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    A pause is more than a break in the conversation.

     

    A pause can be a spark of curiosity. It can be requesting consent to go deeper on a topic. Pausing can give you space to think through a decision and consider if it’s aligned with your values. And taking a pause can mean making space to Flaunt Your Fire.

     

    India digs into the ways taking a pause can show up in life, what taking a pause from Flaunt Your Fire meant in 2022, and why creating space to pause is so vital to our wellbeing.

     

    In this discussion:

    • How the physical clutter created by moving and combining households impacted India’s ability to create

    • Why India pressed pause to reevaluate if her content was aligned with her values and intention

    • Why she chose to focus on the life her business is in service to

     

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