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    Erika Lust || Ethical Porn

    enAugust 27, 2020
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    Podcast Summary

    • Catering to individual needs and desiresJCPenney celebrates diverse body types and budgets, SYNBOTICA offers effective and tasty all-natural supplements, NerdWallet compares travel credit cards for rewards, and Erika Lust's films promote sex positivity and intelligent narratives.

      Both JCPenney and SYNBOTICA prioritize individual needs and preferences. At JCPenney, everyone is celebrated with fashion options that fit various body types and budgets. SYNBOTICA offers all-natural supplements that work effectively and taste great. Additionally, travel credit cards can earn significant rewards, as compared and curated by NerdWallet. In the realm of entertainment, Erika Lust's adult films challenge the status quo by promoting sex positivity, intelligent narratives, and women's involvement in the industry. Overall, these brands and experiences emphasize the importance of catering to individual needs and desires.

    • Adult films focusing on human connection and emotional depthEx Confessions and La Cinema prioritize respectful adult cinema, focusing on authentic stories and diverse individuals, prioritizing emotional depth and human connection over objectification and disrespectful language.

      The adult film industry often objectifies women and uses disrespectful language, reducing them to sexual objects for male fantasy. This perpetuates a structural problem where women's pleasure is not prioritized. In contrast, Ex Confessions and La Cinema aim to create adult films that respect people and focus on human connection and emotional depth, rather than just showing body parts. They strive to work with diverse individuals, regardless of age or body type, and prioritize authentic stories and situations. As the director, Erika Lust writes her own scripts and works to understand the characters' emotional connections and motivations. Ultimately, they aim to create well-crafted, respectful adult cinema that showcases real people having sex, while maintaining clean values. As Lust stated in her TEDx talk, "The sex can stay dirty, but the values have to be clean."

    • Communicating about sexuality and consentOpen conversations about sexuality and consent promote understanding, respect, and safer connections. Ethical adult industry can serve as a platform for exploration, but always prioritize performers' consent and safety.

      Open and honest communication about sexuality and consent is crucial for individuals to understand their desires and connect with others. The adult industry, when ethical, can serve as a platform for exploring such topics, but it's essential to ensure the performers' consent and safety throughout the production process. The popularity of taboo porn may reflect human curiosity and the desire to explore forbidden territories, but it's essential to approach these topics with respect and consent. Overall, fostering open conversations about sexuality and consent can help reduce shame and create stronger connections between people.

    • The Adult Entertainment Industry: Real People and CompaniesConsider values and ownership structures behind porn consumption, support independent producers.

      The adult entertainment industry, often perceived as a collection of free content online, is actually an industry with real people and companies investing time, money, and resources to produce content. Unfortunately, much of this content is stolen and uploaded to free sites, leaving the original creators unable to earn a living. This issue is not unique to the adult industry, as it mirrors the consolidation of power in other industries like big pharma and food. Consumers are encouraged to consider the values and ownership structures behind the porn they consume, and to support independent producers as they would with other industries. By being more aware and conscious consumers, we can help create a more equitable adult entertainment industry.

    • Empowering Consumers in the Adult Film IndustryConsumers hold power to influence ethical practices in the adult film industry by researching and supporting transparent and ethical brands.

      As consumers, we hold significant power in shaping industries through our choices and actions. This discussion touched upon the adult film industry, where ethical concerns include the age of performers, exploitation, and fair labor practices. While it's essential to be aware of these issues, it's also important to recognize that not all productions are the same. Consumers can make informed decisions by researching and supporting ethical and transparent brands. The adult industry, like many others, has both ethical and unethical practices. Producers are working to establish better standards and guidelines, but it's crucial for consumers to stay informed and vigilant. By making conscious choices, we can support ethical productions and help reduce exploitation in the industry.

    • Ensuring Authenticity and Realistic Portrayals in Adult ContentSeek authenticity in adult content by looking for about pages, interviews, and behind-the-scenes footage. Advocate for realistic and equal portrayals of sexual experiences in adult films.

      As consumers of adult content, it's important for us to ensure that the content aligns with our values and standards. This means looking for authenticity, such as about pages, interviews with performers, and behind-the-scenes footage, to understand the working conditions and motivations of those involved. Additionally, recognizing that porn has become a significant influence on young people's understanding of sex, it's crucial to advocate for more realistic and equal portrayals of sexual experiences in adult films. The speaker's personal journey led her to create content that challenges traditional stereotypes and prioritizes pleasure for all involved.

    • Exploring human desires and connections through cinemaCinema can broaden our perspectives on human sexuality and connections by exploring various desires and experiences. It's important to consider authentic representation and growth-oriented content.

      Exploring different forms of media, such as pornography in cinema, can broaden our perspectives on human desires and connections. The speaker, a humanistic psychologist, emphasizes the importance of growth-oriented and uplifting content that fosters self-understanding and empathy towards others. Cinema offers a platform to connect with various desires and experiences, expanding our understanding of the complexity of human needs and motivations for sex. However, it's essential to consider the nuances of objectification in these mediums and strive for authentic representation of performers' personalities and desires. Ultimately, engaging with diverse forms of media can help us explore our own depths and broaden our horizons. The speaker also highlights the complexity of human sexuality, as evidenced by a study by David Buss and Cindy Mestin, which identified over 500 reasons why people have sex. These reasons range from self-esteem to love and intimacy, power, and money. By acknowledging the multifaceted nature of human sexuality, we can challenge our assumptions and broaden our understanding of the various ways sex can enrich our lives.

