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    262: Tip "T.I." Harris | ExpediTIously Expressive

    en-usOctober 10, 2019
    What are the benefits of turning a home into Airbnb?
    How did Jen and the speaker create a welcoming atmosphere?
    What past experiences influenced the speaker's perspective on community service?
    How can effective parenting instill values of hard work?
    What role does a podcast play in guiding young people?

    Podcast Summary

    • Sharing your home on Airbnb brings unique experiences and incomeTurning your home into an Airbnb allows you to connect with people from diverse backgrounds, share your space, and make a difference in their lives while earning extra income.

      Turning your home into an Airbnb not only brings in extra income, but it also allows you to share your unique space and hospitality with travelers from around the world. Jen and the speaker on this episode did just that, incorporating personal touches and creating a welcoming atmosphere for their guests. This not only enriches their own lives by allowing them to connect with people from diverse backgrounds, but also allows them to make a difference in the lives of their guests by providing them with a comfortable and memorable stay. The speaker's past experiences, including his time as a rap artist, added depth and intrigue to the conversation, highlighting the importance of finding balance between personal growth and community service.

    • Staying true to oneself in a changing worldAuthenticity and moderation are crucial in relationships and possessions. Embrace cultural shifts, but stay true to personal values and purpose.

      Authenticity and moderation are key in building relationships and living life, even in the face of material wealth and cultural shifts. The speaker shares his perspective on hip hop culture, acknowledging its evolution and the importance of both truth and entertainment. He emphasizes the value of authenticity in relationships and material possessions, and the importance of understanding one's own values and boundaries. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of having a purpose and a positive return on investment for those around us. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of staying true to oneself while navigating the complexities of life and culture.

    • Reflecting on his past and growth before turning 40Despite a challenging upbringing and past experiences, the speaker values them and plans to make his 40th birthday extravagant, while appreciating being appreciated for who he is, not just for success or fame.

      The speaker, despite having a challenging upbringing and past experiences, has turned his circumstances into opportunities and values the experiences that shaped him. He is planning a low-key 39th birthday but intends to make his 40th extravagant. The speaker also appreciates being appreciated for who he is and not just for his success or fame. He reflects on his past, acknowledging that he was a product of his environment during the war on drugs era, but he is not a victim. He is a survivor and a refugee from that time in his life. The speaker's humility and introspection before his 40th birthday show his growth and maturity.

    • The complexities of public image and redemptionAuthenticity and transparency matter, but external influences can lead to questionable decisions. Redemption is possible through growth and community involvement.

      Authenticity and transparency are valuable in building a positive public image, but external circumstances and influences can sometimes lead individuals into making questionable decisions. The speaker's experience of being judged for his actions during a difficult period in his life highlights the importance of considering the full context before making assumptions. Additionally, the speaker's determination to complete community service as part of a plea deal and his continued involvement in civic life demonstrate the potential for redemption and growth. The anecdote also sheds light on the complexities of the criminal justice system and the potential for misinformation and sensationalism in media reporting. Overall, the discussion underscores the importance of empathy, understanding, and context in evaluating people and situations.

    • Maintaining love and respect despite disagreementsTI emphasizes the importance of seeing people's potential for good and standing up for what's right, drawing from his past experiences of determination and entrepreneurship.

      TI, despite having disagreements and strong words exchanged with someone close to him, still maintains love and respect for that person. He believes that everyone has the potential to use their abilities for good, rather than covering for inaccuracies or harmful intentions. TI also emphasizes the importance of standing up for what is right and being on the right side of history, rather than just focusing on personal gains or benefits. He shares his past experiences of growing up in a challenging environment and how he had plans to sell drugs until he could earn the opportunity to become a musician. Despite these challenges, he remained determined and entrepreneurial, selling candy as a young boy and finding inspiration from artists like LL Cool J and NWA.

    • From poverty to drugs and back to musicGrowing up in poverty can lead to risky financial choices, but having a supportive network and a clear goal can help turn things around.

      The speaker's experience of growing up in poverty and struggling to make ends meet led him to explore various ways to earn money, including selling candy and eventually getting involved in the drug trade. The profit margins he saw in the drug trade were appealing, and he became deeply entrenched in criminal activities. However, when he found out his girlfriend was pregnant, he made a decision to turn his life around and focus on building a career in music instead. His team, who had been supporting him, intervened and encouraged him to stay committed to his music aspirations and avoid the dangerous path he was on. This experience highlights the cycle of poverty and the allure of quick money, as well as the importance of support systems and second chances.

    • Unexpected opportunity leads to successStaying focused on goals and being ready to capitalize on opportunities can lead to unexpected success

      Determination and seizing opportunities can lead to success, even in unexpected places. The speaker, despite selling drugs and being surrounded by distractions, had a clear vision of his future and practiced his rapping skills whenever he could. One day, his friend Jason took him to a nearby studio where he unexpectedly met music industry professionals looking for new talent. The speaker impressed them with his rapping ability and was offered a record deal on the spot. Even while serving prison time, he continued to pursue his music career and released an album. This story highlights the importance of staying focused on your goals and being ready to capitalize on opportunities when they arise.

