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    Episode 154| Lori Harder on Creating Your Bliss Tribe

    enMay 08, 2018

    About this Episode

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    Resources:

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    06:00 Exploring the Meaning of Life and Death

    08:39 Discovering the True Self

    11:17 Practicing Meditation to Strip Away Labels

    14:05 Using Personal Triggers for Self-Discovery

    20:16 Healing the Fear of Abandonment

    24:49 Receiving Feedback and Overcoming Self-Criticism

    27:30 The Power of the Sacred Pause

    29:28 Key Takeaways from the Book

    36:22 Cultivating Gratitude in Daily Life

    40:52 Connecting with Haemin Sunim

    Resources

    Haemin Sunim is one of the most influential Zen Buddhist teachers and writers in South Korea, where his books have sold more than three million copies and are popular as guides not only to mediation but also to overcoming the challenges of everyday life. Born in South Korea, he came to the United States to study film, only to find himself pulled into the spiritual life. Educated at UC Berkeley, Harvard, and Princeton, he received formal monastic training in Korea and taught Buddhism at Hampshire College in Amherst, Massachusetts. He has more than a million followers on Twitter (@haeminsunim) and Facebook and lives in Seoul when not traveling to share his teachings.

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    4. Optimizing macronutrients, micronutrients, and fiber intake is important for overall health and weight management.

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    6. Traditional health advice may not always lead to optimal health outcomes, and individuals should take control of their own health.

     

    Time Stamps:

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    03:15 Setting Goals and Psychological Edges

    04:40 Weight Loss and Battling Biology

    08:16 Strategies for Long-Term Success

    10:29 Addressing Women's Unique Challenges

    18:13 Optimizing Metabolism and Hormones

    21:01 The Importance of Nutrigenomics

    22:26 Macronutrients and Micronutrients

    25:30 The Role of Fiber in the Diet

    32:03 The Four Phases of Ketogenic Adaptation

    35:00 The Importance of Micronutrients

    42:05 The Impact of Exercise on Metabolism

    47:28 The Role of Psychology and Emotions in Weight Loss

    55:06 Key Strategies for Success

    58:22 The Importance of Protein, Preparation, and Resistance Training

    01:00:43 Consistency and Decision-Making

    01:02:39 The Benefits of Consistent Eating Habits

    01:03:38 The Importance of High-Quality Sleep

    01:04:37 The Impact of Micro Exercise Movement

    01:07:23 The Flaws in Traditional Health Advice

    01:09:12 Investing in Health for a Better Quality of Life

    01:10:10 The Ultimate Nutrition Bible

    Resources

    Matt Gallant is a kinesiologist with a degree in the Science Of Physical Activity and the CEO/Co-Founder of BIOptimizers. He’s been a strength and conditioning coach for multiple pro-athletes, a self-defense instructor, and has over 18 years experience formulating supplements. He’s been successfully following a mostly ketogenic diet for over 30 years. He’s also a serial entrepreneur who’s built over 14 profitable companies.

    Wade T. Lightheart is a Certified Sports Nutritionist Advisor and president/director of education and co-founder of BIOptimizers. As a plant-based and drug-free athlete for more than two decades, Wade is a three-time National Natural Bodybuilding Champion who competed in both the IFBB Mr. Universe and the INBA Natural Olympia by the age of 31. At the age of 50, Wade came out of retirement to win the Open Men’s and Grand Master’s Categories at the INBA Ironman International, then competed at The PNBA Natural Olympia. Six months later, Wade successfully ran his first marathon in four hours.

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    Takeaways

    1. Tarot offers endless opportunities for learning and discovering new techniques, spreads, and interpretations.

    2. Bri has a diverse collection of tarot decks, including a unique Santa Muerte deck and the Sacred Dakini Oracle by Penny Slinger.

    3. Bri is also a collector of rare occult books and ran the Bruja Bookshop, an online store for rare books.

    4. The Manley P Hall Library in Los Angeles is the largest occult and esoteric library on the West Coast.

     

    Timestamps

     

    00:00 Introduction to Bri Luna and the Hoodwitch

    03:03 The Concept of Blood Sex Magic

    14:14 Exploring Death and Ancestral Practices

    38:07 Getting Started with Magic and Rituals

    45:08 Tarot as a Mirror for the Soul

    48:48 Exploring Different Tarot Decks

    52:11 The Bruja Bookshop and Rare Occult Books

    53:32 The Manley P Hall Library

    56:21 Connecting on Social Media

     

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    Episode 529. Breaking Chains and Embracing Healing with Memoirist Brittany Means

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    Get ready for an empowering episode of Radically Loved as we dive into the inspiring journey of Brittany Means, a dynamic writer and editor who's breaking the cycle of abuse and rewriting her narrative. In this riveting conversation, we explore the intersections of poverty, abuse, and addiction while delving into the importance of recognizing signs of abuse and neglect.

    Brittany opens up about the complexities of forgiveness, sharing her unique perspective on this transformative process. She bares it all on the vulnerability of memoir writing, detailing the surprises and challenges encountered during her courageous journey.

    But that's not all – we get an exclusive sneak peek into Brittany's upcoming project on health and mental health within religious communities, promising thought-provoking insights.

    In this episode, you'll discover that breaking the cycle of abuse requires self-awareness and a reflective examination of how past experiences shape our behavior. Recognizing signs of abuse and neglect becomes a crucial step in fostering a safe space for children to share their truths.

