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    Life in Glitter - Journal Entry #1

    en-usJanuary 06, 2024
    What was the main topic of the podcast episode?
    Summarise the key points discussed in the episode?
    Were there any notable quotes or insights from the speakers?
    Which popular books were mentioned in this episode?
    Were there any points particularly controversial or thought-provoking discussed in the episode?
    Were any current events or trending topics addressed in the episode?

    About this Episode

    "When I stopped chasing the glitter and spent some time in the dark." - Bonnie Violet

    Audio Journal entry for January 5, 2024, reflection on glitter ie light, sparkle, passion, purpose, femininity, soft strength & the dark ie fear, scarcity, depression, unworthy, death, isolation, loneliness

    Would love to hear what you think about this entry? Do you like it? wanna hear more?

    xoxo

    BIG Thank you to my Patreon members who contribute on a monthly basis to support the work of this podcast and the overall work of a queer chaplain.

    To learn more about how to contribute go to patreon.com/bonnieviolet and start you monthly donation today.

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    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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    Authentic Selves Book Brunch Panel Discussion at Boise Unitarian Universalist Fellowship

    Authentic Selves Book Brunch Panel Discussion at Boise Unitarian Universalist Fellowship

    Here is the link to the full program.
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    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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    One Memory That Really got me Thinking (Alex) an exert from "transmission" a spiritual autobiography


    "You see of late I have been really challenged with feeling loved, supported and cared for by my family and I think in feel so deeply like this in this moment and time, a moment and time that I feel like I need them more than I have ever needed them, it paints over all the ways my family has shown up for me of the years. It doesn’t allow me to experience these things again, still, to let these moments of my past be with me now in order to help me have a more truthful and wide perspective of what is in, and who is with me in this life, in this world. One memory that really got me thinking like this was remembering when I told my family that I was gay and HIV positive on Mothers Day in May of 1999..."

    “transmission”
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    by bonnie violet quintana


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    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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    Intro to My Book - Journal Entry #3

    Intro to My Book - Journal Entry #3

    I have been contemplating it for years and now is the time. 

    I started writing my book last night, here is a bit of the intro from my soon to be book titled "transmission" a spiritual autobiography. 

    xoxo

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    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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    en-usJanuary 21, 2024

    Embracing the Dark - Journal Entry #2

    Embracing the Dark - Journal Entry #2

    TW: SA, METH, RECOVERY

    Reflecting a bit on the role of darkness in life and what to do with it. Wrestle it, embrace it, learn from it, extinguish it, or ...

    I didn't initially think I would be discussing my experience with meth but it was one of the first times I allowed myself to live in the darkness that I had been trying so hard to avoid. 

    BIG Thank you to my Patreon members who contribute on a monthly basis to support the work of this podcast and the overall work of a queer chaplain.

    To learn more about how to contribute go to patreon.com/bonnieviolet and start you monthly donation today.

    For One Time contribution you can contribute via Splintered Grace

    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

    🌐 https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplain

    Support the show

    Life in Glitter - Journal Entry #1

    Life in Glitter - Journal Entry #1

    "When I stopped chasing the glitter and spent some time in the dark." - Bonnie Violet

    Audio Journal entry for January 5, 2024, reflection on glitter ie light, sparkle, passion, purpose, femininity, soft strength & the dark ie fear, scarcity, depression, unworthy, death, isolation, loneliness

    Would love to hear what you think about this entry? Do you like it? wanna hear more?

    xoxo

    BIG Thank you to my Patreon members who contribute on a monthly basis to support the work of this podcast and the overall work of a queer chaplain.

    To learn more about how to contribute go to patreon.com/bonnieviolet and start you monthly donation today.

    For One Time contribution you can contribute via Splintered Grace

    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

    🌐 https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplain

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    As the Deer Panteth - Desire of Your Heart - A Transgender Story

    As the Deer Panteth - Desire of Your Heart - A Transgender Story

    I was invited to offer a reflection, this is what happened.

    🦋🙏🏻🕯 May we open our mind to build new strength, 

    receive knowledge in our hearts 

    and wisdom in our body - 

    Help me to set aside my anxieties and allow me to be a channel 

    Allow me to speak what you would have me speak for the greater good

    📜 Psalms 42 1-3 ESV

    tAs a deer pants for flowing streams, so pants my soul for you, O God.