    • Despite legal challenges, T.I. remains a prolific artist with endless ideasT.I. writes songs in his sleep, records them immediately, and prioritizes his creative output despite having seven children and facing legal challenges.

      T.I., despite facing legal challenges and even filming an unauthorized music video while on work release from prison, remains a prolific and dedicated artist. He shared that he has an endless supply of ideas and aspirations, which drives him to work tirelessly. T.I. explained that he often writes songs in his sleep and records them immediately if he intends to remember them. His engineer, who lived with him during house arrest, would help him sift through tracks from producers to find the best fit for his music. Despite having seven children, T.I. doesn't feel overwhelmed and continues to prioritize his creative output.

    • Recognizing each child's unique role and individualitySuccessful rapper TI shares how staying true to past mistakes, maintaining authenticity, and having faith and hustle helped him turn his life around and become a good parent and artist despite past challenges

      TI, a successful rapper and father of seven, emphasizes the importance of recognizing each child's unique role and individuality within a family. He shared a personal story about how he turned his life around when he found out his oldest son was on the way, despite being on probation and working a minimum wage job at the airport. TI highlighted the significance of staying true to one's past and using it as a teaching tool for children. He also acknowledged the challenge of balancing being a good role model, staying relevant in the rap industry, and maintaining honesty with his kids about his past mistakes. Through his experiences, TI emphasized the importance of authenticity, faith, and hustle in overcoming adversity and becoming a successful parent and artist.

    • The speaker's upbringing shaped his values and choices, including his decision to abstain from pork and his commitment to giving back to his community.The speaker's experiences, including his uncle's influence and a lesson about financial responsibility, taught him to stay grounded and prioritize giving back to his community despite his success.

      The speaker's upbringing and experiences played a significant role in shaping his values and choices, including his decision to abstain from eating pork and his commitment to giving back to his community. The speaker's uncle, who was in prison for 10 years, introduced him to Islam and influenced him to give up pork. The speaker also learned to stand up for himself and prioritize his beliefs from a young age, even when it meant going against the norms of his community. Later in life, when the speaker became successful, he was reminded of his roots and felt an obligation to give back to his neighborhood. He shared an example of giving his uncle a large sum of money, which he later regretted, but it taught him a valuable lesson about financial responsibility. These experiences kept him grounded and focused, and he continued to prioritize his community even as he achieved success.

    • Redemption and community building from unexpected placesUnexpected experiences, even past mistakes, can lead to redemption and a desire to give back to the community. Historical instances of prosperous black communities being attacked and having their property taken away underscore the importance of preserving and building upon hard-earned gains.

      Redemption and community building can come from unexpected places, even from past mistakes or difficult circumstances. The speaker shares his experience of using money earned from selling drugs to buy and renovate a house, and then selling it to a family, which gave him a sense of redemption and the desire to give back to his community. He also highlights historical instances where black communities, such as Tulsa's Black Wall Street, were prosperous but faced attacks and had their property taken away, leaving them to start over. These experiences demonstrate the importance of preserving and building upon hard-earned gains and the resilience needed to overcome adversity. It's not about wanting handouts but rather the opportunity to thrive and create lasting prosperity.

    • Historical systemic issues impacting progress and stability of certain communitiesAcknowledge past issues, utilize all abilities, and foster healthy discussions to make an impact.

      Systemic issues have historically undercut the progress and stability of certain communities, leading to cycles of dependency and recidivism. This was highlighted in the discussion regarding the impact of welfare policies in the 1970s and 80s on the African American community. The speaker also emphasized the importance of recognizing the multifaceted talents and contributions of individuals, as they may extend beyond their primary field, and the need to engage in open dialogue to push culture forward. Therefore, staying relevant and making an impact requires acknowledging the past, utilizing all of one's abilities, and fostering healthy discussions.

    • Teaching children the value of hard work and independenceEffective parenting involves setting an example and encouraging self-sufficiency through various approaches, such as denying desirable possessions or allowing children to earn their own cars.

      Effective parenting involves teaching children the value of hard work and independence. The speaker shares his personal experience of using different approaches to instill these values in his children, from denying them desirable possessions to allowing them to earn their own cars. He emphasizes the importance of setting an example and encouraging self-sufficiency. Additionally, the speaker expresses his belief in the value of a podcast as a platform to help guide young people through their own journeys, sharing insights and experiences to help them avoid obstacles and reach their goals more efficiently.

    • The importance of networking and relationship developmentEarly networking skills contributed to Jordan Harbinger's success. His free 6-minute networking course at jordanharbinger.com/course teaches effective systems and habits for building strong connections. Don't procrastinate on relationship building, as it's crucial to have a solid network when needed.

      Learning from this conversation with TI is the importance of networking and relationship development. Jordan Harbinger emphasizes that learning these skills early on was a major contributor to his own success. He's offering a free 6-minute networking course at jordanharbinger.com/course to help others build strong connections. The course teaches systems and tiny habits for effective networking. Harbinger encourages listeners not to procrastinate in building relationships, as it's essential to have a solid network when you need it. He also mentions that most of his show's guests subscribe to the course and newsletter. For more resources related to this episode, including show notes and worksheets, visit jordanharbinger.com. Don't miss out on valuable connections – check out the free networking course today.

