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    #196: The Science of Self-Motivation and Productivity

    enApril 27, 2016
    What key concept distinguishes productivity from efficiency?
    How can self-motivation affect our productivity?
    What percentage of our day involves automatic behaviors?
    What is one method to improve self-motivation?
    How does Charles Duhigg's book relate to productivity?

    Podcast Summary

    • Understanding the Science of ProductivityFocusing on the science of productivity can help us make effective decisions, reach our goals with less stress, and be more in control of our lives.

      Productivity is not just about being efficient or getting things done quickly. It's about understanding how our brains work and making effective decisions to reach our goals with the least amount of stress and waste. Charles Duhigg, in his new book "Smarter, Faster, Better," explores the science of productivity and shares practical insights on self-motivation, setting effective goals, and using to-do lists more efficiently. He distinguishes between the automatic behaviors that make up around 40-45% of our day and the decisions we make in the other 50-60% of our day. By focusing on the science of productivity, we can empower ourselves to be more productive and in control of our lives. Listen to the podcast for more insights from Charles Duhigg on this topic.

    • Identifying goals and structuring life for productivityFeeling a sense of control triggers self-motivation, apply this to everyday tasks for productivity gains

      Productivity is not just about doing things faster, but rather about doing them smarter. The most productive people identify their deepest goals and structure their lives to achieve them. Smarter Faster Better, like The Power of Habit, delves into research to provide practical solutions for increasing productivity. One key finding is that self-motivation is most easily triggered when we feel a sense of control. This can be applied to everyday tasks, such as responding to emails, by creating choices that make us feel in control. This research-backed approach offers a more effective and sustainable path to productivity than simply trying to do more in less time.

    • Assert control and find meaning in daily tasksAsserting preferences and making choices in small tasks can trigger self-motivation. For larger tasks, connecting them to a bigger, more meaningful goal can help find meaning and stay motivated.

      Taking control of small tasks and finding meaning in them can significantly improve motivation and productivity. According to the speaker, when faced with a seemingly mundane task like responding to emails, instead of just replying, try asserting your preferences and making choices. This simple act can trigger self-motivation and make the task feel less like a chore. However, for larger tasks that require more motivation, connecting them to a bigger, more meaningful goal can be even more effective. The speaker shares an example of a cancer researcher who hated grading students' papers but motivated himself by reminding himself that the tuition fees from the students would fund his research. By focusing on the bigger picture, the researcher was able to find meaning in the task and stay motivated. Overall, the key takeaway is to find ways to assert control and create meaning in your daily tasks to boost motivation and productivity.

    • Motivation as a SkillMotivation is a skill that can be learned and strengthened by connecting tasks to deeper goals, pushing through challenges, and practicing self-motivation techniques.

      Motivation is not an ephemeral feeling that comes and goes, but a skill that can be developed and strengthened over time. According to the discussion, self-motivation is crucial in today's economy where many people work independently or creatively, requiring them to take charge of their projects and goals. By reminding ourselves of the deeper meaning and significance behind our tasks, we can find the motivation to push through challenges and stay focused. The US Marines have even built their boot camp around teaching self-motivation through practice and repetition. So, to summarize, motivation is a skill that can be learned and strengthened, and connecting our tasks to our deeper goals can help us find the enthusiasm and drive to succeed.

    • The paradox of distraction-reducing toolsDespite tools designed to save time and focus, they can lead to more distractions. Build mental models, visualize goals, and set specific daily targets to strengthen focus.

      While we have an abundance of tools designed to save time and increase focus, they can paradoxically lead to more distractions. Our brains tend to become reactive when surrounded by automation, making it easier to get sidetracked. The most productive people build robust mental models, allowing them to focus on what they anticipate and filter out irrelevant distractions. Practicing visualization and setting specific daily goals are effective ways to strengthen mental models and enhance focus. The tragic story of two airplane disasters illustrates the importance of mental focus and control in managing attention.

