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    About this Episode

    I’m still on the hunt for the elusive answer to the challenges of “work-life-balance” and “having it all,” as a driven, passionate, successful, mom in the 21st century.

    I don’t have the million dollar solution, but I’ve given it a lot of thought, and I do have some suggestions for how we can do both motherhood and career simultaneously.  Because what I know for sure, is that we desperately need women’s voices and influence in all sectors of leadership as well as within our families.

    In today’s show I share my own stories of trying to balance work and family (sometimes well and sometimes… not so much).  

    I also give several ways that I believe we can support ourselves, and each other, in balancing our professional desires with being a mom.  

    It’s hard as hell sometimes.  And, we need to keep going for it... And we can’t do it alone. And the world needs women’s voices. And children need their moms. And we need our sanity :)

     

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    Connect with us and learn more about our work:

     

    Sage: Speaking, leadership development & coaching, team building, and group facilitation www.sagebhobbs.com On LinkedIn

    Erica: Executive coaching and organizational strategy at Flying Colors LLC

     

    Help support antiracism work and community dialogue by SHARING to the show with your friends and family!

    • Click the “share” button on whichever platform you listen and send it to folks who would find it helpful

    • Good old “spread the word,” and talk about it with your people 



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    Connect with us and learn more about our work:

    Sage: Speaking, leadership development & coaching, team building, and group facilitation www.sagebhobbs.com

    On LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sagebhobbs/

     

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    See you next season! Until then - stay engaged, keep diving in, and support your community. <3

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    This is a harrowing time. Don’t forget to reach out and lean on your support networks, find healthy outlets for your emotions, and be an advocate and ally for those most experiencing the gravity of these decisions. Resources and more reading linked below. 

     

    Listen to hear us talk about 

    - Support networks: finding outlets for rage, reclaiming agency, and what to do when the people you love don’t share your values. 

    - Embracing nuance in a culture of extremism

    - Who actually experiences the lived burden of this decision? (Not men)

    - The immense undertaking of being a parent. 

    - Further consequences of this decision: people who are already under-resourced will be disproportionately affected. 

    What we’re watching:

    - Summer of Soul (...Or, When the Revolution Could Not Be Televised) - On Netflix

     

    Resources

    Abortion Laws by State: https://reproductiverights.org/maps/what-if-roe-fell/

     


     

    Connect with us and learn more about our work:

    Sage: Speaking, leadership development & coaching, team building, and group facilitation www.sagebhobbs.com

    On LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sagebhobbs/

     

    Erica: Executive coaching and organizational strategy at Flying Colors LLC:

    https://www.flyingcolorsllc.com/flying-colors-about-us- 

     

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