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    Ebb and Flow

    en-gbApril 21, 2023
    What does Bruce Lee's advice about being like water suggest?
    How did the speaker adapt to her husband’s job change?
    Why is regular self-assessment important in life changes?
    What impact did neglecting change have on the speaker's mood?
    How can journaling help prioritize self-care and personal needs?

    Podcast Summary

    • Adapting to change: go with the flow and find balanceBe present and mindful of changes, adapt with grace and resilience, and find balance through stillness and reflection

      Life is constantly changing, and it's essential to find a balance between adapting to the flow and taking time to ebb and assess. Change can come in various forms, some expected and others unexpected, and it's crucial to be prepared for both. Bruce Lee's advice of being like water can be applied here - go with the flow, but also recognize the need for stillness and reflection. I've experienced this firsthand with my husband's recent job change. Initially, I struggled to adapt to the new schedule, feeling frustrated and anxious about the impact on our relationship and family life. However, by taking time to ebb and assess, I was able to make adjustments and find a new balance that worked for us. The key is to be present and mindful of the changes around us, allowing us to flow through life with grace and resilience.

    • Adapting to life's changes for a fulfilling balanceRegularly check in with yourself to assess life's changes and make simple shifts for improved well-being

      Life is constantly changing, and it's essential to take the time to adapt and adjust to these changes to maintain a fulfilling and balanced life. The speaker shares her personal experience of neglecting a significant change in her own life and the impact it had on her mood and relationships. She also highlights the changing needs of children as they grow, adding to the complexity of managing life's ebbs and flows. To stay on top of these changes, the speaker shares her solution of regularly checking in with oneself to assess the current state of life and identifying simple shifts that can be made to improve overall well-being. By prioritizing personal needs and adjusting routines, the speaker was able to find a better balance and enjoy more quality time with her family.

    • Understanding your needs and being presentJoin the Put Yourself First Journal Journey to prioritize self-care and identify daily needs for a better life.

      Being present and understanding your needs is crucial for getting what you need from life. Change is constant, and it's essential to be aware of your current moment and what you require to thrive. To help prioritize self-care and identify daily needs, consider joining the "Put Yourself First Journal Journey." This daily journal prompt via journal30.com will guide you through introspection and empower you to take control of your life. Stay tuned for more Everyday Positivity episodes, and remember, you have the strength to overcome challenges. Don't forget to sign up for the journal journey waitlist to secure your spot.

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