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    • Bumble's new features aim to make dating easier and enjoyable, while 'Whilst we crawl' podcast discusses life's end with humor and entertainmentBumble introduces new features for easier dating, while 'Whilst we crawl' podcast offers unique perspectives on life's end with humor

      Bumble, a dating app, recognizes the exhaustion people feel towards dating and aims to make the experience easier and more enjoyable with new features. Meanwhile, on a different note, the podcast "Whilst we crawl" focuses on the end of life instead of the struggles of parenting. In this episode, the guest Josh promotes the second series of his show "Taskmaster" on Sky, and his preferred meal is a vegetarian version of a number 5 Frankamanca pizza with chilies instead of anchovies. The podcast offers a unique perspective on life's end, providing entertainment and humor rather than dwelling on the challenges of daily life. Bumble, on the other hand, introduces new features to enhance the dating experience and reduce the effort required to start conversations.

    • The speaker's tea preference leads to food wasteThe speaker's love for oat milk in her tea results in unnecessary purchasing and guilt over leftover food

      The speaker's preference for oat milk in her tea has led to waste and inconvenience when entertaining guests. She finds herself buying large quantities of oat milk, which goes unused after a single cup of tea is consumed. The speaker also shares her habit of sending guests home with leftover food, a trait inherited from her auntie Nellie. She expresses guilt over wasting food and the effort required to preserve leftovers, such as pestoing salad leaves or wrapping open cartons of oat milk. The speaker reflects on how her love for tea has replaced her previous reliance on alcohol, and how she imagines smokers might feel about their habits. Overall, the speaker's conversation highlights the complex relationship between food and waste, and the guilt and inconvenience that can come with it.

    • Reflecting on Past Adventures and the Allure of MysteryReflecting on past experiences, even those filled with debauchery, can bring joy and meaning to the present. The intrigue of unsolved mysteries and the potential for a mysterious death captivates us.

      Looking back at past experiences, even if they were filled with debauchery, can bring joy and meaning to one's current, seemingly boring existence. The speaker reminisces about her adventures with a friend and how those memories help her cope with her present. She also expresses her fascination with unsolved mysteries and the idea of dying in mysterious circumstances, which could potentially lead to a captivating Netflix documentary. The speaker's friend's frustration with unsolved crimes on television resonates with her, as she believes that the intrigue lies in the unknown. The speaker muses about potential suspects in her hypothetical murder, suggesting that people close to her could be involved. Overall, the conversation highlights the human fascination with mystery and the desire to leave a lasting impact.

    • The speaker discusses his hypothetical death and public responseThe speaker desires mystery and intrigue around his death, but acknowledges sadness. He prefers to be forgotten before reappearing through an obituary, discusses potential suspects, and shares thoughts on obituaries, national treasure status, and therapy.

      The speaker in this conversation is discussing various aspects of his potential death and the public's response to it. He expresses a desire for mystery and intrigue surrounding his demise, but also acknowledges that people would still be sad about it. He shares his preference for being forgotten by the public for a period of time before reappearing through an obituary. The speaker also discusses potential suspects in his hypothetical death and the importance of having a solid alibi. Additionally, the conversation touches on the topic of obituaries and where the speaker would like his to be published. The speaker also shares his thoughts on being labeled a "national treasure" and his identity as a punk. Lastly, the conversation includes an advertisement for Uber One membership and BetterHelp Therapy, with the speaker expressing interest in the former and acknowledging stress with the latter.

    • Personal stories of mental health struggles and seeking helpInvest time in understanding mental health, share stories, and consider online therapy through BetterHelp for convenience and accessibility.

      Everyone has a story, and seeking help for mental health struggles is important. The speaker shared their personal experiences, from their childhood memories at a farm in Devon to their current struggles with getting a ticket to Glastonbury. They also emphasized the convenience and accessibility of online therapy through BetterHelp, encouraging listeners to invest time in understanding their own mental health. The conversation also touched on the importance of sharing stories and how they can sometimes make the news, no matter how unusual they may seem. The speaker reminisced about their childhood in a village with limited resources, leading them to find comfort in television shows like Neighbours. Overall, the conversation highlighted the importance of acknowledging and addressing mental health struggles, and the various ways one can seek help and support.

    • The power of shared experiences and laughter in difficult timesShared experiences and unexpected moments of laughter can create cherished memories and unexpected connections, even in difficult situations

      The importance of shared experiences and the power of laughter in difficult times was a common theme in the conversation. The speaker shared an anecdote about how an unexpected moment of laughter at her uncle's funeral became a cherished memory for her family. Meanwhile, the conversation with Josh also touched on shared experiences, such as their appearances in Loaded Magazine and TFI Friday, and the unexpected connections that can arise from them. Despite some initial disappointments, the speaker emphasized the importance of looking back on these moments with fondness and appreciation. Additionally, the conversation highlighted the impact of Chris Evans' rebelliousness on TFI Friday and the unexpected reactions it could elicit. Overall, the conversation underscored the value of shared experiences and the unexpected connections that can be formed through them, as well as the importance of finding humor and lightness in difficult situations.

