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    60 - LIFE UPDATE - New fear unlocked: Dengue Fever PLUS + 2 major life realizations

    en-usNovember 02, 2022

    Podcast Summary

    • A podcast host's unexpected encounter with dengue feverPodcast host falls ill with dengue fever, encourages awareness of the disease and its potential severity, shares skepticism and acknowledgement of traditional healing practices

      The speaker, who is a podcast host, had fallen ill with dengue fever and was unable to record her podcast for two weeks. She was surprised by how little she knew about the disease before contracting it and described it as the worst experience of her life. Despite the severity of her illness, she is gradually recovering and plans to share more about her experience in future episodes. Dengue fever is a viral disease transmitted by mosquitoes in tropical areas of the world, and the speaker, who is from London, admitted that her knowledge of the disease was limited before falling ill. She encourages listeners to be aware of the disease and its potential severity. The speaker also mentioned her skepticism towards certain healing practices in Tulum, but acknowledged the effectiveness of one particular practitioner in reducing her chronic pain.

    • Trauma's Physical ImpactEmotional trauma can cause physical symptoms and be a sign of underlying health issues. Ignoring these signs can lead to serious consequences.

      Emotional trauma can physically manifest in the body and cause symptoms like headaches, brain fog, and overall body aches. The speaker's experience involved a worsening headache after a healing session, which led to a series of events where she ignored social interactions and eventually realized she was seriously ill with COVID-19. Despite her initial belief in her fitness and health, she experienced severe symptoms. This experience highlights the importance of acknowledging and addressing emotional and physical trauma, as well as the potential for seemingly minor experiences to have significant impacts on our health.

    • Ignoring severe pain due to fear and anxietyFear and anxiety can delay seeking medical help, worsening health conditions. Overcoming these emotions is crucial for timely care.

      Fear and anxiety can prevent individuals from seeking necessary medical help even when they're experiencing severe pain. The speaker in this discussion ignored her intense body pain due to her fear of hospitals and anxiety about the potential costs and lack of health insurance. Her condition worsened, and she endured extreme pain for several days before seeking medical attention. This experience highlights the importance of addressing health concerns promptly and overcoming fears and anxieties related to healthcare. Additionally, the unfamiliarity with a foreign healthcare system compounded the trauma of the situation.

    • Unclear diagnosis and lack of follow-up care for dengue feverDespite having symptoms of dengue fever, the speaker was left to interpret her test results and received insufficient medical attention, highlighting the importance of clear communication and follow-up care from healthcare providers.

      The healthcare experience for dengue fever in Mexico was unusual and confusing for the speaker. After visiting the doctor and having a blood test, she was left to interpret her results on her own. When she discovered she had dengue fever, her symptoms worsened, including a hemorrhage that left her bathroom filled with blood. Despite her concerns, she was told by the hospital that her condition was not serious enough for immediate medical attention. The speaker felt neglected and scared, especially when she discovered a rash covering her body. Overall, the healthcare experience for dengue fever left her feeling uncertain and anxious, emphasizing the importance of clear communication and follow-up care from medical professionals.

    • Communication challenges in healthcare during a serious illnessEffective communication between patients and healthcare providers is crucial during a serious illness, and affordable and accessible healthcare is necessary to reduce stress and anxiety.

      The healthcare experience during a serious illness can be frustrating and confusing, especially when language barriers exist. The speaker in this discussion was diagnosed with severe dengue fever and experienced unbearable pain, but was sent home multiple times without proper treatment or clear communication from doctors. The lack of a clear treatment plan and the financial burden of medical expenses added to the speaker's stress and anxiety. The experience highlights the importance of effective communication between patients and healthcare providers, as well as the need for affordable and accessible healthcare for all.

    • Unexpected side effects from a travel day mishapBe aware of cultural differences and have a backup plan when traveling to unfamiliar places. Adaptability and resilience are key in dealing with unexpected circumstances.

      Travel mishaps can lead to unexpected challenges, even when taking precautions. In this story, a woman's use of an antihistamine tablet on a long flight resulted in unintended side effects, causing her to miss her connecting flight and face difficulties in getting home for Christmas. Despite her best efforts to push through, her condition worsened, leaving her unable to move and causing her significant distress. The experience highlighted the importance of being aware of cultural differences and having a backup plan when traveling to unfamiliar places. Additionally, it emphasized the value of resilience and adaptability in dealing with unexpected circumstances.

    • Living with the mental health challenges of dengue feverDengue fever can cause long-term mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, and feelings of disconnection. Recognizing the impact of one's work ethic on well-being is a valuable realization during recovery.

