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    Media Tumult, Masculinity, Failure, and Fatherhood — with Jake Tapper

    enJuly 20, 2023

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    • Promoting Positive Masculinity for Young MenAtlassian software helps teams collaborate effectively, but young men need positive role models and opportunities for growth to overcome the crisis of masculinity and thrive in work and life.

      In today's world, collaboration and teamwork are essential for individual and collective success. Atlassian software, such as Jira, Confluence, and Loof, plays a significant role in facilitating this by keeping teams connected and productive. However, young men are facing a crisis of masculinity and lack positive role models, leading to confusion and negative influences. As a result, they are dropping out of the workforce, struggling in the dating scene, and living with their parents in increasing numbers. To counteract this trend, it's crucial to promote positive masculinity and provide young men with strong role models and opportunities for growth. The media, including podcasts like this one, can play a vital role in this endeavor by featuring interviews with successful and empathetic men who embody the qualities of a good protector, provider, self-reliant individual, and empathetic and courageous advocate for others.

    • Porsche Polygamy: The Evolution of Dating and Mate SelectionWomen use selective filters in online dating leading to 'Porsche polygamy', while men feel undervalued. Respect, dignity, and support for all individuals is crucial.

      The dynamics of dating and mate selection have shifted significantly in recent years, leading to what the speaker refers to as "Porsche polygamy" – a phenomenon where people use online dating to apply more selective filters, resulting in evolutionary progress. Women, in particular, are more choosy due to the potential downside of carrying a child. Men, on the other hand, are often left feeling undervalued due to the high competition for women's attention. The speaker emphasizes that respect and dignity should be given to all individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender. Men can increase their chances of success by having a plan, intelligence, and kindness. The speaker also highlights the importance of recognizing and celebrating the progress women have made while also finding ways to support and uplift men.

    • Education and economic systems disadvantaging young peoplePrivate schools limit access to higher education, tax system benefits older, wealthy individuals, leading to lack of opportunities, mating prospects, and citizenship for young people. Solutions include expanding access to education and vocational training, and rethinking tax policies for equity.

      Our current education and economic systems are disadvantaging young people and contributing to issues like depression, obesity, and lack of opportunities. Private schools have been holding back seats in their freshman classes, making it difficult for students to access higher education. Meanwhile, the tax system disproportionately benefits older, wealthy individuals, with capital gains being taxed at a lower rate than income. This transfer of wealth and opportunities from young people to the old and rich is having serious consequences, including a lack of mating opportunities and citizenship. To address these issues, we need to expand access to higher education and vocational training, and rethink our tax policies to be more equitable. Additionally, we should shift the focus in higher education from being luxury brands to serving a larger population and providing affordability and efficiency.

    • The Middle Class: A Key Driver of American HistoryThe middle class, formed post-WWII with benefits like the GI Bill, has significantly contributed to American history through funding major initiatives and societal stability. To maintain and strengthen it, investing in education, universal childcare, and a progressive tax system is crucial.

      The American middle class, which was significantly strengthened after World War II through investments in infrastructure, education, and social programs, plays a crucial role in the economy and society. Innovations like the iPhone and semiconductors are important, but the middle class's contributions, such as funding the military, space program, and social welfare, have had a profound impact on American history. The middle class was formed in part due to the return of 7 million soldiers who received benefits like the GI Bill, leading to increased household formation and the baby boom. However, economic instability and lack of opportunities for young men can lead to marital issues and divorce, creating a cycle of economic pressure and lost role models for children. To address this, investing in education, universal childcare, and a progressive tax system could help strengthen the middle class and improve overall societal outcomes.

    • Collaboration tools and media shiftsIn a decentralized and disillusioned world, collaboration tools keep teams connected and productive, while media shifts challenge us to adapt to new consumer habits and truth-seeking methods.

      Collaboration and communication tools, like those offered by Atlassian, are essential for teams to stay connected and productive, especially in today's increasingly decentralized and disillusioned world. Meanwhile, in the realm of media, there's a significant shift in consumer habits, with the rise of streaming platforms and digital content consumption. Jake Tapper, CNN's chief Washington correspondent and author, reflects on these changes as someone who navigates the complexities of truth-seeking in journalism and fiction writing. In his latest novel, "All the Demons Are Here," Tapper explores themes of disillusionment and conspiracy during the late 1970s, a time not unlike our own, and how individuals grapple with the uncertainty of their world. For Tapper, writing fiction is an escape and a way to explore creativity, even as he navigates the realities of news and current events.

    • Meeting audiences where they are in the digital ageCNN and other news outlets should expand their presence in social media and streaming platforms to reach younger demographics and stay relevant.

      In today's rapidly changing entertainment industry, it's essential for content providers, including news media organizations like CNN, to meet audiences where they are. This means being active on social media and streaming platforms to reach younger demographics who consume news and entertainment differently than older generations. The conversation also touched on the ongoing strike by actors and the challenges posed by the streaming model, which pays talent once for content that is available forever, making it unsustainable for many actors who rely on residuals. Despite these challenges, it was suggested that CNN and other news outlets should leverage their global resources and expand their presence in the social media and streaming spaces to stay relevant.

    • Media industry's financial strain and executive compensationThe media industry is facing financial challenges due to income inequality and the shift to streaming services, potentially impacting content quality and sustainability. Meanwhile, the 2024 presidential race features uncertain candidates, with Biden's age and lack of enthusiasm among Democrats and Trump's post-election actions raising questions.

