# 52 Modern Dating and Sexuality: A Candid Dialogue with Hard Things Co-hosts

Ever felt like navigating modern dating is like trying to solve the world's most frustrating puzzle? Well, you're in luck! Our latest podcast brings the wisdom of expert dating coach Naomie to the table, as she guides Debbie through the winding paths of love in search of an authentic and devoted relationship. With Naomie's deep insights, we traverse the challenges and triumphs that come with seeking a truly meaningful connection, from the initial swipe right to establishing genuine companionship.

This heart-to-heart is brimming with strategies tailored for those ready to balance their personal standards with the art of being open and receptive in the digital age. Whether it's decoding the signals of a potential match or understanding when to let a partner take the lead, we cover it all. Naomie's sage advice is peppered with Debbie's real-world experiences, offering an invaluable look at the green flags that signal a promising connection and the red flags that may hint at emotional unavailability.

By the end of our candid conversation, we believe you'll feel empowered to navigate the nuanced world of dating with a new sense of clarity and optimism. Naomi's perspective on 'rejection as protection' provides a refreshing take on the ups and downs of courtship, and we invite you to absorb our reflections on the small moments that make up the big picture of love. So, join us, contribute your own stories, and let's unravel the beautiful complexity of finding that special someone.
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Have you ever found yourself lost in the labyrinth of your deepest desires, questioning why certain fantasies hold such power over you? Today, I had the pleasure of sitting with Artemisia Devine, a somatic sexologist and professional dominatrix, whose insights into the enigmatic realm of sexual fantasies are nothing short of enlightening. Together, we peered into the looking glass, exploring the intricate narratives that shape our erotic psyche and the paradox of longing for scenarios in the shadows of our minds that we wouldn't dare entertain in daylight.

Artemisia and I took a daring journey through the emotional minefield of cuckolding fantasies. The dance of excitement intertwined with the threat of jealousy was laid bare, unraveling how such fantasies, when navigated with care, can unexpectedly fortify the bonds between partners. We also touched upon the transformative potential of erotic play, pondering how it can catapult us into altered states of consciousness, where the lines between fear and pleasure blur into an intoxicating cocktail of intimacy.

Near the end of our discussion, Artemisia offered a tantalizing preview of her upcoming book and a lesson from the exclusive world of elite erotic arts. This conversation was more than just a talk; it was an invitation to step beyond the edge of our comfort zones, to understand the stories woven into our desires, and to embrace the full spectrum of our sexual fantasies with open arms and an open heart. So come along, take my hand, and let us guide you through this intricate tapestry of human longing and the undeniable power it holds over our most visceral experiences.

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Ever found yourself wondering if the romantic ship has sailed once you hit the over-40 mark? Worry not, as Naomie Thompson joins me in an honest dissection of the midlife dating game, spiced with anecdotes and hard-earned wisdom that will rekindle your belief in love's later bloom. We're peeling back the layers of emotional challenges, from the impact of early life experiences to the quest for vulnerability, and showing you how these can sculpt the search for a soulmate after life's curveballs, like divorce.
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Naomie and I get real about the strategies that can pivot your dating journey from a merry-go-round of disappointments to a purposeful quest for connection. It's about digging deep into what makes you tick and transforming past relationship letdowns into a clear vision for what you truly desire. With a practical exercise to guide you, we illuminate the path to identifying the core qualities you seek in a partner, how to radiate curiosity on dates, and why holding out for that second date could be a game-changer.

But it's not all about looking inward; Naomie brings a treasure trove of optimism and tactical advice to keep your spirits high on the dating front. Through a mix of storytelling and expert coaching, we furnish you with the mindset and techniques to attract the love you deserve. From the allure of positive thinking to the underrated power of active listening, this conversation is your heartfelt guide to navigating the dating world with hope, resilience, and a dash of playfulness. Join us for a journey that may just lead you to the relationship you've been seeking, even if you thought it was too late.

