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    BRAND NEW INFLUENCER: Be A Superstar In the Next Era of Social Media, with Andy Frisella - MFCEO285

    enFebruary 05, 2019

    Podcast Summary

    • Embrace Authenticity and Focus on Personal GrowthAuthenticity and hard work are essential for success, regardless of genetics or appearances. Focus on personal growth and surround yourself with a strong support system.

      Authenticity and hard work are key to success, regardless of genetics or external appearances. The speaker, Andy, emphasizes the importance of being true to oneself and focusing on personal growth, rather than trying to mimic others or hide one's strengths and weaknesses. He also highlights the importance of having a strong support system, as demonstrated by his relationship with his brother Sal. The conversation between the hosts showcases their distinct styles and strengths, reminding listeners that everyone has unique qualities to offer. Ultimately, the MFCEO project aims to provide listeners with the tools and information they need to succeed in various aspects of their lives, encouraging them to take ownership of their reality and make the most of their unique circumstances.

    • Embrace your unique journey to self-improvementIdentify your strengths, build an authentic personal brand, stay committed to your goals, and learn from struggles instead of comparing yourself to others.

      Everyone's journey to self-improvement and building a personal brand is unique, and it's essential to embrace the struggles and learn from them instead of comparing ourselves to others. The speaker shares his experience of dealing with his own physical struggles and how they have made him more resilient and better equipped to help others. In the business world, trying to copy what successful influencers do is a flawed approach. Instead, it's crucial to identify your unique strengths and build a personal brand that authentically represents who you are. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of taking consistent action and staying committed to your goals to overcome challenges and make a positive impact on your audience.

    • The value of an engaged following is more important than the number of followersFocus on quality interactions to build a high-engagement following that aligns with your brand, as companies value authentic engagement over large but unengaged followings

      Social media influence is evolving, and the value of an engaged following is more important than the number of followers. Real influence comes from targeted comments and likes, rather than generic or irrelevant ones. Companies are becoming smarter and are looking for influencers with engaged followings that align with their brand. Building an engaged following requires focusing on the quality of interactions rather than the quantity. The days of getting by with large but unengaged followings are coming to an end. So, it's essential to adapt and shift your strategy towards building a high-quality, engaged following.

    • First to market success vs. authentic connectionEarly adopters may gain initial success, but focus and authenticity become more valuable as market matures. Micro-influencers with engaged followings are preferred over large influencers for stronger relationships.

      Being the first to market can provide initial success, but failure to adapt and evolve will eventually lead to being surpassed by competitors. This is particularly relevant in the social media landscape, where engagement and authentic connection are key. Early adopters may have had success through sheer numbers, but as the market matures, focus and authenticity become more valuable. Micro-influencers with engaged, focused followings are increasingly preferred by brands over large influencers with less engagement. Additionally, the value of engagement deepens as followings grow smaller, allowing for stronger relationships to be built. It's crucial to understand the past, present, and future trends in order to remain successful and influential.

    • Embrace Change for GrowthStay updated with new trends and technologies, build trust and loyalty, and be authentic and vulnerable to engage followers.

      Constant evolution and adaptation are crucial in business and personal growth. Those who refuse to change risk being left behind as new technologies and trends emerge. Education, trust, and loyalty are key to building an engaged following, and authenticity and vulnerability are powerful tools for connecting with fans. Vulnerability should not be confused with whining or a sob story, but rather sharing the truth about one's struggles and experiences. Ultimately, it's important to remember that influence and value come from being genuine and authentic, not from holding oneself up on a pedestal.

    • Being authentic and vulnerable builds deeper connectionsSharing struggles and truths fosters deeper connections, leading to greater influence and sales.

      Authenticity and vulnerability are key to building a focused, engaged following as a social media influencer. Sharing the truth about one's struggles and experiences, rather than trying to appear perfect or elitist, allows people to connect with you on a deeper level. This, in turn, can lead to greater influence and the ability to sell the valuable products of hope, attention, and time. Additionally, staying ahead of the curve by not copying others and focusing on specific, meaningful content is essential for success. Authenticity and vulnerability, combined with a unique and valuable message, are the keys to building a loyal and engaged following.

