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    Frans de Waal || Gender Through the Eyes of a Primatologist

    enMay 19, 2022

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    • Understanding Biological DifferencesAcknowledging and understanding biological differences between people, including those related to gender, is crucial for promoting equality and reducing misconceptions. Some assumed differences are baseless while denying obvious ones, and brain studies support deeper causes for transgenderism.

      It's important to understand and acknowledge biological differences between people, including those related to gender, rather than trying to ignore or suppress them. This perspective, based on the expertise of primatologist and biologist, challenges the ideological debates that deny or selectively use biological evidence depending on convenience. For instance, while biology is embraced in discussions about gender identity and homosexuality, it's often dismissed when it comes to discussing sexual differences in large populations. The author's book explores this topic, pointing out that some assumed differences are baseless while denying obvious ones. Transgenderism, a hot button topic, is seen as starting early in life and being irreversible, suggesting a deeper cause beyond cultural influences. Brain studies also support this view, revealing differences in certain areas between trans women and cisgender women. Overall, a more scientifically informed approach to understanding human differences is crucial for promoting equality and reducing misconceptions.

    • Biology vs Culture: The Complexity of Gender IdentityWhile biology may influence gender identity, culture and individual behaviors also shape its expression and perception. Acceptance of non-conforming individuals is more common in primates, highlighting the importance of respecting transgender rights.

      While biology may play a role in gender identity, culture and individual behaviors also significantly influence how gender is expressed and perceived. Unlike humans, other primates do not engage in labeling or creating boxes for gender identities, and they are more accepting of individuals who do not fit neatly into these categories. The case of Donna, a chimpanzee who exhibited masculine behaviors from a young age and eventually grew into a male-like physical form, illustrates this point. It's important to respect the gender identity and rights of transgender individuals, as we have learned with the acceptance of homosexuality, and recognize the complexity and nuance of human gender identity.

    • Understanding Social Structures: It's About Individual Variability and Power, Not Physical DominanceObservations of animal societies reveal that power and dominance are not always linked to gender or physical size, females can hold significant power, and power can be conferred through prestige and admiration.

      Individual variability and the distribution of power, rather than physical dominance, are the keys to understanding social structures in both human and animal societies. Contrary to the belief that male supremacy is the natural order, observations of our closest animal relatives, such as bonobos and chimpanzees, reveal that dominance and power are not always linked to gender or physical size. Females can hold significant power and influence in these societies, and power can be conferred through prestige and admiration rather than physical coercion. The distinction between authentic and hubristic pride and the roots of social status as dominance and prestige also apply to other primate species.

    • Alpha leadership in animal groupsAlpha individuals, whether male or female, lead and protect their groups, fostering peace and earning respect through responsibilities and leadership.

      The concept of an "alpha male" or "alpha female" in animal groups, including primates, is not about a specific personality type or physical attributes, but rather a top position associated with responsibilities and leadership. These alpha individuals often maintain peace and protect the group, earning respect and popularity. Alpha females, in turn, play a healing role in resolving conflicts and reconciling group members. The misconception of the alpha male as a feared, dominant figure is oversimplified, and both alpha males and females can form powerful partnerships in their respective groups. It's essential to recognize the complexity and diversity of social structures in various animal species, rather than using wishful thinking or denigration to compare ourselves to certain species.

    • Gender differences in play patterns and violence among bonobos and chimpanzeesYoung females are nurturing and infant-oriented, while young males engage in roughhousing and mock fighting. These patterns contribute to sexual segregation in play behavior, and gender identity arises early in life through self-socialization.

      While both bonobos and chimpanzees are fascinating primates with distinct behaviors, there are biological differences between males and females in their play patterns and levels of violence. These differences are evident in various primate species and human societies. Young females are more nurturing and infant-oriented, while young males engage in roughhousing and mock fighting. These patterns contribute to sexual segregation in play behavior, which is also observed in human children. The gender identity, on the other hand, arises early in life and is driven by self-socialization, as children mimic the behavior of adults of the same or opposite sex. This concept of self-socialization is often overlooked in traditional views of socialization.

    • Learning from adults shapes primate behaviors and dietsPrimate youngsters learn behaviors and diets from their mothers and gender roles from adults, contributing to societal norms.

      Socialization plays a significant role in shaping the behaviors and diets of primates, including orangutans, with young females learning from their mothers and young males observing adult males. This concept of self-socialization applies to primates' gender roles as well, as they learn sexual behaviors from adults rather than having innate behaviors. The level of tolerance in primate societies is higher than in human society, with exclusion only occurring for troublemakers. The human tendency to label and conform to rules can contribute to intolerance, which may be related to our linguistic capacities. A disagreement between the speaker and Richard Dawkins revolves around the impact of nature versus nurture on primate behavior, with the speaker arguing for the importance of socialization and environment.

    • The limitations of the theory of selfish genesThe theory of selfish genes, while influential, oversimplifies human behavior and cannot fully explain altruistic actions or the complexity of biological systems.

      While the theory of selfish genes has been influential in understanding evolution, it can be misleading when applied to human psychology. Richard Dawkins, who popularized the idea of selfish genes, used it as a metaphor, but some of his followers took it too far, concluding that humans are inherently selfish beings. However, as the speaker in this discussion points out, there are plenty of examples of altruistic behavior in animals and humans, which cannot be explained solely by selfish genes. The clitoris, which was once considered a "glorious accident" with no function, is now known to be a functional part of the female body with many nerve endings and a role in sexual pleasure. Overall, while the theory of selfish genes has contributed to our understanding of evolution, it is important to remember that it is a metaphor and does not fully capture the complexity of biological systems and human behavior.

