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    346: Did Coronavirus Kill My Relationship? | Feedback Friday

    en-usApril 30, 2020
    What are the benefits of transforming your home into an Airbnb?
    Who did Jen and Jason discuss transformation with in the podcast?
    What etiquette should one follow during virtual meetings?
    How can owning exceptional items inspire personal growth?
    Why is pursuing a PhD considered valuable for career advancement?

    Podcast Summary

    • Transforming Spaces and ExperiencesSharing your home on Airbnb brings income and cultural exchange. Personal touches make guests feel welcome. Exceptional items inspire us to push boundaries and achieve more.

      Transforming your home into an Airbnb not only brings in extra income but also allows you to share a piece of your world with travelers. Hosts like Jen and Jason, inspired by their travels, make their guests feel welcomed by adding personal touches. Meanwhile, owning exceptional items, like a high-performance vehicle, can inspire us to push our boundaries and achieve more. In the podcast episode, they discussed this concept with Jana Mendes, the former chief of disguise at the CIA, and Jim Kwik, a memory coach who overcame learning disabilities. They also shared practical advice on staying productive while working from home during the quarantine. Overall, the episode highlights the power of transformation and the inspiration that exceptional experiences and possessions can bring.

    • Stay alert during uncertain times, scammers are on the prowlBe cautious of unsolicited offers and suspect any sudden relationship changes during chaotic times, as scammers often exploit vulnerabilities.

      During times of uncertainty and chaos, scammers often emerge, preying on people's vulnerabilities. Be wary of unsolicited business mentorship offers, UPS shipping scams, and other online grifts. In the mailbag segment, a listener shares her heartbreak over her boyfriend's sudden breakup, which she suspects may have been due to her coronavirus symptoms. However, it's important to remember that using illness as an excuse to abandon a relationship is highly unusual. While it's possible that the boyfriend may have had other reasons for leaving, it's unlikely that the illness was the sole cause. Instead, focus on healing and moving forward. Remember, scammers thrive on chaos, so stay vigilant and keep your wits about you.

    • Navigating Relationships and Job Hunting in Tough TimesDuring stressful times, relationships can be fragile and unexpectedly end. Focus on healing and seeking support. In a tough job market, consider moving back home to save money and wait for economic recovery.

      During times of stress and uncertainty, relationships can be fragile and people may react in unexpected ways. Breakups can be the result of a build-up of issues or a seemingly small trigger. It's important to remember that it's not always a reflection of one's worth, and moving on and focusing on healing is crucial. For those going through a breakup, seeking therapy and connecting with loved ones can be helpful. Regarding job hunting in a tough market, it might be beneficial to consider temporarily moving back home to save money and reduce expenses. While cities offer opportunities and a larger network, the current crisis has an uncertain end date and being in a big city with limited opportunities can be financially burdensome. It's recommended to move home, continue learning, and wait for the economy to recover before returning to the city.

    • Negotiating Lower Rents and Fair Prices for Young EntrepreneursDuring economic downturns, renters can negotiate lower rents. Parents should help young entrepreneurs learn negotiation skills to secure fair prices for their services.

      This is an opportune time for renters to negotiate lower rent prices with their landlords due to the economic downturn caused by the pandemic. Landlords are more willing to negotiate to keep their units occupied rather than having empty properties. For parents with young children starting a business, it's essential to help them market their services and ensure they are not underpaid. Teaching them the importance of negotiation and business skills can help them secure fair prices. The speaker shares his personal experience of learning to negotiate at a young age and the importance of doing so to earn a fair wage. Overall, it's a great time for young entrepreneurs to start their businesses and learn valuable skills while also saving money by living with family.

    • Asking for referrals in a memorable wayMemorable requests to customers, saving contacts, negotiating prices, and learning from negative experiences can help young entrepreneurs build a successful business.

      Effective marketing strategies involve making memorable requests to customers. Using the example of a car cleaning business, asking customers for referrals in a unique and memorable way can help increase business. Saving the contact information of customers and having them save it with a specific name can make it easier for them to contact the business in the future. Negotiating prices and sticking to them is also important for young entrepreneurs to learn. Additionally, learning from negative experiences with customers is a valuable lesson. Overall, these strategies can help a young entrepreneur build a successful business.

    • Respecting Space in Complex RelationshipsAcknowledge past issues but respect others' healing process, and do personal work to avoid bringing baggage into new relationships. Reacclimate to work by preparing and communicating effectively.

      When facing a complex situation like a past relationship, it's important to respect the other person's space and healing process, while also acknowledging the potential impact of unresolved past issues on current relationships. The speaker shares her experience of having a strong connection with someone but dealing with their past baggage, and the uncertainty of whether they were truly not a match or if timing was the issue. The discussion emphasizes the importance of addressing past issues and doing personal work to avoid bringing them into new relationships. In the context of returning to work after paternity leave, the speaker asks for advice on reacclimating to the workload and thanking his boss and team. The discussion suggests being prepared to work hard and maintaining open communication with his team to catch up on any missed information.