    • Authenticity and genuine connection matter on social mediaBe true to yourself and engage with your audience authentically to build a loyal following on social media. Avoid influencers who bring negative attention and focus on genuine connections.

      Authenticity and genuine connection are key to building a successful and engaged following on social media. The speaker emphasizes the importance of representing your brand with people who genuinely support it and avoiding influencers who may bring negative attention or distract from the brand's message. He also stresses the importance of being true to yourself and engaging with your audience in a real and meaningful way, rather than just focusing on likes and superficial engagement. The speaker's own success is a testament to this approach, as he has built a large and loyal following by being authentic and open with his audience. He encourages others to embrace their weaknesses and be true to themselves, as this will help them connect with their audience and build a strong and supportive community.

    • Staying true to oneself and creating valueAuthenticity leads to personal growth and a loyal following. Create value through social media content that educates, entertains, or impacts.

      Being authentic and true to oneself, even when faced with criticism or harsh truths, can lead to personal growth and the creation of a loyal following. The speaker shares an experience of being called out for his weight and using it as motivation to lose 30 pounds. He emphasizes the importance of being honest and encourages others to do the same. He also discusses the power of a supportive community, which will defend and come to the defense of its members when outsiders criticize. The speaker also touches upon the topic of creating value through social media content, emphasizing that it should educate, entertain, or impact in order to be worth sharing. Overall, the discussion highlights the importance of staying true to oneself, creating value, and building a supportive community in the digital age.

    • Focus on authenticity and core audienceAuthenticity helps identify non-resonators, enabling growth without holding back. Not for everyone, focus on core audience for success.

      Focusing on authenticity and catering to your core audience is more valuable than trying to please everyone on social media. The speaker emphasizes that 50% of people will never like you, regardless of who you are or what you do. Instead, it's essential to engage and provide value to the 50% who are predisposed to like you. Authenticity can help you identify those who don't resonate with your brand, allowing you to evolve and grow without being held back. This mindset is crucial for success in both business and social media. Remember, you're not for everyone, and that's okay. Instead, focus on delivering content that connects with your core audience and encourages engagement and conversation. This approach will help you build a loyal following and increase your chances of converting potential customers into fans and advocates for your brand.

    • Maximizing Earnings as an Influencer: Focus on Direct Response MarketingTo succeed as an influencer, focus on creating authentic, trackable content that resonates with your audience and drives results. Be selective with brand partnerships and stay true to your values for long-term success.

      To maximize earnings as an influencer, it's essential to excel in direct response marketing. This means creating focused, trustworthy content that resonates with your audience and drives trackable results. Companies are increasingly shifting their focus towards influencers who can provide tangible returns, and those with large, engaged followings stand to make significant income. However, many macro influencers struggle to adapt due to ego, fearing a perceived step back in status. But in the digital world, everything is trackable, and those who embrace change and authenticity will thrive. It's crucial to be selective with brand partnerships, aligning only with those that align with your values and audience. By staying true to yourself and focusing on direct response marketing, influencers can set themselves up for long-term success.

    • Understanding the evolution of social media and setting realistic goalsTo grow a successful social media presence, focus on building an engaged community through authentic storytelling and engagement. Use tools effectively and remember growth takes time and effort.

      Growing a successful social media presence requires understanding the evolution of the platform and setting realistic goals based on current conditions. Social media influencers who focus on building engaged communities, rather than just amassing large followings, are the ones who are most successful in monetizing their platforms. To do this, influencers must tell compelling stories and engage with their audience through comments and direct messages. The path to building a large, engaged community may be different now than it was in the past, but the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and storytelling remains the same. Additionally, it's important to note that the ability to monetize a social media presence has changed, and influencers with smaller followings should focus on growing a dedicated and engaged audience rather than trying to reach a massive following. The key to success is to understand the importance of storytelling and engagement, and to use the various tools available on social media platforms effectively. It's also important to remember that growth on social media takes time and effort, and it's important to stay focused and persistent in building a community. And, don't be intimidated by the success of others, everyone started from zero at some point.

    • Authentic social media presence goes beyond spontaneous postsProvide value through complementary captions and stories, share struggles, and tell stories to connect with audience, post consistently with high-quality content.

