From Wrestling Champion to Fitness Entrepreneur: The Inspiring Journey of Dontae Smiley

Have you ever packed up your life into two suitcases on a whim, seeking clarity and transformation? Sabine Schoepke did just that, moving to the German Alps from Los Angeles, demonstrating that it's never too late to reinvent yourself. This episode peels back the curtain on her riveting story of overcoming personal struggles to emerge as a triumphant entrepreneur. Her journey is a living testament to the belief that growth occurs in the face of adversity and that every challenge is an opportunity to build resilience and foster personal development.

Sabine exemplifies this through her midlife fitness revolution, that our golden years can indeed be just that: golden. We discuss her transformation, not just of muscle and sinew, but of heart and soul, as she shares how bodybuilding helped her overcome trauma and find a supportive community. Her narrative is a bold reminder of the intrinsic link between physical vitality and emotional well-being, igniting a conversation on the redemptive power of health and fitness.

Travel with us as we explore the rich tapestry of life through the lens of Sabine's experiences. These stories go beyond mere travelogues; they're a celebration of life lessons and the refusal to label any experience as a failure. Your journey towards an extraordinary life might just begin with this very episode.

Takeaways

• Embrace change and be open to new experiences
• Take ownership of your choices and learn from them
• Overcome fear by choosing love and living authentically
• Find clarity in what you truly desire and pursue it

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.

When the crack of the bat signals more than just a home run, it's a lesson in leadership. That's the story Damon Lembi, CEO of Learnit, shares with us as he traces his trajectory from athlete to executive mentor. Our conversation uncovers how the principles of sportsmanship translate into crafting dynamic leadership training programs and fostering a culture of continuous learning within organizations. We also dissect the interplay between individual ambitions and leadership roles, revealing that the prowess needed on the baseball diamond isn't so different from the boardroom.

Damon shares slices of his journey up the corporate ladder, reflecting on the hurdles and triumphs that have shaped his views on leadership. We talk about the importance of understanding every role in a company and celebrating the underdogs whose potential blooms under the right mentorship. We wrap things up with a lighter but no less meaningful banter that tugs at the heartstrings of nostalgia and shared experiences. We chat about our favorite sports moments, the cultural phenomenon of Pop-Tarts, and the unique threads that connect us all—be they in love with a team or the simple pleasures of breakfast pastries.

This episode is a reminder that the journey to success is as much about the people and passions we encounter along the way as it is about the milestones we achieve. So, whether you're a die-hard sports fan or just looking for some leadership insights with a side of sweet reminiscence, this episode's got something for you.

Takeaways

• Core values are crucial for effective leadership and should be the cornerstone of a successful leader's framework.
• Transitioning into a leadership role requires developing new skills and mindset.
• Building a strong team involves finding individuals who align with the company's values and focusing on their strengths.
• Celebrating team wins and taking responsibility for failures are essential for creating a positive company culture.
• Leadership is a continuous learning journey, and mistakes should be seen as opportunities for growth.

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.

In this episode, I sit down with Kieron James, the esteemed CEO and founder of Wonderful, a trailblazer in the realm of instant bank payment technology. He walks us through his entrepreneurial voyage, highlighting the hurdles he's overcome. He stresses the virtues of patience, perseverance, and the necessity to evolve with the technological landscape. The discussion also touches on how lessons from his passion for running mirror the dynamics of steering a successful business, underscoring the value of gratitude, gaining perspective, and crafting a personal definition of success. As the CEO of Wonderful, Kieron delves into his past life as an indie rock band drummer and shares a personal indulgence. Wrapping up, he offers a book suggestion and sparks a conversation on the merits of morning versus afternoon exercise routines. Throughout our talk, we explore the intricacies of endurance training and recovery, pushing the boundaries of physical stamina, managing injuries, and finding the right mix of rest and activity. Kieron, the visionary behind Wonderful, also provides insights on how to connect with him for further information.

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary. 

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.

Join us on a captivating journey with Jeff Seckendorf, a master athlete and innovator in scuba diving education, as we discuss his unique approach to transforming the way we think about underwater exploration. Dive into a rigorous training philosophy that mirrors Jeff's discipline as a master cyclist as he elucidates the power of process over certification, shedding light on how dedication to the craft can surpass the allure of mere outcomes. This episode promises to reveal the methodology behind Jeff's company, Unified Team Diving, and his anticipation for setting a new world record, showcasing the synergy between athletic prowess and impactful community engagement.

We dive into the transformative nature of storytelling in teaching and how lessons from sports discipline can permeate every facet of life, offering a blueprint for personal and professional enhancement. As we wrap up, we take a moment to reflect on finding joy in the balance between striving for results and appreciating the journey. Discover how celebrating even minor victories can fuel our drive for purpose and how engaging with our communities through shared experiences can lead to extraordinary accomplishments.

We'll leave you inspired by Jeff's upcoming projects and the ripple effect of positivity that extends from individual achievements to global initiatives. So, whether you're a scuba enthusiast or simply seeking inspiration for an extraordinary life, this episode is your gateway to a world of profound insights and stories of purpose.

