Episode 173: Kids’ Perspective on Foster Care and Adoption

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Summary:

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Summary:

Today is all about something extra special! We've packed our gear and hit the road to bring you an exclusive behind-the-scenes experience. Right now, we're on location at Foster Cooperative's training day, immersing ourselves in a day of learning and growth.

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Summary:

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08:07 - The Hero Complex

09:58 - What is Love?

11:00 - If you Loved them Better...

13:10 - "We're on Your Team"

14:35 - Rose-Colored Glasses

17:40 - Your Purpose is Greater

19:01 - The Heart Connection

21:17 - Handling Trauma

24:07 - Drip Drip Drip

26:00 - Self-Judgment

28:09 - It is not a Fault

30:17 - Deep Connections

32:01 - Choosing to Show Love

36:34 - Gratitude

36:55 - The Takeaway

37:58 - Resources

39:09 - Connect with Us!

39:33 - Thank You!

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Summary:

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Resource Links:

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Summary:

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39:47 - Filling Your Own Cup

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42:36 - Resources

45:11 - Connect with Us!

45:50 - ThankYou!

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Episode 173: Kids’ Perspective on Foster Care and Adoption

Summary:

Resource Links:

Educate | Foster Arizona

Foster - Step 1 and 2 - Let's Get to Know You | Arizona Department of Child Safety

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Email: info@fosteraz.org

Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

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National Foster Care & Adoption Directory | Child Welfare Information Gateway

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Episode 172: Foster Care Land Between: Planning Your Future in the Unknown

Summary:

As we wrap up 2024, we're diving into the complexities of foster care planning. Unlike the conventional New Year's resolutions, the foster care journey is a unique landscape filled with uncertainties. In today's raw and unfiltered discussion, it's just the two of us sharing our personal experiences without any guests. We want to pull back the curtain on the challenges and emotions that come with navigating the foster care land between.

As we all contemplate what the coming year holds, those entrenched in foster care face a different set of considerations. Planning takes on a whole new meaning. Join us as we explore the intricacies of making decisions in the midst of uncertainty, reflecting on the hurdles, and finding the courage to move forward. Whether you're part of the foster care community or simply curious about the realities, this episode aims to resonate with you on a profound level. Tune in for an honest conversation about the uncharted territories of fostering, hoping it sparks a connection and provides insights into the often overlooked aspects of this journey.

Resource Links:

Foster Cooperative

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Instagram: @FosteringVoices

Chapters:

00:09 - On Today's Episode

00:55 - Welcome!

01:32 - In the Thick of the Crazy

03:22 - What is the Land Between?

06:20 - Handling the Phases

08:10 - Managing Emotions

12:13 - Emotional Roller Coaster

15:05 - Being Fully Invested

17:09 - It Affects More than Just Us

20:48 - Bringing in the Family

22:17 - Pre Foster Training

23:04 - Us vs. Them

25:56 - It's not About the Socks

29:53 - Controlling what you Can

34:02 - Connect with Community

36:04 - Create a Memory

39:21 - Don't be Afraid to Connect

41:36 - Resources

42:11 - Connect with Us!

43:16 - Thank You!

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Summary:

Welcome to a festive episode of our podcast, where we dive into the heartwarming world of holiday traditions and intentional joy. As we usher in the holiday season, we're joined by some special guests – the Vehon kids! In this intimate conversation, we explore how our family of 9 embraces the spirit of togetherness and crafts unique traditions that redefine the meaning of festive celebrations.

