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    A Problem Shared is a Problem Halved: Finding Balance in Motherhood

    en-auOctober 24, 2023
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    About this Episode

    Welcome to another episode of The Touched Out podcast. Today we are joined by Ali. In this episode, we'll explore the challenges and triumphs of motherhood, focusing on finding balance and overcoming postpartum depression.

    Our guest today, Ali, is short for Alexandra. She's a mother to two children, Claudia, who's 3, and Georgina, who's 1. Ali is married to Andrew, who serves as a police officer.

    Journey Through Clinical Depression

    • Ali opens up about her diagnosis with clinical depression in 2010, shedding light on her personal experience and the stigma surrounding mental health.

    Challenges of Motherhood

    • Ali shares her experiences dealing with the challenges of motherhood, including colic, pelvic floor trauma that left her unable to walk or run, and the isolation she felt due to her husband's night shifts and discomfort in sharing her struggles with friends and family.

    Reaching Out

    • Ali recalls a pivotal moment when she realized she needed help and requested a mental health care plan and anti-depressants from her GP, highlighting the importance of seeking intervention when needed.

    Finding Balance

    • Ali discusses her journey towards recovery, which involved a combination of medication, regular therapy, and seeking help from a sleep consultant, Kate Gillan. She emphasizes the importance of setting realistic expectations and finding balance.

    PANDA

    • Ali shares her involvement with PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Australia) as a community champion and how they supported her after the birth of her second baby.

    COVID Lockdowns

    • Ali reflects on the impact of COVID-19 lockdowns on her family, with her children becoming afraid of anyone other than her and her husband.

    Small Habits

    • The importance of self-care is discussed, with Ali sharing how small habits and mindfulness played a significant role in her early parenthood journey, from buying a comfortable robe to enjoying a hot drink during night feeds.

    Information for Expectant Parents

    • Ali advocates for better information availability to expectant parents about topics like tongue ties, colic, and sleep regressions before they occur, rather than waiting until they become challenges.

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    Support the show

    Thanks for listening to The Touched Out podcast! I hope you enjoyed this episode.

    If you have any comments or suggestions, please send me an email at touchedoutpodcast@gmail.com. You can also follow me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/touchedoutpodcast for updates and behind-the-scenes content.

    If you liked this episode, please consider sharing to your social media, discussing with your community and leave a rating and review to help others discover my show.

    If you or someone you know are experiencing mental health problems, we encourage you to reach out for help. You can call the Lifeline Australia helpline at 13 11 14 or for parents struggling with postnatal mental health reach out to PANDA at 13 22 89 (www.panda.org.au)

    Special thanks to the following friends and partners:

    Luke: https://www.tiktok.com/@aka.lukeandrew

    Intro music: https://instagram.com/6157sound

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    Thanks again for listening and keep on keeping on!

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    If you have any comments or suggestions, please send me an email at touchedoutpodcast@gmail.com. You can also follow me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/touchedoutpodcast for updates and behind-the-scenes content.

    If you liked this episode, please consider sharing to your social media, discussing with your community and leave a rating and review to help others discover my show.

    If you or someone you know are experiencing mental health problems, we encourage you to reach out for help. You can call the Lifeline Australia helpline at 13 11 14 or for parents struggling with postnatal mental health reach out to PANDA at 13 22 89 (www.panda.org.au)

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    Our guest today, Ali, is short for Alexandra. She's a mother to two children, Claudia, who's 3, and Georgina, who's 1. Ali is married to Andrew, who serves as a police officer.

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    Support the show

    Thanks for listening to The Touched Out podcast! I hope you enjoyed this episode.

    If you have any comments or suggestions, please send me an email at touchedoutpodcast@gmail.com. You can also follow me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/touchedoutpodcast for updates and behind-the-scenes content.

    If you liked this episode, please consider sharing to your social media, discussing with your community and leave a rating and review to help others discover my show.

    If you or someone you know are experiencing mental health problems, we encourage you to reach out for help. You can call the Lifeline Australia helpline at 13 11 14 or for parents struggling with postnatal mental health reach out to PANDA at 13 22 89 (www.panda.org.au)

    Special thanks to the following friends and partners:

    Luke: https://www.tiktok.com/@aka.lukeandrew

    Intro music: https://instagram.com/6157sound

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    Thank you for joining Myself and Mark on this episode and I hope you enjoyed it!

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    If you have any comments or suggestions, please send me an email at touchedoutpodcast@gmail.com. You can also follow me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/touchedoutpodcast for updates and behind-the-scenes content.

    If you liked this episode, please consider sharing to your social media, discussing with your community and leave a rating and review to help others discover my show.