      Being authentic on social media is more than just posting spontaneously. It requires purpose and the use of various tools effectively. Instead of focusing on superficial comments, aim for meaningful engagement by providing value through complementary captions or stories. Share your struggles and tell stories to connect with your audience. Your post is your finished product, your stories are behind-the-scenes content, and your captions are your opportunity to tell a story and connect with your followers. It's not necessary to post multiple times a day, but consistent, high-quality content will keep your audience engaged and asking for more.

    • Quality over quantity in social media postsFocusing on creating high-quality content and engaging with followers is more important than the frequency of posts to build a loyal and engaged following.

      The frequency of social media posts does not determine success. Instead, focusing on creating high-quality content and engaging with followers is more important. Ad fatigue is a real issue, and people can become desensitized to constant posts. Even influential figures should avoid letting their egos get in the way and remember that authenticity resonates with audiences. The success of social media presence depends on the value and connection created with followers, rather than the number of posts per day or week. Additionally, the speaker shares a historical analogy of weekly columnists who built large followings with just one piece of content per week. Therefore, pouring all efforts into creating meaningful content, regardless of the frequency, can lead to building a loyal and engaged following.

    • Behind the scenes and vulnerabilityAuthenticity and sharing vulnerabilities can help build a community and inspire others on social media

      Authenticity and relatability are key to success on social media. Quality content is important, but it's not just about the finished product – it's also about the behind-the-scenes, the imperfect moments that make us human. By sharing our vulnerabilities and struggles, we can connect with our audience and build a community based on shared experiences. As Derek's story illustrates, we may all face similar challenges, and by acknowledging that and sharing our own journeys, we can inspire and empower others to keep going. So, don't be afraid to let your guard down and show the world that you're just like them – a little bit further along the path, but still very much in the same boat.

    • Provide value by solving problemsBe successful by solving people's problems through attention, convenience, or hope, and effectively communicate these solutions with honesty, vulnerability, and relatability.

      To be successful and make an impact, you must provide value by solving people's problems, whether it's through attention, convenience, or hope. The ability to influence and improve people is more valuable than any amount of money. This is exemplified by figures like Mark Zuckerberg, who solves the problem of attention, and the St. Louis Cardinals, who provide hope and a chance to win. To effectively communicate and sell these solutions, be honest, vulnerable, and relatable. Remember, people buy what you sell, whether it's figuratively or literally. So, whether you're starting out or already successful, focus on providing value and communicating effectively to make a difference.

    • Making a Positive Impact for Personal Fulfillment and Financial SuccessFocus on helping people and making a difference for personal fulfillment and potential financial rewards. Stay committed to your business and value, trust, and loyalty will follow.

      Focusing on making a positive impact on people's lives, rather than just making money, can lead to both personal fulfillment and financial success. The speaker shares his personal experience of staying committed to his business despite not making much money in the beginning, but eventually seeing the money come in as a result of the value he provided to his customers. He emphasizes that social media platforms offer a unique opportunity to help people and make a difference, and that doing so can lead to monetary rewards. The speaker also touches on the importance of education, trust, and loyalty in building a successful business. While some may focus on superficial aspects of social media, such as likes and comments, the speaker encourages using the platform to do good and make a real difference in people's lives. The speaker also mentions that this concept applies to any business, not just those focused on social media.

    • Leaving a high-paying job for authenticity and successAuthenticity and providing value can lead to long-term success, even if it means initial sacrifices.

      Being true to yourself and taking a stand for what you believe in, even if it means making sacrifices, can lead to great success in the long run. This was exemplified by a friend who left a high-paying job to join a startup and worked additional jobs to make ends meet. Despite the initial hardships, he is now thriving and the company is growing. It's important to remember that what may not be popular or get many likes or comments today, can make a significant impact in the future. Authenticity and providing value are becoming increasingly important in today's world, especially in the social media sphere. Those who evolve from being image-based celebrities to providing true value through their stories will continue to be successful as the industry shifts towards focused, engaged content.

    • Making difficult decisions leads to successStay true to yourself, learn from successful people, adapt to new trends, focus on offering value, and stay committed to your goals for long-term success.

