Searching for Joy: A Guided Advent Journey

We get asked questions about oral sex all the time. In this episode, we share insights and have a frank conversation to cut through the discomfort and get to the heart of why this topic is so frequently a challenge. 

We examine the concerns and curiosities that arise, underscore the significance of honest communication, and strive to illuminate a path to joy and more profound connection for couples. So, if you're ready for a frank discussion of oral sex that promises to inform, enlighten, and possibly even entertain, join us for this intimate journey. And remember, this might be one best listened to away from little ears—unless you're keen on an impromptu lesson in marital intimacy!

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We hear it all the time: one spouse desperate for help and the other refusing even to consider going. We peel back the layers of resistance that often shroud the path to relationship coaching, exploring why it might be happening and what you can do to help. 

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Navigating the waters of sexual intimacy in marriage can often feel like we're trying to decode a mysterious language. How do you pursue your husband? How do you cherish your wife? This heart-to-heart isn't shy about addressing the pressures and expectations that color our perceptions of sexual intimacy.  We're tearing down misconceptions and revealing how a genuine and caring approach to romance can deepen connections and dispel barriers. Whether you're the higher or lower-drive spouse, our candid chat aims to guide you toward a sexually intimate connection that's authentic, not just a means to an end.

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Isn't there more to marriage than premarital and divorce care? Don't you think there should be? We talk about our time in marriage ministry and give some suggestions on what the local church can do to overcome this glaring hole in the "big C" Church's care of marriages. 

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For far too long, the Church has either ignored or villanized sexual intimacy, but God designed sex to be GOOD. In this heart-to-heart exchange, we dissect the often misinterpreted signals sent by church teachings that leave many feeling lost in their marital beds. We confront the realities of desire, intimacy, and the vital role of communication in nurturing a God-honoring union. We're laying out the roadmap for couples at any stage—single, dating, or married—to foster a fulfilling sexual relationship that stands strong in the light of faith.

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Too often, we hear tearful stories about how a church or pastor ignored the signs of abuse or even participated in the manipulation of Scripture to justify the abuse in marriage. In today's episode, we tackle this ugly side of how the church can miss abuse while they are trying to support marriages. We look at sexual abuse and manipulation, physical abuse,  spiritual abuse, and even discuss what emotional abuse looks like. 

Navigating the murky waters of marital abuse and the misuse of spiritual texts to justify control in relationships, we uncover the challenges and seek to offer a better way to actually support marriages! 

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Welcome back to Still Becoming One. As we launch into the exciting premiere of season three, we are launching into a series on what the church gets wrong about marriage. All too often we hear from people who have been hurt by their church when they try to get help for their relationship. We are going to look at why this is happening and what the church should be doing better. Join us and give us your thoughts on our social media!

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As the holiday season wraps us in its festive embrace, it also unwraps layers of emotions for many of us navigating the complexities of love and relationships. Our latest podcast peels back the intricate layers of the emotional challenges couples may face. We delve into the art of attunement, stressing the importance of tuning in to our partner's feelings, and share how embracing vulnerability and honest communication can be the ribbon that ties a relationship stronger amidst the holiday hustle.

Moving deeper, we reflect on the multifaceted nature of accepting love. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of these themes, offering listeners a compass to guide them through the emotional terrain of giving and receiving love, wrapped up with practical strategies for appreciating the love that surrounds us – in all its imperfect glory.

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Join us,  as we embark on a fascinating exploration of an often misunderstood emotion - Joy. We're not talking about the fleeting happiness that comes with a new toy or a promotion, but rather a profound inner joy that is unshaken by life's ups and downs. Let's journey together!

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We're here to unveil the truth about the festive season - it's not always filled with joy and happiness or peace, and that's perfectly fine. We invite you to journey with us as we pull back the curtain on our own experiences and challenges during this time and how we've learned to be authentic with our emotions. 

We dive deep into the real meaning of peace - it's not just tranquility and lack of stress, but a more profound sense of wholeness and completeness, or Shalom. We'll discuss how our past traumas can hinder our experience of true peace and why it's important to face our dark moments head-on. We'll also share our thoughts on how to find peace amid turmoil and loss and how you can redefine the concept of peace for yourself. This is a journey not to be missed!

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