79. Have you Poured Into Your Own Cup?

There's a THIN LINE between EXPECTATIONS and STANDARDS and knowing which is which is the difference between experiencing DISAPPOINTMENT in dating and actually experiencing what you WANT in dating.

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If you've found yourself landing in situationship after situationship...

 Or if you've felt the need to SPEED the dating process up or have felt anxious about "where things are going" this episode is FOR YOU!

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Dating is NOT supposed to be hard.

It gets to be EASY.

Tune in to find out what 5 things I would be doing if I were single in 2024 and looking for a SERIOUS, committed relationship.

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What if feelings of unworthiness aren't really your problem when it comes to actually experiencing the kind of relationship you desire?

What if there's something TOTALLY different to consider instead?

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Yup, you read correctly! My boyfriend and I decided to be celibate until marriage 2 years into our relationship. Why you may ask? Tune into the episode to find out!

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If you've ever felt like something is wrong with YOU because you keep attracting the SAME types of men over and over again...

Men who are emotionally unavailable...

Men who are not interested in commitment...

Men who are unfaithful...

etc.

There's actually something DEEPER to the story. It's not that you're doomed. Or that something is wrong with you. It's that you may have an UNCONSCIOUS dating pattern running the show and you don't even know it. Tune into this episode to learn more.

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There is... a lot of immaturity in dating that shows up in the form of thinking EVERYTHING is a red flag.

Not everything is a red flag.

MATURITY in dating is understanding 1. That not everything is a red flag and 2. HOW to discern what IS from what ISN'T a red flag. 3. You'll have to listen to the rest of the episode to find out! ;)

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If you’re hunched over your phone with your magnifying glass out, organizing a conference call with ten of your girlfriends at once, and desperately trying to untangle whether the person you’re “talking to” wants to be in a relationship with you…

He doesn’t.

I say this with so much love: if you have to do this, you aren’t actually confused at all about how he feels. You know he isn’t interested in having a relationship…you just don’t like that answer.

Desire is not ambiguous. Desire is CLEAR. Desire is BOLD. Desire doesn’t dither in the background waiting its turn.

When a man desires you, you’ll know. So let’s talk about what it actually means when you’re “confused” about what “he wants.”

 

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If you’ve given up on dating…this episode is for you.

I’m not talking about the people who truly do not desire a relationship. I’m talking to the people who have a soul-deep desire for a relationship, but have gotten so discouraged that they’re ready to throw in the towel entirely.

Listen to me–I don’t care what your situation is.

I don’t care if you’re in your late 20s, 30s, 40s, etc.

I don’t care if you’ve been divorced four times and can’t imagine a relationship ever working out.

I don’t care if you’ve never been in a healthy relationship and are struggling to believe they even exist.

A relationship IS possible for you–yes, YOU. And if you’re walking around with your head down, living in defeat, certain it’s never going to happen for you…let me give you some hope today.

 

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