HOT TAKE: The Alistair Begg Controversy

This week, Brady is joined by Jonathan Noyes of Stand To Reason (@STRvideos) to talk about the impact our worldview has on how we view sexuality. The pair talk about the difference having the Holy Spirit makes in the life of the believer--particularly in fighting sin. Jonathan explains how the naturalism embraced by many in our culture has an impact on what they believe.

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#Atheism #Christianity #Sexuality

Listen in as we explore the sensitive and controversial topic of the Billy Graham Rule, a principle where men, particularly in Christian circles, avoid spending time alone with women who are not their wives. The conversation unpacks the heated debate sparked by a tweet about the rule's negative implications for women, discussing feelings of degradation and limitation in both professional and personal realms. We also address the necessity of boundaries and the challenge of maintaining meaningful interactions across genders, reflecting on the rule's origin as a protective measure for Billy Graham and its modern-day application. As we navigate this complex subject, we invite listeners to consider the nuanced aspects of creating safe yet inclusive spaces within Christian ethics and relationships.

This candid discussion is essential listening for anyone seeking wisdom in their interactions with the opposite sex. We lay out foundational principles of respect, protection, and avoiding assumptions that can enlighten your approach to setting boundaries. Illuminating personal anecdotes and scriptural references, including the oft-quoted 1 Thessalonians 5:22, contribute to a rich tapestry of insights into how we can battle lust through restoration and cultivate edifying friendships. Church leaders, ministry workers, and anyone invested in the health of Christian communities will find value in our exploration of these sensitive yet critical topics. Join us as we offer a fresh lens through which to view the very real challenges of maintaining integrity and compassion in our relational lives.

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TIMESTAMPS:

(00:16) - Exploring Boundaries in Ministerial Relationships
 (09:12) - Challenges With Billy Graham Rule
 (16:32) - Principles of Restoration and Relationships

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Listen in as Dr. Peter Goeman from Shepherd's Theological Seminary joins us to unravel the truths and common misconceptions about biblical sexuality. Together, we tackle the contentious interpretations of the word "homosexual" in the Bible and the cultural attempts to invalidate its teachings in the modern context. Dr. Goeman brings his expertise to the forefront, emphasizing the importance of understanding the original languages to faithfully apply the Scriptures to our lives.

In our thought-provoking conversation, we navigate the challenges of interpreting and applying Old Testament laws, especially concerning discussions around homosexuality. Dr. Goeman shares insights from his dissertation, focusing on the relevance of Old Testament passages to the New Testament, and we confront arguments that aim to sidestep these scriptures based on contemporary perceptions of love. The discussion also explores the role of special revelation in shaping our ethical framework and the resources available through Calibrate Ministries for parents of LGBTQ children. Join us to gain clarity on the complexities involved in understanding ancient laws to today's society, and to understand the distinctions between misinterpretations and the true intent of Scripture.

TIMESTAMPS:

(00:16) Understanding Biblical Sexuality Through Scholarly Analysis

(10:21) Interpreting and Applying Old Testament Scripture

(14:31) Interpreting Old Testament Laws and Creation

(25:31) Analyzing Polygamy in the Bible

Connect w/ Dr. Goeman here:

Youtube:  @thebiblesojourner  

Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-bible-sojourner

Website: https://petergoeman.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pjgoeman/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/goemanpj

Twitter: https://twitter.com/petergoeman_

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Growing up on a Florida farm, Aaron might have seemed to have an idyllic childhood, but beneath the surface, he was wrestling with a challenge that many find incongruent with their faith – same-sex attraction. As we sat across from each other, I was struck by Aaron's unflinching candor about his journey, a narrative that unfolds as a testament to resilience and grace amidst the often tumultuous intersection of Christianity and sexuality. This conversation opens a window into the heart of someone navigating the waters of personal identity, longing for connection, and the deep-seated desire to remain true to his spiritual convictions.  

Throughout our discussion, Aaron pulls back the curtain on the misconceptions and personal challenges he's faced, shining a light on the complex emotions that accompany a life lived at the crossroads of societal expectations and self-acceptance. We explore the poignant struggles of self-denial, the stigmatization faced within religious communities, and the universal battle against loneliness. Aaron's vulnerability highlights the tension many people feel when their authenticity seems at odds with their faith, painting a vivid picture of the courage it takes to stand firm in one's beliefs while also seeking acceptance.  

In a moving narrative, Aaron shares moments of weakness and triumph, from the grip of sexual addiction to the power of grace that has proven to be his beacon in the darkness. His story is a reminder of the critical role a supportive church family can play, and the enduring nature of God's love that extends beyond our human frailties. This episode is a celebration of genuine connection, a call to parents to embrace their children's emotional experiences, and an inspiring look at finding one's identity in Christ amidst the trials we face. Join us as we witness Aaron's powerful journey of faith, sexuality, and the redemptive power of a supportive church community.

TIMESTAMPS

(00:09) - Navigating Same-Sex Attraction With Grace

 (12:17) - Misconceptions and Challenges of Same-Sex Attraction

 (21:16) - Navigating Sexual Addiction and Loneliness

 (32:44) - The Struggle With Guilt and Brokenness

 (36:51) - Navigating Faith and Sexuality as Christians

 (47:51) - The Challenges of Online Connections

 (54:48) - God's Unconditional Love and Support

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Brady offers his hot take on the recent Alistair Begg controversy. 

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Join us on a profound journey with Adam and Lauren Jones as they open up about the intricacies of their marriage, the challenges of aligning sexuality with faith, and the redemptive power of grace in their lives. Listen in as they recount their contrasting upbringings and the transformation that occurred when their lives converged, weaving a narrative of hope and the undeniable strength found in personal faith and a supportive spiritual community. From the dynamics of their home in Spearfish, South Dakota, to the heartening process of raising both biological and foster children, their story is a testament to the impact of divine love in overcoming life's hurdles and reshaping relationships.