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Resource Links:

Rolo Pretzels Recipe - The Girl Who Ate Everything

Butterscotch yule log: A retro Christmas dessert recipe from the 60s - Click Americana

Christmas 2023: Phoenix holiday lights map

Foster Care & The Holidays

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The Importance of ICWA Foster Homes: A Personal Account | American Indian Policy Institute

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Episode 170: A Look Into Tribal Foster Care

Summary:

In this episode we peel back the curtain and take a look into tribal foster care. Joining us are Brad and Karin Dahlman, a remarkable couple who have dedicated themselves to fostering children for many years. Through tribal foster care, they've opened their hearts and homes to dozens of kids, making an immeasurable impact on our community. Karin sits on the board of Foster Arizona, and Brad is one of those people we can call to rally troops or step into a problem. We absolutely love them and are really grateful we all get to learn from them today. Tune in as we dive deep into their incredible journey as foster parents and explore the vital role of tribal foster care in the lives of children. Join us for an inspiring and informative conversation that sheds light on the challenges and rewards of this vital work.

Resource Links:

For Families & Service Providers » NICWA

Foster a Future for American Indian Children | Arizona Department of Child Safety

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Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

Instagram: @FosteringVoices

Chapters:

00:09 - On Today's Episod

00:43 - Welcome

01:17 - Brad and Karin Dahlman

01:38 - Life Before Foster Care

02:27 - Deciding to Foster

04:01 - Answering the Call

04:21 - Adjusting to the Decision

06:17 - Tribal or Not?

08:27 - Overcoming Tribal Challenges

13:37 - Kill 'em with Kindness

15:07 - It's all About Relationships

16:45 - Let them Lead Us

18:29 - The Baby Book

19:59 - From Baby Book to Dad

20:16 - Packing the Children Up

22:28 - Losing a Child

24:17 - Can't do it for Yourself

24:55 - Stronger for It

25:55 - Never too Old

26:56 - Unexpected Blessings

28:11 - Being on the Same Page

30:15 - Changing Visions

31:57 - Misconceptions

32:58 - Starting Late

34:23 - 7 kids; 6 and Under

35:09 - You Can!

35:47 - The Takeaway

37:21 - Resources

38:52 - Connect with Us!

39:16 - Thank You!

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Episode 169: Talking Adoption with an Adoption Attorney

Summary:

Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast with Kim and Brian! In celebration of Adoption Awareness Month this November, join us for a special episode dedicated to all things adoption. Our guest, Ed Johnson, a revered local attorney deeply embedded in foster and adoption circles, brings a wealth of experience to the discussion.

In this insightful episode, Ed shares his years of knowledge, shedding light on crucial aspects of the adoption journey. If you're on the path to adoption in Arizona, don't miss the opportunity to connect with Ed—his contact information will be in the resource notes. As advocates for informed parenting, we emphasize the importance of understanding the unique spaces of loss associated with adoption. Education is key, and the more you empower yourself with knowledge, the better equipped you'll be to support your children, present or future.

We hope today's conversation sparks valuable insights and encourages ongoing discussions about adoption. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of this meaningful journey.

Resource Links:

Ed Johnson - adoptionlawaz@gmail.com, 480-209-2847

The Primal Wound by Nancy Newton Verrier

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Chapters:

00:03 - Intro

00:53 - Welcome!

01:42 - Ed's Story and Work

02:25 - Having a Voice in the Court System

03:53 - Ed's Experience with Adoption

05:39 - Kids Need to be Remembered

06:09 - Appreciating RAD

07:54 - The Joy and Reality of Adoption

10:12 - FIrst Hand Experience with Trauma

12:18 - Relating to One Another

12:46 - Support Leads to Successful Adoptions

15:56 - Resilience Leads to Successful Adoptions

17:51 - Those who Stick Around

18:54 - It's a Family Affair

19:25 - Who's Your Favorite Child?

20:24 - Other People's Perceptions

23:08 - To Foster or To Adopt?

27:03 - Talking about Severence

28:24 - Talking about Cost

30:24 - Subsidies for Fostering

35:23 - The Practical Support of Subsidy

36:56 - The Courtroom Process

40:03 - After the Courtroom is Over

42:08 - The 30-dollar Staple

44:29 - Freedom After Adoption

46:39 - Extended Family

47:35 - The Takeaway

48:59 - Resources

51:01 - Connect with Us!

51:24 - Thank you!