     2   My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When shall I come and appear before God? 

     3   My tears have been my food day and night, while they say to me all the day long, “Where is your God?"

    As mentioned - Desire of Your Heart by  Flamy Grant
    https://youtu.be/Abp87M9Q0FM?si=zRvg-_6JJgh6sEwY

    Metropolitan Community Church of San Francisco
    "We are a House of Prayer for All People and a Home for Queer Spirituality. We see a transformed world."
    https://mccsf.org

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    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

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    en-usSeptember 03, 2023

    Drag Sanctuary - Welcome & Intro by Rev Sara LaWall with Sermon by B0NNi33 Vi0L3T

    Drag Sanctuary - Welcome & Intro by Rev Sara LaWall with Sermon by B0NNi33 Vi0L3T

    a multi-faith "drag sanctuary" - praise and worship service in collaboration with @aqueerchaplain  & @boiseuufellowship

    August 20th, 2023
    at 10am located at 6200 N Garrett St Boise, ID 83714
    FULL SERVICE
        • "Drag Sanctuary" - Drag Queens Sermon
       • "Drag Sanctuary" - Drag Queens & DragKing Lead Church 

    Sermon
    Bonnie Violet is a trans femme genderqueer spiritual drag artist and digital chaplain. YouTuber & Host of a queer chaplain podcast with such series as  @dragandspirituality, @transpirit & Faith Leaders. Co-host of  @splinteredgrace with her conservative christian aunt & At the CCC recovery podcast (@castrocountryclub)  Creator & Founder of Allies Linked for the Prevention of HIV & AIDS (a.l.p.ha.) & the annual @dragandspirituality

    Celebrant/Minister
    The Rev. Sara LaWall became our minister in August, 2015. completed her Masters of Divinity at Meadville-Lombard Theological School and was ordained in 2014 at the Neighborhood Unitarian Universalist Church in Pasadena, Cal., where she served as Director of Religious Education.

    Praise & Worship
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    Testimony
    “As a drag artist I not only found a passion but a permanent part of life. This art form saved me, Frank opened up a part of me I kept hidden. And Frank isn’t just a character I portray, he as much me as I am him. I celebrate my non-binary pride, all and none of my gender-fluidity.” - Frank Siracha

    Lipsync Performance
    She’s the ethereal being hailing from her woodland realm to bring us a taste of her art. Virgo Moon brings an intense energy with her performances and is very excited to share her vibrations with us today. Virgo follows a lot of Buddhist teachings and uses the lessons of his holiness the Dali llama in her day to day life 💘

    #dragqueen #dragsermon #dragchurch #unitarianuniversalist #unitarianuniversalism #sanctuary

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    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

    🌐 https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplain

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    a queer chaplain
    en-usAugust 20, 2023

    Are You A Christian? 🎤 Say Something Sundays

    Are You A Christian? 🎤 Say Something Sundays

    🎙 Say Something with Bonnie Violet, a queer chaplain

    Join me LiVE or Watch on YouTube later @aqueerchaplain
    or Listen wherever you listen to podcasts also @aqueerchaplain

    ❣️❣️❣️

    Join me each week as I attempt to say something. These somethings will be a time for story telling, a time for experience share and whatever comes out of my mouth.

    I will commit to go LIVE each week at 333pm MST for 33 minutes or less to SAY SOMETHING. WATCH live each week on YouTube or LISTEN afterwords wherever you listen to podcasts @aqueerchaplain.

    🛎 CLICK the BELL to get NOTIFICATIONS

    💌 DM or search via the link below to connect or collaborate with Bonnie Violet and other a queer chaplain productions.

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    xoxo Bonnie Violet, @aqueerchaplain  @transpirit @splinteredgrace

    #christian #pridemonth #visibility #representation #pride #littlemermaid #budlight #dylanmulvaney #target #grace #love #experience #strength #hope #saysomething #trans #testimony #aqueerchaplain #transpirit #splinteredgrace #femme #transfemme #transgender

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    For One Time contribution you can contribute via Splintered Grace

    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

    🌐 https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplain

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    a queer chaplain
    en-usJuly 02, 2023

    🦋 Queer Grace | Pride Sermon | Father's Day Bethany United Methodist Church of San Francisco

    🦋 Queer Grace | Pride Sermon | Father's Day Bethany United Methodist Church of San Francisco

    ** pulled from facebook - my apologies for quality of video & sound
    #pride #dragqueen #grace 

    Bonnie Violet is a trans femme genderqueer spiritual drag artist and digital chaplain. YouTuber & Host of a queer chaplain podcast with such series as Drag & Spirituality, TranSpirit & Faith Leaders. Co-host of Splintered Grace with her conservative christian aunt & At the CCC recovery podcast. Creator & Founder of Allies Linked for the Prevention of HIV & AIDS (a.l.p.ha.) & the annual Drag & Spirituality Summit. 

