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    Lie About Santa vs. Tell The Truth | Hold Up with Dulcé Sloan & Josh Johnson

    enDecember 23, 2023

    Podcast Summary

    • The comfort and joy of small experiencesSmall experiences can bring happiness, but consider potential risks and consequences before making impulsive decisions.

      Even small experiences, like getting a new piercing, can bring comfort and joy, especially when shared with supportive people. However, it's important to consider the potential risks, such as health complications, when getting body modifications from unprofessional sources. The conversation on Hold Up also touches upon the importance of having the right tools and expertise for important tasks. The hosts' shared experience of getting piercings, both professional and from a flea market, highlights the significance of taking care of oneself and considering the potential consequences of impulsive decisions.

    • Santa Claus: Truth or Fantasy?Parents must decide if introducing Santa as a fantasy helps or harms their child's understanding of truth and trust in adults

      The discussion revolved around the topic of whether or not to tell children about Santa Claus. While some believe it's a valuable lesson in understanding the world and the concept of fantasy, others argue that it's a lie and could potentially harm a child's trust in adults. The speaker, Josh Johnson, expressed his belief in the importance of Santa as a starter lesson, as it introduces fantasy in a fun and engaging way, while acknowledging that adults do lie. The conversation also touched upon personal experiences and the impact of childhood experiences on one's perspective towards Santa. Ultimately, the decision to tell children about Santa is a matter of personal belief and parenting style.

    • Navigating the complexities of the Santa Claus mythAcknowledge and address the inconsistencies and contradictions in stories and traditions, focusing on the positive aspects like employment opportunities for adults during the holiday season.

      The Santa Claus myth can be a source of confusion and disillusionment for children as they grow older and begin to question the logic behind the story. The speaker shares their personal experience of grappling with the inconsistencies and lies in the Santa narrative, expressing frustration with the lack of connection between Santa and religious figures, as well as the mall Santa tradition. They suggest an alternative perspective, focusing on providing employment opportunities for adults portraying Santa Claus during the holiday season, rather than perpetuating the myth in a potentially problematic way. The conversation highlights the importance of acknowledging and addressing the complexities and contradictions in the stories and traditions we pass down to future generations.

    • Age and maturity of elves in Santa storiesAge and maturity of elves can be confusing, with some depicted as children and others as old. The term 'old child' is unclear. 18 is not always the age of adulthood, and behaviors and emotional intelligence can vary.

      The concept of age and maturity can be complex and nuanced, especially when it comes to fictional characters like elves in Santa stories. During a conversation, it was discussed that some elves are depicted as children, while others appear to be older. The term "old child" was used, but it was unclear if it meant a grown elf or an actual old child. It was also mentioned that 18 is not necessarily the age of adulthood, and some people may exhibit adult-like behaviors and emotional intelligence much earlier. The conversation then veered off topic to discuss the reality of the North Pole and Santa's employment of elves. Overall, the conversation highlighted the complexity of age and maturity, and the importance of clear communication to avoid misunderstandings.

    • Understanding Complexity of Human BehaviorPeople's behaviors and motivations are complex and influenced by various factors including upbringing and personal experiences. Evaluate people based on actions and interactions, rather than assumptions.

      People's behaviors and motivations can be complex and multifaceted. Some people may seem evil or chaotic from a young age, and it's unclear whether it's due to their upbringing or an inherent trait. This concept was discussed in relation to the belief in Santa Claus, as some people continue to believe despite evidence to the contrary, while others don't. Ultimately, it's important to evaluate people based on their actions and interactions, rather than assuming they fit neatly into preconceived categories. Additionally, personal experiences and upbringing can shape one's perspective and beliefs.

    • Understanding the Origins and Significance of ChristmasChristmas is celebrated globally, despite its religious origins, and it's important to respect diverse beliefs and practices around the world.