    If you or someone you know are experiencing mental health problems, we encourage you to reach out for help. You can call the Lifeline Australia helpline at 13 11 14 or for parents struggling with postnatal mental health reach out to PANDA at 13 22 89 (www.panda.org.au)

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    If you have any comments or suggestions, please send me an email at touchedoutpodcast@gmail.com. You can also follow me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/touchedoutpodcast for updates and behind-the-scenes content.

    If you liked this episode, please consider sharing to your social media, discussing with your community and leave a rating and review to help others discover my show.

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    She highlights the turning point when her daughter fell ill, motivating her to reclaim her life and care for her children. Les shares her journey of healing, meeting her supportive current husband, embracing neuroplasticity, and discovering her purpose in helping others.


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    If Les' story has touched you, please share this episode to spread the message of resilience and hope as well as following Les on TikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@thelesfactor

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    Thanks for listening to The Touched Out podcast! I hope you enjoyed this episode.

    If you have any comments or suggestions, please send me an email at touchedoutpodcast@gmail.com. You can also follow me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/touchedoutpodcast for updates and behind-the-scenes content.

    If you liked this episode, please consider sharing to your social media, discussing with your community and leave a rating and review to help others discover my show.

    If you or someone you know are experiencing mental health problems, we encourage you to reach out for help. You can call the Lifeline Australia helpline at 13 11 14 or for parents struggling with postnatal mental health reach out to PANDA at 13 22 89 (www.panda.org.au)

    Special thanks to the following friends and partners:

    Luke: https://www.tiktok.com/@aka.lukeandrew

    Intro music: https://instagram.com/6157sound

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    Support the show

    Thanks for listening to The Touched Out podcast! I hope you enjoyed this episode.

    If you have any comments or suggestions, please send me an email at touchedoutpodcast@gmail.com. You can also follow me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/touchedoutpodcast for updates and behind-the-scenes content.

    If you liked this episode, please consider sharing to your social media, discussing with your community and leave a rating and review to help others discover my show.

    If you or someone you know are experiencing mental health problems, we encourage you to reach out for help. You can call the Lifeline Australia helpline at 13 11 14 or for parents struggling with postnatal mental health reach out to PANDA at 13 22 89 (www.panda.org.au)

    Special thanks to the following friends and partners:

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    Our Scars, Our Stories: Season 1 finale with my incredible Wife

    Our Scars, Our Stories: Season 1 finale with my incredible Wife

    In the season finale of the touched out podcast Carter chats to his wife, George. Join us as we discuss George's early life detailing parental separation, institutionalization at 14, and a non-fatal attempt at suicide. George's raw honesty pierces through the veil of silence that often shrouds mental health issues. From reactive depression to PTSD, her evolving diagnosis offers invaluable insight into the complexities of mental health.

    We then discuss her journey to find love amidst toxic relationships, leading us to the shared history and trauma that bonded her and I together. Our unconventional romance and swift transition into marriage sets the stage for the trials and triumphs we face together.

    Additionally, we delve into the challenges we faced during the births of our children. From our birth experience with our daughter, Hendrix, and her diagnosis with IUGR (interuterine growth restriction), the challenges of labor leading to an emergency C-section during the birth of our son Roman and going past term with our daughter Salem leading to yet another emergency c-section (this time under general anaesthetic) which resulted in a torn uterus, a severed artery and over 3 litres of blood loss, George's birth stories are filled with resilience, strength and bravery.

    The episode wraps up with a celebration of the Touched Out podcast's first season and the healing experience of filming the mini Mother’s Day episode. Be sure to tune in for an episode filled with personal insights, emotional journeys, and the power of resilience.


    notable discussions in this episode include:

    • Self-Harm and Overcoming Mental Health Challenges
    • The volution of Mental Institution Diagnoses
    • Navigating Toxic Relationships and Finding Love
    • Our unconventional Romance and Rapid Life Changes
    • Traumatic Birth Experiences and Complications
    • Difficult Birth and NICU Stay
    • The medical debate on Risks of Going Post-Term
    • Challenges and Resilience in Childbirth
    • Support in accomplishing life goals by creating the Touched Out Podcast
    Support the show

    Thanks for listening to The Touched Out podcast! I hope you enjoyed this episode.

    If you have any comments or suggestions, please send me an email at touchedoutpodcast@gmail.com. You can also follow me on Instagram at www.instagram.com/touchedoutpodcast for updates and behind-the-scenes content.

    If you liked this episode, please consider sharing to your social media, discussing with your community and leave a rating and review to help others discover my show.

    If you or someone you know are experiencing mental health problems, we encourage you to reach out for help. You can call the Lifeline Australia helpline at 13 11 14 or for parents struggling with postnatal mental health reach out to PANDA at 13 22 89 (www.panda.org.au)

    Special thanks to the following friends and partners:

    Luke: https://www.tiktok.com/@aka.lukeandrew

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