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    Hyderabad, India Plus adapting to food, nail polish, gratitude

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    About this Episode

    In this episode, FAQ is: What if I don’t like the food?

    Today’s Destination is: Hyderabad, India

    Today’s Misstep- Wrong color nail polish

    Travel Advice: Grateful before happy

    FAQ: What if I don’t like the food?

     

    Answer:  You mostly will, but if not, have a plan. If you find yourself not enjoying the food in a travel destination, there are several things you can do to make your dining experience more enjoyable:

    • Explore hyper-local options: Try different restaurants and eateries in your immediate neighborhood that offer a variety of local dishes. Sometimes, a dish or cooking style may not suit your taste, but other options might.

    • Ask Locals for Recommendations: Locals often know the best places to eat. Don't hesitate to ask for recommendations from hotel staff, tour guides, or friendly locals you meet during your travels. Tell them your limitations.

    • Look for Familiar Cuisines: If you're having trouble adjusting to local flavors, look for restaurants that serve familiar cuisines. Many tourist destinations have various international restaurants catering to diverse tastes.

    • Check Reviews: Use online review platforms like TripAdvisor, Yelp, or Google Reviews to find highly-rated restaurants. These platforms often provide insights into the food quality and overall dining experience.

    • Communicate Your Preferences: If dining at a local establishment, consider politely communicating your preferences or dietary restrictions to the staff. They may be able to offer alternatives or modify dishes to suit your taste.

    • Visit Markets or Grocery Stores: Explore local markets or grocery stores to find fresh produce, snacks, or even pre-packaged meals that you might enjoy. This allows you to have some control over your food choices.

    • Opt for Self-Cooking Options: If you have access to a kitchen, consider preparing simple meals for yourself. You can buy ingredients from local markets and try cooking, providing a more personalized dining experience.

    • Pack Snacks: Bring some of your favorite snacks from home to supplement your meals, especially if you're in a place where your preferred foods might be hard to find. I brought Peanut Butter to many places where I knew that Chilis was on every menu. That gave me protein and confidence.

    • Be Open-Minded: Sometimes, embracing the local culinary culture and being open-minded about trying new foods can lead to unexpected discoveries and a more positive dining experience.



    Today’s destination: Hyderabad, India

    I arrived from Kerala to Hyderabad and had a phone number of someone to call that I would be staying with. We had a few texts to each other. Basically, a friend of a friend allowed me to stay with them and I was grateful..

    They had their worker pick me up in the family car at the airport. My new friend, Soujanya, came along for the ride, which was special. We visited her parents' apartment, and I rested. Then we explored places such as her dad’s 7-acre farm, about an hour away, with ripe fruits like mangos and vegetables near a beautiful lake. it was nature in one of the finest moments. then we went to my host's home and met the other family members, husband, daughter, and then finally, brothers and sisters of the hosts, who all seemed to live in the same development.

    They also have a “family “ business, and they showed me the office space and several employees working on projects. 

    One of the highlights was seeing the Golconda Fort, with its architecture and panoramic city views. They had an impressive sound and light show in the evening. Seeing this in the evening, it was not crowded when things cooled down. 

    We went to dinner afterward. Then, we drove around the city, including across the bridge. I could see the icons of tech here on parade in neon. Every company I could think of and more, including Qualcomm, is clearly part of the Hyderabad skyline, based in San Diego.

    Here are some recommendations for things to do in Hyderabad:

    • Charminar: This iconic monument is a must-visit. You can explore the surrounding markets for traditional bazaars and enjoy the local street food.

    • Qutb (ku-teb)Shahi Tombs: Visit the Qutb Shahi Tombs to experience the serenity of the surrounding gardens and explore the intricate architecture of these historic structures.

    For my next visit, here’s what I will see:

    • Salar Jung Museum: If you're interested in art and history, the Salar Jung Museum houses one of the largest private collections of artifacts worldwide.

    • Ramoji Film City: If you enjoy the world of cinema, spend a day at Ramoji Film City, one of the largest film studios in the world. It's a fascinating experience with film sets, gardens, and entertainment.

