From Coupon to Habit

Are you ready for some great short stories?  

In this episode I read some quick bios of people who live in JOY daily and how they inspire others.  These are people who reached out to me who want to be interviewed.  Each one I read is inspirational and you can tell they inspire many people. I will be interviewing them all and can't wait to share their stories and how they pass JOY along. '
In the meantime..enjoy what you hear!

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND HER FAMILY

Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
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Itś hard to find JOY when we are suffering from traumatic events whether past or present. 

I was looking up articles recently to see how JOY and trauma relate to each other and found this great blog post about it.  https://tinybuddha.com/blog/why-joy-is-important-for-healing-developmental-trauma/ by  Irina Bengston
Even though it is specific to developmental trauma, I believe what the author says can be put into play in all kinds of trauma or when dealing with a traumatic event. I was looking for this information because of the last couple traumatic events my family has experienced.

1. Our 4 year old doggy dyeing unexpectedly in September
2. Our car burned down in our drive way just after we got out of it, in December.

Both of these events have been very traumatic for us and we have been learning how to navigate and process them.  My kids have not yet experienced death this closely yet and who experiences a car burning down in their driveway? I would think that is rare. 

This blog resonated with me. Here is what the author shares:

1. Learn to tolerate difficult emotions.
2. Live in the moment.
3. Learn to calm yourself.
4. Engage yourself fully.
5. Help or share
6. Choose joy.
   
   

There are a few others so take a look at the post and see what else she has to day.

https://tinybuddha.com/blog/why-joy-is-important-for-healing-developmental-trauma/ by Irina Bengtson

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND HER FAMILY

Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
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This episode is about......NOTHING!  We didn't have a chance to sit down and record. Our next episode will be about a traumatic event that happened to us in December and how we have been navigating joy.  It has taken us some time to process all that happened and we are ready to reflect and chat about it.   

It will be coming in 2 weeks!

Thanks for listening!

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND HER FAMILY

Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
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This episode is a discussion with Sarah Brandell.  Sarah is an infertility and pregnancy loss life and mindset coach who supports women on their path to motherhood. She helps women manage the heavy emotions of their fertility journey while reconnecting to themselves and their passions in the present. She is a fellow infertility warrior as well as a wife and rainbow baby mama.

Sarah shares her story about Infertility and how she lost herself and time in her life while trying to get pregnant. She realized there was no one out there to support women through this journey so made it a mission to be the one to do it. 

She works with her clients in teaching them how to find JOY while still feeling the deep emotions of infertility.  Sarah also teaches moms how to continue to live their lives while navigating trying to get pregnant, pregnancy, and infertility.

This conversation is so inspiring and moms out there are extremely lucky to have Sarah to support them through these tough times.

Please, please, please share with others who have gone through infertility or who are going through it currently. I know they will gain value out of this episode and may even want to connect with Sarah. 

How to connect with Sarah:

Links:
Free Two Week Wait Workbook: https://sarahbrandell.com/twoweekwait
Path to Motherhood Podcast: https://pod.link/1647042730

https://sarahbrandell.com
https://www.instagram.com/sarahbrandell/
https://www.tiktok.com/@sarahbrandell?_t=8dsQoFz5tfP&_r=1
https://www.facebook.com/sarahbrandellcoaching
https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarahbrandell/

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND HER FAMILY

Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
IG: https://www.instagram.com/laurensdailyjoy/
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Jenna Hodge is a mom of three and motherhood coach who is passionate about the health and wellness of both mom and child. She helps moms take care of their little ones and themselves by balancing self care with their kids’ needs.

Hear Jenna's personal experience with motherhood, postpartum depression and many other things and how she turned her struggles around by herself.  She helps moms learn how to change their mindset to take care of themselves while also raising their children.  She teaches moms to focus on what can be fixed and not to focus on what cannot be fixed.  To Jenna it is all about mindset and teaching moms how to shift their mindset.