    • Learn from experienced mentors and build a strong teamValue mentors' wisdom and team support, express gratitude creatively, focus on expertise, and maintain productivity with quiet workspace

      It's valuable to work with experienced mentors and build a strong team, even if they have more years of experience than you. When expressing gratitude, consider getting creative with remote gestures like sending donuts to their homes. After gaining a wide range of experiences, consider focusing on becoming world-class in one area or combining skills to become even more versatile. Remember, noise-cancelling headphones and a quiet workspace are essential for productivity, especially when juggling work and family responsibilities. Overall, trust in your abilities, enjoy the journey, and appreciate the support of your team.

    • Combine multiple skills for greater successFocusing on developing a unique mix of skills in various areas (skill stacking) can help individuals reach the top 25% in multiple skills, making them stand out from the competition and potentially leading to greater success.

      Instead of striving to become world-class in a single skill or area, it's more effective to focus on developing a unique mix of skills in multiple areas, a concept known as skill stacking. This approach can help individuals reach the top 25% in several skills, making them stand out from the competition and potentially leading to greater success. For instance, someone may not be the best cartoonist, humorist, businessperson, or marketer individually, but by combining these skills, they can excel in their field. Similarly, a podcast may not rank among the best in any one skill, such as audio engineering or interviewing, but the combination of various skills can lead to a successful show. Continuous learning and improvement in these areas can help individuals advance and stay competitive.

    • Combine skills for long-term success and relevanceDiversifying skills makes you a valuable asset and less susceptible to being replaced by technology or industry changes.

      It's more beneficial to combine skills and not focus solely on becoming world class in one area. The world is constantly evolving, and becoming an expert in an obsolete skill can leave you starting from scratch. Instead, having a diverse set of skills makes you a valuable asset in various industries and less susceptible to being put out of business. A good example of this is animation, where software is increasingly replacing hand-drawn cells. However, having additional skills like voice acting, scriptwriting, and managing a team can make you a desirable candidate for top animation houses. Additionally, pursuing a PhD can be an appealing prospect, but it's important to consider the practical applications and the level of commitment required. Ultimately, it's essential to be smart about the skills you acquire and the paths you choose to ensure long-term success and relevance in your career.

    • Considering the Value of a PhD for Personal Growth and Career AdvancementA PhD can offer personal growth, networking opportunities, and potentially higher earnings. The author is weighing the benefits against potential distractions and etiquette in virtual meetings.

      Pursuing a PhD can be a valuable investment for personal growth, networking opportunities, and potentially higher earning potential. The author, who has already made progress in her career, is considering a PhD for the added authority and potential benefits it could bring. The discussion also touches upon the distractions and etiquette of virtual meetings, suggesting muting yourself when not speaking and ensuring a clean background to avoid embarrassing situations. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the importance of continuous learning and professional development, whether through a PhD or other means.

    • A group's plan to sell a Soviet submarine to a Colombian cartelIndividuals involved in illegal activities can lead to dangerous and absurd situations, as seen in the documented case of Operation Odessa.

      A group of individuals got involved with drug cartels and came up with a plan to sell a Soviet submarine to a Colombian cartel for $35 million. This is part of a well-documented mess now known as Operation Odessa. The individuals involved in the scheme, including a Russian mobster, a Cuban spy, and a hustler from Miami, discussed their actions on camera. While the details are not presented through a narrator with photographic evidence from the FBI, it's implied that either the statute of limitations has run out or they've already been caught for their other crimes. This is just one example of the absolute madness that can occur when individuals get involved in illegal activities. If you find any bugs on the new jordanharbinger.com website, please report them to jordan@jordanharbinger.com for a chance to receive a 5-minute journal. Additionally, the Purple Heart program, which helps combat-wounded veterans learn hand tool skills and connect with others, was mentioned during the episode. For more information, check the show notes. Remember, sharing the show with others is a great way to lift each other up.

    • Explore flexible learning opportunities at UW and Capella UniversitiesBoth UW and Capella offer flexible learning options including certificates, degrees, courses, and specializations. UW applications are open, and learners can explore at pce.uw.edu. Capella provides personalized support, allowing learners to confidently pursue their goals.

      Both the University of Washington Professional and Continuing Education and Capella University offer flexible learning opportunities for individuals looking to update their skills or delve into new fields. At the University of Washington, students can choose from various certificates, degrees, courses, and specializations to help them reach their future selves. Applications are currently open, and learners can explore their options at pce.uw.edu. Capella University also provides personalized support to students, ensuring they have assistance from enrollment to graduation. This support allows learners to imagine their future differently and pursue their goals with confidence. Overall, these universities provide accessible and comprehensive educational paths to help individuals achieve their personal and professional goals.

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    • Life Pro Tip: When your ISP raises your bill, call in and say “cancel service” to the automated operator. You’ll be sent to their retention team. They will usually take $10-20 off your monthly bill for a year. I do this once a year with Comcast.
    • Recommendation of the Week: Why Not Home?
    • Quick shoutouts to Andrea Ott and Annie Chau!
    • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
    • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
    • Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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    5: Faux Gravitas Your Way to Success | Feedback Friday

    5: Faux Gravitas Your Way to Success | Feedback Friday

    Jordan (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason (@jpdef) are back to banter every week and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday on The Jordan Harbinger Show!