    • Birla Mandir: This stunning white marble temple dedicated to Lord Venkateswara offers a peaceful atmosphere and a beautiful city view.

    • Hussain Sagar Lake: Take a boat ride on Hussain Sagar Lake and visit the Buddha Statue on an island in the middle of the lake.

    • Eat at Paradise Restaurant: Hyderabad is famous for its biryani, and Paradise Restaurant is renowned for serving delicious biryani. It's a must-visit for food enthusiasts.

    Remember to prioritize your safety, especially when exploring new places alone. Inform someone about your whereabouts, use reliable transportation, and be aware of your surroundings. Enjoy your solo trip to Hyderabad!

     

    Today’s Misstep- Wrong color nail polish. Make it clear or natural.

    Use natural or clear colors instead of bright or bold colors. They get cracked, and you don’t want to spend time fixing them.

     

    Today’s Travel Advice- Be grateful before you seek happy as a traveler.

     

    If you do this in order you will have both. Gratitude comes first, before happiness. So be grateful for what you have now. 

    In positive psychology research, gratitude is strongly and consistently associated with greater happiness. Gratitude helps people feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improve their health, deal with adversity, and build strong relationships.

     

    • “Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.” – Andre Gide

    • “Remember that happiness is a way of travel – not a destination.” – Roy M. Goodman

     

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    • Check Reviews: Use online review platforms like TripAdvisor, Yelp, or Google Reviews to find highly-rated restaurants. These platforms often provide insights into the food quality and overall dining experience.

    • Communicate Your Preferences: If dining at a local establishment, consider politely communicating your preferences or dietary restrictions to the staff. They may be able to offer alternatives or modify dishes to suit your taste.

    • Visit Markets or Grocery Stores: Explore local markets or grocery stores to find fresh produce, snacks, or even pre-packaged meals that you might enjoy. This allows you to have some control over your food choices.

    • Opt for Self-Cooking Options: If you have access to a kitchen, consider preparing simple meals for yourself. You can buy ingredients from local markets and try cooking, providing a more personalized dining experience.

    • Pack Snacks: Bring some of your favorite snacks from home to supplement your meals, especially if you're in a place where your preferred foods might be hard to find. I brought Peanut Butter to many places where I knew that Chilis was on every menu. That gave me protein and confidence.

    • Be Open-Minded: Sometimes, embracing the local culinary culture and being open-minded about trying new foods can lead to unexpected discoveries and a more positive dining experience.



    Today’s destination: Hyderabad, India

    I arrived from Kerala to Hyderabad and had a phone number of someone to call that I would be staying with. We had a few texts to each other. Basically, a friend of a friend allowed me to stay with them and I was grateful..

    They had their worker pick me up in the family car at the airport. My new friend, Soujanya, came along for the ride, which was special. We visited her parents' apartment, and I rested. Then we explored places such as her dad’s 7-acre farm, about an hour away, with ripe fruits like mangos and vegetables near a beautiful lake. it was nature in one of the finest moments. then we went to my host's home and met the other family members, husband, daughter, and then finally, brothers and sisters of the hosts, who all seemed to live in the same development.

    They also have a “family “ business, and they showed me the office space and several employees working on projects. 

    One of the highlights was seeing the Golconda Fort, with its architecture and panoramic city views. They had an impressive sound and light show in the evening. Seeing this in the evening, it was not crowded when things cooled down. 

    We went to dinner afterward. Then, we drove around the city, including across the bridge. I could see the icons of tech here on parade in neon. Every company I could think of and more, including Qualcomm, is clearly part of the Hyderabad skyline, based in San Diego.

    Here are some recommendations for things to do in Hyderabad:

    • Charminar: This iconic monument is a must-visit. You can explore the surrounding markets for traditional bazaars and enjoy the local street food.

    • Qutb (ku-teb)Shahi Tombs: Visit the Qutb Shahi Tombs to experience the serenity of the surrounding gardens and explore the intricate architecture of these historic structures.

    For my next visit, here’s what I will see:

    • Salar Jung Museum: If you're interested in art and history, the Salar Jung Museum houses one of the largest private collections of artifacts worldwide.