      Christmas, despite its name and religious origins, is celebrated by various cultures and religions around the world, not just Christians. The holiday is known by different names and celebrated on different days in some communities, but the tradition of gift-giving and celebrating the season is universal. The speaker shared an experience with a friend who was an atheist and questioned why she celebrated Christmas. The friend argued that it was an American holiday, but the speaker explained that the name itself is derived from "Christ's Mass." The friend was surprised and defensive, but the speaker pointed out that other religions don't celebrate Christmas because they follow different faiths. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding the origins and significance of holidays, and the importance of respecting and acknowledging the diversity of beliefs and practices around the world.

    • The magic of Christmas can be interpreted differentlyChristmas meanings can vary based on experiences and cultural backgrounds, and traditions evolve over time

      The perception of Christmas and its traditions can vary greatly depending on individual experiences and cultural backgrounds. Using the example of a childhood memory where a friend mentioned receiving a "cold" from Santa instead of a desired gift, the speaker highlights how the magic of Christmas can be interpreted differently based on circumstances. The speaker also touches upon the idea that not all lessons are meant to be fun, and that understanding the importance of certain things may not always be immediately apparent. Additionally, the discussion delves into the origins of Christmas traditions and how they have evolved over time. The overall message is that the meaning behind Christmas can be subjective and shaped by personal experiences and cultural influences.

    • Personal experiences and cultural differences in holiday traditionsThe significance and meaning behind holiday traditions can vary greatly depending on cultural context and personal experiences. Preferences for certain figures and terminology may differ based on these factors.

      The speaker shares a personal experience about the decline of excitement for Easter baskets as they grew older and the cultural differences in holiday traditions, specifically the use of "Merry Christmas" versus "Happy Christmas" and the concept of Santa Claus versus Father Christmas. The speaker also expresses confusion about the origins and significance of certain holiday figures, such as the Easter Bunny and Father Christmas/Santa Claus. The speaker questions the importance and meaning behind these traditions and expresses a preference for the term "Happy Christmas" and the Santa Claus figure over "Father Christmas." The speaker also touches on the cultural differences and controversies surrounding Black Pete in the Netherlands. Overall, the conversation highlights the subjective nature of holiday traditions and the importance of understanding the cultural context behind them.

    • The Commercialization of Santa ClausSanta Claus is a marketing creation, not a historical figure. His ability to deliver presents worldwide is a result of logistical planning and brand partnerships, not a magical feat.

      The Christmas tradition of Santa Claus delivering presents is a commercialized concept, separate from the religious story of the birth of Jesus. Santa is a brand ambassador for companies like Coca-Cola, and his ability to deliver presents worldwide on Christmas Eve is a result of marketing and logistical planning, rather than a historical fact. The speaker recalls being confused as a child about the absence of Santa in the Nativity story and the inconsistency of his presence in different parts of the world. The discussion also touches upon the idea that Santa represents a "grind" or hustle, a concept that can be applied to personal success. The triangle of success mentioned refers to the idea of building a team or network to support one's goals. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of understanding the origins and context of traditions, and the role of marketing and commercialization in shaping our perceptions.

    • Reimagining Santa: Female Reindeers and Collaborative Gift-GivingParents can adapt Santa's role and make gift-giving more collaborative by revealing female reindeers and their involvement in gift-giving. This way, when kids find out Santa isn't real, they'll understand their parents were the givers all along.

      The role of Santa Claus and the reality behind his existence can be reimagined and adapted to suit modern parenting. During a discussion, it was revealed that reindeers are actually female, which adds a new layer to the Santa mythos. The idea was proposed that parents could use this knowledge to make their children less attached to Santa, so when the time comes to reveal the truth, they're less disappointed. Instead of Santa being the sole giver of presents, parents could contribute as well, making the gift-giving process more collaborative. This way, when the child finds out that Santa isn't real, they'll understand that their parents were the ones who provided the gifts all along. This approach can help make the transition smoother and teach kids valuable lessons about life and reality.

