hydrotherapy does show promise in specific medical contexts, such as pain management for fibromyalgia, easing labor during childbirth, and assisting with certain rehabilitation exercises. If you're interested in exploring hydrotherapy for health reasons, consult with a medical professional to determine if it's appropriate for your individual needs and how to practice it safely.
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!
- Connect with Jessica Wynn.
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1045: Helping Pal Who Paid Cost for Offing His Boss | Feedback Friday
We all joke about offing the boss. Your friend actually did. He'll soon leave prison, but you're unsure how to receive him. Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
- We've all fantasized about offing the boss, but your friend actually did it. Now he's done his time in prison and is returning home. How do you help him rejoin society without ignoring the gravity of his crime?
- You opened a bakery with your partner, but the building owner across the street turned your parking spaces into a dumpster area, including rotting fish from a sushi restaurant. Your attempts to resolve the issue have been unsuccessful. How can you save your business from this smelly situation?
- Your sister-in-law is neglecting her nine-year-old daughter, keeping her out of school and leaving her alone all day. The child's father is unreliable, and you're unsure about intervening. How can you protect your niece without causing more chaos?
- Your wife suddenly claimed to be a lesbian, cheated on you, and left the family. After two years apart, you've reconciled, but things aren't going well. She's depressed, anxious, and isolating herself. Can this marriage be saved, or is it time to move on?
- Recommendation of the Week: iPhone users should consider changing default camera settings for optimal high-res photos. Here's how — with more tips here!
- As a Jewish public servant, you've faced increasing antisemitism and violence at work, even requiring hospital visits. Your progressive values are being challenged by the harsh realities of your job. How can you reconcile your ideals with your experiences?
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
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1044: Dan Harris | From Breaking News to Breaking Habits
Is happiness a learnable skill? 10% Happier author Dan Harris is here to share techniques for managing stress and finding contentment in a hectic world.
What We Discuss:
- Dan Harris shares his experience as a war correspondent and his struggle with anxiety and drug use that culminated in a panic attack on live television.
- The intense and often toxic work environment in network news, particularly during Dan's early career at ABC News.
- Dan's journey from cocaine addiction to discovering meditation and mindfulness as tools for managing stress and anxiety.
- The concept of "Papañca" (mental proliferation) and how it contributes to unnecessary suffering through overthinking and projection.
- Happiness is a learnable skill. Through various practices like meditation, therapy, exercise, and mindfulness, we can train our minds to be more resilient, peaceful, and content. As Dan emphasizes, we're not stuck with our current traits as if they're unalterable factory settings — they are trainable skills that we can improve upon throughout our lives.
- And much more...
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1043: Andrew Gold | Unveiling the Psychology of Secrets
Are secrets a burden or social glue? Psychology of Secrets author Andrew Gold delves into the evolutionary roots and modern impacts of hiding information.
What We Discuss with Andrew Gold:
- Keeping secrets can be physically and emotionally painful for humans. This evolved as a mechanism to encourage social cohesion and information sharing within tribal communities.
- There's a difference between secrets and privacy. What is considered a secret versus private information often depends on societal norms and can change over time.
- Technology is making it increasingly difficult to keep secrets, with devices like smartwatches and phones potentially revealing information we'd rather keep hidden.
- Virtue signaling and victim signaling are common behaviors, especially on social media, where people may pretend to hold certain beliefs or experiences for status or attention.
- Sharing appropriate secrets can increase intimacy and strengthen relationships. By thoughtfully opening up to others, we can build deeper connections and foster trust, leading to more meaningful interactions and a stronger support network.
- And much more...
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How did Tom Hardin go from insider trading to becoming Tipper X, one of the most prolific informants in securities fraud history? Join us as Tom tells all!
What We Discuss with Tom Hardin:
- The factors that led Tom Hardin toward the temptation of illegal insider trading.
- How the FBI caught Tom — even when he thought he was playing "smart" — and got him to become Tipper X, one of the most prolific informants in securities fraud history.
