I hadn’t recorded in the car in a while. I notice that a person I see speak all the time is always over the top positive. And I think ‘It’s ok to have a bad day”. And that is a very good reminder to myself, to let myself have bad days… As well as afford the same to others. Let them have bad days as well.
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This episode is “It is ok to have a bad day.”
There is a guy a see speak a bunch. Every time I see him he has the “hug everybody, notice the color of the trees, life is amazing” which is great but it’s always over the top. I was thinking… Man, what if he has a bad day? Does he feel he has to hold up this appearance of positive energy?
And I was thinking about that for myself as well. How at times in my life I wanted my outsides to… for appearances, how willing was I to talk about issues that I could have been having. I’d moved in with this new girl, and we would have these emotional disturbances, call it a fight :). And I’d go to a recovery meeting, and I had a really hard time conveying that I was in emotional distress. I remember being shook up and “How can I go to this meeting I’m so emotionally shook up?”
Now I’m very willing to discuss it. I think I do a fairly good job of being transparent about where I am with things.
Some people tell me “You don’t need to grow anymore!” I just was thinking, I was feeling for this person, then I can start holding people to this unrealistic standard.
Can I be easy on others when they’re perhaps having a bad day. Can I not hold them in contempt, not hold them in judgment? Can I anticipate some upheaval?
So much of my creative thought process has gone to the Summit and interviewing, I feel like I am starting over with the podcast. In relation to being able to do an episode everyday.
To be perfectly transparent, my stream of consciousness is lasting like 3 to 5 minutes how in gods name am I going to make it to 8 minutes. Like I’m starting over.
To recap the eppisode:
- If we are positive people give ourselves space and permission to have bad days and to communicate with people that we are having bad days.
- Let's make sure we afford that to other people as well. Especially people that we may hold in high esteem. People that are audience facing.
- I am nervous as can be and feel like I am starting over with being able to record episodes.
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