    • Female Sexuality: Active and DrivenContrary to popular belief, females exhibit active sexual behavior and possess the capacity for self-confidence and self-esteem, as seen in various animal species and human studies.

      The traditional view of female sexuality being passive and less driven than male sexuality is incorrect. This notion, which has been perpetuated by biologists and society at large, is not supported by evidence in various animal species, including primates. The clitoris, a key component of female sexual pleasure, is just one example of how females exhibit active sexual behavior. Moreover, the concept of self-confidence and self-esteem, as studied by Abraham Maslow, can be traced back to observations of dominant female monkeys. Maslow's work on monkeys showed that the self-confidence of alpha male monkeys could develop into self-esteem in humans. Furthermore, the idea that women have a lower sex drive than men, based on differences in masturbation rates and other factors, may need reevaluation as people tend to underreport their sexual activities.

    • Female Sexual Agency and MisreportingDespite societal stigmas, women's sexual behavior is more complex than previously thought. Females exhibit high sexual adventurism and varied interests, and their motivations go beyond just reproduction.

      The role of female choice in sexual behavior has been underestimated due to societal expectations and cultural norms. The speaker argues that women are not as honest when it comes to reporting their number of sexual partners due to societal stigmas. In animal studies, females exhibit high sexual adventurism and varied interests, which goes beyond just reproduction. For instance, a female chimpanzee may have thousands of sexual encounters throughout her lifetime, which is disproportionate to the number of children she bears. This suggests that there are other motivations for female sexual behavior. The speaker also mentions the bonobos as an example, where sex is an integral part of their social life. The speaker's research indicates that females have more agency in their sexual encounters than previously thought. The speaker's work challenges the traditional view that men have a greater sex drive than women and highlights the importance of considering female choice in understanding sexual behavior.

    • Discovering the complexities of animal sexual lives through paternity testingPaternity testing has revealed that female birds engage in extra-pair copulation as a deliberate choice, and primates, including chimpanzees, engage in planned rendezvous. It has also debunked the belief that female-female competition is non-existent.

      Our understanding of animal behavior has been significantly expanded through the use of paternity testing. For instance, we now know that female birds often mate with males outside of their pair, a phenomenon called extra-pair copulation. This was once thought to be a result of rape, but now we know it's a deliberate choice. Similarly, in primates, the alpha male was once believed to be the primary father figure based on observable behavior. However, paternity testing revealed that lower ranking males were also contributing to the gene pool. Chimpanzees, in particular, have been found to engage in planned rendezvous with females to avoid detection. These discoveries challenge our assumptions about animal behavior and demonstrate the complexity of their sexual lives. Another misconception debunked in the discussion is the belief that female-female competition is non-existent. However, this is not the case, as both males and females engage in competition within their respective groups. Psychologists have downplayed this aspect of female behavior, contributing to a flawed gender dichotomy. Overall, paternity testing has opened up a new world of knowledge about animal behavior and debunked several long-held assumptions.

    • Understanding Gender Roles and DynamicsBoth males and females exhibit competitive behaviors, but their expression and resolution strategies differ. Females prioritize peacekeeping while males engage in physical conflict. The maternal instinct does not guarantee caregiving abilities, requiring learned skills and knowledge.

      While there are differing perspectives in psychology and anthropology regarding gender roles and hierarchies, both disciplines acknowledge the competitive nature of both males and females, particularly in the context of mating and social structures. However, the expression and manifestation of competition and conflict resolution strategies can vary between the sexes. For instance, females tend to avoid conflict and focus on peacekeeping strategies, while males are more likely to engage in physical conflict and reconcile more easily. The maternal instinct, while often associated with an innate attraction to infants, does not equate to an inherent ability to care for them, as skills and knowledge must be learned. This was observed in chimpanzees, and similar patterns may apply to humans in corporate settings. Overall, recognizing the complexities and nuances of gender roles and dynamics is crucial for understanding interpersonal relationships and conflict resolution.

    • The distinction between 'us' and 'them' is deeply rooted in animals and humansUnderstanding the deep-rooted causes of xenophobia requires recognizing its origins in animals and acknowledging the importance of both mind and body in human behavior and relationships

      Our instincts for caring for those within our group and being xenophobic towards those outside of it are deeply rooted in animals, including humans. This distinction, defined by who we know and who we don't, is profound and difficult to overcome. The bonobo species, with its less territorial females, serves as an example of a species that is not xenophobic. However, the mind-body dualism, an old belief that the mind is independent of the body, has contributed to misconceptions about the importance of the body and the interconnectedness of mind and body. This dualistic thinking has been harmful, particularly towards women and other marginalized groups, and it's essential to recognize the importance of both the mind and the body in understanding human behavior and relationships.

    • Understanding the connection between mind and body in gender debatesRecognize the interconnectedness of mind and body, embrace differences, and address underlying issues for gender equality.

      The mind and body are interconnected, and recognizing this can help us approach gender debates with a more nuanced perspective. The body plays a significant role in our thoughts, emotions, and experiences, and embracing our differences, rather than trying to escape them, is essential for promoting equality and mutual respect. As Dr. Goodall emphasized, "We don't need to be the same to be equal." Instead of focusing on gender as the source of inequality, we should address the underlying issues of injustice and inequality. By recognizing the importance of both mind and body, and treating each other with love, respect, and appreciation, we can create a more inclusive and equitable world.

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