    • Ramoji Film City: If you enjoy the world of cinema, spend a day at Ramoji Film City, one of the largest film studios in the world. It's a fascinating experience with film sets, gardens, and entertainment.

    • Birla Mandir: This stunning white marble temple dedicated to Lord Venkateswara offers a peaceful atmosphere and a beautiful city view.

    • Hussain Sagar Lake: Take a boat ride on Hussain Sagar Lake and visit the Buddha Statue on an island in the middle of the lake.

    • Eat at Paradise Restaurant: Hyderabad is famous for its biryani, and Paradise Restaurant is renowned for serving delicious biryani. It's a must-visit for food enthusiasts.

    Remember to prioritize your safety, especially when exploring new places alone. Inform someone about your whereabouts, use reliable transportation, and be aware of your surroundings. Enjoy your solo trip to Hyderabad!

     

    Today’s Misstep- Wrong color nail polish. Make it clear or natural.

    Use natural or clear colors instead of bright or bold colors. They get cracked, and you don’t want to spend time fixing them.

     

    Today’s Travel Advice- Be grateful before you seek happy as a traveler.

     

    If you do this in order you will have both. Gratitude comes first, before happiness. So be grateful for what you have now. 

    In positive psychology research, gratitude is strongly and consistently associated with greater happiness. Gratitude helps people feel more positive emotions, relish good experiences, improve their health, deal with adversity, and build strong relationships.

     

    • “Man cannot discover new oceans unless he has the courage to lose sight of the shore.” – Andre Gide

    • “Remember that happiness is a way of travel – not a destination.” – Roy M. Goodman

     

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    Chennai, India Plus Venmo, stolen sneakers, and socks on the plane

    Chennai, India Plus Venmo, stolen sneakers, and socks on the plane

    In this episode, FAQ is: What are the advantages and disadvantages of Venmo?

    Today’s Destination is: Chennai

    Today’s Misstep- Stolen sneakers in Acalpulco

    Travel Advice: Carry socks on the plane

    FAQ: What are the advantages and disadvantages of Venmo?


    Venmo, like any financial service, has both positive and negative aspects. The perception of whether Venmo is considered good or bad can vary based on individual preferences, needs, and experiences. Here are some factors to consider:

    On my trip, I had the opportunity to use Venmo in Turkey to pay for a hostel that did not accept credit cards. It worked smoothly. I’ve been using the app for several years, and here are the good and the not so good—first, the advantages.

    • Convenience: Venmo is known for its ease of use, allowing users to send or receive money quickly through a mobile app. It has become famous for splitting bills, sharing expenses, and making small transactions among friends and family.

    • Social Integration: Venmo incorporates a social feed that allows users to see and comment on their friends' transactions. This social aspect can make money transfers more engaging and interactive.

    • Wide Acceptance: Many online and offline merchants accept Venmo as a payment method. This widespread acceptance can be convenient for users who want to make purchases or payments through the app.

    • Security Features: Venmo has implemented security features, such as two-factor authentication and encryption, to help protect users' financial information.

    • Free for Standard Transactions: Venmo generally doesn't charge fees for standard transactions when using a linked bank account or debit card.

    Disadvantages of Venmo:

    • Privacy Concerns: The social feed feature on Venmo can lead to privacy concerns, as transactions are often visible to others by default. While you can adjust privacy settings, users should be cautious about sharing sensitive information.

    • Fees for Certain Transactions: While standard transactions are usually free, Venmo charges fees for particular transactions, such as using a credit card or transferring funds to a linked bank account instantly.

    • Limited Customer Support: Some users have reported challenges with Venmo's customer support, experiencing delays or difficulties in resolving issues.

    • Not Ideal for Large Transactions: Venmo is designed for small, peer-to-peer transactions. Due to potential limitations and security concerns, it may not be the best option for large or business-related transactions.

    • Risk of Scams: As with any digital payment platform, there is a risk of scams or fraudulent activities. Users should be vigilant and follow best practices to avoid scams.

    Whether Venmo is considered good or bad depends on individual preferences, needs, and how well the platform aligns with a user's expectations and usage patterns.