    • Visualize your day for focus and productivityCreating a mental model of your day helps you stay focused and productive by visualizing goals, anticipating distractions, and deciding how to respond.

      Having a clear mental model or mental script of how you want your day to unfold can help you stay focused and productive. This practice involves visualizing your goals for the day, anticipating potential distractions, and deciding in advance how to respond. By creating a mental model, you give your brain a script to follow, allowing you to make intentional choices about what to focus on rather than reacting to every distraction. Mental models aren't inflexible, but they do provide a useful framework for managing your attention and energy. Goal setting is an important aspect of this process, but setting overly specific goals can limit your flexibility and creativity. Instead, consider developing a more holistic mental model that allows for adjustments as needed. This approach can help you stay focused on your priorities while remaining adaptable to the unexpected. The Uda Loop, a mental model developed by Air Force Colonel John Boyd, is an effective tool for building mental models and making quick decisions under pressure. By constantly refining your mental models, you can improve your ability to focus, prioritize, and adapt to changing circumstances.

    • Setting Priorities with Stretch Goals and To-Do ListsWrite down stretch goals & smart goals, break down goals into actionable steps, prioritize tasks, rewrite to-do list daily

      Setting smart goals is essential for productivity, but it's also important to have a stretch goal - a bigger ambition - to keep yourself motivated. To-do lists can help you prioritize and stay focused on both your smart goals and your stretch goals. However, many people use to-do lists only as a mood repair tool, focusing on easy tasks rather than important ones. To use to-do lists effectively, write down your stretch goal at the top of the list and break down your smart goals into actionable steps. Then, rewrite your to-do list every morning to remind yourself of your priorities and help you stay focused on your biggest goal.

    • Evaluate goals and priorities regularlyRegularly reflect on goals and priorities to ensure alignment with current situation and needs, counteracting the brain's tendency to multitask and seek distractions.

      It's essential to regularly evaluate whether our goals and priorities align with our current situation and needs. The human brain is wired to multitask and seek distractions, making it easy to get caught up in being busy rather than being productive. The example of the Yankapur War illustrates the dangers of becoming too focused on productivity goals and ignoring crucial evidence. To counteract this, it's vital to create systems that encourage reflection and force us to think critically about our actions. Our brains may enjoy multitasking and feeling busy, but the most productive people make time for deliberate thinking to ensure they're focusing on what truly matters.

    • The Tension Between Productivity and EfficiencySuccessful individuals prioritize productivity over efficiency, engaging in practices that may not be immediate time-savers but lead to better decision-making, effective systems, less stress, and improved self-motivation.

      Productive individuals focus not only on being efficient but also on being productive in the long run. They engage in practices that may not be efficient in the moment, such as debating with friends or contemplating multiple outcomes, but these practices help them make better decisions and build effective systems. These habits, while not always easy, lead to less stress, improved self-motivation, and the ability to ignore distractions. As Charlie Munger and Warren Buffett demonstrate, the most successful people understand the tension between productivity and efficiency and prioritize the former, even when it means taking a step back to think more deeply. The author, who wrote a book on productivity, continues to implement these techniques and acknowledges the ongoing struggle to maintain focus and thoughtfulness in decision-making.

    • Embracing thoughtfulness for productivityRegularly ask important questions, focus on goals, use contemplative routines, and stay engaged in the thought process for productivity growth

      Productivity is not just about being less busy, but more thoughtful. Embracing this mindset involves regularly asking oneself important questions and focusing on goals. Contemplative routines, such as those discussed in Charles Duhigg's book "Smarter, Faster, Better," can help push us to think and make intentional choices. These routines become habitual, but it's essential to remember that we can't let the habit take over completely. Instead, we must continue to engage in the thought process and adapt as needed. To learn more about Duhigg's work and productivity strategies, visit his website or purchase the book. Remember, being productive is an ongoing process that requires intentionality and a commitment to growth.

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    As you learn and lean on God, that causes you to become more vulnerable with Him. You grow in your intimacy with God. Which in turn, increases the level of trust.