Takeaways

• Coaching in scuba diving should focus on training and becoming better rather than just getting certified.
• Enjoying the process is essential to achieving success and finding purpose in various areas of life.
•  Skills and values learned through sports and storytelling can provide a comprehensive framework for enhancing one's life.
• Finding purpose in helping others can bring satisfaction and a sense of success.
• The Institute of Purpose provides a platform for people to share their stories of finding purpose in their lives. 
• Training preferences vary among individuals, with some finding meditation and focus in silence, while others enjoy music for motivation.
• Books have the power to profoundly impact our lives and provide valuable insights and lessons.

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.

Ever wondered how a hip-hop artist and a bedtime storyteller might change the world? Tim Blessed and illustrator Michael LaRiccia join us to unravel the making of "Planeta Blue Rise of Agoo," a graphic novel represented by Dark Horse Comics, the fourth most prominent comic book publishing company. Through their collaboration, the artists address urgent global issues, infusing a captivating visual story that engages the youth and underscores our shared duty to protect the Earth.

Our dialogue takes a behind-the-scenes look at the highs and lows of artistic collaboration, shedding light on what it takes to chase a dream without the promise of immediate rewards. Tim and Michael's journey through creative self-doubt and networking challenges paints a vivid picture of the resilience required in the unpredictable realm of graphic storytelling. Their experiences underscore a crucial narrative: that every setback is a stepping stone to eventual triumph.

As we wrap up, the conversation flows into the personal triumphs and connections formed through their craft. From the electrifying atmosphere of comic conventions to the heartwarming moments when their message resonates with readers, Tim and Michael's reflections offer a window into the soul-enriching path of content creation. Their diverse artistic and musical influences echo throughout our discussion, leaving you with a rich tapestry of inspiration to draw from. Join us for an episode that celebrates the power of storytelling, the beauty of creative partnerships, and their indelible impact on creators and the world.

Takeaways

• Collaboration between individuals with different skill sets can lead to the creation of a captivating and meaningful project.
• Success is defined by personal happiness, meeting core needs, and achieving realistic goals.
• The most enjoyable aspects of creative work include seeing ideas come to life, connecting with audiences, and making a positive impact.
• Being flexible and adaptable is crucial when facing challenges and navigating unexpected circumstances.
• Having a supportive network and being patient with the creative process is key to achieving long-term goals. 
• The book is available for purchase on various platforms, including PlanetaBlu.com.

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.

Have you ever wondered if the trials you've faced could be the very thing that unlocks your destiny? We're joined by the indomitable Marsha Vanwynsberghe, whose own crucible of overcoming teen substance abuse transformed her into a storytelling sage. This episode is a deep dive into the resilience of the human spirit and how sharing our rawest moments can forge connections that light the way for others. Marsha's journey from adversity to a multifaceted career as an author, speaker, and business coach is not just inspiring—it's a masterclass in turning pain into purpose.

Navigating life's tumultuous transitions, especially in the face of a global crisis, is a theme we explore with heartfelt honesty. Marsha's pivot during the pandemic is a testament to the power of seizing the unforeseen as an opportunity for growth and service. She recounts the profound realization that came from opening up about her family's battle with substance abuse, and how this vulnerability was a key that unlocked a network of support and community. It's a conversation that celebrates the courage it takes to be vulnerable and the unexpected gifts that come from sharing our stories.

Wrapping up, Marsha imparts wisdom gleaned from her entrepreneurial leap, offering a fresh lens through which to view success. She proffers the idea that true achievement means thriving in business without sacrificing the essence of who we are—our health and our relationships. Marsha doesn't just talk the talk; she walks it, sharing how her morning routine and favorite reads contribute to a well-rounded approach to life. This episode is a beacon for anyone looking to navigate their own path with integrity and passion, proving that sometimes the most profound lessons come dressed as our darkest moments.

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.

Embark on a sonic adventure with the effervescent Asher Laub, an electric violinist whose strings resonate with the rhythm of resilience and passion. I had the pleasure of conversing with a maestro who has danced with adversity and emerged a virtuoso of life's unpredictable symphony. Asher's tale is not merely about the melodies he creates but about the relentless spirit that defines his every note. His journey from career pivots to conquering health obstacles sings a ballad of determination that will inspire anyone searching for joy in their endeavors.

As Asher Lobb plucks at the heartstrings with his electric violin, he also plucks at the realities of an independent artist's life. We shared laughs and earnest reflections on how he weaves his musical prowess into the fabric of his existence. Asher's candidness about the balancing act of touring, family commitments, and exciting projects like his Bollywood venture imparts a real-world look at a music entrepreneur's creative and logistical dance. He offers a window into an artist's soul - from the euphoric highs of connecting with fans to the orchestration of a career that remains in harmony with personal values.

To close our musical narrative, Asher and I exchanged notes on the symphony of life's lessons and the mentors who have guided our crescendos and decrescendos. We chuckled over the parallels between orchestrating a classroom and commanding a stage, recognizing that sharing knowledge is universal whether we're teaching or performing. Asher's invitation to experience his work extends beyond the airwaves, encouraging listeners to delve into his eclectic soundscape. Join us to witness an artist's journey and find the cadence in your own life's composition.