This conversation is very inspiring. There are millions of moms out there and every single one of them will gain something from this conversation.  We would be extremely grateful if you would pass this along to your mom friends.

How to connect with Jenna:

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND HER FAMILY

Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
IG: https://www.instagram.com/laurensdailyjoy/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/lauren.g.raymond

This episode is a wonderful conversation with Liz Carroll who shares her experience with JOY. 
Liz Carroll is a life-long student and teacher of making mindful money moves. Originally believing she was "bad with money," Liz did the hardwork to rewrite her money story. She needed to drop limiting beliefs about how a woman can earn and manage money to set her up for financial success in a way she would commit to and follow. It worked. Liz attained financial independence and retired early from her corporate IT sales career.Now, in her encore career, Liz helps other women experience calm confidence with their finances by unpacking and shifting their own money story. She has the unique ability to shed light onto darkness around money,making complex personal finance issues simple. She created the Mindful Money Method, a financial wellness course and coaching program that utilizes a holistic approach to math, mindset and soul-guided desires. Liz is a Certified Financial Coach from Ramsey Solutions, a Certified Life Coach from The Life Coach School and a 200-RYT Yoga & Meditation Instructor from Purna Yoga College. She and her husband live on the Oregon Coast.Their adult children visit regularly.

Liz shares how she intentionally planned a "Year of Joy" trip for her 50th birthday.  Yes, she preplanned her budget and started saving. Everything she did in her "Year of Joy" were experiences except for one item she purchased.  We discuss the importance of how experiences can continue to bring JOY for a lifetime compared to material items. Plus we discuss that one doesn't need a lot of, or any money to create JOY. There are many "free" things that can be done that bring JOY. 

We also talk about what Liz does, and how she helps other women create a more abundant and financially sound life.

Tune in and be ready for some great take-aways from Liz.

How to connect with Liz:

liz@mindfulmoneycoaches.com
website: www.mindfulmoneymethod.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/mindfulmoneycoaches/

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND HER FAMILY

Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
IG: https://www.instagram.com/laurensdailyjoy/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/lauren.g.raymond

In this episode, I have the privilege of talking to Tanya Hackney.  Tanya graduated with a B.A. from Middlebury College in 1997, where she majored in English and double-minored in French and Education. She married her high school sweetheart and taught kindergarten in Atlanta, Georgia before transitioning to homeschooling her own five children aboard sailing vessel Take Two. She’s lived aboard, traveled, and written for the Take Two Sailing blog for the last fifteen years. She has always had a bad case of wanderlust, having taken countless road trips as a child, spent a semester in Paris during college, and honeymooned in Mexico. In 2021, she published an award-winning memoir, Leaving the Safe Harbor: the Risks and Rewards of Raising a Family on a Boat. In her free time, she plays the ukulele, paints landscapes, and kayaks

Our conversation is about life raising a family on a boat and how her family has found a way to find JOY among the difficulties of sailing and living on the sea.

Tanya also shares with us a wonderful story about her Mother-in-Law, Mary who lost her life to cancer.  She shares how her family and friends celebrated with Mary during a "Death Day" party...before Mary passed and how they all felt JOY during a time of deep grief. 

Finally, Tanya shares the important of gratitude and how that has helped her tap into JOY even during life's massive challenges. 


How to find Tanya:

Blog- www.taketwosailing.com 
Book- https://ingeniumbooks.com/LTSH 
Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/tanya.hackney.71 
                         https://www.facebook.com/TakeTwoSailing/ 
Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/taketwosailing/ 
Pinterest- https://www.pinterest.com/tanyataketwo/

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND HER FAMILY

Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
IG: https://www.instagram.com/laurensdailyjoy/
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You don't want to miss this episode!!!  

This is a very special, emotional episode for us.  Hunter, Addison, and I sat down and had a session with Tami Hendrix, a Compassionate Medium and Healer.   We lost our beloved Onyx, a 4-year-old black lab, suddenly and unexpectedly on Labor Day.  We have had tremendous heartbreak these last few months as we have had to immediately navigate life without her and try to make sense of what happened.  

