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    In this enlightening episode, Dr. Velez hosts the renowned psychologist and author, Dr. Shefali, who is celebrated for her transformative books, including "The Conscious Parent," "The Radical Awakening," and "The Parenting Map." Dr. Shefali shares her profound insights on conscious parenting and personal growth.

    Dr. Shefali discusses the shift from traditional, authoritarian parenting to a more soulful and connected model. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and mindfulness in parenting, highlighting how our conditioning and anxiety to create the "perfect child" can hinder our ability to truly connect with our children.

    The conversation delves into the power dynamics between parents and children, stressing that children are not meant to be controlled but rather guided with love and understanding. Dr. Shefali emphasizes the significance of mothers and their ability to nurture and empower their families.

    This episode offers a powerful message: by becoming conscious, doing the self-work, and prioritizing self-growth, both parents and children can lead more abundant and empowered lives.

    Dr. Shefali's wisdom is a guiding light for all listeners, offering valuable insights for conscious parenting and personal transformation.

     

    To learn more about Dr. Shefali's EVOLVE summit visit:https://www.evolvewithdrshefali.com/  Use code: EVOLVE for a 20% discount

     

    Link to her books: https://www.drshefali.com/books/

     

    The content on The Mindful Corner Podcast should not be taken as medical advice. The content here is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. You are encouraged to consult your doctor concerning your specific health condition and because each person is unique, please consult your healthcare professional for any medical questions.


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    Books Kathleen recommend by age range:
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    Link to Body Boundaires Consent and Respect book mentioned in today's episode: https://amzn.to/3NAxVxh

     

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    Resources:
     
     
      
    Silverman, L. K. (2013). Giftedness 101. New York: Springer.  
     

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