Takeaways

• Follow your passion and find joy in what you do.
• Transitioning to a career you love takes time and commitment.
• Connecting with fans and creating meaningful experiences is essential for success as an artist.
• Challenges and rejection are part of the journey, but perseverance is key.
• Self-discovery and evolving as an artist are ongoing processes.
• Having a mentor can provide guidance and support in your entrepreneurial journey.

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.

From battling the chains of addiction to pioneering Sober Caddy Creative Agency, Jay Staples' journey is nothing short of inspiring. Join me as we uncover the raw and transformative story behind Jay's rise to authenticity and the profound role that sobriety has played in his personal and professional evolution. This episode is a candid exploration of what it means to be authentic and live and create with genuine purpose.

Do you know the true value of aligning your goals with your authentic self? We talk about the shift from rigid expectations to embracing what genuinely resonates with our lifestyles. We'll also tackle the high-stakes world of entrepreneurship, unearthing the critical importance of conducting an authenticity audit in our careers and the lessons learned from the leap of faith into the realm of business ownership.

As we draw the curtains on this compelling episode, We discuss the emotional tide of navigating layoffs and the unexpected growth that emerges from facing fear with an open heart. It's a testament to the strength found in vulnerability and the deeper connections forged in the face of adversity. Jay Staples' story serves as a beacon, urging us all to embrace our inner dreamer and step boldly toward an extraordinary life. Stay tuned for our next journey into the lives of those who dare to live authentically.

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.

Ever rolled the dice in the game of love? Let's switch up the odds together with Paul Zolman, best-selling author and the brilliant mind behind the cube-based method for expressing love languages. Our heart-to-heart with Paul is a rollercoaster through the emotional landscape where we unpack the significance of becoming adept 'love language linguists.' We're not just talking about love; we're redefining how to practice it daily. The dice we cast might just land you in a world where understanding and cherishing your partner’s love language transforms every interaction into a meaningful connection.

Explore the significance of comprehending and actively engaging in all five love languages with Paul.  Delve into the impact of reciprocity within relationships as he candidly shares his personal journey of healing and self-discovery. Gain valuable advice on pursuing passion and entrepreneurship from Paul, whose structured and enjoyable approach to love languages effectively enhances communication and fortifies relationships.

 From the trials of entrepreneurship to the joy of aiding couples in their quest for better communication, we explore the creation of a tangible tool that's changing the game for lovers everywhere. This episode is a treasure trove of stories about love's power to spark growth, shake up our worlds, and lead us down paths we never expected - all with a sprinkle of Paul's transformative touch. Join us on this enchanting voyage where affection meets innovation, and where every listener is a step closer to mastering the art of love.

Takeaways

• Understanding and practicing all five love languages is vital for effective communication and building solid relationships.
• Reciprocity in relationships should not be transactional, but rather a genuine expression of love without expectation.
• Finding a replacement behavior for negative emotions, such as anger, can lead to personal growth and healing.
• When pursuing a passion or starting a business, organizing ideas, taking responsibility for your actions, and focusing on serving others are essential.

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary.

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.

Have you ever considered the immeasurable strength it takes for a survivor of domestic violence to step into the unknown, especially when a beloved pet’s fate hangs in the balance? Orazie Cook, the compassionate force behind Praline's Backyard Foundation, joins us to weave a tale of hope, detailing how her organization provides a haven for pets caught in the web of domestic turmoil. Together, we traverse the emotional landscape of those fleeing violence, shedding light on the crucial support systems that Praline's Backyard extends to both humans and animals in crisis.

This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the symbiotic relationship between animal welfare and human healing. Orazie opens up about her own shift from public health to founding an organization that's as much about nurturing the human spirit as it is about safeguarding our furry companions. Through stories of fostering networks and emergency boarding, we're invited to witness the profound peace of mind that Praline's Backyard offers to survivors. It's a reminder that amidst the most trying times, the tireless work of advocates like Orazie can forge a path to restoration and resilience.

By pulling back the curtain on the day-to-day challenges and victories of running a nonprofit, Orazie and I discuss the power of visibility, social media, and the entrepreneurial spirit in driving change. The narrative doesn't shy away from the stark realities faced by those confronting domestic violence but rather illuminates the beacon of hope that Praline's Backyard becomes — a testament to the enduring bond between humans and pets and the transformative impact one foundation can have on the public health and well-being. Join us for an inspiring session that celebrates the victories of advocacy and the unwavering love that pets bring into our lives.

Takeaways

• Praline's Backyard Foundation provides temporary care and support for pets of domestic violence survivors.
• Orazie Cook started the foundation during the COVID-19 pandemic to address the lack of housing options for survivors and their pets.
• Orazie emphasizes the importance of community partnerships and fostering networks to ensure the safety and well-being of pets.
• She encourages everyone to support survivors and their pets by becoming advocates, fostering pets, or donating to the foundation.

These are our friends. These are your friends. AND they are living the extraordinary. 

For a transcript of this episode, go to www.behindthedreamers.com.