Podcast Summary
Tig Notaro thanks audience for watching Hello Again and discusses home improvement experiences: Tig Notaro expresses gratitude for audience support of her new stand-up special, shares affordable and convenient home improvement experiences with Byte and Thumbtack.
Tig Notaro expresses her gratitude to her audience for watching her new stand-up comedy special, Hello Again, on Amazon Prime Video. She encourages listeners to rate, share, and leave feedback. The conversation then shifts to home improvement, with Tig sharing her experience with Byte, an at-home aligner service. She emphasizes the affordability, convenience, and flexibility of the treatment. Tig also mentions Thumbtack, an app that helps users find and hire local professionals for home projects. The conversation wraps up with Tig and her co-hosts discussing various topics, including milk preferences and animated shows. The episode showcases Tig's friendly and conversational style, making for an enjoyable listen.
Friendship in the face of rumors: Strong friendships can withstand misunderstandings and rumors, bringing happiness and joy through shared experiences and memories.
Even in the midst of rumors and misunderstandings, strong friendships can endure. The conversation between the speakers revolves around an alleged flirtation incident and the subsequent rumors that spread. Despite the situation, they maintain their bond and share laughter and memories. They also express their happiness in their respective marriages and support each other. The speakers also share their fondness for each other, having met through their work in improv and comedy. They reminisce about their experiences and discover new things together, such as YouTube karaoke and old videos of women from the 1950s. The conversation ends on a light-hearted note, with them singing a song about backdoor butthole in their fifties gear. Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of friendship and the ability to find joy in the simple things.
The Complexity of Identity and Perception: Our perceptions can be influenced by appearances and past experiences. It's important to look beyond surface-level assumptions and embrace the complexity of identity.
Our perceptions and assumptions can be influenced by various factors, including appearances and past experiences. During a podcast conversation, the speakers discussed their personal experiences and how they've been perceived by others. One speaker mentioned being seen as "fortune" due to her innocent appearance, while another spoke about being attracted to a woman's natural femininity. They also reminisced about past characters and experiences, revealing how they've embraced different aspects of their identities. The conversation also touched on the power of celebrity and how it can impact our perceptions. Overall, the conversation highlighted the complexity of identity and the importance of looking beyond surface-level appearances.
The Power of First Impressions: First impressions can significantly impact individuals and businesses, from TV shows to consumer products. Paying attention to details and considering the consequences of changes are essential.
First impressions can be powerful and unexpected. This was exemplified in the story of a woman from a popular TV show whose appearance changed drastically, leading to a massive backlash from fans and ultimately the cancellation of the show. Meanwhile, in business, overlooking fine print, as Pepsi did with their points system, can lead to costly mistakes. In both cases, a simple change brought about significant consequences. On a personal note, I learned that even small changes, like my dad shaving his beard or a loved one altering their appearance, can evoke strong emotional responses. Moreover, I discovered the benefits of shopping with Thrive Market, which not only saves time and money but also offers high-quality products that cater to various lifestyle needs. In essence, the power of first impressions, the importance of paying attention to details, and the convenience of time-saving solutions are key takeaways from this discussion.
The power of experiences and relationships in shaping identity: Experiences and relationships can influence our decisions and identity. A simple change like a haircut can send a clear message and help assert independence or conformity.
Our experiences and relationships can significantly influence our decisions and identity. The speaker shared a story about how his girlfriend's red hair was a deal-breaker for him, but when she dyed it back, he decided to cut his long hair as a way to assert his independence in the relationship. Later, he found himself still keeping short hair even after the relationship ended. Another example was given about a girlfriend who insisted he keep his long hair, but he itched to cut it. In both cases, a simple change like a haircut sent a clear message and helped the speaker assert his identity. Additionally, the speaker expressed admiration for the actress Lisa Kudrow and the impact she had on him growing up. He was inspired by her performances on Friends and was thrilled when she agreed to ask a question on their podcast. The speaker also mentioned his fondness for Lisa's singing and her intelligence. Overall, the conversation highlighted the power of experiences, relationships, and personal choices in shaping who we are. It also showcased the speaker's admiration for Lisa Kudrow and her impact on popular culture.
Performing through personal struggles: Performers find joy and connection with audience to push through tough times, even during personal struggles
Even when performers like Lisa Kudrow aren't in the mood to perform, they find ways to push through and connect with their audience. Whether it's due to personal struggles or unexpected news, performers have to learn to compartmentalize and find the joy in their craft. Lisa shared stories of performing while dealing with the death of a colleague and her own cancer diagnosis. She emphasized that the excitement of performing and the connection with the audience can often help performers get through tough times. For those starting out, it may not be as easy to share personal struggles with an audience, but the importance of perseverance and finding joy in the art form remains the same.