      Having dengue fever involves not only physical symptoms but also significant mental health challenges. The speaker described feeling traumatized during the first 10 days, with symptoms including pain, loss of appetite, and a debilitating rash. After this initial phase, she entered the recovery stage, dealing with fatigue, brain fog, and depression. The speaker was surprised to learn that depression is a common long-term effect of dengue, and she herself experienced anxiety, homesickness, and feelings of disconnection. Despite some improvement, she still felt far from her normal self and was struggling with mental health issues. The speaker also shared an unexpected realization during her illness: seeing herself from an outsider's perspective, recognizing her intense work ethic and the impact it had on her well-being.

    • Recognizing the Need for Change in Work-Life BalanceThe speaker acknowledges the negative impact of work on her relationships and personal life, and seeks healthier ways to cope and live a more balanced life. She reflects on past unhealthy relationships.

      The speaker recognized the need to change her intense and work-dominated lifestyle. She realized that her constant connection to work, including social media, was preventing her from truly relaxing and disconnecting. This realization came after reflecting on how work had negatively impacted her relationships and taken over her life. She expressed a desire to find healthier ways to cope and live a more balanced life. Another realization was the improvement in her current relationship compared to past ones, acknowledging that she had dated some unhealthy partners in the past.

    • Breaking self-destructive cycles for healthy relationshipsRealizing the importance of being with someone who cares during tough times, identifying patterns, and doing personal growth work can lead to attracting and maintaining healthy relationships.

      Breaking self-destructive cycles and patterns can lead to attracting and maintaining healthy relationships. The speaker shares her experience of realizing the importance of being with someone who will care for her during difficult times, and how she had to disrupt her own patterns to find such a person. She also shares how she used to be attracted to emotionally unavailable individuals and the toxic dynamics that came with it. By doing the work on herself and identifying her patterns, she was able to attract a loving and attentive partner. Another realization was that she no longer feels the need for external validation or flirting, and is content with the relationship she has. This newfound happiness and self-acceptance is a significant shift from her previous mindset where contentment equated to boredom. Overall, the speaker encourages everyone to continue their personal growth journey and trust that they too will find and maintain healthy relationships.

    • Apologies and New Resources for ListenersDespite personal setbacks, the speaker promises new resources and encourages listeners to sign up for her mailing list for discounts or bonuses.

      The speaker, who is a podcast host, has been unable to produce new episodes due to a combination of circumstances including a hurricane, power outage, and personal health issues. She values her audience and apologizes for the absence, but reassures them that new resources are on the way. These resources include digital downloads about dealing with anxious attachment style in dating, which will be available soon. The speaker also encourages her listeners to sign up for her mailing list for discounts or bonuses. She expresses her appreciation for her audience and shares some practical advice for those dealing with illness or caring for the unwell. Overall, the speaker's message is one of resilience and connection, despite the challenges she has faced.

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    Exposing Our Ex's on Valentine's Day - Dropouts #138

    Exposing Our Ex's on Valentine's Day - Dropouts #138

    This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at BetterHelp.com/dropouts for 10% off your first month, and get on your way to being your best self. Thank you, BetterHelp!


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    Happy lovers day for you all you lovers out there! This week the boys get HOT AND HEAVY in the tamest way possible… We go through yours and our best/worst valentines day ever, have a deep conversation about our worst fears, and answer some lovvvvvee questions (emphasis on “looovvveee” being read in a deep voice)


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    KEY LIME PIE S*X GONE WRONG - Confession Corner

    KEY LIME PIE S*X GONE WRONG - Confession Corner

    Hey Besties! Ready for another wild ride in the Confession Corner? Violetta's got the juiciest stories for you. Ever been on a date where you had to do some quick thinking, maybe tell a little white lie? Trust me, you're not alone! We're diving into those hilarious and awkward moments as they take unexpected turns. 

    And, oh boy, get ready for some spice! We're talking about turning up the heat in the bedroom, and yes, it involves food. From a delightful encounter with key lime pie that leaves you questioning cleanliness to accidentally turning a passionate moment into a bit of a bloodbath – these stories are wild, unpredictable, and oh-so-relatable. You won't believe where these confessions lead, but one thing's for sure –  it's a rollercoaster of laughs and surprises. 

    If you want to be featured on the next episode, send an email to press@daddyissuesla.com or call Violetta at 424-278-4268 and leave an anonymous voicemail!


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    What to Listen For:

    • 00:00 Intro
    • 01:59 Story #1: He cut himself while opening my window on our first date
    • 05:20 Story #2: Eating key lime pie from her p*ssy
    • 10:14 Story #3: I scrapped his d*ck with my nails while I was about to clim*x
    • 17:57 Story #4: I was broken up by him through his mother


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