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    A Moment of Reckoning (and Renewed Popularity) for R. Kelly | Malala Yousafzai

    enJanuary 08, 2019

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    • Connecting with Communities and NeighborsBuilding strong connections and communities through volunteering, shared interests, and supporting each other can lead to resilient and joyful lives.

      Building strong communities and connections is essential, whether it's through volunteering, sharing common interests, or supporting each other during challenging times. Neighbor to Neighbor, a California volunteer network, emphasizes the importance of connecting with those around us to build resilient communities. Meanwhile, on The Daily Show, Trevor Noah shared his personal experience of finding joy and companionship on roller coasters with a friend, illustrating the power of friendship and connection. In the political sphere, the Democrats' takeover of the House of Representatives marks a new chapter, with a focus on reforms and addressing key issues, but for one incoming congresswoman, the priority was on family reunification. These examples highlight the significance of connection and community in various aspects of life.

    • Language's Impact and Ocean Cleanup SetbackRashida Tlaib's use of 'mother' for Trump sparks controversy, while ocean cleanup effort faces a setback with a broken boom. The border wall debate continues, causing a government shutdown.

      Words matter and can have significant implications. Rashida Tlaib's use of the term "mother" to describe President Trump during her swearing-in celebration sparked controversy, with some seeing it as a powerful statement and others finding it disrespectful. Meanwhile, the attempt to clean up plastic waste from the Pacific Ocean using a massive pipe system faced a setback when a large section of the boom broke off. These events serve as reminders of the power of language and the challenges of implementing ambitious projects. Additionally, the ongoing debate over the construction of the U.S.-Mexico border wall continues to dominate headlines, with the government shutdown entering its third week. Despite conflicting messages from the White House, the issue remains a contentious one.

    • Government shutdown causing hardships for various sectors and individualsThe government shutdown, now in its 17th day, is causing significant hardships for farmers, national parks, and federal employees due to unpaid salaries and lack of essential services.

      The ongoing government shutdown, now in its 17th day, is causing significant hardships for various sectors and individuals. President Trump's insistence on securing $5 billion for a border wall has led to a partial government shutdown, affecting departments like agriculture, commerce, justice, homeland security, and more. The longer the shutdown continues, the more severe the consequences become. Farmers are not receiving promised stimulus payments due to the president's trade war with China, and national parks are turning into health hazards due to lack of maintenance. The shutdown has even led to a backlog in the immigration court system and unpaid federal employees. The situation is so dire that visitors at national parks are reportedly leaving human waste in public areas. The shutdown's impact is far-reaching and affecting people and animals alike, making it crucial for both parties to find a resolution soon.

    • Government Shutdown Causes Hardships for Americans, Yet Trump Focuses on Imagining CriticsThe government shutdown is causing financial hardships for many Americans, with some facing eviction and struggling to provide necessities. President Trump seems more focused on his critics than addressing their concerns, leading to a potential return to a barter system for unpaid federal employees.

      The ongoing government shutdown is causing significant financial hardships for many Americans, with some facing eviction and struggling to provide basic necessities for their families. Despite this, President Trump seems more focused on imagining what people are saying about the shutdown rather than listening to their concerns. The US Office of Personnel Management has advised unpaid federal employees to offer chores in exchange for rent payments, which has sparked criticism and concerns about the potential return to a barter system. The shutdown, now in record-breaking territory, shows no signs of ending soon, leaving people uncertain about the future. Amidst this uncertainty, the distraction of a panda cam has provided some momentary relief for viewers. However, it's important to remember the seriousness of the situation and the impact it's having on real people.

    • The complex relationship with R. Kelly's music despite allegationsDespite renewed attention to R. Kelly's sexual misconduct allegations, his music continues to be consumed, highlighting the need for a deeper conversation on accountability, consent, and cultural significance of idolized artists.

      The release of the docuseries "Surviving R. Kelly" has brought renewed attention to the long-standing allegations of sexual misconduct against the singer, yet paradoxically, his music has seen a spike in streams. This seemingly contradictory response can be attributed to the complex relationship many people have with the artist and his music, as well as the problematic reporting on his crimes that can inadvertently promote his music. The docuseries has shed light on the serious allegations against R. Kelly, but the continued consumption of his music underscores the need for a deeper conversation about accountability, consent, and the cultural significance of the artists we idolize.

