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Exploring new perspectives and beliefs: Listening to the TED Radio Hour can challenge, inspire, and change our perspectives, and supporting public radio allows these ideas to reach a wider audience, fostering a more informed and engaged society. Consider making a difference through end-of-year donations or planning for the future.
Our perspectives and beliefs can evolve, often in unexpected ways. As shared in the story of former Congressman Bob Inglis, even deeply held convictions can change when we're open to new information and perspectives. In the context of the podcast, the TED Radio Hour, the ideas presented challenge, inspire, and change us, pushing us to dream big and consider new perspectives. Meanwhile, supporting public radio through donations allows these ideas to reach a wider audience, fostering a more informed and engaged society. Planning ahead, whether for end-of-year donations or preparing for the future, is a meaningful way to make a difference for ourselves and our communities.
A Congressman's Transformation on Climate Change: Former Congressman Bob Inglis learned the importance of being open-minded, adaptable, and willing to change beliefs for the better, even in the face of challenges and backlash.
Former Congressman Bob Inglis underwent a significant transformation on climate change, inspired by his love for his family and the evidence he saw from scientists. Despite the challenges and backlash, he proposed climate legislation, even if it meant losing his reelection. The experience taught him the importance of being open-minded, adaptable, and willing to change our beliefs for the better, even when it's difficult. In politics, being flexible in our thinking can lead to more compassionate relationships and a deeper understanding of different perspectives.
Losing a primary election feels like a divorce for politicians: Politicians can find solace in staying true to their beliefs and values, even after a primary loss. Framing climate action in conservative language can build a constituency and lead the way for others.
Losing in a primary election can be a painful experience for politicians, even more so than losing in a general election. Former Congressman Bob Inglis shared his experience of being uninvited from the party after losing a primary, drawing a comparison to a divorce. However, he found solace in focusing on climate change and creating a conservative platform for addressing it through his non-profit, Republic EN. Inglis emphasized the importance of framing climate action in the language of conservatism to build a constituency and lead the way for politicians to follow. He encouraged politicians to take a stand and lead, rather than following fearfully, and not to risk nothing in their time in Washington. In essence, the conversation highlights the significance of staying true to one's beliefs and values, even in the face of adversity.
Rethinking our beliefs is crucial in a changing world: Embrace rethinking to adapt to new situations, learn from mistakes, and grow as individuals. Distinguish between rethinking and flip-flopping.
Being open to rethinking our opinions and convictions is crucial in today's rapidly changing world. As Adam Grant, an organizational psychologist and author of the book "Think Again," points out, our reluctance to reconsider our beliefs can be compared to a frog in a slowly heating pot of boiling water, failing to realize the danger until it's too late. It's essential to distinguish between rethinking and flip-flopping. Rethinking means evolving our ideas based on new information or changing circumstances, while flip-flopping is changing our minds for convenience or to appease an audience. By embracing the idea of rethinking, we can adapt to new situations, learn from our mistakes, and grow as individuals. So next time you find yourself stuck in your ways, take a step back and consider whether it's time to reevaluate your beliefs.
Study on students' responses to challenged beliefs: Some students thrive on having their beliefs questioned, revealing intellectual security and curiosity, while others may react negatively.
The study conducted by Henry Murray in the late 1950s on stressful interpersonal disputation revealed an interesting response from students when their deeply held beliefs were challenged. Some students were devastated and felt rage, while others found the experience agreeable and even enjoyable. The positive reactions suggest that these students saw value in having their blind spots exposed, indicating a higher level of intellectual security and curiosity. However, it's important to note that this study was conducted with a specific demographic, and the findings may not apply to all populations. Today, we're grappling with the challenge of fostering intellectual discourse and respectful disagreements in a world where some individuals have never been asked to articulate their beliefs, while others may resort to violence or consider questioning their beliefs to be unkind.
Embrace a scientific mindset for personal growth and better understanding: Be open-minded, humble, and curious. Learn from challenges and disagreements, and strive for growth through thoughtful discussions.
