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    21: "For my story, I get to be the one that writes it." (ft. Elena Aguilar)

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    About this Episode

    Join guest Elena Aguilar for a discussion of making love through creating resilience. Elena is a renown author and educational coach who has trained thousands of educators across America. She has studied and distilled the critical habits and behaviors of resilience people(s) and shares her insight with us in this episode.

     

    Learn more about Elena, her books, and get the shownotes from today's conversation at: www.laurabrewer.love/episode21

     

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