3 Things to Succeed in a New Environment - #139

It's 7:58 AM so I have not gotten the fully edited interview out yet but the episode is out by 8 AM EST all the same. :)

I'm going to get some writing done, a quick walk, and a cold shower and then I am going to get this fully edited.

Give me until 10 AM at the latest.

Okay, it took me a little bit longer. I got it out right around 12:10 PM, so, 4 hours and 10 minutes late. But I am SO pumped this is out now. :)

In any case, I hope you enjoy my interview with my cousin, Noah Clark.

He joined me in Episode 307 back in April 2023, and he starts his 2-year mission today.

I'm going to feature him in the YIELD Deeply Newsletter for this week as well.

Love ya Noah!!

More From Noah:

307 - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/savor-the-moment-307/id1478505549?i=1000607793647

More From Me:

 My Weekly Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/

"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book!) -  https://amzn.to/3NCXtui

Podcast YouTube Channel (For Highlights, Cool Shorts, and More!): https://www.youtube.com/@yieldtodaypodcast

Resources Mentioned:

"Leadership and Self-Deception" - https://amzn.to/3Ix8iv6

Note: This was recorded on February 12, 2024

Time Stamps:

7:52 - The Need to Expose Ourselves to Discomfort
8:51 - The Power of Love in Reaching  Out to People
9:30 - When Things Started to Change for Noah
11:37 - Changing Up the Script
17:00 - Seeing Others as Children of God
12:30 - Love is Persuasive When it Needs to be
13:55 - Having Initiative
17:43 - God's Wisdom is WAY Greater Than the Devil
24:00 - Noah's Experience at 16 in NYC Reaching out to Someone
25:00 - Noah's Mindset for Strategizing His Life
30:22 - Why You Need to Have a Strategy
31:30 - Being Willing to Adapt
33:30 - Noah's Advice for Future Noah
35:30 - Calculating Your Risks

Quotes:

"There's no comfort in the growth zone, and no growth in the comfort zone."

"When you are comfortable with yourself then you can go with anyone, anywhere, anytime." - Dallin Candland

"You know that God is supporting you in this action, you know that He loves you and sees you, and you know that you're able to do the thing - so do the thing!" - Dallin Candland

"I have to adapt, and I have to adapt fast, or else I am going to just get swept away by the river and by the wind." - Noah Clark

25:12 - "Every time you lose, you need to go back and learn, because something happened, and that's why you lost." -  Noah Clark

26:38 - "To be in business you have to understand the game of business to be able to strategize in that."

Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!

Jared is one of the brains behind The Missionary Box, a subscription service that helps people send care packages to missionaries. But that's just the beginning for Jared. In this special conversation that almost was never uploaded, we dive into trusting God, lifting up others, and spiritual momentum.

More From Jared

Jared's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@heyitsjaredbender
Jared's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyitsjaredbender/
Jared's Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-missionary-box-podcast/id1656876330

More From Me:

 My Weekly Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/

"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book!) -  https://amzn.to/3NCXtui

Podcast YouTube Channel (For Highlights, Cool Shorts, and More!): https://www.youtube.com/@yieldtodaypodcast

Resources Mentioned:

"How to Win Friends and Influence People" - https://amzn.to/3Pb47J9

"The Power of Spiritual Momentum" by Russell Nelson - https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/general-conference/2022/04/47nelson?lang=eng

Jamal's Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/photoswithjamal/

2 Nephi 2 from The Book of Mormon - https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/scriptures/bofm/2-ne/2?lang=eng

Note: This was recorded back in December 2022

Jared was getting married in March so this is being uploaded a year late! Haha but with God things are always on time. ;)

Note 2: If you heard this episode within the first 10 hours of it being live

Time Stamps:

2:00 - Parents Helping us Explore Our Curiousities
3:40 - Jared Explains Self-Efficacy - ability to stay on track to reach goals
5:00 - Thinking of Raising Children as a Stewardship
7:30 - Living as a Missionary DEEP Into the Pandemic
8:23 - "Prank-Calling for Jesus"
9:30 - Adjusting to being back home after a mission
11:30 - Building up momentum and learning from that
12:00 - The Power of Spiritual Momentum Talk from Russell Nelson
13:30 - Getting Virtuous Cycles Going in Our Lives
14:50 - Breaking Down my 5:39 Mile
16:09 - Jared Being Able to Use His Camera Equipment on His Mission
18:15 - Right Before My Last Day Working at DI
19:10 - Jared's YouTube Creator Journey
22:05 - His Upcoming Marriage and Launching Missionary Box
25:35 - Families Communicating With Missionaries on Their Missions
26:28 - The Butterfly Effect Explained
28:43 - Getting Subscriptions That Help You
37:00 - Everything in My Life is Changing