    If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

    On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

    • New beginnings! New excitement! New puppies! New levels of sleep deprivation!
    • Here's a trick to convey contemplation rather than grumpitude if you've got one of those resting faces.
    • How do you turn from a Fibbing Freddy into a Trustworthy Terry?
    • How do we prepare for a show? (If you're interested in the longer story, tell us!)
    • Do you like this show? Please tell your friends about it -- we're starting from scratch and need your help!
    • Why should a woman who has more in common with her boyfriend and his friends be forced to hang out with the girlfriend group at social occasions?
    • Sometimes people who are stuck in a rut don't even realize it. Is there a delicate way to tell them?
    • There's something to be said for having the confidence to make mistakes (or dress like a kangaroo at the bar) without being embarrassed.
    • Recommendation of the Week: Somm
    • Quick shoutouts to Rick Higgins, Eric Onesto, and George Taylor!
    • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
    • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger, and check out Jason's (@jpdef) other show: Grumpy Old Geeks. You can also find him on Instagram at JPD.

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    60: Todd Kashdan | The Bright Truth about Your Dark Side

    60: Todd Kashdan | The Bright Truth about Your Dark Side

    Todd Kashdan (@toddkashdan) is a Professor of Psychology and Senior Scientist at the Center for the Advancement of Well-Being at George Mason University and co-author of The Upside of Your Dark Side: Why Being Your Whole Self -- Not Just Your "Good" Self -- Drives Success and Fulfillment.

    What We Discuss with Todd Kashdan:

    • Why trying to be positive and happy all the time may be harming your ability to get things done and achieve the results you want.
    • How what you may think of as negative emotions -- like anger -- can be useful superpowers with the proper awareness and application.
    • The problem with living in a time and place when distraction from discomfort comes in an easier and greater variety than ever before.
    • Why every decision you make now is based on how you expect to feel in the future -- and you probably underestimate your ability to tolerate distress.
    • How you can use the discomfort caveat to ease out of the "put on a happy face" rut around others.
    • And much more...

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    110: Stop Financially Supporting Deadbeat Friends | Feedback Friday

    110: Stop Financially Supporting Deadbeat Friends | Feedback Friday

    Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!

    If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

    On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

    • How do you know if you're making progress and on track to a better and brighter future if you feel underqualified and inadequate about so much of your life? How can you measure your growth?
    • Sometimes you try so hard to help your loved ones with their issues that you forget to help yourself. Support is close if you know where to find it -- here's where we suggest looking.
    • How do you keep yourself from falling back into old, obsolete patterns of behavior whenever you visit your friends in your old hometown? Aren't you better than that now?
    • You've been on Facebook for 14 years and have never weeded out friends you've only spoken to once in that entire time. Now you're applying to a job and notice one of your obscure connections is VP of the company. Is it tacky to contact them?
    • If you genuinely love networking and meeting new people, you might feel bad about having to turn down lunch with some of them because you just don't have as much time as you used to (especially when they turn into sales pitches in disguise). How do you retreat from these invitations politely?
    • If you're proud of your political activism in college, does it do any harm to bring it up when you're looking for a new job?
    • Should you give up all the guaranteed benefits of your long-term government job to pursue a shaky future in the private sector that could result in more money and reemergence of happiness from that fire and drive you once had, but at a time cost and a possibility of being released or fired and losing those needed benefits for your family?
    • Since returning to your hometown as a successful attorney making the big bucks, one of your friends seems to think you should pay for everything you do together because you make more money. What do you do?
    • Recommendation of the Week: Jon Levy's What Makes Us Influential? TED Salon Talk
    • A quick shoutout to Renee in Montana!
    • Tank's Good News: Nike Signs First Runner with Cerebral Palsy
    • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
    • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
    • Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: <a href="http://podcastone.com/grumpy-old-geeks"...

    77: Feedback Friday | How to Build Good Financial Habits from the Ground Up

    77: Feedback Friday | How to Build Good Financial Habits from the Ground Up

    Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter every week and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday!

    If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!

    On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

    • If you're a lightweight, how can you pace yourself on a night out with heavily drinking coworkers without getting blackout drunk?
    • What resources do we recommend for building proper financial habits from the ground up?
    • How can you accept a new sales job that will have you directly competing with your old coworkers in a small market without feeling like a jerk?
    • If you're replaying negative feelings and thoughts of lost relationships in your head during moments of weakness in an otherwise fulfilling life, how might you break this habit and move on?
    • When you're dating someone of high value who gets a lot of attention from the opposite sex, how do you keep your feelings of jealousy at bay?
    • When you're the sole breadwinner for the family, how can you take time out for yourself to cope with internal struggles without disrupting the lives of your loved ones?
    • When you're the boss' kid, how do you prove to your coworkers that you consider yourself equal to everyone and capable of doing the job on your own merits?
    • How do you approach your competitors in a small market when doing market research?
    • Recommendation of the Week: How to get free Sunglass Hut cleaning spray refills for life.
    • Quick shoutouts to Diana and Zach!
    • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
    • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
    • Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

    Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider leaving your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!

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    Full show notes and resources can be found here.