    It's a two-way street with God. He will guide you and protect you; provide and love you. All He asks is that you step out in faith.

    "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths." ~ Proverbs 3:5-6

    Think about all you are trying to accomplish in your life.

    You can't do it all alone.

    So the question is, in what you are wanting to do in your life, are you leaning on God?

    Are you listening to where He is guiding you?

    The K.I.S.S. ~ Step Out in Faith!!

    Because if you are, there will be times you don't logically understand what's happening and you will have to step out in faith.

    "Ready your heart constantly leaning upon God."

    "Don't let the worries of this world hold you back. Step out in faith. One step at a time leads to miles of greatness."

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    "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

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    http://bit.ly/9amHabits

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    772 One Word that Limits Your Success

    772 One Word that Limits Your Success

    There's one word that limits your success and you don't realize how much you say it.

    Words have power. And when spoken by you, the power is magnified.

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    "Wise speech is rarer and more valuable than gold and rubies." ~ Proverbs 20:15 

    What word are you using that is crushing you daily?

    "Gentle words bring life and health; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit." ~ Proverbs 15:4

    So let's play a game! How many times do I say this word or a variety thereof?

    Could this one word be limiting your success?

    "Kind words are like honey - sweet to the soul and healthy for the body." ~ Proverbs 16:24

    But if they're not kind, then they cut you to the core. Slowly over time, you are limiting your success.

    In a study done by Oxford Online, whose associated with the Oxford English Dictionary, they found the most 100 common English words used in writing around the world. (And there's over 2 billion words!)

    The word we are talking about ended up at #56 and #13! It's NO and NOT!!!!

    What can you do to remove the one word that limits your success?

    The K.I.S.S. ~ Change your sentence structure!

    1. Remove the NO or NOT in your sentences. Leave the negative behind and think positively.
    2. Structure with statements of what you are doing or accomplishing.
    3. Utilize action to move yourself forward.

    "God is not keeping track of your NOs and NOTs, but you are. When you're keeping score that one word limits your success."

    "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"

    Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.

     

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    Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.

    https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/

    http://bit.ly/9amHabits

    https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3

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    692 Do I Measure Up?

    692 Do I Measure Up?

    Days can be so tough not only on us, but our children. As we gathered in the kitchen, a sweet voice uttered, "Do I measure up?"

    Goodness gracious! Did a child just ask that question? YES!! It was a sweet little pip squeak, one of mine.

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    For a child to ask that question left me gulping, trying to compose myself as how to respond. I wasn't the only one in the room, but with the excitement of the holidays and all the family about, not many people heard. Or should I say the adults didn't hear.

    Shouldn't children be playing, growing, and learning? The measuring shouldn't come till much later, if at all. Comparison 101 trap in motion.

    "The measure of who we are is what we do with what we have." ~ Vince Lombardi

    Easier said than done. We measure who we are to how we perform against others. Now healthy competition is a good thing. But when our thoughts are obsessed by how we "measure up", we're taking it too far! It becomes unhealthy.

    "The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

    Where do you stand? Do you measure yourself against others? Do you measure yourself through God's eyes? Do you measure up?

    "Know that a person is not justified by the works of the law, but by faith in Jesus Christ. So we, too, have put our faith in Christ Jesus that we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by the works of the law, because by the works of the law no one will be justified." ~ Galatians 2:16

    When faced with the question, "Do I measure up?", how do you respond?

    The K.I.S.S. ~ Ask the 2x2!

    1. What am I measuring?
    2. Who am I measure it for?

    You are perfection in God's eyes, because He sees you through Jesus. 

    Be Present. Be Incredible. Be YOU!!!

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    Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube.

    Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don't know what you need)? It's time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life's purpose.

     

    ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series!

     

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    Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.

    https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/

    http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/

    http://bit.ly/9amHabits

    https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3

    sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/

     

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    Cover Art by Jenny Hamson