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    • How the FBI caught Tom — even when he thought he was playing "smart" — and got him to become Tipper X, one of the most prolific informants in securities fraud history.
    • The art of wearing a wire, maintaining silence even among family and friends, and other struggles of an FBI informant.
    • How Tom's work helped bring insider trading to the forefront of public attention and led to increased enforcement efforts by the government.
    • What the public aftermath of cooperating with the FBI looks like — from risk of retaliation by former colleagues to social isolation, psychological distress, and legal ramifications.
    • And much more...

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    256: Malcolm Gladwell | What We Should Know about Talking to Strangers

    256: Malcolm Gladwell | What We Should Know about Talking to Strangers

    Malcolm Gladwell (@gladwell) has written bestsellers that are probably on your shelf right now, including The Tipping Point, Blink, Outliers, and What the Dog Saw. His latest book is Talking to Strangers: What We Should Know about the People We Don't Know.

    What We Discuss with Malcolm Gladwell:

    • Why, if we don't know how to talk to strangers, we invite conflict and misunderstanding in ways that have a profound effect on our lives and our world.
    • Why the information we gather from face-to-face human interaction isn't as uniquely valuable as we think it is.
    • Why television makes us worse at reading other people.
    • Why we think we can tell if someone is lying, guilty, or deceptive -- and why we're almost always wrong.
    • What determines the direction of Malcolm's projects, and how he researches and organizes the massive amount of information that goes into them.
    • And much more...

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    365: Benjamin Hardy | How to Break Free from Self-Limiting Beliefs

    365: Benjamin Hardy | How to Break Free from Self-Limiting Beliefs

    Benjamin Hardy (@BenjaminPHardy) is an organizational psychologist and author of Willpower Doesn't Work: Discover the Hidden Keys to Success and Personality Isn't Permanent: Break Free from Self-Limiting Beliefs and Rewrite Your Story.

    What We Discuss with Benjamin Hardy:

    • Why treating the results of a "scientific" personality test like Myers & Briggs or Enneagram as gospel is akin to trusting horoscopes to safely guide your life decisions -- inaccurate and potentially dangerous.
    • Hear the story about how Benjamin and his wife almost didn't get married because a personality test indicated they weren't an ideal match.
    • What looking back at the person you were 10 or 20 years ago should reveal about personality as an unfixed, malleable quality.
    • Why categorizing yourself or accepting labels leads to a tunnel vision of mindlessness that tends to accentuate the negative qualities you believe yourself to have.
    • You're always a work in progress -- you're never "finished." The person you'll be in 10 years may well be as different as you are from the person you were 10 years ago. So who do you want the future you to be?
    • And much more...

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    705: Gabe’s Front-Row Seat to Florid Psychosis | Feedback Friday

    705: Gabe’s Front-Row Seat to Florid Psychosis | Feedback Friday

    On this Feedback Friday, Gabe relays the tragic story of a paranoid schizophrenic neighbor that illustrates just how destabilizing unchecked mental illness can be for family members, friends, neighbors, and the patients themselves.

    And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

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    On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

    • Gabe relays the tragic story of a paranoid schizophrenic neighbor that illustrates just how destabilizing unchecked mental illness can be for family members, friends, neighbors, and the patients themselves.
    • In spite of having a dream job and a significant other who checks most of your boxes, current circumstances make imagining a future in your native Russia difficult. Unfortunately, this significant other comes from a conservative family and doesn't understand why you'd ever want to move abroad. Are your differences too radical to build a life together?
    • Your boss is an incredible leader who commands respect across the board. Unfortunately, a family tragedy has overwhelmed her with grief. How can your team offer support without intruding on her personal life?
    • Your significant other is great in every respect -- except for when he gets in a "mood" and resorts to calling you names and putting you down. Where do you draw the line on verbal abuse?
    • Is it possible to profit from selling your business idea when you don't have the financial means to create your own startup around that idea?
    • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
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    • Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

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    956: Cannabis | Skeptical Sunday

    956: Cannabis | Skeptical Sunday

    What are the social, political, and medical ramifications of cannabis use? Michael Regilio is the Chong to Jordan's Cheech on this Skeptical Sunday!

    On This Week's Skeptical Sunday, We Discuss:

    • The historical use of cannabis in the Middle Ages and colonial times.
    • The criminalization of cannabis in the 20th century and the slow reversal of its prohibition.
    • The effects of THC and CBD.
    • Why modern cannabis is so much more potent than the strains our parents used to sneak.
    • The benefits of legal cannabis.
    • Connect with Jordan on Twitter, Instagram, and YouTube. If you have something you'd like us to tackle here on Skeptical Sunday, drop Jordan a line at jordan@jordanharbinger.com and let him know!
    • Connect with Michael Regilio at TwitterInstagram, and YouTube, and make sure to check out the Michael Regilio Plagues Well With Others podcast here or wherever you enjoy listening to fine podcasts!

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