After Someone You Love Takes Their Own Life

Evermore is a national, nonpartisan nonprofit dedicated to improving the lives of bereaved children and families. Valerie’s House had the honor of sitting down with Joyal to discuss how the bereavement care system in America needs to change. Whether it’s funeral cost gouging, unjust employment termination, or lack of access to social security, these issues can affect anyone who is grieving. Help us advocate for positive change, and join us for this very important conversation.

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Over time the meaning of Memorial Day has been overshadowed by cookouts, parties, big sales, and a long weekend to kick off summer. While we can appreciate the fun things that come along with this time of year, it’s important for us to recognize those who have given the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom.

We are honored to sit down with Valerie’s House Gold Star Mother, Kim Hayes, who has dedicated her life to helping veterans and other Gold Star Families in honor of her son and hero, Taylor, who died in 2016. She talks about how her personal grief has led her to take action to help others.

“The more I grieve, the more I serve,” Kim said. “And I am so grateful to have found Valerie’s House to help my two grandchildren find their own language to express their grief.”

Grief & Loss in the Black Community: A conversation empowering children and families in communities of color to ask for help.  A special podcast produced by Valerie’s House, Inc.

(With special guests Tasheekia Perry-Harris and Janee Robinson)

These two women have overcome many obstacles in their lives, including devastating losses.

Tasheekia is the founder of Crowning Daughters for Success, an enrichment program dedicated to building self-esteem for our youth, as well as the co-founder of Impact Dunbar, an empowerment program for young women. Tasheekia speaks to how teaching self-esteem and maintaining values are necessary for creating a better life and are very important in the healing process.

Janee and her daughter started attending Valerie's House after the loss of her daughter's father. Janee also works with children as a teacher and discusses how students express their grief in different ways.

Together, we look at their individual experiences with grief and how we, as a community, can better work together to help people find the support they need and deserve.

About Valerie’s House

Valerie’s House opened in January 2016 and has served more than 2,000 children and their families from Lee, Collier, Charlotte, and Hendry counties. The organization provides a safe, comfortable place for children to share, grieve and heal together following the death of a close family member. Valerie’s House has three locations: 1762 Fowler St. in downtown Fort Myers, 819 Myrtle Terrace in Naples, and group therapy meetings at several churches in Charlotte County.  For more information, visit www.valerieshouse.org, call (239) 204-5804, or email Angela@ValeriesHouse.org.

This episode of the Grieve Love Heal podcast talks about going back to school after experiencing a significant loss. 

It highlights two Valerie's House teens who went back to school with the weight of grief. This episode is also intended to educate schools on how to best support students who have lost a loved one. 

Please use this as a resource to raise awareness for grieving students in our community, and start the conversation of how to best care for these kids.

This episode of Grieve Love Heal features a personal interview with Valerie's House Founder and CEO Angela Melvin. She shares her own experience of childhood grief after losing her mother in a tragic car accident. 

Melvin reveals details she's never shared before and talks about the challenges of making her dream for Valerie's House a reality, as well as what she has learned along the way.

“November is National Children's Grief Awareness Month, so we will be posting several stories, videos, and podcasts to help others understand the plight grieving families face,” Melvin said. “It is an exciting national movement, and we are relieved there are others who are finally joining with us in this conversation when for so many years, children's grief was not something people acknowledged.”

In this episode of Grieve Love Heal, we speak with our first of, hopefully, many grief experts! Valerie's House Director of Partnerships and Clinical Support, Amy Strom, joins us to answer common questions about grief, and especially childhood grief, based on her more than 20 years of clinical experience. She is a licensed clinical social worker, a certified school social work specialist, a certified Sand Tray Therapist, a college professor, and much more! 

TV commercials, school projects, and greeting card displays make it nearly impossible to forget Mother's Day, which can be really tough for people whose mothers aren't here anymore. In this episode, Valerie's House Founder & CEO Angela Melvin, who lost her mother when she was 10, talks to 3 dads and another woman whose mom passed away when she was a child about how they handle Mother's Day without mom. 

If you want to learn more about how Valerie's House helps grieving children and families, visit valerieshouse.org. Have an idea for a podcast topic or want to be a guest? Email alexa@valerieshouse.org. 

A Valerie’s House mom, widow, and mother of 5 named Jessica joins Valerie's House Communications Coordinator Alexa on this episode of Grieve Love Heal. Jessica opens up about the sudden death of her husband when he was only 33 years old and shares her experiences in solo parenting their five children in the two years since he passed away. 

Content warning: In this episode, we discuss death by suicide and suicidal ideation. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts about suicide, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at (800) 273-8255 or text HOME to 741-741 to connect with a Crisis Text Line Counselor. You can also find a variety of resources about discussing suicide loss and preventing suicide on our website at valerieshouse.org under the Grief Resources tab. We’re glad you’re with us to discuss this important and difficult topic. 

Suicide. It almost feels like a bad word, and it’s definitely not something most people feel okay talking about. But for those who have lost someone they love to suicide, and for those who may be struggling with suicidal thoughts, it’s something we need to talk about. Suicide rates have been rising steadily for the past several years, and the rise in youth suicide rates has increased exponentially since the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic. While we know death by suicide isn’t easy to talk about, it’s so important to. These candid conversations can help others who have lost a loved one know they’re not alone and increase awareness about this ongoing mental health crisis.

Joining us on this episode are three members of the Valerie’s House community who have lost someone dear to them by suicide. They talk about what it feels like to live on after this kind of tragic loss, the stigma surrounding suicide, and to share what helped them through it.

Learn more about Valerie's House and support the show at valerieshouse.org.

In this emotional episode, we’re joined by licensed clinical social worker Aman Singh and members of the Valerie’s House community to discuss the signs they have received from their loved ones who have passed away. From dragonflies to actually feeling the touch of their deceased loved one, these first-hand accounts about grief and signs from their late family members are honest and bittersweet. 

See Aman’s suggestions for creative ways to stay connected with departed loved ones, learn more about Valerie’s House, and support our mission at valerieshouse.org.