    • Should Parents Tell Their Kids About Santa Claus?Parents must decide whether to uphold the Santa Claus tradition, considering its potential impact on children's beliefs and the joy it brings. Share your thoughts and experiences.

      The discussion on Hold Up revolved around the topic of whether or not parents should tell their children about Santa Claus. Dulce Sloan and Josh Johnson presented arguments both for and against the tradition, highlighting its potential impact on children's beliefs and the joy it brings during the holiday season. Ultimately, they left the decision up to the listeners, encouraging them to share their thoughts and experiences. Listeners can connect with Dulce and Josh on various social media platforms and tune in to their respective shows. The Daily Show podcast offers more thought-provoking conversations on a wide range of topics. Don't forget to catch The Daily Show weeknights on Comedy Central and Paramount Plus.

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    3239 The Bow of Traditions

    3239 The Bow of Traditions

    No one likes the feeling of being overwhelmed and always feeling like they are chasing life. During this holiday season, don't try too hard. Instead, tie a few ribbons on your gifts; the bow of traditions. 

    The holiday season is filled with joy, love, and the excitement of creating lasting memories with our families.

    Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co 

    However, it can also be a time when parents feel overwhelmed by the numerous obligations and expectations that come with the holidays.

    Sometimes it's so crazy that in all honesty, we just want to be alone.

    But if you have the blessing of a family, then make it count this holiday season and create traditions that are meaningful to your family.

    The K.I.S.S. ~ Embrace disruptive thinking!

    Here are three things parents can do to weave the bow of traditions without feeling bogged down.

    1. Simplify: When it comes to holiday traditions, less is often more. Instead of trying to squeeze in every activity and event, take a step back and prioritize what truly matters to your family. Choose a few key traditions that align with your values and bring joy to everyone involved. By simplifying, you can create space for meaningful moments without feeling overwhelmed.

    "The magic of traditions lies not in their quantity, but in their quality. Choose the traditions that resonate with your family, and let them shine bright." ~ Kristianne Wargo

    For example, instead of aiming for a fully decked-out home, focus on a few treasured decorations that hold sentimental value. Rather than attending every holiday event, select one or two special outings that everyone looks forward to. By streamlining your holiday activities, you can savor each tradition and be fully present in the moment.

    2. Recruit: Creating traditions should be a collaborative effort that involves all family members. Encourage open dialogue and brainstorming sessions where each person can contribute their ideas and wishes. This not only ensures that everyone feels included and invested in the traditions but also lightens the load of planning and organizing on the parents.

    For instance, hold a family meeting before the holiday season begins. During this meeting, each person gets a chance to suggest a tradition they would like to incorporate. From choosing a new recipe for a special holiday meal to deciding on an outdoor activity, everyone's ideas are considered and discussed. This inclusive approach not only brings the family closer but also shares the responsibility of creating traditions among all its members.

    3. Tie it up with Joy: Many magical moments can be created through simple and heartfelt traditions. Let go of unrealistic expectations and tie the bow on the tradition. Focus on activities that bring genuine joy and allow for deeper connections. Remember that it's the quality of the experience that matters, not the extravagance.

    "Simplicity is the key that unlocks the spirit of traditions. It's in the little moments that the true magic resides."

    Consider incorporating small but meaningful traditions, such as reading holiday stories by the fireplace, having a movie night with beloved classic films, or engaging in acts of kindness as a family. These simple gestures can create timeless memories and strengthen the bonds within your family.

    "The Bow of Traditions" by Kristianne Wargo

    In a world of constant motion and change,

    Where time slips by, our memories rearranged,

    There lies a gift that ties our hearts together,

    A bow of traditions we'll cherish forever.

     

    With each passing year, the tapestry grows,

    Weaving threads of love, every story it knows,

    From bedtime tales whispered in the night,

    To shared laughter around the fire's warm light.

     

    The bow of traditions, a treasure unique,

    A bond that strengthens, never to weaken,

    Through seasons and holidays, it's our guide,

    Creating moments we'll forever keep inside.