    Today’s destination: Chennai, India



    My first visit to India was to Chennai, formerly Madras, which was my first city in the southeast part of the country.

    I flew from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, to Chennai.

    Air Asia Airlines was my carrier. I came via Kuala Lumpur. 

     

    My first thought, arriving at midnight, was that I didn’t want to get ripped off by the taxi driver.

    That happened.

    The driver promised it was him, threw my bag in the trunk, and closed it. I was not stuck. He left the car as soon as the vehicle left the airport. Another driver, shoeless, jumped in to take me to my hotel. This driver had no change. He said I needed to pay him in cash and could not refund or change any bills. Fortunately, my hotel was able to step in and help me. I paid him from my hotel bill, so they added the charges to my account. I had cash, but all 2000 rupee note bills were worth about $25.00 each. No one seemed to be using this denomination anymore. The country has stopped using this currency. I was swindled in Vietnam, too, because they would have known this.

     

    https://www.forbes.com/advisor/in/personal-finance/why-has-rbi-withdrawn-2000-rupee-note/



    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indian_500-rupee_note

    What are some other things to do?

    Explore Fort St. George:

    • Visit Fort St. George, the oldest British-built fortress in India. You'll find the St. Mary's Church and the Fort Museum inside the fort, showcasing the city's colonial history.

    Shopping at T Nagar:

    • T Nagar is a bustling shopping district where you can find a variety of traditional silk sarees, jewelry, and other handicrafts. It's a good place to experience the vibrant local market scene.

    Attend a dance Performance:

    • Chennai is famous for its classical dance form, Bharatanatyam. baa·ruh·taa·naa·tee·uhm

    • Check out local schedules for dance performances and enjoy this beautiful art form.

    Try South Indian Cuisine:

    • Indulge in the delicious South Indian cuisine. Try traditional dishes like dosa, idli, sambar, and coffee at local eateries. I especially liked the dosa, but not the spices on it. I had my peanut butter when I could not eat the chili spices.

    While exploring Chennai, it's essential to prioritize your safety. Stick to well-lit and populated areas, use reliable transportation options, and be cautious of your surroundings. 

     

    Today’s Misstep- Stolen sneakers in Acalpulco

     

    Today’s Travel Advice: Walking contributes to heart health, weight management, and mental health.

    Ask the Mission Walker, Edie Littlefield Sundby. She walked more than anyone I know after being diagnosed with cancer.

     

    Walking is not a cure for illnesses, but it can contribute to overall health and well-being, potentially reducing the risk of certain diseases and improving various aspects of physical and mental health. Regular physical activity, such as walking, is associated with several health benefits.

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    Agra, India plus learning customs before travel, travel tips and mishaps

    Agra, India plus learning customs before travel, travel tips and mishaps

    In this episode, FAQ is: How can I learn about a country’s customs before I visit there?

     

    Today’s Destination is: Agra, India

    Today’s Misstep- I took the wrong bus to the airport in Reykjavik.

    Travel Advice: Petroleum Jelly has many uses for travelers, so save space and money, simply.

     

    FAQ: How can I learn about a country’s customs before I visit there? I will give you five answers to that question, and for some European countries, this will be easier; when it comes to Step 4 and Step 5 experiences, you will work harder on the research to get the answers you need.

     

    • 1. The First place to look is to do some Online Research: Utilize the internet to find reliable sources, travel forums, and blogs that discuss the customs and traditions of the country you plan to visit.

    • 2. Next, check out your local library or bookstore for books. Guidebooks: Invest in travel guidebooks that provide cultural insights and practical tips for navigating customs in specific countries.

    • 3. An excellent next step is language. Language Apps: Use language-learning apps to familiarize yourself with basic phrases and etiquette, as language is often intertwined with cultural norms. You need to know some cultural experiences if possible.

    • 4. Cultural Workshops: Attend local cultural workshops or events in your area to gain firsthand knowledge about the customs and traditions of the country you intend to visit.

    • 5. Lastly, ask friends to connect you with locals or do it yourself.

     Engage with locals through social media platforms or language exchange websites to ask questions and gain insights directly from people living in the destination.

