Encore: The Secret World of Swinging and Hotwifing

en-usOctober 01, 2019

SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver

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About this Episode

We all have our own dirty little secrets, do we not? Hotwife Taylor Leigh and Gabriel Mann share their own secrets with Lexi Sylver during a very revealing conversation about their tell all memoir, SeXXXperience, which offers an unfiltered look into the erotic worlds of swinging, escorting and adult films, and how their committed, successful and loving marriage thrives on and in these extremes. Taylor and Gabe talk about about their journey from torrid love affair to making porn, and a lot of other very sexy topics, including the details of what it is like within the swinging lifestyle, their relationship dynamic with Taylor being a hotwife, what their status as a provider couple means for their marriage, and their tips for what makes for a successful swinging relationship and a happy marriage. They also debunk some of the most common myths that some people have about swingers and the swinging lifestyle, and offer some advice to couples who want to open up their relationship.

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