     

    From holiday baking, flour in the air,

    To giving back, showing others we care,

    Simplifying, prioritizing what truly matters,

    With family, these traditions our hearts flatter.

     

    As I once wisely proclaimed,

    "In the traditions we share, deep love is ingrained."

    For it's not the grandness, but in the simple things,

    That the bow of traditions true happiness brings.

     

    So let us gather, hand in hand,

    Creating memories that forever will expand,

    With each new chapter written in our story,

    The bow of traditions, an everlasting glory.

    "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"

     

    #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment

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    3239 The Bow of Traditions

    3239 The Bow of Traditions
    No one likes the feeling of being overwhelmed and always feeling like they are chasing life. During this holiday season, don't try too hard. Instead, tie a few ribbons on your gifts; the bow of traditions.  The holiday season is filled with joy, love, and the excitement of creating lasting memories with our families. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co  However, it can also be a time when parents feel overwhelmed by the numerous obligations and expectations that come with the holidays. Sometimes it's so crazy that in all honesty, we just want to be alone. But if you have the blessing of a family, then make it count this holiday season and create traditions that are meaningful to your family. The K.I.S.S. ~ Embrace disruptive thinking! Here are three things parents can do to weave the bow of traditions without feeling bogged down. 1. Simplify: When it comes to holiday traditions, less is often more. Instead of trying to squeeze in every activity and event, take a step back and prioritize what truly matters to your family. Choose a few key traditions that align with your values and bring joy to everyone involved. By simplifying, you can create space for meaningful moments without feeling overwhelmed. "The magic of traditions lies not in their quantity, but in their quality. Choose the traditions that resonate with your family, and let them shine bright." ~ Kristianne Wargo For example, instead of aiming for a fully decked-out home, focus on a few treasured decorations that hold sentimental value. Rather than attending every holiday event, select one or two special outings that everyone looks forward to. By streamlining your holiday activities, you can savor each tradition and be fully present in the moment. 2. Recruit: Creating traditions should be a collaborative effort that involves all family members. Encourage open dialogue and brainstorming sessions where each person can contribute their ideas and wishes. This not only ensures that everyone feels included and invested in the traditions but also lightens the load of planning and organizing on the parents. For instance, hold a family meeting before the holiday season begins. During this meeting, each person gets a chance to suggest a tradition they would like to incorporate. From choosing a new recipe for a special holiday meal to deciding on an outdoor activity, everyone's ideas are considered and discussed. This inclusive approach not only brings the family closer but also shares the responsibility of creating traditions among all its members. 3. Tie it up with Joy: Many magical moments can be created through simple and heartfelt traditions. Let go of unrealistic expectations and tie the bow on the tradition. Focus on activities that bring genuine joy and allow for deeper connections. Remember that it's the quality of the experience that matters, not the extravagance. "Simplicity is the key that unlocks the spirit of traditions. It's in the little moments that the true magic resides." Consider incorporating small but meaningful traditions, such as reading holiday stories by the fireplace, having a movie night with beloved classic films, or engaging in acts of kindness as a family. These simple gestures can create timeless memories and strengthen the bonds within your family. "The Bow of Traditions" by Kristianne Wargo In a world of constant motion and change, Where time slips by, our memories rearranged, There lies a gift that ties our hearts together, A bow of traditions we'll cherish forever.   With each passing year, the tapestry grows, Weaving threads of love, every story it knows, From bedtime tales whispered in the night, To shared laughter around the fire's warm light.   The bow of traditions, a treasure unique, A bond that strengthens, never to weaken, Through seasons and holidays, it's our guide, Creating moments we'll forever keep inside.   From holiday baking, flour in the air, To giving back, showing others we care, Simplifying, prioritizing what truly matters, With family, these traditions our hearts flatter.   As I once wisely proclaimed, "In the traditions we share, deep love is ingrained." For it's not the grandness, but in the simple things, That the bow of traditions true happiness brings.   So let us gather, hand in hand, Creating memories that forever will expand, With each new chapter written in our story, The bow of traditions, an everlasting glory. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"   #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation  - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. 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    1812 The Words That Moved Me

    1812 The Words That Moved Me

    The tearing of wrapping paper, the breath of anticipation. All-embracing what's to come, because love has come. The moment of unexpected surprise. The words that moved me.