    Today’s destination: Agra, India

     

    Agra is a city on the banks of the Yamuna River in the Indian state of Uttar Pradesh, about 142 miles southeast of the national capital, Delhi. It’s about the distance from San Diego to Los Angeles.1.7 million people live in Agra.

     

    You will find One of the Seven Wonders of the World, the Taj Mahal. It is an iconic white marble magical mausoleum built by Emperor Shah Jahan in memory of his beloved and favorite wife, Mumtaz Mahal. It is a masterpiece of Mughal architecture and a symbol of eternal love, built in the 17th century.

    The second place to see is the Agra Fort: This UNESCO World Heritage Site is a massive red sandstone fort located on the banks of the Yamuna River. It served as the primary residence of the Mughal emperors and houses several impressive structures, including the Jahangir Palace and the Khas Mahal.

    Other places to visit include Kinari Bazaar, a bustling market, and Mehtab Bagh, a garden complex on the opposite side of the Yamuna River from the Taj Mahal. From this garden viewpoint, you can enjoy some peace, walk around the monument, and see the Taj Mahal at different times of the day. There are other ancient cities and tombs to explore here, which I hope to visit someday.

    One of my first impressions was that it was stark white marble with Brass and Gold trimmings.

    How large is the building? 242 feet tall and the exact size below ground.

    It was lined up with other buildings, with a Guest house next door on the river.

    East Gate was how I entered.

    Wear shoe covers to see the mosque.

     

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Origins_and_architecture_of_the_Taj_Mahal

     

    Today’s Misstep- I took the wrong bus to the airport in Reykjavik.

     

    Today’s Travel Advice-Petroleum Jelly has many uses for travelers, so save space and money.

     

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    Dr. Mary Travelbest - Best of Thousand Oaks and First Time Solo Travelers

    Dr. Mary Travelbest - Best of Thousand Oaks and First Time Solo Travelers

    In this episode: .The FAQ is: How can I travel solo for the first time?

    Today’s Destination Thousand Oaks California

     

    Today’s Mistake- Too tired when you get home from a trip and can't find your parking ticket or keys

    Travel Advice:   Safety After Dark

     

    In this episode: FAQ How can I travel solo for the first time?

    Answer: The first step for traveling solo for the first time is to pick a small destination such as one night in the next state. don't bite off too much because it might be too challenging and you want to be successful.  Plan a 1 Night trip to another town or state and return home the next day to see how you like it. prepare yourself with things to do by yourself, such as going to a movie, shopping, and sleeping well for the night when you wake up in the morning.  then drive home. You will have had your first successful solo trip, which was okay. The next step will be a little more challenging, but you will get there if you try and follow the directions I give you in my travel book, 5 steps to solo travel.

    Destination:  Thousand Oaks, California

    I took a solo trip to Malibu and Thousand Oaks, California, for a weekend.

    There are about a hundred twenty-five thousand residents and 10,000 businesses here in Thousand Oaks, which has existed since the Chumash Indians founded it. 

    There's a lot to do in the coastal area of California north of Los Angeles. I recommend this kind of Step One travel for those who have never traveled by themselves. Gardens of the World is a destination to enjoy in Thousand Oaks, California.

    Gardens of the World is open from Tuesday through Saturday only. it smells great With all these beautiful flowers, gardens, and fresh air here. The drive between Thousand Oaks and Malibu is beautiful. I hope you can take that tour across the top of the mountain, horse farms, wineries, and one-of-a-kind homes. .Windy roads, viewpoints, canyons,  spectacular vistas, and even some forest fire damage along the drive from past years fires.

    The Lakes shopping Mall, City Hall, Plaza, and Park are nearby. Thousand Oaks is a small city. I really wanted to visit the Ojai Valley Inn, but they said I needed a reservation. I ended up at the America’s Best Value Inn.

    .https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTicw7aoVS0

    Nearby beaches include Topanga, Dan Blocker, Point Dume, Niklas Canyon

    I need to get back here my favorite beaches were El Matador Beach and Zuma Beach in Malibu,

    Today’s Mistake: Too tired when you get home from a trip and can't find your parking ticket or keys.