      The media industry is facing significant financial strain, exacerbated by income inequality between executives and employees. The unsustainable compensation packages and the shift towards streaming services have led to changes in the way content is produced, with potential consequences for the quality and sustainability of the industry. Another notable observation is the current state of the 2024 presidential race, where both major candidates, Joe Biden and Donald Trump, face challenges. Biden's age and lack of enthusiasm among Democrats raise questions, while Trump's lack of action since losing the 2020 election and the aftermath of the January 6th Capitol riot have made it unlikely for him to regain support. The political landscape continues to evolve, and these developments highlight the importance of understanding the complex dynamics at play in both industries.

    • 2024 Presidential Race: Biden Leads, but Trump Still Has SupportBiden leads in 2024 race, but Trump maintains support among Republicans. Harris could be a potential Democratic nominee if Biden drops out. Deep Democratic and Republican benches could lead to surprises.

      Joe Biden currently holds a significant lead over Donald Trump in the 2024 presidential race, particularly among the "double haters" who dislike both candidates. However, Republican voters continue to support Trump despite his electability concerns. If Biden were to drop out, there would likely be a push for Vice President Harris as the Democratic nominee due to her status as next in line and the importance of black women voters in the party. The Democratic bench is deep, with potential candidates like Mitch Landrieu, Gavin Newsom, Gretchen Whitmer, Jared Polis, Josh Shapiro, and others. The Republican side also has a deep bench, but most are currently running against Trump. The race may be more open than it seems, as some of Trump's support is soft, and state-by-state polls show Trump in the thirties and DeSantis in the twenties in Iowa. The interviewer plans to discuss these dynamics with DeSantis on Tuesday. Overall, the 2024 race is shaping up to be competitive, with potential for surprises.

    • Impact of Iowa Caucus on 2024 GOP PrimaryAn Iowa caucus upset or strong second place could sway NH primary focus, with Sununu's potential endorsement influencing the outcome. The speaker also shares personal goals, including writing more and valuing father-son relationships.

      The Iowa caucus could significantly impact the 2024 Republican presidential primary race. An upset or strong second place showing by a candidate could shift the focus to New Hampshire, where Governor Sununu's potential endorsement could further influence the outcome. The speaker also discussed his personal goals, sharing that he's content with his current professional achievements but has plans to write more screenplays, novels, and nonfiction projects. He also mentioned the importance of the father-son relationship, which is a subtext in his new novel, "All the Demons Are Here," about a hero's estrangement from his son. While journalists may not leave legacies, the speaker expressed his happiness with his life and career. Sponsored messages from Grammarly and State Farm were included in the discussion.

    • Fostering Positive Masculinity in BoysEncourage athleticism for endorphin release, emotional expression, and healthy friendships. Be a good role model, demonstrate love and affection, and discuss personal failures. Absence of a male role model can lead to negative behaviors, so be present and foster emotional intelligence, empathy, and positive behaviors.

      Modern masculinity is an important topic to consider when raising a son. It's not about encouraging traditional masculine tropes, but rather fostering positive behaviors and friendships. Encouraging athleticism for the endorphin release and emotional expression, rather than just competition, is crucial. Being a good role model, demonstrating love and affection towards one's partner, and being open about personal failures are essential for a son's development. The absence of a male role model can lead boys astray, so it's crucial for young fathers to be present and demonstrate healthy masculinity. Overall, the focus should be on fostering emotional intelligence, empathy, and positive behaviors in boys, rather than rigid gender roles.

    • Embracing children's unique interests and strengthening relationshipsCelebrate your child's individuality, prioritize date nights, offer emotional support, and learn from failures

      Every child develops uniquely, and it's essential to embrace and appreciate their individual interests and traits from an early age. The speaker shares how his children, Alice and Jack, had vastly different interests as babies and toddlers, which brought them joy and shaped the family dynamic. Another crucial aspect of a successful marriage is prioritizing regular date nights to maintain a strong connection with your partner. Lastly, the speaker emphasizes the importance of listening and providing emotional support during difficult times, rather than offering solutions or advice. The speaker also shares a personal low moment in his life when he felt directionless and alone after graduating from college and not getting into film school. He eventually rebooted and started again, acknowledging that failure is a natural part of life and that it's essential to learn from these experiences.

    • Embrace Failure as an OpportunityRecognize that failure is a learning experience, forgive yourself, and keep moving forward with resilience and perseverance.

      Failure, as described by Jake Tapper, is not a negative experience, but rather an opportunity to give it your all and learn from the experience. It's important to forgive yourself for moments when things are hard and recognize that not all failures are your fault. The journey to success is filled with ups and downs, and it's essential to mourn and then get back up and keep moving forward. Additionally, everyone has unique strengths and skills that can contribute to a firm's growth, and being born in America presents opportunities for success. Overall, resilience and perseverance are key to leading a rewarding and fulfilling life.

    • Embrace the Journey: It's All Part of LifeLife has its challenges, but maintaining a positive attitude and pushing forward can lead to better days ahead

      Life comes with its ups and downs, and it's normal to experience periods of feeling unmotivated or discouraged. Economic cycles, personal health issues, and other challenges are a part of life. However, it's essential to keep pushing forward and maintain a positive attitude. Remember, things will get better. As the producer of the Prop G pod from the Vox Media Podcast Network, I want to leave you with this encouraging message. If you ever feel like giving up, take a deep breath and remind yourself that it's all part of the journey. Keep going, and don't lose sight of the fact that better days are ahead. This episode was produced by Caroline Shagrin, with Jennifer Sanchez as our associate producer, and Drew Burrows as our technical director. Join us again on Saturday for No Mercy No Malice, read by George Hahn, and on Monday for our weekly market show. Stay positive, and keep moving forward.

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