ex people pleasing - A Different Many Paths - The Memoirs

We are talking about my ADHD. We are talking about how it caused issues with my teachers, professors, parents, and surrounding environment. ADHD shouldn't be a negative and if teachers, professors, parents, and your surrounding village cannot unsee it, or understand you .That is on them and not you. How as I got older I handle myself and people like me. I try to help educate them in different ways to be better for themselves to not let people place them in "boxes".

Taking on your surrounding energies can take a lot out of you. It took my being triggered to finally realize I was deeper in empathetic life. I owned it and looked at myself. I talk about the end of marriage to my relationship with my ma and the boundaries I create for my emotions

From being little and finding your love and career path to doing stuff now. We are all connected in what we do until we are little. It should never stop you from being 40,50,60,70, and even 80 to 90 to change a career path and learn something different. Everything we go through grows us, and us learning is a humbling experience in life. Those learning lessons (good or bad) is what grows us. Let's talk about this start of Career Path with me. My love to being animal lover to music to bikers and changing humanity.

We are going to talk stubborn. Is being stubborn meaning you are independent, or does it mean you are setting boundaries. Or ... are you just stubborn? Let's talk about situations in my life to make stubborn.

Let's talk about the deep intuition we have inside of us. We are going to talk about the things we go through that grows us. And stories with it.

We are going to talk about mental health through the years, and learning to be humbled. I have learned a lot over the years when it comes to how professors to parents to my support system did not listen to me, or assume. How it affected me at a young age. How now, I have learned so much. Now, I do not hold any thing against my past, but how I have learned and do things better now.

I hurt my back a few years back and it was painful. I had figure out how to grow from that. The doctor wanted me on major pain meds. I decided not to go that route just Advil, and stretches. I went through physcal therapy and figured out how grow from that. Now, I find ways in helping, but I still have boundaries in what I can and cannot do . Times where I can still push my back out, but I still am able to help in different ways. How do I emotionally do that, how do I stop placing how my peers think I should help, but help in different ways. I am more communicative in that. On top, I talk about how we show empathy and boundaries to people that may go through it. Communication is the key when it comes to everything.

When I was little guns were not a political conversation like they are now. They were a conversation about how to own them, if you want to own them you had a choice, and what happens if something happened. I remember when I was little when my first experience with a gun and how it affected my entire family. It also changed me growing up. And many other situations happened that caused me to be afraid of them. If it was not for my gun owner friends I would still be afraid of them. Thankfully they came in and educated me in a healthy manner. And it was not a political viewpoint, but a rights viewpoints. And I am honored now to walk beside them. I am honored to listen to them. We are going to go back a bit and start this dialogue. This will be more than a 1 parter. I am not sure when the others will come. Let's start this dialogue.

Here we have a dialogue of the start overall communication about my 14-15 years 6 married, and the rest after going through courts and visitation. I had to start somewhere. Next week we will go back and talk about the past. I have to break the ice someway. We will talk about boundaries, seeing a bigger picture, not assuming, and understanding more to the story. Most of all, years later we are still dealing with it, but with boundaries it has helped to pause them.

Death is a hard topic to talk about and it is up to us to do better in this topic. United States handles death as a job, or no empathy. The weird, and feelings is in a textbook instead of how we truly feel. We talk about my journey with health Psychology and how 1 professor changed my viewpoint with how to look at death, and people around it. The unexplained. It is hard to talk about these different viewpoints. I believe we need to for us to realize no right way of thinking, and the unknown is scary, but none of us have truly died and come back. I do believe in heaven, and higher power. Maybe not the way the Bible States fully. I believe a lot more to it than just a few books that were written years ago by living people. I loved to chat about it. I love to feel now, and accepting that this deeper path is important to talk about because it brings out the human in us all. We are so afraid of walking away from society norms. It is true sometimes our thoughts can be crazy. Maybe crazy can be a good thing too. Let's start the dialogue about death, healing, grieving, and empathy.