      Making unpopular, hard decisions can lead to success, even if it feels scary and vulnerable at first. The speaker shares his personal experience of making a difficult career transition despite opposition, and how it ultimately paid off. He emphasizes the importance of staying true to yourself and your beliefs, even when the external world may reward the opposite behavior. The speaker also encourages learning from those who are successful in your desired field and adapting to new trends, rather than relying on outdated methods. He warns against building a following based on superficial qualities, as they are perishable, and instead, encourages focusing on offering value and connecting with people. Ultimately, the speaker's message is to stay committed to your goals, even when the path may be uncertain or difficult, and to trust that the long-term benefits will outweigh the short-term challenges.

    • Don't Focus Solely on Physical Appearance OnlineFocusing too much on looks online can hinder genuine connections and respect from others. Contribute positively and authentically instead.

      Focusing too much on one's physical appearance on social media can lead to wasted time and missed opportunities for genuine connections. Instead, contributing positively and authentically to online communities can result in more meaningful engagement and respect from others. Additionally, first impressions are not always accurate, and people deserve to be seen for their actions and intelligence rather than just their looks. As for personal vices like drugs or alcohol, it's essential to recognize the potential negative consequences and avoid them. Lastly, it's important to remember that people are complex and multifaceted, and we should strive to understand and appreciate their strengths beyond their physical attributes.

    • Authenticity and caring for others are keys to successBe authentic, care for others, and focus on making a meaningful impact to achieve true success

      Authenticity and genuine care for others are the keys to true success. The speaker emphasizes that presenting oneself in a relatable way, even if it goes against societal norms or expectations, is more effective than pretending to be something one is not. He also stresses the importance of understanding the difference between genuine intentions and disingenuous actions. The speaker believes that those who genuinely care and aim to help others will ultimately win, while those who only care about their own success will be left behind. He encourages listeners to focus on making a positive impact on people's lives and to avoid becoming "deadweight" in their personal and professional pursuits. The speaker also warns against relying on superficial metrics like likes, comments, and followers to measure success and instead encourages a deeper understanding of what truly matters. In essence, the takeaway is to be authentic, care for others, and focus on making a meaningful impact in the world.

    • Be authentic and true to yourselfFocus on communicating unique stories and experiences, embrace your qualities, and find your audience. Authenticity is a valuable asset that resonates with people.

      Being authentic and true to yourself is the key to connecting with others. Trying to be someone you're not will only result in disconnection. Instead, focus on communicating your unique stories and experiences. Even if what you sell may not be considered "sexy" or entertaining on its own, find creative ways to make it so through education and entertainment. Authenticity is a valuable asset that cannot be replicated, and there are always people who will connect with and appreciate who you truly are. As the speaker mentioned, there are millions of people out there who will resonate with you, no matter who you are. So, embrace your unique qualities and find your audience. Don't try to be Amazon or anyone else – be yourself and let your authenticity shine through in your sales process.

    • Educate and entertain for engagementTo succeed in social media, provide value through education and entertainment, find your unique voice, and experiment to connect with your audience.

      To succeed in social media, one must educate and entertain their audience (E2I = E). This equation, coined the "Social Media Einstein Equation," emphasizes the importance of engaging with your audience and providing value through both education and entertainment. It's essential to find your unique voice and zone, where you can effectively connect with your audience and create content that resonates with them. Don't be afraid to experiment and step out of your comfort zone, as this is where you may discover your most successful content. Remember, the ultimate goal is to impact and engage your audience, leading to growth and success.

    • Embrace your uniqueness and be authenticAuthenticity builds connection and engagement. Share behind-the-scenes moments to create vulnerability and value.

      Being authentic and relatable is key to building a successful online presence. The journey may be filled with struggles, but your experiences and genuine self are valuable to those who come after you. Authenticity creates vulnerability and real connection, which is what people are looking for in today's digital era. Sharing the behind-the-scenes moments of your daily life, rather than just the polished end result, can make a big difference in engaging your audience and building long-term value. So, don't be afraid to start and embrace your uniqueness. Your greatest strategic advantage is being yourself.

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