    Bonnie Violet shares her experience strength and hope with HIV for 24 years, recovering from drugs, alcohol, and sexual assault among other things for 14 years in classrooms, community centers, churches, online and pretty much anywhere else she is invited.

     As, a queer chaplain, she is present with people in death and dying to self by helping to lace one’s narrative with a spiritual thread to remind one of their resilience, strengthen faith in self and create serenity in the now and instill hope for their future.

    Oh, and she does weddings, memorials and other rituals in and out of drag. 

    🌐 https://www.aqueerchaplain.org
    💛 https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet

    For Bookings
    📆 https://calendly.com/aqueerchaplain
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    #️⃣ #transgender #spiritualdrag #aqueerchaplain 

    💠 Splintered Grace Podcast
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    🦋 tranSpirit Podcast
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    👑 Drag & Spirituality Podcast
    📺  https://www.youtube.com/@dragandspirituality

    👑 Drag & Spirituality Summit
    📺 https://www.youtube.com/@dragspiritualitysummit

    🔻 At the CCC - Recovery Podcast
    📺 https://www.youtube.com/@castrocountryclub9324

    BIG Thank you to my Patreon members who contribute on a monthly basis to support the work of this podcast and the overall work of a queer chaplain.

    To learn more about how to contribute go to patreon.com/bonnieviolet and start you monthly donation today.

    For One Time contribution you can contribute via Splintered Grace

    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

    🌐 https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplain

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    a queer chaplain
    en-usJuly 02, 2023

    Grace is as Grace does 🏳️‍🌈 Pride Edition 🎤 Say Something Sundays with Bonnie Violet, a queer chaplain

    Grace is as Grace does 🏳️‍🌈 Pride Edition 🎤 Say Something Sundays with Bonnie Violet, a queer chaplain

      🎙 Say Something with Bonnie Violet, a queer chaplain

    🎤 Say Something Sundays at 333pm MST
    Season 2 - Episode 9 - Grace is as Grace Does 🏳️‍🌈 Pride Edition
    June 11, 2023 @ 333pm MST on LiVESTREAM

    Forrest Gump replied “Stupid is as stupid does”, meaning that a person should be judged by their actions, not their appearance. So what about Grace? can you just insert Grace where ignorance resides.

    I felt really changed on this day to speak to the topic, I contemplated not publishing it but figured I would anyway, trust that maybe it could still be of use to someone. May it be so, may it do no harm.

    Join me LiVE or Watch on YouTube later @aqueerchaplain
    or Listen wherever you listen to podcasts also @aqueerchaplain

    ❣️❣️❣️

    Join me each week as I attempt to say something. These somethings will be a time for story telling, a time for experience share and whatever comes out of my mouth.

    I will commit to go LIVE each week at 333pm MST for 33 minutes or less to SAY SOMETHING. WATCH live each week on YouTube or LISTEN afterwords wherever you listen to podcasts @aqueerchaplain.

    🛎 CLICK the BELL to get NOTIFICATIONS

    💌 DM or search via the link below to connect or collaborate with Bonnie Violet and other a queer chaplain productions.

    🌐 https://www.aqueerchaplain.org
    👛 https://www.patreon.com/bonnieviolet

    xoxo Bonnie Violet, @aqueerchaplain  @transpirit @splinteredgrace

    #grace #pride #pridemonth #forestgump #love #experience #strength #hope #saysomething #trans

    BIG Thank you to my Patreon members who contribute on a monthly basis to support the work of this podcast and the overall work of a queer chaplain.

    To learn more about how to contribute go to patreon.com/bonnieviolet and start you monthly donation today.

    For One Time contribution you can contribute via Splintered Grace

    Bonnie Violet & Tina Frank

    Tina, is a conservative christian woman and Bonnie Violet, a trans gender queer drag queen. While many family members are choosing to no longer speak, we have chosen to sit at the table and engage in difficult conversation to find peace and restoration.

    🌐 https://linktr.ee/aqueerchaplain

    Support the show

    a queer chaplain
    en-usJune 11, 2023