Quotes:

4:21- "There are no things to be long-term worried about."
8:30 - "I Learned a LOT of grit on my mission which I'm really grateful for."
9:12 - "A mission attacks your biggest insecurities to make you stronger."
16:37 - "We've got a team, we've got a system, let's PUMP OUT content!"
19:20 - "If you consume too much and not create enough - you feel gross."
31:40 - "You can't fail when you are doing something that helps people feel happy."
44:24 - "I've spend so much time in the scriptures and it's still nowhere close to enough  (I'll never be eno

Kelly was on YIELD Today back in 2021 and I had him back on to talk about things he's learned since then. We talked about consistency, helping people see the light, and the daily disciplines that lead to elite levels of growth.

More From Kelly:

Kelly's Website: https://bizprofitboost.com/

Kelly's Email:  drkel@bizprofitboost.com

"Define and Deliver Exceptional Customer Service" - https://amzn.to/3IkinLA

More From Me:

 My Weekly Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/

"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book!) -  https://amzn.to/3NCXtui

Podcast YouTube Channel (For Highlights, Cool Shorts, and More!): https://www.youtube.com/@yieldtodaypodcast

Related Episodes

#70 - Kelly - Adjusting Your Business Towards Success - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adjusting-your-business-towards-success-with-kelly/id1478505549?i=1000504415739

Note: This was recorded back in June 2023.

Resources Mentioned:

"The Last Dance" - https://amzn.to/3wtzB6A

Time Stamps:

2:00 - "Consistency is the key to life."
3:15 - We Need to be Consistently Improving
6:07 - Choose a Why and Then Build Around That
9:00 - Growing vs. Scaling a Business
10:00 - Bringing the Light of Truth and Freedom to Other People
12:00 - How Does Kelly Build His Coaching Business
15:00 - Creating a Good Customer Service Experience With Ourselves
17:10 - Hobbies That Give You Space
19:11 - Michael Jordan's Relentless Ongoing Battle for Improvement
22:50 - Course-Correcting to Help You Move Forward in Life

Quotes:

2:18 - "Simple things done consistently create major things in our lives." - Kelly Henry

12:20 - "Helping out my client base by extending my knowledge base." - Kelly Henry

12:52 - "Create the right thoughts which helps us create the right actions." - Kelly Henry

20:38 - "There is no failure there is only feedback." - Kelly Henry

Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!

I am starting to see some serious growth occur in my life. It is the result of surrendering to the process and letting my life build up momentum in all the ways I need to.

Learn from the process and you will get SO much to help you on the other side of it.

My Personal YouTube Channel (Over 263 Subscribers Right Now!)  - https://www.youtube.com/@dallincandland

Put Your Faith Above Your Emotions Short - https://youtube.com/shorts/nTAr59CWGQM?si=Iz3fyrXsb5SkDQRi

My Weekly Newsletter  - https://dallincandland.substack.com/

"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book) - https://amzn.to/3H69gNZ

Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!

Colin is helping SO many see fear for what it truly is - a chance to learn from yourself and rewrite your story. We dove DEEP into my fears, Colin's fears, and learning from fear itself. I'm so glad this episode is out, and I pray it is a blessing for you in living your best life. :)

More From Colin:

Colin's Private Coaching: https://colinkingsmill.com/
Colin's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/colin_kingsmill/

More From Me:

 My Weekly Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/

"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book!) -  https://amzn.to/3NCXtui

Podcast YouTube Channel (For Highlights, Cool Shorts, and More!): https://www.youtube.com/@yieldtodaypodcast

Resources Mentioned:

"The Myth of Normal" - Gabor Mate - https://amzn.to/3TgaA82

"Facing The Giants" Death Crawl Scene - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbW3avTBK1g

"Facing The Giants" Movie - https://amzn.to/4bYp5EU

Personal Development Mastery Podcast -

Mel Robbins

Sam Harris' Making Sense Podcast -

Aubrey Marcus

Note: This was recorded back in August 2023. I'll also say that I do not necessarily agree with everything that is said by my guests. The real goal with this podcast is to help people open up and encourage them to trust God and live their best lives.