Adam and Lauren detail their personal battles, from confronting the aftermath of an affair to the daunting task of rebuilding trust in their relationship. They share insights on the role of biblical counseling, the significance of individual spiritual health, and the metaphorical journey towards vertical alignment with God. Through the darkest moments of contemplating loneliness and depression, to the resurgence of hope and restoration, their stories illuminate the power of love, commitment, and divine intervention. This episode offers an uplifting message for anyone facing the complexities of personal struggle within relationships, emphasizing the potential for grace-filled reconciliation and the enduring hope for a future built on truth and restoration.

Don't miss this profound and grace-filled episode! 

TIMESTAMPS:

(00:00) Sexuality and Marriage
(10:02) Navigating Relationships, Marriage, and Faith
(16:29) A Journey of Redemption and Transformation
(26:36) Struggles With Infidelity and Trust
(33:25) Challenges of Marital Infidelity and Self-Reflection
(39:41) Navigating Through Counseling and Healing
(44:59) Solo Life
(49:41) Struggles, Grace, and Redemption
(58:42) Struggling With Repentance and Deception
(01:02:12) The Journey to Vertical Alignment
(01:12:26) Restoring Trust and Reconciliation in Marriage
(01:24:49) Navigating Truth and Love in Relationships
(01:28:07) Hope and Restoration in Relationships


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#Infidelity #Affair #Jesus #Marriage #God

This week we are joined by Caleb Garza, a content creator for Calibrate Ministries, to respond to Youtube comments. 

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Join me, Brady Cone, and my esteemed guest Dr. Tim Stratton, founder of Free Thinking Ministries, as we explore the intricacies of faith and sexuality within the Christian context. Our dialogue reminisces about our youth ministry days and how a surge of atheism spurred Tim's intensive journey into apologetics. Listen in as we unpack the concept of reasonable faith and its crucial role in understanding Christian beliefs, particularly in relation to LGBTQ issues. Tim's insights into free will and Molinism pave the way for a robust discussion on God's love and its relevance to our ministry's approach to sexuality.  

Venture with us through a theological examination of freedom, predestination, and the transformative power of the Holy Spirit. Discover how Molinism offers a fresh perspective on the balance between God's sovereignty and human choice, especially in the context of LGBTQ struggles. You'll hear a personal testament to the life-changing potential of faith, and we'll reveal how scientific principles echo the biblical encouragement for renewing one's mind. This episode encourages listeners to engage in their sanctification process, drawing upon divine strength while exercising their free will.

Timestamps:

(00:16) - Embracing God's Standard for Sexuality

 (07:32) - Freedom and Mind Transformation

 (19:23) - Transformation Through Hard Work and Faith

 (28:09) - God's Power and Our Free Will

 (43:23) - Understanding Gospel, Interacting With Atheists

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#LGBTQ #Determinism #FreeWill #Sovereignty #Sexuality

When the world around us moves rapidly with new narratives and identities, it's crucial to pause and reflect on the stories that may not make the headlines. Our latest episode takes us through the layers of transgenderism and the sensitive paths of those who have detransitioned. The heartfelt accounts we explore reveal both the struggles and the need for compassionate outreach, especially from the body of Christ, to those wrestling with gender dysphoria.

The influence of the internet and society on the transgender experience, particularly among the youth, cannot be overstated. We take a candid look at the pressures parents and individuals face, from acceptance of transition to navigating complex family dynamics. One testimony we hear is a powerful reminder of identity, the quick steps to medical affirmation, and the life-altering decisions made in the face of internal and external turmoil.  

In a world where grace and hope are desperately needed, our conversation shifts to the risks and debates surrounding gender-affirming care for children and adolescents. We examine the global reassessment of transgender therapy and discuss the church's role in providing a loving and supportive community. Through stories of detransition and the journey towards healing, our episode emphasizes the power of God's grace and the essential call for preparedness and compassion within the church to extend a hand to those in pain.

Timestamps: 

(00:16) - Exploring Transgenderism and Gender-Affirming Care

 (08:43) - Internet's Impact on Transgender Transitioning

 (23:22) - Concerns About Gender Transition in Children

 (33:09) - Detransitioning and the Need for Compassion

 (44:26) - Grace and Hope in a Changing World

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Listen in as we tackle the pressing question of whether affirming someone's lifestyle, especially within the LGBTQ community, equates to an act of love. This poignant discussion explores the recent shifts in attitude from influential religious figures like Andy Stanley and Pope Francis and scrutinizes the notion that love must always be synonymous with affirmation. We examine the delicate balance between love and truth, drawing on Jesus's encounter with the woman at the well and the profound insights of 1 Corinthians 13. The conversation offers a thought-provoking perspective on the intersection of faith, love, and sexuality, aiming to distinguish between genuine compassion and the inadvertent endorsement of sin.  

Venturing further, we address the complexities of engaging with individuals whose actions may not align with our beliefs, highlighting the need for humility and wisdom. Our discourse navigates the challenges of affirming feelings while guiding individuals toward biblical truths, using Apostle Paul's approach as a template for meaningful and compassionate dialogue. We also touch upon the struggles parents of LGBTQ children face, offering a glimpse into the supportive ministry we provide for these families. Tune in for a conversation that seeks to reconcile the necessity of upholding our values with the powerful imperative to love unconditionally, even when it requires navigating difficult seasons of separation.

Timestamps:

(00:16) - Exploring Love and Affirmation in Sexuality
 (10:38) - Love and Truth in Engaging Sinners

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#lgbtq #christianity  #affirming  #sin