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    enJune 18, 2021
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    About this Episode

    Hey, Sisters! We're introducing a brand-new feature with this fun episode featuring power sisters Alexandra Trower and Andrea Scharff.

    Ever wonder what connects sisters and creates that unbreakable bond? The answer, of course, is the sharing of a unique family history that brings sisters close and keeps them closer.

    Our guests today are pretty darn remarkable in their accomplishments and their sister bond! And we get to talk with them about everything midlife including menopause, breast reductions, and buying bras.

    Alex Trower is a global communications and corporate affairs executive. She spent the last three decades working in asset management, banking, and global prestige beauty. She is the Chairman of the Board of Trustees at her Alma Mater, Hollins University. She's also a frequent speaker and panelist focusing on women's leadership and career growth.

    Andrea Scharff started her professional life working in the tech industry, but soon realized she preferred to be out in the garden more than inside the office.

    Andrea's company, Andrea Scharff Landscape
    Design specializes in custom residential and commercial landscape design from Maui to Montauk.

    Her work has been featured in the L.A. Times, The Wall Street Journal, and Lux Magazine.

    Andrea is also a top 25 Instagram most followed landscape designer, and most followed Instagram influencer for landscape design.

    At the top of the 'cast, Abby and Julie discuss (perhaps at length) the lip-syncing TikTok phenom that is William White (@whiteyy18) who is making thousands of midlife women swoon one video at a time.

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