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    Former Fire Fighter Ross Beckley tells his story of holding onto hope and how he discovered he didn’t need a badge to still save lives.

    en-auNovember 19, 2019
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    About this Episode

    As a former fire fighter Ross Beckley had to deal with some horrific situations – anything from car accidents to house fires – and it took its toll on his mental health. Today he and his  partner Ronnie, a social welfare worker, use his experience to help others. And he’s realised he doesn’t need to wear a badge to save lives.

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