    • Awkward transitions on live radio showsPrepare for unexpected transitions and be mindful of inappropriate topics during live broadcasts to avoid awkward situations.

      Transitions and unexpected topics can lead to awkward situations, even in live broadcasts. This was highlighted in a discussion about an experience where a guest, Josh, had to endure uncomfortable transitions on a live radio show, "The One Show." The transitions were so abrupt that Josh couldn't laugh at an inappropriate email read out during the show, despite it being a natural response. The situation was made worse by the fact that the email was about childhood burns, a topic that wasn't suitable for laughter. Mel Brooks, a guest on the same show, also mentioned the strange transitions and the challenge of adapting to the show's format. The discussion also touched on the topic of laughing at funerals and how it's a natural response to the nervousness of the situation. Overall, the conversation emphasized the importance of being prepared for unexpected transitions and the natural human response to humor in uncomfortable situations.

    • Henry VIII's Affair with his Sister-in-LawHenry VIII's relationship with Mary Boleyn challenges the traditional view of the monarch as a ruthless ruler, revealing a more complex and cosmopolitan side of the Tudor court.

      Henry VIII, known for his numerous marriages and beheadings, also had an affair with his sister-in-law, Mary Boleyn. This lesser-known fact sheds light on Henry's cosmopolitan lifestyle and the complex dynamics of the Tudor court. The discovery of this connection was surprising, especially since it was not commonly known or passed down through generations. The speaker, who is a descendant of Henry VIII, found this information during the production of a history show and was intrigued by the progressive nature of the relationship. Despite the potential controversy, the speaker expressed interest in exploring this aspect of Henry's life, as it offers a more nuanced perspective on the monarch. Additionally, the conversation touched on the idea of how history is often focused on sensational events, such as beheadings, rather than the more complex relationships and partnerships that shaped history.

    • Discussing the importance of choosing funeral guests and dealing with unpredictable showbiz interactionsChoose funeral guests wisely and maintain a professional attitude during unexpected showbiz encounters

      Showbiz can bring unexpected interactions, both positive and negative. During a conversation, they discussed the importance of choosing the right people to attend a funeral, and how some individuals may not be genuine friends. Josh shared an experience with a comedian, Mark Lamar, who had been unkind to him but was still invited to the funeral out of professional courtesy. The conversation also touched on the unpredictability of encounters with famous figures, such as Caitlyn Jenner, who may not recognize you before a show. Despite the occasional unpleasant encounters, the importance of maintaining a professional attitude and keeping an open mind was emphasized.

    • Marla's Respect for Josh and Funeral PlansMarla respects Josh's honesty and chooses Alex Brooker for eulogy. Plans a lively funeral with music from her childhood. Josh's humor and advocacy remembered.

      Despite a disagreement and an uninvited comment, Marla has come to respect Josh for his honesty, even if it was delivered in an awkward way. Regarding the funeral plans, Marla has chosen Alex Brooker to give the eulogy and has suggested a lively celebration with music from the first Now album she bought at the age of 10, which was Tasman Archer's album. Marla finds Josh's humor odd but genuinely funny and has jokingly offered to find a replacement for his podcast if something were to happen to him. The wake is planned to be a lively celebration, moving on from the previous Now album discussion. Josh was known for his humor and his advocacy for the disabled community, although Marla had reminded him repeatedly about using disabled facilities only when necessary.

    • Speaker's funeral preferences and post-death requestsSpeaker requests traditional funeral elements, keepsake requests, and shares love for British cinema, drinking, and comedy. They also wish to minimize administrative tasks post-death.

      The speaker has specific preferences for how they want their funeral to be arranged and what they want to leave behind. They express a desire for traditional elements such as black attire and tears, but also have an unusual request to be kept in captivity post-death. They also have strong feelings about who should receive certain possessions, such as leaving a framed picture to Mark Lemah and a Loaded Magazine to no one in particular. The speaker also shares their love for British cinema, drinking, and the comedy scene of the time, which reflects their personality. Additionally, they mention a desire to avoid unnecessary administrative tasks for their loved ones after their death.

    • A cautionary tale about prioritizing work over relationshipsFocusing too much on work or possessions can lead to missed opportunities for meaningful connections and personal growth, as seen in a poignant story about a dying man's final concern.

      Prioritizing our work or material possessions over our relationships and personal well-being can have unexpected and poignant consequences. Cathy shared a story from her childhood about her father, who once witnessed a man's last words on a construction site. The man's main concern, even as he was dying, was that his builders wouldn't install a vent correctly. Cathy's father used this story as a cautionary tale to remind her and others not to prioritize work above all else. Cathy also reflected on her own writing and the importance of sharing it, even the parts that may not be perfect. The discussion underscores the importance of considering what truly matters in life and making the most of the time we have.

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