    Takeaways
    1. Breaking the cycle of abuse requires self-awareness and reflection on how past experiences have shaped one's behavior.
    2. Recognizing signs of abuse and neglect is crucial in order to support children and create a safe environment for them to speak their truth.
    3. Forgiveness is a complex process that can be defined in different ways for different people. It is important to find a definition that aligns with one's own healing journey.
    4. Writing can be a cathartic tool for processing trauma, but it is essential to prioritize self-care and engage in grounding practices outside of writing.
    5. Memory is unreliable, and our brains can create different narratives of the same events. It is important to be aware of the limitations of memory when writing memoirs.
    6. Connecting with mentors and finding inspiration from other writers can be instrumental in developing one's own writing style and pursuing a career in writing.

    Timestamps
    00:00 Introduction and Trigger Warning
    00:59 Introduction of Guest
    01:56 Breaking the Cycle of Abuse
    04:30 The Intersection of Poverty, Abuse, and Addiction
    09:25 Recognizing Signs of Abuse and Neglect
    12:30 The Complexity of Forgiveness
    21:26 The Intimacy and Vulnerability of Memoir Writing
    24:55 Mentors and Inspirations
    29:36 Self-Care and Writing Practices
    38:19 Cutting Out Parts of the Book and Surprises in the Writing Process
    42:23 Upcoming Project
    45:06 Connecting with Brittany Means
    46:13 Final Takeaway

    Resources:

    Remember that seeking help is a sign of strength, and there are people and organizations ready to provide support. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, please call emergency services in your country.

    Hotlines:
    National Domestic Violence Hotline (USA): https://www.thehotline.org/
    Phone: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) TTY: 1-800-787-32242.
    RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network - USA): https://www.rainn.org/
    National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (4673)
    Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline (USA): https://www.childhelp.org/
    Phone: 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)
    National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (USA): https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/
    Phone: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)
    National Sexual Violence Resource Center (USA): https://www.nsvrc.org/

    International Resources:


    International Directory of Domestic Violence Agencies: http://www.hotpeachpages.net/ 2. International Suicide Prevention Hotlines: https://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html

    Online Resources:
    Pandora's Project: http://www.pandys.org/
    Psych Central - Abuse and Trauma Center: https://psychcentral.com/lib/types-of-abuse
    Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN) Online Hotline: https://ohl.rainn.org/online/

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    Episode 528. Unveiling Truths in Tantra, Self-Love, and Mentorship with Katie Silcox

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    This week Radically Loved welcomes Katie Silcox back to kick off 2024! Katie Slicox is author of the book 'Glow Worthy.' In this episode we discuss various topics including tantra, spiritual bypass, self-love, and the importance of mentors. Katie also guides a meditation practice. The conversation emphasizes the need for honesty, truth, and compassion in our spiritual journeys.

    We Talk About:

    1. Tantra teaches that the very thing we want to avoid or run away from is often the key to our growth and healing.
    2. Spiritual bypassing is the repression of difficult emotions and the tendency to intellectualize or spiritualize our experiences instead of fully feeling them.
    3. Self-love is a journey that requires honesty, openness, and the ability to hold space for our own pain and imperfections.
    4. Having a mentor or teacher who can mirror our strengths and weaknesses with compassion and wisdom is a powerful form of radical love.
    Episode Highlights:
    00:00 Introduction and Book Discussion
    08:22 Exploring Tantra
    16:06 Understanding Spiritual Bypass
    23:24 Guided Meditation
    32:50 Radical Love and Mentors

    Resources:

    Katie Silcox, M.A. is the New York Times Best-Selling author of the book Healthy, Happy, Sexy - Ayurveda Wisdom for Modern Women and the upcoming new book - Glow-Worthy. She is the founder of The Shakti School, a premier online certification school for women-centered holistic wellness. She holds a master’s degree in Ayurvedic Medicine, is a member of the National Ayurvedic Medicine Association and is currently pursuing depth studies in Jungian Psychology. Her platform focuses on the convergence of ancient holistic medicine, functional medicine science and heart-centered spirituality. In her former life, she has been a researcher in Artificial Intelligence, a cover model for Yoga Journal magazine in Russia and the owner of a beach bar in Spain.

    Connect with Katie Silcox
    Website: https://theshaktischool.com/
    Glow-Worthy Book: https://theshaktischool.com/glow-worthy-book/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheShaktiSchool/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theshaktischool/
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ShaktiSchoolTV

    Connect with Rosie Acosta:
    Get You Are Radically Loved the book: https://www.radicallyloved.com/book
    Listen to Rosie on Radio Headspace: https://open.spotify.com/episode/51BBKoCzz2Wzmi7TTsYfNI?si=65bc001ec09d4e8e&nd=1
    Create a daily meditation ritual in just seven days! Download BUILD YOUR DAILY MEDITATION RITUAL and other freebies at https://www.radicallyloved.com/free-stuff!

    Connect with Tessa Tovar:
    Website: https://tessatovar.com/
    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tessamarietovar/
    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tessa-tovar-baa27613/
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/altyogagirl
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHMYm-7kNZfulgaiCi2w8Cw
    Outside the Studio Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/outside-the-studio-with-tessa-tovar/id1483077110
    Book of Poetry for Savasana: https://www.amazon.com/Dark-Moon-Book-Poetry-Savasana/dp/1731243588