Episode 390: Unconditonal support - 15 years of lessons

All I wish career guidance considered while helping people to pick a career - it's time to change our focus from the hamster wheel to a lifestyle choice

Reading this book reminded me of the hell of private - posh school ... what should have just been an opportunity - why wasn't it? and why does dedication need to be private for there to be opportunity? 

Book this podcast is inspired by:

All the Money in the World

Sarah Moore Fitzgerald

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/57805402-all-the-money-in-the-world?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=0FHmTxbmlA&rank=5

Finding your tribe, not having friends at school, the different meanings of friends to different people, growing and changing groups - just keep experiencing and don't search for somewhere to belong outside yourself! 

Quote:

"Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards." -  Søren Kierkegaard 

Inspiration: If I mention the word belonging this book should be included! It's an audiobook too 
Belonging: From Fear to Freedom on the Path to True Community

Angel Kyodo Williams

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/55384181-belonging?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=PKMRkn17KK&rank=5

What are white supremacists really trying to kill with their bombs? 

We need to be selfish at a certain stage of our life and it would be better if we felt special - felt we had something to add to the world around us - achieved for ourselves so we can fully present for good relationships beyond our teen years... 

How do we get to a place where we believe in something so much that we don't need revenge?

John Berger reads Ghassan Kanafani's 'Letter from Gaza'

https://youtu.be/-ThCEzFWLOQ

Ghassan Kanafani: The commander who never fired a gun
https://youtu.be/NvqcsbNyu-w?feature=shared

Two Holocaust Experience books:

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4069.Man_s_Search_for_Meaning?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=PAAPsoN6Bb&rank=1


https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1617.Night?ref=nav_sb_ss_2_5

Music of the Concentration Camps:
https://www.smithsonianmag.com/arts-culture/horrors-holocaust-jewish-musicians-composed-songs-survival-terezin-180982704/

Follow your passions, what you are good at - your dreams

There is always a way back to education 

don't make your dreams Plan B! 

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A glimpse of the Authentic Expression Podcast and my Patreon space

The lessons I have learned in 15 years of support - the trust I require now to move forward with my own sustainable way to support more people 

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How do you fit in and be unique at the same time... how to find your own style .. not just be a clone of the influencers? Comfortable but standing out too?

Get role models for questioning toxic masculinity 

https://news.sky.com/story/andrew-scott-and-paul-mescal-on-toxic-masculinity-the-most-macho-man-will-be-the-first-to-break-13054759