Handling personal challenges during performances: Despite personal struggles, performers must remain dedicated and resilient to give their best performance for their audience.
Performers, especially comedians, often have to push through personal challenges and emotional turmoil to give their best performance for their audience. This was evident in the speaker's experience when they received a unexpected break-up message mid-show, but still had to host a fundraiser for their ex-partner. This demonstrates the resilience and dedication required to entertain and engage audiences despite personal struggles. Additionally, the speaker mentioned the importance of keeping personal information up-to-date and being aware of potential changes in one's life, which can impact both personal and professional situations.
Encountering an ex during a performance: Acting requires emotional investment, separating personal feelings from the role is crucial for authentic performance, and focusing on gratitude can help during challenges
Acting and performing, whether it's stand-up comedy or acting in films, can be challenging and emotionally taxing. The interviewee shared an experience of encountering an ex while performing, which was intentionally provocative and required her to go on autopilot to get through the performance. The Friends cast, who became famous overnight, likely leaned on each other heavily during filming to get through the chaos and pressure of their newfound fame. Acting requires a deep emotional investment, and it's essential to separate personal feelings from the role to deliver an authentic performance. As Rory Albanese wisely said, "it's what the money is for," and focusing on the gratitude for the opportunity can help put things into perspective when facing challenges at work.
Music as a source of comfort and expression during emotional times: Music, especially sad songs, can evoke strong emotions and provide comfort during difficult times. Performing and making people laugh can help cope with personal struggles.
Music, particularly sad songs, can be a powerful tool for expressing and coping with emotions. During a conversation, the speaker shared their connection to the song "Downtown" by Magical Clouds, which they described as evoking strong feelings of sadness. They also mentioned using tear sticks to help them access those emotions during filming. The speaker emphasized the importance of performing and making people laugh despite personal struggles, and shared their love for various sad songs, including "Bonnie Raitt's 'Something to Talk About'" and "The Beatles' 'She's Leaving Home.'" They also recommended Bob Dylan's "Shelter From the Storm" and Dolly Parton's version of "Don't Look Twice" for dealing with heartbreak. The speaker's conversation underscored the significance of music as a source of comfort and connection during difficult times.
Music and comedy provide comfort and perspective during difficult times: Music and comedy can help us process emotions, find comfort, and shift perspective during tough situations
Music, particularly songs like "Don't Think Twice" by Bob Dylan and "Mona Lisas and Mad Hatters" by Elton John, can help us process emotions and provide comfort during difficult times. Dylan's song acknowledges the pain of a breakup but also encourages moving on. Elton John's song, on the other hand, highlights the importance of perspective and seeing things in a new light. Additionally, comedians, like Lisa, can help us approach difficult situations by focusing on the audience and making it about them rather than ourselves. The power of art and humor lies in their ability to shift our perspective and help us find joy and meaning in the midst of adversity.
Unexpected positivity from shared experiences: Embrace the unexpected and make the most of every experience, even on difficult days. Shared experiences and connections can bring joy and fulfillment.
Even on difficult days, unexpected experiences and connections can bring joy and fulfillment. The speakers shared stories of how they've felt down but found unexpected positivity through shared experiences, like a podcast recording session. They also discussed the unique dynamic of their friend group, known as the "friend trifecta," and how they only agree to do projects together. The conversation took an unexpected turn when they started talking about spirits and Marilyn Monroe, leading to a humorous and surreal moment. Ultimately, they encouraged listeners to embrace the unexpected and make the most of every experience. And as a reminder, they asked listeners to subscribe, give reviews, and share episodes to help spread the word about their podcast.
Tig Notaro's Upcoming Shows and Specials: Tig Notaro has several live shows and specials coming up, including in Seattle, Los Angeles, and Toronto. Her new special 'Hello Again' is on Amazon, and she will be appearing at the Netflix is a Joke festival with Brett Goldstein. Fans should check out her shows and her Netflix series 'Feel Good'.
Tig Notaro, the comedian known for her raw and honest humor, has several upcoming live shows and specials, including in Seattle, Los Angeles, and Toronto. She also mentioned her new special "Hello Again" on Amazon and her appearances at the Netflix is a Joke festival with Brett Goldstein. Tig expressed her love for her fans and encouraged them to watch her shows and her Netflix series "Feel Good." It seemed that there was some confusion towards the end of the podcast about who Tig was speaking to, but overall, her message was clear: she will be performing live and fans should check out her shows and specials. The podcast is hosted by Tig Notaro, May Martin, and Fortune Feimster, and produced by Thomas Willett. For more information, listeners can email handsomepod@gmail.com or follow the show on social media at handsomepod.