    • Protecting Yourself from Negative InfluencesCreatively block out negative influences, build meaningful social bonds, and treat everyone with respect and kindness.

      Blocking out negative influences, whether it's through covering your eyes or ears, is an effective way to protect yourself from harm. Roy Wood Jr.'s "R. Kelly challenge" is a creative solution to prevent people from being seduced by problematic artists. Furthermore, the importance of building meaningful social bonds within communities was emphasized through the introduction of Neighbor to Neighbor. Malala Yousafzai, a Nobel Peace Prize winner and education activist, reminded us of the importance of treating everyone as human beings, even those who are held in high regard. Despite her status, she experiences normalcy in her relationships and encourages us to remember that everyone deserves respect and kindness.

    • Sharing Refugee Stories for Empathy and InspirationListening to refugee stories humanizes their struggles and inspires resilience. Engage with refugees in communities and combat misconceptions through empathetic listening.

      Malala Yousafzai, a Nobel Prize laureate, emphasizes the importance of sharing the stories and experiences of refugees to humanize their struggles and inspire resilience. Malala believes that people often focus on numbers and statistics, but hearing directly from refugees can help us understand their challenges and learn from their courage. She includes the stories of other refugee girls in her book "We Are Displaced" to give a voice to those often overlooked and to inspire readers. Malala encourages actively engaging with refugees in our communities and listening to their stories as a way to combat misconceptions and build empathy. She stresses that becoming a refugee is not a choice, and the experience is particularly difficult for women and girls.

    • Refugees' Courage and EmpathyUnderstanding refugees' experiences builds empathy and integration. Personal interactions, education, and recognizing economic contributions can help shift anti-immigrant/anti-refugee perspectives.

      People who are forced to leave their homes due to conflicts or other hardships show immense courage and deserve our empathy. Annalisa's story from Guatemala is a poignant reminder of the challenges faced by young refugees, especially those who have lost their families. It's essential to look at the issue from a human perspective and consider how we would react in similar situations. Convincing people who are anti-immigrant or anti-refugee can be challenging, but personal interactions and education can help shift their perspective. Talking to refugees, learning about their experiences, and understanding the economic contributions they make are all effective ways to build empathy and integration. The Malala Fund, which focuses on education, was chosen specifically because of the importance of education in providing opportunities and empowering individuals to build better futures for themselves and their communities.

    • Empowering Girls Through EducationEducating girls leads to economic growth, tackles climate change, reduces poverty, challenges discriminatory norms, and empowers individuals and communities.

      Education is a fundamental right and key to empowering girls and women, not only for their personal growth but also for the betterment of society and the world economy. Malala Yousafzai, a Nobel Peace Prize laureate, shared her personal experience of being denied education and the importance of educating girls, especially in the context of refugee communities where early marriages are prevalent. Malala Fund, an organization founded by Malala, focuses on ensuring girls receive safe and quality education. Investing in local leaders and educators is crucial to achieving this goal. The benefits of educating girls are far-reaching, including economic growth, tackling climate change, reducing poverty, and challenging discriminatory cultural norms. Education is a powerful tool for empowering individuals and communities, and Neighbor to Neighbor, a California volunteer network, encourages building stronger communities by connecting neighbors and offering support in times of need.

    • New NBA podcast 'Beyond the Arc'Daily NBA discussions, breaking news, interviews, and upbeat commentary from knowledgeable hosts on the CBS Sports Podcast Network

      The CBS Sports Podcast Network has launched a new NBA show called "Beyond the Arc." Hosted by John Gonzalez, NBA insider Bill Ryder, and Ashley Nicole Moss, this show offers NBA fans a daily dose of insightful discussions, upbeat commentary, breaking news, interviews, and coverage of the biggest stories in the NBA. Whether you're a casual fan or an avid follower, Beyond the Arc is the go-to destination for all things NBA. You can download and follow this engaging and informative podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and other popular podcast platforms. Tune in 5 days a week to stay up-to-date on the latest NBA happenings and join the conversation with our knowledgeable and entertaining hosts.

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