    • Understanding emotional connections in intimate visual contentCreating emotionally meaningful visuals leads to increased reports of sexual satisfaction and a greater sense of life significance, while avoiding excessive objectification promotes healthy attitudes towards sexuality and intimacy.

      Creating meaningful and intimate visual content goes beyond just the cinematic aspects of filmmaking. It's essential to understand and portray the emotional connections between characters, creating a sense of care and intimacy that resonates with audiences. Research shows that such experiences lead to increased reports of sexual satisfaction and a greater sense of meaning in life. However, it's crucial to remember that objectification is not limited to women in pornography and can negatively impact men's self-perception. Ethical pornography that showcases diversity and avoids excessive objectification can contribute significantly to promoting healthy attitudes towards sexuality and intimacy.

    • Emphasizing Equality and Mutual Satisfaction in PornographyFeminist pornography prioritizes equality and mutual satisfaction, with women's involvement behind the scenes and on screen, and a focus on human nature and cultural influences.

      The discussion revolves around the importance of equality and mutual satisfaction in pornography, rather than focusing solely on one gender's pleasure. The speaker emphasizes the significance of having women participate behind the scenes and in representation on screen, as well as the need to grapple with human nature and cultural influences in creating pornography. They also acknowledge the importance of physical attraction in the industry, but aim to include diversity in all forms. Overall, the conversation highlights the value of open and critical discussions around feminist pornography and its goals of promoting healthy sexual relationships and inclusivity.

    • Complexities of Filming Adult ScenesThe adult film industry needs to acknowledge and represent the challenges and complexities of sex, including nerves and performance anxiety for men, and expand its repertoire to promote inclusivity and authenticity.

      The adult film industry, like real life, is not always a seamless sexual experience, and it's important to represent and acknowledge the difficulties and complexities of sex. Men, in particular, are underrepresented due to nerves and performance anxiety, which can make filming explicit scenes challenging. These issues are not unique to newcomers, as even experienced individuals can become nervous in front of a camera team. Expanding the repertoire of sexual activities portrayed in adult films and promoting inclusivity for all genders can help challenge limiting beliefs and provide a more authentic representation of sexual experiences. The industry would benefit from a more diverse group of creators to better reflect the experiences and perspectives of various individuals.

    • Representation and Inclusion in the Adult IndustryThe adult industry should represent and include diverse voices and experiences, from women and men, to people of all races and sexual orientations. Platforms like Ex Confessions and Erotic Films offer opportunities for this.

      Representation and inclusion are crucial in the adult industry. Regardless of where one is from or their perspective, everyone's voice matters. This includes women, who have historically been underrepresented, as well as men, and people of all races and sexual orientations. A great example of this is Ex Confessions, a project where anyone can anonymously share their sexual stories, which are then turned into short films. This platform allows for diverse perspectives and experiences to be showcased. Additionally, for those who prefer less explicit content, there's Erotic Films, which offers intriguing stories without graphic imagery. Erica's work extends beyond entertainment, as she's also the founder of The Porn Conversation, a nonprofit aimed at helping parents navigate open conversations about pornography with their children. Overall, her mission is to create a more inclusive and representative adult industry.

    • Talking to kids about pornographyInitiate open, honest conversations about pornography with kids at an age-appropriate level. Accept criticism and provide resources to help navigate potentially harmful effects.

      Parents need to have open and honest conversations about pornography with their children at an age-appropriate level. The world today makes it easier for kids to access pornography than ever before, and if parents don't initiate the conversation, someone else will. The Point Conversation website provides resources for parents to help them navigate these conversations. It's important to tell children how we feel about pornography and its potentially harmful effects, including the objectification of women and unrealistic expectations. Erika Lust, the founder of the website, encourages parents not to be shy about the topic and to accept that criticism from the porn industry is inevitable. By having these conversations, parents can help their children develop a healthy and positive attitude towards sex and relationships.

    • Empowering Women to Secure Their Financial Future with GainbridgeGainbridge helps individuals save for retirement, accessing current rates and product info, with the goal of securing a lifetime income and financial peace of mind.

      Gainbridge is empowering women to secure their financial future by providing retirement income that can't be outlived. Janice Torres and Austin Hegwitz, hosts of the Mind the Business podcast, emphasized the importance of saving for retirement in their conversation with small business owners. With Gainbridge, individuals can start saving now and have access to current rates, product disclosures, and other important information at gainbridge.io/parityflex. The ultimate goal is to have a retirement income that lasts a lifetime, providing peace of mind and financial security. Listen to Mind the Business, Small Business Success Stories on the Iheartradio app or wherever you get your podcasts to learn more about the tools and resources available to help turn your business ideas into success.

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