Episode 97 - Stepparenting and Blending Families with Amy Stone

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WHEN IS IT OKAY FOR ME TO SAY NO?

On this episode we are joined by Kristin Hutchison. Kirstin is a podcaster, comedian, and a “Hope Dealer”. On this episode we discuss:

• Focusing on what’s important

• The facade of social media

• Marriage and family matters

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

Kristen’s website: https://www.facebook.com/kristinbeingkristin/

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WHAT IS DYSCALCULIA?

On this episode we are joined by Wesley Jackson. Wesley is a survivor, overcoming a difficult home life as a child and being gifted while have two undiagnosed learning disabilities. On this episode we discuss:

• Overcoming addiction

• Twice exceptionalism

• Implementing positive habits

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

Wesley’s website: https://www.survivinghumanity.net/

About Wesley

While being blessed and privileged in many ways, much of Wesley’s life has been rife with mental, emotional, and even physical abuse.

Due to this, he spent much of his life living with feelings of anger, fear, guilt, and shame bottled up inside him.

This trauma was made worse due to being “twice-exceptional”, leading to a life full of hardship and misunderstanding.

What all of these experiences ultimately led to was a life completely full of denial and a near-absolute void of self-love.

He has gotten through this by reconnecting with his authentic self from childhood - before all of the conditioning and programming.

Wesley believes that if we hope to ever collectively heal this world, we must begin by first discarding the guilt, shame, and fear we feel when it comes to both expressing our authentic truths and acknowledging our lived experiences for what they were.

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MY CHILD LEARNS DIFFERENTLY, NOW WHAT?

On this episode we are joined by Betsy Hill. Betsy is the mother of three boys and an award-winning educator. On this episode we discuss:

• Why are teachers leaving the profession?

• Building learning capacity

• How parents can help their child’s learning ability

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

Betsy’s website: https://mybrainware.com/

About Besty

Betsy Hill is the mother of three boys and an award-winning educator. She studied the neuroscience of learning with Dr. Patricia Wolfe and other pioneers in the field, coining the term neuroeducator. She is former chair of the board of trustees at Chicago State University and teaches strategic thinking at Lake Forest Graduate School of Management where she received a Contribution to Learning Excellence Award. She received a Nepris Trailblazer Award for sharing her knowledge, skills and passion for the neuroscience of learning in classrooms around the U.S. She holds a Master of Arts in Teaching and an MBA from Northwestern University.

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WHAT SHOULD I DO TO IMPROVE MY MARRIAGE?

On this episode we are joined by The Behaviorist David. David spent 20 years working as a trainer and mental health clinician and is the author of the Self-Awareness Method (SAM™) and ‘Safe/Unsafe: Understanding Modern Relationships - Field Guide’. On this episode we discuss:

• Resurrecting a failing marriage

• Why ‘emotional refraction’ is it so important to staying together

• Figuring out your real needs

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

David’s website: https://mymilan.com.au/

About The Behaviorist

I can explain many different aspects of the human experience and how we connect with others. My aim is that each listener gains a better understanding of themself and easy tips to improve their relationships. I focus on helping people recognise the issues being faced in their life and providing practical strategies. I started my relationship journey with complex childhood trauma and as a young person, enlisted in the army. I then spent time as a private investigator. After re-training as a mental health practitioner, I have since seen thousands of people in their darkest hours. I have had the privilege of walking alongside many people on their journey of empowerment, resilience development, self-awareness, communication, and boundary setting.

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HOW DO I BECOME A SUCCESS AFTER A DIFFICULT START?

On this episode we are joined by Clint Arthur. Clint is a Pulitzer Prize nominated author of his 21st Best Selling book, “Wisdom of The Men.” On this episode we discuss:

• Going from a Taxi Driver in Hollywood to a millionaire

• How Clint achieved his goal of appearing on the Today Show

• Clint’s experience at the Las Vegas mass shooting

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

Clint’s website: https://www.clinttt.com/

Get Clint’s Pulitzer nominated book: https://www.is.gd/wisdomofthemen

About Clint

Clint Arthur has shared the stage with Martha Stewart, Dr Oz, Suzanne Somers, Caitlyn Jenner, IceT, and five presidents of the United States at Harvard, Cambridge, Oxford, London Stock Exchange, NASDAQ, Mercedes, Porsche, Coca Cola, Microsoft, AT&T and the Royal Society of Medicine. His 21st bestselling book, “Wisdom Of The Men,” is nominated for the Pulitzer Prize. Clint splits his time between homes in New York City, Los Angeles, and Acapulco, Mexico where he lives with his wife of 20 years, Ali, and Nova, their Billion Peso Puppy.

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I HAVE A STRONG-WILLED CHILD, HELP!

On this episode we are joined by Michelle McVittie. Michelle helps parents feel in control and confident with practical tips and parenting strategies. On this episode we discuss:

• Long Term parenting strategies

• ADHD

• Understanding the thinking of a strong-willed child

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

Michelle’s website: https://momthemanager.ca/

About Michelle

Michelle helps parents feel in control and confident with practical tips and parenting strategies.

Michelle has worked with families and children for over twenty years: with young offenders, as a behaviour specialist in daycares, in pediatric medical and mental health, supervised private practice and in her own business. She takes all of her experience and help you understand what is behind your child and teens behaviour and give you practical tips and resources to build connection and more cooperation. Children don’t come with a manual, her services are the next best thing.

Ready to calm the chaos at home and get your children to cooperate and listen? Michelle is here to support you. You got this!

HOW CAN THE DECISIONS WE MAKE IMPACT OUR FUTURES?

