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    JOURNAL: What Is Life Showing You?

    en-gbDecember 18, 2022
    Who is Dr. Lisa Miller and what does she study?
    What perspective shift does the text suggest about life?
    How can viewing life as a journey impact fulfillment?
    What role do 'Trail Angels' play in this exploration?
    Where can I find more insights on this topic?

    Podcast Summary

    • Shift from controlling life to embracing the role of explorersEmbrace the unknown, focus on journey not just destination, reflect on current experiences, and become a Trail Angel for others on the path

      Instead of viewing life as something we can control and order like a product on Amazon, we should embrace the role of explorers on a journey. According to Dr. Lisa Miller, an expert in spirituality and neuroplasticity, this shift in perspective allows us to become more like hikers on a long trail, showing up for each other as Trail Angels, and embracing the unknown. This perspective can lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful life, as we focus on the journey rather than just the destination. So, in your journal, reflect on what life is showing you right now, and consider how embracing the role of an explorer might help you navigate the twists and turns of your own path. Remember, you don't have to have everything figured out; you're on a quest to discover and grow. And as always, you've got this! (Note: For those interested, I highly recommend checking out the Lobster Brain podcast episode featuring Dr. Lisa Miller for more insights on this topic.)

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