I was referred to Tami by my therapist and I am so grateful that I was.  Since I have been following Tami I have learned a little bit about Onyx that I didn't know from some questions I had written into Tami early on and did a free reading on her bi-monthly classes she does.  I shared this with my family and Addison and Hunter wanted to ask questions as well so we did a session with Tami.

What did this session entail:

1. Great things about Onyx.
2. How she came to use.
3. How she died.
4. How to keep her energy with us by writing her letters, keeping a dream journal, and noticing when she is visiting us.
5. Where she went after she died.
6. Did she know we were with her when she died?
7. Why she didn't like to swim
8. And will she be ok if we get a puppy?

Within all of these topics, we heard from Onyx as she answered many of these questions. This was an incredible session and it really helped us start to move on and accept what happened even though we miss her terribly and our hearts are still broken.

The kinds of things that Onyx shared with us through Tami were incredible. It made us laugh and cry.  

If you are an animal lover we know you will relate and be able to empathize with this episode. We would love to know what you took away, what you learned, or what you thought.   

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND HER FAMILY

Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
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This episode is a wonderful conversation with Mary Ann Pack. Mary Ann Pack is a spiritual medium, best-selling author, publisher at Envision Greatness Press, and joy advocate. Her mission is to spread more love and joy in the world by writing, publishing, coaching, and podcasting to support others as they use their voices for messages of hope and healing. If you have a book being called through you, want to participate in a collaborative book project, need ghostwriting, or need a customized journal to uplevel an event or program, visit her website at www.EnvisionGreatness.com to explore publishing. Her published books, including the We Are Joy! series, are available on the website. Let’s write the world happy, one word at a time!

We talk about the difference between JOY and Happiness and how Mary consciously started living joyfully.  Just by changing her mindset, she became extremely healthy both inside and out and had no more physical problems. 

She shares with us how staying in the negative aspects of life is a detriment to us both physically and mentally. 

Finally, listen to how she gives back to others, guiding them to live JOYFULLY.  She has so many avenues and resources that fit any person's style.

Where do you connect with Mary?

Email:  envisiongreatnessllc@gmail.com
Publishing & Services: https://envisiongreatness.com
Spiritual & Life Coaching: https://maryannpack.com
FB Page: https://facebook.com/maryannpackcoaching

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Joy to you!

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

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Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
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It's been at least 4 weeks since we put out an episode. Losing our sweet Onyx has made it very difficult to be focused on daily tasks. We are still grieving for our dear doggy. 

What have the last 7 weeks been like?

We still cry as we are trying to navigate our lives without Onyx.  Evenings, nights, and weekends are the toughest. 

What I have learned is that when my kids cry, I don't need to try to fix anything for them. I can't fix anything. I can't bring back Onyx so there is nothing I can do to fix this.  As parents, we want to fix everything but we should get out of this habit. Children need to learn how to navigate these kinds of feelings and learn how to deal with them. 

What do we do when they are hurting and crying?  We just let them cry, hold them, and listen if they want to talk. We don't offer any advice and we never say, "It will get better or be alright".  This isn't the time for it.  This is the time for them to just "be" in their grief and sadness for a bit.

I also spoke to an Animal Medium named Tami Hendrix. She even spoke to Onyx for me and gave me some insight into our grief, heartache, and much more.  It is fascinating what she said.

We are excited to more information soon with Tami. 


Tami Hendrix-Animal Medium
https://tamihendrix.com/

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Lauren's Book, My Dad Died From ALS and How I Found Joy 30 Years Later
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B2J15M3Z

CONNECT WITH LAUREN AND HER FAMILY

Email: lauren@dailyjoy.us
IG: https://www.instagram.com/laurensdailyjoy/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/lauren.g.raymond