    Christmas is for boys and girls of all ages, young and old. And even with a list that has been perfectly etched, there is still wonderment of what's to be underneath the paper for you and me.

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    It was Christmas afternoon. Finally, everyone was awake and ready to engage in the festivities. Our little Einstein, Noah, began unwrapping another rectangle gift as he murmured, "Is this what I wanted or one of the phantom books?"

    The mystery of complexity. The magic of Christmas. The excitement for a mom who desired to surprise beyond the etched wanted list.

    But putting it into real life, it was the words that moved me.

    You could see his eyes light up with anticipation and hopeful glee that soon the mystery would be revealed to him and me. I sat listening with an intensity that could break the sound barrier. Yes! Oh so quiet!

    And with profound excitement, a gift uncovered that surprised me. A gift from the father's heart.

    You see, this special gift was picked by his daddy. To see the sweet joy and hear the proclamation that it was not on the list was a sweet taste of extraordinary happiness.

    Smiles shared by all, especially from the father's heart.

    As I immersed myself in the presence of gift-giving, I understood what a gift God gave to us; His presence.

    We too need to give the gift of presence to our children.

    The K.I.S.S. ~ Give the gift of presence!

    We can get what we want on the etched wanted list. But where does that get us in life? Maybe one place for a moment, yet you have to look at it from a lifetime perspective.

    We are becoming masters at digital techno presence, but we are forgetting the heart presence.

    God gave us His heart; the Father's heart

    • To guide us
    • To protect us
    • To love us unconditionally
    • To awaken our dreams
    • To yearn for something greater than what's on earth.

    The words that moved me.

    "For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." ~ Isaiah 9:6

    Christmas doesn't end today because the presents are all unwrapped and put away for use later. Christmas is year-round given from the Father's heart.

    So as you continue celebrating this holiday season...

    1. Listen with an intense beat of the heart.
    2. Say "I love you" more than you curse.
    3. Spread the joy of Christmas year-round.

    May the presence of Christmas touch your heart now and into the new year. Love has come!

    "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"

     

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    The Power of Keeping it Real, Aromatherapy and Creating an Authentic Wellness Business with Nicola Elliott

    The Power of Keeping it Real, Aromatherapy and Creating an Authentic Wellness Business with Nicola Elliott

    Nicola Elliott, co-founder of Neom Organics began to feel the effects of neglecting her health in pursuit of ‘having it all’ and rediscovered what wellness meant to her: good sleep, less stress, better energy and good mood. Neom has pioneered organic aromatherapy products that fulfil these four pillars in an industry where synthetic dominated. We speak about the power of natural, why wellness should be simple and what to consider when starting a wellness business. Show notes: madeleineshaw.com/episode27

    1910 How Do You Balance Life's Demands?

    1910 How Do You Balance Life's Demands?

    Life can give you lemons; busyness, stress, and exhaustion. Out of control seems like the new normal. How do you balance life's demands when you can't escape your living room?

    Maybe you've been running laps around the coffee table and knocked a few things over. Maybe you've decided that less is more.

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    1. Create an escape moment. This is a way to give yourself space for personal accountability. Run in such a way that you might win. (1 Corinthians 9:24) You may not be able to leave the area, but you can find a moment where you can gain a sense of peace.
    2. Energize with hope. Do something that switches the focus on the positive, not the negative. Dance. Laugh.
    3. Play Hide 'n Seek. You make the rules. Even the little ones can play. You can even play with doubles. Choose a base and you've got this. Just beware! The cat might give you away.

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