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    Preston and Brenton met when they were 16 and 14 years old. Gay love CAN last! They've been a couple now for over 13 years and they're building their gay life together!

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    About this Episode

    It's highly unusual for teens to know the direction they want to take in life.  But these two did... here's their story.

    Preston Shatwell and Brenton Thomas have been together for over 13 years. Brenton added Preston on Myspace when they were 14 and 16 years old and that started their love story.

    Preston is a born and raised Oklahoman with a passion for local progressive politics and advocacy. He is a creative professional using his skills to support causes he cares about and currently works in the adolescent sexual health nonprofit field.

    https://www.instagram.com/prestonshatwell/
    Email: prestonshatwell@gmail.com

    Brenton works as a consultant at a software company. Brenton is fun-loving, excitable, and always ready to dance and laugh. He loves to travel, experience new cultures, and meet people.

    https://www.instagram.com/brenton.thomas/
    Email: brentonthomas1@gmail.com


    Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2023

    Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.

    To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com

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    Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2023

    Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.

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