On this episode we are joined by Eric Daddario. Eric helps students and student-athletes understand how making better life decisions now leads to a more fulfilling life. Eric also reflects on his brother’s life and talks about some of the decisions that could’ve prevented his death. On this episode we discuss:

• Addiction and loss

• Benefits of playing sports

• Making good decisions

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

Eric’s website: https://thedecisionswemake.com/

About Eric

Students are struggling to make healthy choices when dealing with pain and adversity. As a result, they make unhealthy decisions that do not solve their problems and are more likely to make them worse. This can lead to mental health challenges, including addiction, anxiety, and depression. Unfortunately, many youths believe they deserve what they are experiencing and, without help, will continue further down their darkened paths.

Eric helps students and student-athletes understand how making better life decisions now leads to a more fulfilling life. Through stories and examples, the students and athletes learn how they can immediately change the course of their own lives and the lives of others.

In our conversation, I include real-life experiences, including having witnessed my younger brother make poor decisions that ultimately led to his death. Of course, we also discuss people who have turned their lives around through making positive choices.

If your audience includes students, student-athletes, or their teachers and parents, I would enjoy the opportunity to show them how the decisions they make every day can have long-term consequences on their lives.

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HOW DO I KNOW WHEN I’VE STOPPED “RAISING” MY KIDS?

On this episode we are joined by Paul White. Paul is a husband, father, retired 21-year Air Force veteran, coach, author, and fighter pilot instructor among other things. On this episode we discuss:

• Knowing when you’ve transitioned from raising your kids

• Marriage

• Coaching and life lessons through sports

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

Paul’s website: https://www.1of5project.com

About Paul

Paul “Roscoe” White is a retired 21-year Air Force veteran with over 1500 hours as tactical flight instructor in the F-15E, F-16 and F-35. He still teaches and mentors young fighter pilots as a civilian contract fighter pilot instructor.  Paul has also won multiple sports championships as a player and as a coach. Over the years, he has studied and developed strategies to motivate people to be better versions of themselves via a fusion of hard work, positive attitudes and solid character traits.
Working as a flight instructor made Paul a better coach, and being a coach made him a better instructor. Continually striving for excellence in these two competitive environments made Paul a better father and husband. Paul believes that anyone can be a champion in life with the right direction and work ethic.

Books:
I Love America, Vol 1. November 11, 2022

No New Lessons: A crazy story about re-learning life lessons in Alaska’s deadly wilderness…What could go wrong? December 6, 2022

WORK HARD. DON’T SUCK.: Life lessons from dad to son told through hilarious, personal family stories. Spring 2023

Youth Sports Coaching: A coaches guide to becoming a champion at youth sports. Spring 2023

Director, The 1 of 5 Project
https://www.1of5project.com

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I LOVE WHAT I DO, HOW DO I AVOID BURNOUT?

On this episode we are joined by Kate Glendon. Kate is a public health professional with experience in community health promotion and prevention with a focus of total wellness. On this episode we discuss:

• Avoiding burnout

• Building healthy habits

• Having happier relationships

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

Kate’s website: https://www.glendoncoaching.com/

About Kate in her words

I know what it feels like to burn the midnight fire from all ends -from work, relationships, and failed diets. I know that burning in your heart and head and the desire to be happy but not knowing how. I want to support women and men that I didn't have. I want to empower others to be their best selves. -I'm Kate, and I will inspire your audience to develop healthy, positive changes. As a Certified Professional & Mindset Coach, I can help others clarify their goals, identify the obstacles holding them back, and develop strategies for overcoming each barrier. In creating these strategies, I target your unique skills and gifts. By helping them make the most of their strengths, I provide the support they need to achieve long-lasting change

I am a dynamic, forward-thinking master's level public health professional with experience in community health promotion and prevention with a focus on total wellness and specializing in Planning - Policy Development - Media Relations - Community Mobilization - Program design and implementation, and management. Kate is an authentic leader who leads with her heart and listens to her clients to develop their vision statement and to create a road map toward their change. Kathryn assists communities, groups, and individuals in increasing their quality of life.

JUST DISCOVERED YOUR CHILD IS USING DRUGS?  WHAT NOW?

On this episode we are joined by Darryl Rodgers. Darryl is a speaker, author, and family recovery coach. On this episode we discuss:

• Discovering his son had died

• Advice for parents and children

• Signs that it's time to give your addicted child the ultimatum

For places to listen, places to connect on social media, to be a guest, collaborate with or sponsor DTE visit: https://linktr.ee/DisruptTheEveryday

Darryl’s website: https://www.darrylrodgers.com

About Darryl in his words

My oldest of two boys, Chase, attended college on a football scholarship.  He dropped out in the second semester of his freshman year after developing a drug addiction.  When I first learned of Chase's drug habit, I didn't know anything about substance use disorders, and I panicked.  I made a lot of parenting mistakes.
Through an intervention, we were able to get Chase into treatment, but I didn't realize the proper role of the family in the recovery process.  In some ways I was enabling Chase and doing things that may have contributed to his eventual relapse.

I worried about Chase constantly, but it seemed as though my efforts to help him only made matters worse.

Chase returned home from treatment and was doing well with his recovery at first, but months later, he relapsed and in 2014 at the age of 20, Chase died in a drug-impaired wreck.  Chase was a passenger in the front seat of his own car.  The 18-year-old driver took her own life 7 months later.  

After Chase died, I immersed myself in learning everything I could about substance use disorders. (drug & alcohol addiction).

I wrote a book about Chase's life.  I began doing drug prevention speaking.  I read books about addiction, attended seminars, and watched videos.  I volunteered to facilitate a peer support group for parents with children struggling with a substance use disorder.  

There is no cure for a substance use disorder, but I have discovered steps parents can take to give their child the best opportunity at recovery.