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    Mum Guilt and Unmet Expectations with Laura Smith

    en-auMarch 22, 2022
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    About this Episode

    What is it about motherhood that makes us question everything we thought we knew?
    Why does it feel so dang hard?
    Why does it feel like I'm failing before I even try?
    What is with the guilt?

    There is something about motherhood that seems to bring out our fears and failures, and rock the boat of who we thought we are, or could be.

    Does this sound like you?

    This week on Unsung Stories, Laura chat's through motherhood and the things she observes in motherhood today. Hitting topics like mum guilt, unmet expectations, bloated standards and fearing failure, Laura shares her honest and real experiences of motherhood - not the filtered version we're used to online.


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