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Are you yearning for an authentic, heartfelt relationship with a masculine leader who values your success? Leah Mitchell, a seasoned expert in the world of dating, is here to guide us through the maze of vulnerability, authenticity, and trust. Leah unveils the essence of profound connections and how successful women can establish them with masculine men. She emphasizes the power of authenticity and the potential pitfalls of inauthenticity in forming meaningful relationships. Explore with us how superficial conversations often breed superficial relationships and the need for presenting our most authentic selves.

Embark on a fascinating journey with us as Leah unfolds the mystery behind the PheroGLOW method. This innovative strategy, designed to attract high-value masculine leaders, dives deep into the neuroscience of trust and attraction. Furthermore, Leah introduces us to the Soulmate Success Circle program, a sanctuary offering a supportive community for women seeking success in love. Get enthralled as we delve into attachment styles, the concept of outcome detachment in dating, and the profound classes on dating strategy and energetic healing offered by the program.

The empowering conversation doesn't end here! Leah sheds light on the overlooked significance of feminine intuition in manifesting and maintaining successful relationships. She shares her tested insights and experiences that have helped countless women attract high-value men and build strong, supportive partnerships. Together, we navigate the societal pressures that often hinder women's desires for supportive relationships and discuss how permission to seek healthy, fulfilling partnerships can change lives. Tune in to demystify the world of dating, break down misconceptions, and discover the key to finding true love. Links: https://leahmitchell.my.canva.site/leah-mitchellcoaching and https://www.facebook.com/leah.mitchell.3914?mibextid=qWsEUC

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Ready to debunk some myths? Meet Keith Brown, a courageous man who is reshaping perspectives on bisexuality, one conversation at a time. Our intriguing conversation with Keith not only illuminates the nuances of bisexuality but also helps us differentiate it from pansexuality. We engulf ourselves in Keith's personal journey, delving into his early realization and comprehension of his bisexuality, challenging the common misconceptions that often cloud our understanding of this spectrum identity.

Moving on, we plunge into the heart of relationships, examining the dynamics when one partner identifies as bisexual. From overcoming biases in non-monogamous relationships to the power of honest communication, this segment is a treasure trove of insights. Wrapping up, we steer into Keith's podcast - 'Coffee with Keith', where he explores the intersection of sexual identity and faith, the trials of coming out, and the path to healing from shame and trauma. Keith's unique perspective, derived from his personal experiences and expertise, is eye-opening, breaking stereotypes, and fostering acceptance. Strap in for an enlightening conversation that might just alter your perceptions on bisexuality.

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Imagine being able to decipher the silent language of gestures and postures to determine whether your date is a 'creeper' or a 'keeper'. Our guest, Linda Clemons, renowned body language expert, unravels the intricacies of nonverbal communication, revealing how it shapes our interactions and love relationships. She refutes the common saying "it's not what you say, but how you say it" and insists that what really matters is what your date hears. Tune in for actionable dating advice and gain insight into the subtle cues that make all the difference when trying to impress or understand your partner better. 

As we journey further into the realm of dating and communication, we examine the concept of casual dating. Linda provides pointers on how to make a lasting first impression, and explains the power of creating an aura of mystery and excitement. We explore the practice of arranged dating in various cultures and the wisdom passed down by her grandmother on forging profound connections. Linda emphasizes the role of personal integrity and being true to oneself in attracting fun-loving individuals. This episode is packed with fascinating insights that will transform your dating approach. Don't miss out on Linda's top tips and our intriguing discussion on the science of body language!

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What does it mean to be blindsided by a breakup? How does one navigate through the confusion and pain, and find a path to healing and self-love? Today, we sit down with the courageous and resilient Susan Thomson, who shares her personal journey through the abrupt end of her marriage, and how she found her way back to love - the love for herself. Her tale is a heartfelt exploration of the harsh realities that come with unexpected breakups and the profound effects they can have on our lives. Yet, even in the midst of despair, Susan’s story shines a light on the possibility of hope and recovery.