    When you return from a long overseas trip, you may be very tired. you may not be able to find your car parking tickets, keys, or both. This happened to my sister on her return from a long European getaway. The lesson learned is keeping your keys and parking ticket in a convenient and memorable location. Before you set on your trip home, have them handy so you will not have to remember where they are. That will save you much stress when you are jet-lagged and tired, and your brain just doesn't want to work.

    Today’s Travel Advice:  Safety After Dark

    If you are walking around after dark by yourself, do not use earbuds and listen to podcasts or music. Keep your ears, eyes, and all senses aware of your surroundings. Do not drink alcohol or take drugs. Do not walk in dark alleys. Know where you're going ahead of time please. I would like you to arrive safely at your destination.

    Dr. Mary Travelbest - Venice Italy

    Dr. Mary Travelbest - Venice Italy

    In this episode, The Venice Episode, 

     

     FAQ’s are:

     

    1. What about the possibility that the museums and galleries may not accurately represent the true history and experiences of these famous individuals?

     

    2. Have you considered tourism's impact on preserving historical landmarks and artifacts and is it sinking?

     

    3. How would you address those who argue that the cultural significance of these figures is exaggerated or overemphasized in the tourism industry?

     

    The answers: Yes, it’s sinking, but slowly. Some of the historical figures may have been misrepresented. You still have time to explore the city. Is tourism here overrated? Listen for more following.

     

    Today’s Destination is Venice, Italy

    Today’s Mistake- TSA found squash in my suitcase

    Travel Advice:  Border crossing into Mexico



    Today’s destination: Venice, Italy

     

    Venice is a cultural center of Italy with 117 islands, 400 bridges, and 150 canals. The Grand Canal is the city's main artery and a must-see. While taking a gondola ride may seem corny, expensive, and embarrassing, there are plenty of other ways to explore the city. Fewer people live in Venice nowadays due to the city's sinking and high prices, but the region still attracts many tourists, Hollywood royalty, and artists.

     

    A trip to Venice is incomplete without trying the seafood and espresso and visiting St Mark's Cathedral. The city's history is also rich with connections to famous figures such as Marco Polo, Casanova, and Vivaldi. I did not visit the museums, but I did see many of the churches here. There’s always next time, and I have seen museums in many other Italian cities. I wanted to be outside in the fresh air.

     

    If you want to escape the crowds, venture out at dawn and get lost in the back alleys to discover magnificent churches and smelly canals. The Merchant of Venice, by Shakespeare, is another cultural treasure that can be enjoyed here.

     

    While some private swim clubs charge 50 euros to swim, you can visit Saint Elena and Saint Mary Elizabeth at the end of the ferry’s Line 1 for a refreshing dip in the Adriatic Sea for free, as I did. 

     

    The Lido, St Nicholas of Tolentine Mass, and the train station are other notable destinations to visit. Be sure to bring an umbrella for shade and learn some Italian words to immerse yourself fully in the local culture.

     

    Lastly, take the ferries everywhere to get around the city and enjoy the relaxed vibe of patient tourists walking and waiting. The Anda hostel near the train station is a recommended place to stay. While tickets to the Opera House may not be available at the last minute, this beautiful city has plenty of other cultural experiences. A day ticket on the ferries is cheap. Trains are all with AC

     

    Today’s Mistake- TSA found squash in my suitcase

     

    I grow vegetables and wanted to share the fruit of my crop with a friend. It was a surprise when TSA asked me to open my luggage to show them my squash. Oh well, that was just an unusual object for someone to carry in their bag. 

     

    Today’s Travel Advice- Border crossing into Mexico

     

    If you are crossing the US border into Mexico, consider that the experience is always changing. Some days, the line will be long; other times, it could be shorter. 

    The last time I was there, it took 4 hours in the car to cross back to the USA. That is ideal if you all have a Global Entry and your car is registered. The wait will be short. You can also drop passengers off, and they walk across while you drive your Sentri-cleared vehicle across. 

    There could also be a long wait going to Mexico, so be prepared by checking in advance and getting auto insurance before you leave.

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