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    Ending an Engagement (ft. Tianna Robillard)

    enJuly 18, 2024
    What did Tiana Robillard experience during her breakup?
    How did Tiana maintain a positive outlook during challenges?
    What role did friendship play in Tiana's recovery?
    How did Tiana's social media journey begin?
    What signs indicated issues in Tiana's relationship?

    Podcast Summary

    • Moving on from difficult situationsFinding joy and positivity in challenging times can help us move forward and inspire others to do the same. Friendship and exploring new places are valuable resources for finding happiness.

      Life can be unpredictable and chaotic, but it's important to find joy and positivity even in difficult situations. The episode features a guest, Tiana Robillard, who shares her experience of going through a public breakup and moving on from it. Despite the challenges, Tiana maintains a positive outlook and encourages others in similar situations to do the same. The podcast also touches on the importance of friendship and exploring new places as means of finding happiness. Tiana grew up in a small town in Washington State and went to college late, starting her social media journey only seven months ago. Despite the recent growth in her following, she has always had a creative spirit and a desire to share her experiences with others.

    • Pursuing passions despite uncertaintyBelieving in yourself and having a support system can lead to significant growth and opportunities when pursuing your passions, even if it seems uncertain or scary.

      Taking a leap of faith and pursuing your passions, even when it seems uncertain or scary, can lead to significant growth and opportunities. This individual shared their experience of leaving a stable job to focus on growing their TikTok following, which ultimately tripled in the first 48 hours after making the decision. However, this transition was not without fear and uncertainty, as their family did not fully understand the concept of making a living through social media. They emphasized the importance of having a support system and believing in oneself during this process. The individual's experience also highlights the challenges of breaking new ground and having to explain and defend their choices to those around them. Despite these challenges, they remained committed to their goals and ultimately found success.

    • Relationship vibesTrust your instincts and pay attention to subtle signs and changes in communication as they can indicate major shifts in relationships, possibly signaling bigger issues that may require action.

      Sometimes, subtle signs and changes in communication can indicate major shifts in relationships. In this story, the woman sensed something was off during a trip to Paris, and her suspicions were confirmed when she received messages about her ex-boyfriend cheating. Despite feeling excited about their future plans, she felt unsupported in her career growth and was unhappy with the dynamic of their relationship. The situation came to a head when she discovered the infidelity, leading her to leave the relationship and pack up her things. It's important to trust your instincts and pay attention to the vibes in a relationship, as they can signal bigger issues that may require action.

    • Leaving toxic relationshipsLeaving a toxic relationship, despite challenges, leads to personal growth and inspiration for others. Trust and self-worth are crucial in relationships, and prioritizing one's own well-being is essential.

      Leaving a toxic relationship, even when it's painful and difficult, can lead to personal growth and inspiration for others. The speaker in this conversation shares her experience of discovering her partner's infidelity and the courage it took for her to leave, despite the challenges and hardships that followed. She emphasizes the importance of trust and self-worth in a relationship and the strength and resilience that comes from making a difficult decision. Her story serves as an inspiration for others going through similar experiences and highlights the importance of prioritizing one's own well-being. Additionally, the public nature of her relationship added an extra layer of complexity, as she felt the need to explain her situation to her audience while also processing her emotions.

    • Social media assumptionsSocial media can lead to unwarranted assumptions and negative feedback, causing emotional distress. It's essential to trust instincts, recognize red flags, and not try to 'fix' people.

      Social media can lead to unwarranted assumptions and negative feedback, causing emotional distress. The speaker shared her experience of being in a public relationship and receiving hateful comments, despite initially receiving love and support. She found it challenging to defend herself and question her own relationship dynamics based on 10-second videos. The speaker emphasized that people often don't understand the complexities of relationships and the importance of trust and communication. She learned that it's essential to trust her instincts and not stay in a relationship out of societal pressure. The speaker also acknowledged the challenges of balancing personal growth and supporting a partner in the public eye. Ultimately, she realized that it's crucial to recognize red flags and not try to "fix" people.

    • Love and RelationshipsIt's important to put effort into relationships and love deeply, even if they don't work out. Self-compassion and taking risks are key to overcoming fear of getting hurt.

      It's okay to put your heart into relationships and love deeply, even if things don't work out as planned. The speaker shares her experience of feeling embarrassed after putting so much effort into a relationship that ended, but ultimately recognizes the importance of taking risks and giving it her all. She also emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and not letting fear of getting hurt hold her back from future relationships. Additionally, during a lighter moment in the conversation, the speaker shares her type in men, revealing a playful and passionate side. Overall, the conversation highlights the vulnerability and courage it takes to open ourselves up to love and connection.

    • Instagram communication, personal decisionsExpress feelings in relationships, consider context, focus on personal happiness, communicate discomfort, build healthy relationships through open communication

      Communication is key in any relationship, whether it's about Instagram stories or personal decisions like getting a boob job. If something bothers you, it's important to express your feelings to your partner. In the case of the Instagram story, it's understandable that the girlfriend feels hurt and left out if her boyfriend consistently posts stories for his friends but not for her. However, it's also important to consider the context and length of the relationship. In the case of getting a boob job, it's essential to focus on personal happiness and not let the opinions of others dictate your decisions. And in situations where a partner is doing something that makes you uncomfortable, it's crucial to communicate your feelings and set boundaries. Overall, open and honest communication is essential in building and maintaining healthy relationships.

    • Comparing past relationshipsFocusing too much on past relationships can hinder the present, communication and trust are essential in dealing with past relationships, and building a strong and healthy connection is key.

      Everyone has a past, and comparing yourself to past partners or feeling insecure about their history can be a normal but uncomfortable feeling in a relationship. It's important to remember that everyone has experiences before meeting you, and focusing too much on the past can hinder the present. Communication and trust are essential in dealing with past relationships or encounters. If your partner is open and respectful about sharing their past, it's important to acknowledge and appreciate their honesty. However, dwelling on the past can be unhealthy and potentially damaging to the relationship. Instead, focus on building a strong and healthy connection with your partner and have confidence in your own worth.

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