Modern Dating with Oyku Saran

In this episode of the Beyond Dating Podcast, Stephanie Mills and guest Channing Austin discuss various topics related to dating and relationships. Channing emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and being able to receive love in relationships, particularly among male friends. The hosts also discuss their ideal relationships, what can be left unsaid, and their "ick" factors. Channing even asks Stephanie out on a date during the podcast. They end with tips for those looking to be intentional in their relationships, including being kind and practicing radical honesty. They also discuss what modern relationships mean to them, including the dangers of too much texting and time spent together without quality time.

In this episode of the Beyond Dating podcast, the host Stephanie Mills interviews Heather Hellmann, who shares her experiences and advice on relationships and dating. Heather talks about how dating has changed since she was younger and how it's become more difficult due to the rise of dating apps. She emphasizes the importance of choosing the right person and having a strong sense of self-worth and boundaries.

Heather also talks about the healing process after a breakup and how taking care of your mind and body is crucial. She shares some tips for women who are dating now, such as being true to yourself and not limiting yourself.

The episode also includes some funny anecdotes about bad dates, a surprise catfish, and a mushroom dinner. Throughout the episode, Heather provides practical tips and insights for anyone looking to improve their relationships and dating experiences.

In this podcast episode, Doyen shares their insights on the importance of communication and accountability in a dominant and submissive relationships. Doyen emphasizes the need for eye contact and humanization after reaching a limit in a scene, as well as the importance of being emotionally and technically aware to maintain safety. Doyen also differentiates between topping and dominating, and stresses that the submissive is the one with the power in the relationship. They suggest trying things on oneself to gain familiarity with different sensations, and recommends being open to feedback as a necessary part of the feedback loop in BDSM relationships. Ultimately, Doyen encourages listeners to be humble, communicate openly, and be accountable in their BDSM relationships.

Oyku, Co-Founder & CEO of Beyond, was a recent guest on the podcast. She discussed her personal journey of self-discovery and how it led to the creation of the app. Growing up in a society that put a lot of pressure on traditional relationships, Oyku struggled to find her place in the dating world. After leaving a monogamous relationship, she explored her bisexuality and began to question the societal expectations placed on relationships. This led her to discover alternatives to traditional monogamy and eventually create Beyond, a dating app that focuses on self-discovery and autonomy in dating.

Oyku emphasized the importance of open communication and mutual respect in any type of partnership, whether it be monogamous or ethically non-monogamous. She also spoke about the struggles of navigating her sexuality in a culture that often stigmatizes anything that deviates from the norm. Despite these challenges, Oyku has found liberation in owning her sexuality and identity, and hopes to provide a safe space for others to do the same through the app.

Overall, Oyku's journey serves as a reminder that societal expectations should never hold us back from exploring our true selves and finding fulfilling relationships.

Jocelyn Aker shared a few of her thoughts on dating as a good Christian girl in LA on the Beyond Dating podcast. She talked about how dating isn't a priority in LA, where people often go for fame and fortune. As a result, people don't think about who they want to be with long-term. This results in short-term relationships and casual flings, but nothing more.

Jocelyn also shared her thoughts on finding people to date in LA. She suggested that you should just live your life as you normally would and that you would find someone along the way. For example, if you're a Christian girl, you can go to church, coffee shops, or out to dinner. You could even go to clubs if that's your thing. However, she warns that you should avoid certain clubs and be cautious of people who put on a show to make you believe they are important when they really aren't.

When asked about her ideal relationship, Jocelyn said that she wants a fairytale love story. She wants love at first sight and the perfect person who has it all together to come and sweep her off her feet. However, she acknowledges that this isn't always possible, and that there are a lot of frogs out there.

In terms of red flags to watch out for, Jocelyn suggests that you avoid people who are too unavailable or have multiple phones. She also shared a funny story about the craziest date she's ever been on, where the guy begged her to pull up Kim Kardashian's sex tape on a train during their first date.

Overall, Jocelyn's insights provide an interesting perspective on dating as a good Christian girl in LA. While it may not be easy, it's important to be confident and secure in yourself and to keep an open mind when it comes to finding love.

The Beyond Dating podcast recently featured an interview with Mindie, a relationship expert who hosts the MaleRoom podcast. Mindie shared her insights on various topics related to dating and relationships, based on her experiences interviewing men from different backgrounds and cultures.

One of the main takeaways from the interview is that men are complex, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to dating them. Mindie noted that different men have different perspectives and preferences, depending on their experiences and life stages. She also highlighted the importance of being aware of what traits you want in a partner, and paying attention to what kind of traits a potential partner brings out in you.

Throughout the interview, Mindie shared a number of anecdotes and stories that shed light on the challenges and complexities of dating. For example, she recounted a story about a man who asked her to send him pictures of her ears so that he could show them to a spiritual guru for a reading. Mindie's story highlights the importance of being cautious and aware of red flags when dating.

Another interesting topic discussed in the interview is the role of therapy in relationships. Mindie noted that many men are hesitant to seek therapy because of cultural and societal stigmas around mental health. However, she emphasized the importance of therapy in helping men grow and improve their relationships.

Overall, the interview provides valuable insights into the minds of men, and highlights the importance of being aware of our own needs and preferences when dating. By being open and honest with ourselves and our partners, we can build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

If you're interested in learning more about Mindie's insights and experiences, check out the MaleRoom podcast.

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Stephanie and James on the Beyond Dating Podcast discussed modern dating and relationships. James believes that in today's world, everyone is dating, and it's almost fringe to be in a committed relationship. He feels that people are constantly half-in, half-out because of the limitless options available. James recommends that people turn inward to really know themselves and what they do or don't like. He believes that being open and comfortable enough to express one's feelings is essential. James also discussed open relationships and believes that the main things to consider are boundaries, time, and happiness. In terms of sharing one's boundaries, James believes that there is no right or wrong way, but it's important to address them when they arise and not let them build up. Stephanie added that she usually addresses boundary issues immediately and recommends being communicative about it. In conclusion, James believes that a relationship without conflict is like a movie without an antagonist, and it's essential to have boundaries and expectations in place.

In this podcast episode, Sharhonda shares her experiences as a bisexual woman and reflects on the LGBTQ community and its changes over time. She mentions that more people are openly identifying as queer, but the push for marriage has flattened queerness in some ways. She also highlights the need for queer dedicated spaces and the importance of talking about queerness as a political issue that intersects with class. Sharhonda also touches on the experiences of queer people of color and the need for activism in local communities. Finally, she offers advice for queer people of color who are considering coming out, acknowledging that it's a personal decision and that everyone has different considerations.