Stripped bare by the sudden disappearance of her partner from her life, Susan embarked on a quest for healing and self-discovery. Her path led her to the pages of self-help books, the enlightening process of journaling, the comforting arms of counseling, and even to the vibrant culture of Spain. But perhaps the most transformative tool in her journey was breathwork, a powerful tool that unlocked the door to her emotional recovery. Listen in as we delve into the intricate details of her healing process, and how she managed to find beauty in life after a devastating breakup. So, whether you're heartbroken, healing or just need a dose of inspiration, allow Susan's story to remind you of the power of resilience and self-love. Tune in, engage with us, and let Susan’s story inspire you.

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Ready to unravel the mysteries of sex and dating? Prominent marriage and family therapist, Jodie Shea, joins us in a riveting conversation that could revolutionize your understanding of physical intimacy. As we sketch Jodie’s fascinating journey into her career, we uncover the sexual issues that commonly plague couples, like mismatched libidos and performance anxiety, and how they can disrupt your love life. Jodie, with her extensive knowledge, guides us through handling these physical and emotional barriers to enhance sexual functioning.

Our chat then transitions to the tricky domain of physical intimacy, particularly in the nascent stages of a relationship. Who hasn't wrestled with understanding their own comfort level, reading their partner’s needs, or articulating their own desires? Learn how to navigate these murky waters and the potential pitfalls of the prevalent culture of avoidance originating from the dating app world. We also scrutinize the daunting concept of performance in relationships and Jodie’s sagacious approach in helping couples and individuals get to the root of their issues and liberate themselves from detrimental expectations of sex and orgasm.

Finally, the conversation takes a bold turn as we delve into the sensitive topic of size and its impact on physical relationships. Hear Jodie’s enlightening insights from her experience with couples and individuals grappling with size complexities. Discover her expert advice on upholding physical intimacy despite size differences and the implications it brings. We close by underscoring the paramount importance of open communication for maximizing pleasure and sustaining physical intimacy. Tune in for a candid and insightful episode on sex, dating, and everything in between.

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Are you feeling lost in the world of dating or misunderstandings in relationships, often leaving you puzzled? Well, we've got you covered! This episode will demystify the common miscommunications that occur between men and women. Our special guests, Adriana Sorgi and Andre Paradis, reveal how men generally know what they want but struggle to express it. This disconnect leaves women confused about what men truly seek. Andre adds that women often bring something to the table that's far different from what men actually want. We also explore how cultural values and expectations contribute to this communication gap.

We don't just stop there though. We dig deep into the importance of self-awareness and authenticity in dating. Adriana emphasizes the need for women to be upfront about their desires to find success in dating. We discuss the significance of being authentic and powerful, and how to avoid turning dates into an interrogation. Adriana points out the importance of recognising one's values and owning them to find a compatible partner. 

In the final phase of our discussion, we delve into the different types of men and the significance of women embracing their femininity to attract the right partner. We also stress the crucial role of decluttering one's emotional baggage for better self-understanding and clarity on desires. Tune into this enlightening episode for some eye-opening advice and perspectives on navigating the dating world. Let's transform your dating experiences together!

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Have the complexities of the dating world been giving you a hard time? Are you seeking a fresh perspective on romantic relationships and sexuality? Meet Angie and Tiffany, the creators of the Hard Things podcast, who found solace and camaraderie in their grad school friendship that has since evolved into a candid platform for discussing intricate issues of trauma, heartbreak, and modern-day dating. 

They share their journey from the initial offbeat classroom teachings to the launch of their podcast that's generated a buzz among both men and women listeners. We engage in a frank dialogue about the pressures of dating in the era of social media, the fear of rejection that men often grapple with, the challenges women face in their quest for genuine connections, and the sensitive topic of consent. We underscore the importance of communication, specifically the nuances of sexual communication, emphasizing the significance of non-sexual touch and enthusiasm in creating a satisfying intimate experience.

In the spirit of keeping things real, we delve into the complexities of consent and the importance of open dialogue in sexual relationships. Our approach is inclusive and refreshing, reassuring listeners that it's okay to have your own preferences, as long as they are consensual and involve communication with your partner. We firmly believe that the focus should be on the relationship and not solely on the sex. So gear up for this stimulating conversation that's set to challenge stereotypes, push boundaries, and invite everyone to be a part of the discussion.

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