Time Stamps:


8:00 - The Power of Coaches
11:00 - Waking up to Your Own Fear
14:33 - Being very intentional about reprogramming your brain
18:30 - Learning to Celebrate the Self and the Inner Child
19:50 - God Will Continue to Put Good Things in Your Life
22:18 - Deconstruct to Reconstruct
24:43 - My Story of Writing My Poem, "When I Look at Dallin" in Alaska
26:49 - The Two Stories You Can Change Right Now
31:24 - How Colin Structures His Day to Day Life
33:00 - Colin's Tripod of Life
35:50 - Changing Your View of Someone From Fear to Curiosity
38:00 - Next Steps for Building a Life Free From Fear
41:00 - Be in Your Own Place, Let Your Rituals Position You

Quotes:

2:30 - "Fear is not an expansive emotion."
4:44 - "The tiny steps of love will lead to those chains breaking."
12:20 - "A spark from a rock, right? In a millisecond, you decide to go up or down; you decide the storyline of the day in a very short timeframe."
22:50 - "You're allowed to clear the way. You're allowed to see life through clear lenses. You're allowed to have a new story."
25:20 - "When we give ourselves that space, there literally is no limit."
25:46 - "All of these things gave me space so I could eventually break free on my own."
28:21 - "That authenticity and that integrity is SO liberating, isn't it?"
29:30 - "When you do that, the new blessings will write themselves in."
35:00 - "Awareness is basically everything."
39:47 - "Forget about the conditioning that is no longer serving you."

Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!

We don't know what will happen, but God does. I got to talk with two of my friends, Darius and Fred and it was deep and very needed. This has a trigger warning but I am glad that Fred and Darius are here today to share their stories.

There are no resources from the guests today but please be kind to people.

More From Me:

 My Weekly Newsletter - https://dallincandland.substack.com/

"God is Trying to Talk to Me" (My First Poetry Book!) -  https://amzn.to/3NCXtui

Podcast YouTube Channel (For Highlights, Cool Shorts, and More!): https://www.youtube.com/@yieldtodaypodcast

Note: This was recorded back in November 2023. I'll also say that I do not necessarily agree with everything that is said by my guests. The real goal with this podcast is to help people open up and encourage them to trust God and live their best lives.

Time Stamps:

3:30 - Learning from the Classroom of Life
5:20 - God Always Comes Through
8:00 - Friendships Take Work
13:00 - How is God Guiding Fred Right Now?
34:00 - God Loves You and Knows What You're Going Through
35:30 - I'm Grateful You're Still Here
41:37 - Calling Out the Future
44:55 - If You Want to Talk to a Girl...
50:04 - If God Needs me to Say Something... I'll Say it
51:42 - Talking About 2026
54:46 - Talking About ADHD
1:02:15 - Stay Patient

Quotes:

35:45 - "Just take life a day at a time.

Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!

Tanya speaks encouragement and life to people and relationships that have been strained by addiction and other barriers to connection. She is the host of the Sober on Purpose Podcast. She was also diagnosed with ADHD with is SO neat because I have that as well.

Here, we talked about connecting with God, fighting the problem and not the person in relationship struggles, and being patient with yourself.

This episode was recorded a while ago, and I am SO glad it's out now! The best REALLY is yet to come. :)

More From Tanya:
 
Tanya's Website: https://www.tanyagioia.com/

Sober on Purpose Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sober-on-purpose-healing-families-of-addiction/id1438258805

Tanya's Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soberonpurpose

YouTube Version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7JUrmANduqA

Resources Mentioned:

"Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot" - Mo Isom - https://amzn.to/3T6wvOU

Time Stamps:

5:30 - ADHD is like Driving a Ferrari
6:51 - Patience with yourself as you are making new turns
11:30 - Making God part of Your Relationship
16:46 - Continuing to Give Our Struggles to God
18:45 - Fighting the Right Fight
30:30 - The Need to Cheer Yourself on

Quotes:

5:57 -  "God has given you the Ferrari to teach you how to drive." - Tanya Gioia

12:39 - "Marriage is worth it." - Tanya Gioia

15:51 - "God wants the very BEST for us on a level we don't understand." - Dallin Candland

17:03- "You're doing the best you can, you need to trust that God's got this and is going to take care of it." - Tanya's Son

19:13 - "When you focus on what is going right more of the right will appear." - Tanya Gioia

25:50 - "When I look for light in darkness that is only going to hurt me." - Dallin Candland

27:00 - "Isolation, going to things that are not going to provide light, and feeling so ashamed that you cannot ask for help are the things that perpetuate ANY addictive behavior. 

Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!

Scott and his wife have ten kids and enjoy talking about marriage and relationships. Scott is a speaker, author, and pastor. We talked about dating, break-ups, and knowing what you want in a spouse and in your life in general. This was a thrilling, DEEP conversation. I really hope this finds who it needs to find. :)

Scott's Website: https://www.scottlapierre.org/

Resources Mentioned:

"Created to Be His Help Meet" - https://amzn.to/3T3s0V5

YouTube Version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ps41FzhEzWI

Time Stamps:

1:15 - You Need to Know Yourself Before Making More Commitments
3:50 - How Does Scott's Wife Help Him Out With His Speaking and Stuff?
11:00 - How to Maintain Order in a House With Nine Kids?
12:20 - The Three Types of Men (from Debi Pearl's book)
15:40 - Raising Boys to be Men
17:36 - Setting up Priorities in Life
23:15 - Learning From Break-ups
27:00 - Knowing Your Essentials
34:00 - How You Treat Them Influences What They'll Become
38:30 - The Importance of Chemistry

Quotes:

10:17 "...You're looking at missed potential unless you can get a deeper partnership and relationship going and in place." - Dallin Candland

11:14 - "Typically any strength has an accompanying weakness."

25:17 - "When you know these things, and you go against that knowing it's only going to lead to sorrow and pain."

33:11 - "A Husband is generally going to live up  to or down to the bar you set for him." - Scott LaPierre

Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!

JJ Brun is a retired spy who built a business sharing some of the key lessons he learned on communication. We talked about some of the communication models that have helped him in relationships, interrogations, and spy missions.

JJ's Website: https://theretiredspy.com/

JJ's Ten Questions: https://theretiredspy.com/10questions/

Time Stamps:

2:00 - You Need a Model of Reference
5:30 - When Communication Breaks Down
8:28 - "Would it Be Okay?"
10:34 - Finding a Common Link, a Common Like, and a Common Love
12:12 - Pace and Priority Perspectives to Read Communication Styles
18:15 - "I'm Just Curious...." (Mindset for a First Date)
21:30 - In Teaching You Assimilate Information Quicker
22:30 - Everyone Has a Human Capital Waiting to be Discovered

Quote

"When we listen, we have to listen in silence."

"When we listen in silence, we can enlist a proper response to the other person."

"In every interaction we are either going to help complete or compete with the other person."

Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!

There are many things we can do now to make sure we leave behind the legacy we would like to. One of those ways is by writing letters to our kids and others who have made a meaninful impact on us. Jordan curates a collection of letters from people all over the world on their thoughts on building a truly wealthy life. We talked about that and also about Jordan's work in his day to day as a window washer.
 
Jordan's Newsletter: https://www.thewealthletters.com/

279 -  Listening to Souls and Building a Legacy ft. Danny Miranda: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/listening-to-souls-and-building-a-legacy-ft/id1478505549?i=1000597344100

Time Stamps:

3:22 - Aligning your words and actions
4:44 - The Hat of Life's Previous Experiences
5:23 - Eastern Thinking VS. Western Thinking
8:30 - Helping People See More Clearly
10:30 - Easing Stress Levels of People Through Your Work
14:40 - The Power of Writing Letters
20:00 - Purpose of The Wealth Letters
26:38 - Jordan's Experience Coaching Basketball
30:21 - Becoming More Present With Life


 Note: This podcast episode contains affiliate links. This means that when you click on one of the links, I receive a small commission. This helps me keep improving the content for you all. I am always digging to find the best of the best to help you. Of course, it's your choice, but I stand behind what I promote and hope it is helpful for you, too! Thanks for listening!