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    77. Changing The Mindset That Keeps Us Average

    enOctober 14, 2020
    What is Andy Priscilla's podcast philosophy on monetization?
    How does Andy suggest listeners can support the podcast?
    What does the meme 'fuck average' represent?
    Why is waking up early not universally effective according to Andy?
    How should we redefine our perception of busyness and productivity?

    Podcast Summary

    • Striving for authenticity and excellence on the Motherfucking Reality podcastThe podcast values authenticity, organic growth, and striving for excellence over monetization. Listeners are encouraged to share the podcast and respect the host's perspective.

      Andy Priscilla, the host of the Motherfucking Reality podcast, values authenticity and organic growth over monetization through ads. He asks listeners to share the podcast with their network if they find value in it. The podcast covers topics related to business, personal development, and winning, but also includes the host's opinions and perspectives. Listeners may not agree with everything they hear, but are encouraged to respect the host's perspective in return. A recent meme inspiring an episode of the podcast reads "fuck average," which resonated with the host's philosophy of striving for excellence and not settling for mediocrity.

    • The meme's depiction of the 'inspired person' vs. the 'average person' can be misleading.Be critical of sources of information and recognize that success looks different for everyone. Find a routine that works best for you and strive for continuous improvement.

      The distinction between the "day in the life of the average person" and the "day in the life of the inspired person" as depicted in a popular meme can be misleading. The meme portrays the inspired person as waking up early, attending productive meetings, and going to bed early. However, this is not a universal truth. The speaker shares that he has never woken up at 5 a.m. despite consuming success content that advocates for this habit. It's essential to be critical of the sources of information we consume and recognize that success looks different for everyone. The meme's oversimplification of what it means to be "inspired" or "average" can be misleading and potentially harmful. Instead, focus on finding a routine that works best for you and strives for continuous improvement.

    • Busy vs ProductiveBeing busy doesn't equate to success or productivity. Focus on achieving meaningful results instead.

      Being busy is not a symbol of success. Instead, it's a sign of ineffectiveness and mental weakness. When we constantly use the phrase "I'm so busy" in response to how we're doing, it can make us appear disorganized and unproductive to others. To change this perception, we need to shift our focus from being busy to producing results and being productive. Our society has been conditioned to equate working long hours with productivity, but true success comes from building real things and achieving meaningful results. So, next time someone asks how you're doing, try responding with something more positive and productive, rather than just complaining about how busy you are.

    • Focus on productivity, not just being busyIdentify critical tasks, prioritize outcomes, and focus on producing results to increase productivity

      Focusing on results rather than being overly busy is key to productivity. This means becoming aware of how you spend your time and prioritizing critical tasks that move you forward. Most people fail to make lists of these critical tasks and instead get bogged down by everyday habits or distractions. To be productive, it's essential to identify and focus on the outcomes you want to achieve and take action on the tasks that will help you get there. By shifting your perspective from being busy to being productive, you can make the most of your time and produce the results you desire.

    • Identifying and executing critical tasks for productivity and successEffective habits and focusing on critical tasks can lead to momentum, success, and improved productivity. Use the Power List method to prioritize and execute these tasks, and replace unproductive habits with new ones to create balance and achieve goals.

      Developing effective habits and focusing on critical tasks can help create a momentum for productivity and success, rather than relying on grinding long hours. The Power List method, as described in episodes 107 of the MSCO project and 16 of Real AF, can help individuals identify and execute these critical tasks, leading to a habit of winning and improved productivity. It's important to understand that being effective, not just busy, is what truly leads to success. Additionally, it's crucial to break free from unproductive habits and replace them with new ones that serve us better. By prioritizing and focusing on what truly matters, we can create balance in our lives and achieve our goals without sacrificing all our energy and time.

    • Effective people focus on results, not busynessShift focus from busyness to productivity and results, prioritize learning and consistent action, ignore those who boast about busyness, seek advice from those who genuinely help, pay it forward by sharing knowledge

      Being busy is not the same as being effective. According to the speaker, effective people focus on results rather than the amount of work they put in. They don't feel the need to boast about their long hours or constant productivity, as this can actually demoralize others and make success seem unattainable. Instead, they prioritize learning new skills and taking consistent action towards their goals every day. The speaker encourages listeners to ignore those who try to make themselves seem superior through their busy schedules, and instead seek out advice from those who genuinely want to help. The fee for listening to the show is to pay it forward by sharing the knowledge with others if it resonates with them. In essence, the speaker advocates for a mindset shift from valuing busyness to valuing productivity and results.

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    About Your Host Jim Harshaw

    My name is Jim Harshaw. And I know where you’re at. You’re working hard and qualified for what you do but you aren’t getting what you want. You have plans on getting to the C-suite or launching a business but ultimate success seems as far away today as ever. You’re in the right place because you can get there from here.

    And I can help.

    Who I Am

    I’m a speaker, coach, and former Division I All-American wrestler that helps motivated former athletes to reach their full potential by getting clarity on what they really want and taking aggressive action to lead their ideal life not just despite their prior failures but because of them.

    I’m a husband and father of four. And I’m a serial entrepreneur. I’ve launched multiple successful businesses as well as the obligatory failed one. I’ve been the executive director of a non-profit and have raised millions of dollars. I’ve worked in sales. I’ve even been a Division I head coach. While I was born in a blue-collar home I have spent my life surrounded by Olympians, CEO’s and millionaires.

    Jim Rohn said, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.”

    I’ve been lucky.

    I’ve learned the habits of successful people and guess what. You’re just like them. I know because I know your type. You’re programmed for hard work, which is a prerequisite for success, but you’ve never been shown how to use what you know to create the life you want with the tools you have.

    I will show you how.

    Why You Are Here

    You've worked hard to achieve greatness. You’ve set goals and maybe even set records. You’ve definitely failed and you’ve at some point found yourself questioning if you were on the right track.

    You need to understand this: You are far more prepared to succeed than those who’ve not tried, competed, struggled and overcome like you have. That’s the value of your education as someone who aims high. You are prepared to be as successful as your wildest dreams will allow.

    Here I will teach you, with the help of brilliant minds that have been shaped by failure, struggle, and adversity, to be who you want to be. I sense that you want this because you have read this far.

    To take the next step today, click here.

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