Adopting a scientific mindset in our thinking can lead to personal growth, better understanding of the world, and more meaningful conversations. This means being open-minded, humble, and curious, not making our ideas our identity, and being motivated to disprove our hypotheses as much as we are to support them. A key example of this mindset in action is Nobel Prize winner Daniel Kahneman, who embraces being challenged and being wrong as opportunities for learning and discovery. Instead of seeing disagreements as a win-lose situation, we should strive to engage in thoughtful discussions, asking questions to learn and grow together.
The Power of Open-Minded Conversations: Approaching discussions with open-mindedness and curiosity can lead to productive conversations, bridging divides, and fostering understanding.
Being open-minded and curious can lead to productive conversations and the potential for changing one's perspective, even in deeply held beliefs. As Adam Grant shares in his book "Think Again," approaching discussions with a non-judgmental attitude and genuine curiosity can help bridge divides and foster understanding. This was evident in his conversation with a friend who held strong anti-vaccine beliefs. By asking open-ended questions and acknowledging the complexity of the issue, Grant was able to shift the dynamic of their conversation and create a space for reconsideration. This approach not only benefits personal relationships but also contributes to a larger culture of open-mindedness and learning.
Alternative approach to accountability through 'calling in': Empathy-driven approach to accountability encourages productive conversations and reduces conflict by using love, grace, and respect instead of anger, blame, and shame.
Our current political and social climate is often characterized by disconnection and conflict, much like a house with mismatched rooms and unconnected staircases. Loretta Ross, a civil rights activist and organizer, proposes an alternative approach to accountability and change through "calling in" rather than "calling out." This method, which involves using love, grace, and respect instead of anger, blame, and shame, can lead to more productive conversations and understanding. Ross emphasizes that this approach requires empathy, a skill that she has learned over time, and encourages us to invite people into conversations instead of publicly humiliating them. This approach can help reduce the violence and conflict that pervades our society, and allow for more effective communication and growth. The tragic events at the Center for Democratic Renewal in 1979, which inspired Ross's work, illustrate the importance of holding people accountable while also showing respect and empathy.
Transforming Hate Through Empathy and Dialogue: Empathy and dialogue can transform hate and violence. Approach conflicts with calmness, curiosity, and inner compassion to create a more understanding and compassionate society.
Hate and violence can be addressed through understanding, compassion, and dialogue instead of anger and hate. This was the belief of Reverend C.T. Vivian, who inspired Loretta to help reformed hate group members. Loretta's experiences showed that even those who had spent their lives promoting hate could be transformed through empathy and respect. She emphasizes the importance of "calling in" instead of "calling out," which involves approaching conflicts with calmness and curiosity, allowing for growth and affirming inner compassion. By leading with love and empathy, we can reach out to those we may have given up on and create a more understanding and compassionate society.
Calling in instead of calling out: Acknowledge values and humanity to foster productive conversations, rather than dehumanizing those with controversial views.
Instead of attacking or calling out those with controversial views, especially during emotionally charged situations, try to "call them in" by acknowledging their values and humanity. This approach, as demonstrated by the speaker's experience with her "uncle Frank," can lead to less defensiveness, more reflection, and ultimately, a more productive conversation. This method is not about giving a pass to jerks, but rather treating everyone as human beings, which is more likely to result in understanding and change. It's important to remember that people in power should be held accountable for their actions, but dehumanizing them decreases their willingness to listen.
Effective collaboration requires respect: Recognize the importance of respectful communication and understanding to counteract hate and make a difference in addressing complex social justice issues.
Respect is essential in social justice work. Loretta Ross, an organizer and activist, emphasizes that people can sense disrespect, regardless of how it's expressed. She believes that effective collaboration is crucial to counteracting hate and the negative narratives that profit from division. Ross also highlights the importance of recognizing our collective power and working together, rather than succumbing to the victim narrative. By focusing on respectful communication and understanding, we can make a difference in addressing the complex issues of social justice.