- The art of wearing a wire, maintaining silence even among family and friends, and other struggles of an FBI informant.
- How Tom's work helped bring insider trading to the forefront of public attention and led to increased enforcement efforts by the government.
- What the public aftermath of cooperating with the FBI looks like — from risk of retaliation by former colleagues to social isolation, psychological distress, and legal ramifications.
- And much more...
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256: Malcolm Gladwell | What We Should Know about Talking to Strangers
Malcolm Gladwell (@gladwell) has written bestsellers that are probably on your shelf right now, including The Tipping Point, Blink, Outliers, and What the Dog Saw. His latest book is Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know about the People We Don't Know.
What We Discuss with Malcolm Gladwell:
- Why, if we don't know how to talk to strangers, we invite conflict and misunderstanding in ways that have a profound effect on our lives and our world.
- Why the information we gather from face-to-face human interaction isn't as uniquely valuable as we think it is.
- Why television makes us worse at reading other people.
- Why we think we can tell if someone is lying, guilty, or deceptive -- and why we're almost always wrong.
- What determines the direction of Malcolm's projects, and how he researches and organizes the massive amount of information that goes into them.
- And much more...
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365: Benjamin Hardy | How to Break Free from Self-Limiting Beliefs
Benjamin Hardy (@BenjaminPHardy) is an organizational psychologist and author of Willpower Doesn't Work: Discover the Hidden Keys to Success and Personality Isn't Permanent: Break Free from Self-Limiting Beliefs and Rewrite Your Story.
What We Discuss with Benjamin Hardy:
- Why treating the results of a "scientific" personality test like Myers & Briggs or Enneagram as gospel is akin to trusting horoscopes to safely guide your life decisions -- inaccurate and potentially dangerous.
- Hear the story about how Benjamin and his wife almost didn't get married because a personality test indicated they weren't an ideal match.
- What looking back at the person you were 10 or 20 years ago should reveal about personality as an unfixed, malleable quality.
- Why categorizing yourself or accepting labels leads to a tunnel vision of mindlessness that tends to accentuate the negative qualities you believe yourself to have.
- You're always a work in progress -- you're never "finished." The person you'll be in 10 years may well be as different as you are from the person you were 10 years ago. So who do you want the future you to be?
- And much more...
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705: Gabe’s Front-Row Seat to Florid Psychosis | Feedback Friday
On this Feedback Friday, Gabe relays the tragic story of a paranoid schizophrenic neighbor that illustrates just how destabilizing unchecked mental illness can be for family members, friends, neighbors, and the patients themselves.
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
- Gabe relays the tragic story of a paranoid schizophrenic neighbor that illustrates just how destabilizing unchecked mental illness can be for family members, friends, neighbors, and the patients themselves.
- In spite of having a dream job and a significant other who checks most of your boxes, current circumstances make imagining a future in your native Russia difficult. Unfortunately, this significant other comes from a conservative family and doesn't understand why you'd ever want to move abroad. Are your differences too radical to build a life together?
- Your boss is an incredible leader who commands respect across the board. Unfortunately, a family tragedy has overwhelmed her with grief. How can your team offer support without intruding on her personal life?
- Your significant other is great in every respect -- except for when he gets in a "mood" and resorts to calling you names and putting you down. Where do you draw the line on verbal abuse?
- Is it possible to profit from selling your business idea when you don't have the financial means to create your own startup around that idea?
- Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
- Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.
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956: Cannabis | Skeptical Sunday
What are the social, political, and medical ramifications of cannabis use? Michael Regilio is the Chong to Jordan's Cheech on this Skeptical Sunday!
On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:
- The historical use of cannabis in the Middle Ages and colonial times.
- The criminalization of cannabis in the 20th century and the slow reversal of its prohibition.
- The effects of THC and CBD.
- Why modern cannabis is so much more potent than the strains our parents used to sneak.
- The benefits of legal cannabis.
- Connect with Jordan on Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!
- Connect with Michael Regilio at Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube, and make sure to check out the Michael Regilio Plagues Well With Others podcast here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts!
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